Pro group call · Sat 12 Sep 2026 · 1 hr 26 min
The Six Rituals of Dogs: walk, discipline, socialising, feeding, affection, play
Sunny Luthra explains how the Rituals of Dogs framework emerged from thousands of free consultations and how it is used to diagnose and fix almost any dog behaviour issue. He breaks down each of the six rituals, walk, discipline, socialising, feeding, affection and play, showing how mistakes in each create anxiety, territorial behaviour, hyperactivity or aggression. He then shifts to career advice, telling members how to gain experience through volunteering, build a client network, and use Instagram to get attention as a professional.
Key points (6)
- The Rituals of Dogs framework was discovered by noticing that almost every client made mistakes in the same six areas: walk, discipline, socialising, feeding, affection and play.
- A structured walk teaches a dog impulse control and builds confidence and connection, and should follow roughly an 80 percent structure to 20 percent off-time ratio.
- Discipline must be consistent, starting with simple habits like making the dog sit outside and inside the house, or territorial and anxious behaviour develops.
- Greeting a dog with excitement causes hyperactivity, jumping and eventually biting, so members were taught the no-touch, no-talk, no-eye-contact socialising method.
- Feeding and affection rituals show how excitement and constant comforting nurture territorial behaviour, food guarding, fussy eating and separation anxiety.
- To grow professionally, members should gain hands-on experience through boarding centre volunteering, build a client network, and use Instagram to document their learning journey rather than lecture.
- On the call
- Sunny, Tavisha, Manya
Now in: Origin of the Rituals of Dogs framework
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Transcript
Hindi written in English letters. The audio is the record.
Sunny
Okay. So, so rituals of dogs, dog behavior, like jab aap dog behavior banne, dog behavior ke field mein aate ho ya phir dog behaviorist banna chahte ho, professional ek dog behaviorist banna chahte ho, toh rituals of dogs aapki bahut zyada madad karegi. Aur woh madad kis cheez mein karegi? Dog ki madad karne ke liye.
So rituals of dogs humne figure out kab kiya tha? Jab bahut saare cases le rahe the aur jaise ki maine aap logon ko bataya tha, meri aawaz aa rahi hai? mic bahut door tha. Yeah. So jaise ki maine aap logon ko bataya tha ki maine shuruat jo kari thi, woh free cases se start kari thi ki main charge nahi kar raha tha.
correct? Aur aap logon se. Toh jab hum charge nahi kar rahe hote toh paisa ek friction hoti hai, case dene ke liye. Matlab sirf paisa ek friction nahi hota, aur bhi bahut saari cheezein friction hoti hai.
But paisa bhi ek friction hota hai. Toh humne charge nahi karke woh friction hataya. Jab humne woh friction hataya toh hamare paas bahut saare cases aa gaye. Matlab obviously log bolenge na ki please hamare dog ko karo, hamare dog ko.
Waise bhi agar hum, koi hamein call karta hai toh yeh zaroor bolta hai ki koi discount hai kya? Ya phir aap aise hi kar sakte ho kya? Ya phir paisa hum nahi denge. Humne suna hai. Toh logon ko chahiye hota hai ki paisa nahi unko kharch karne ko ho. Bahut se logon ko chahiye hota hai.
So hamare paas bahut saare cases aa gaye aur bahut allam kallam tareeqe ke cases aa gaye. Allam kallam matlab ajeebogareeb tareeqe ke cases. Hai na? Alag-alag issues ke cases aa gaye.
Aggression se lekar, separation anxiety se lekar, hyperactivity se lekar, ghar mein cheezein phaadne se lekar everything jo bhi aap soch sakte ho dog ke issues ke liye woh hamare paas bhar gaye the.
Just because ki humne uske baare mein logon ko bataya ki hum cases le rahe hain aur humne bataya ki hum uske liye charge nahi kar rahe.
So jab hamare paas yeh cases aa gaye toh kuch hi months mein hamare paas bahut saara data tha. Okay? Bahut saara data tha dogs ke issues ko lekar.
Aur us samay jab main logon ko sikha raha tha ki yaar isme yeh dikkat hai, isme yeh dikkat hai, toh mujhe bhi bahut dikkat aa rahi thi figure out karne mein ki yaar logon ko sikhayein kaise? Ya phir hum figure out kaise karein ki dog mein issue kya hai?
Toh ek din main apne aap se sawaal pooch raha tha ki yaar kuch har ek insaan ko main lagbhag same hi cheez jaake sikha ke aa raha hoon. Kisi ko walk hi sikha raha hoon. Kisi ko yeh sikha raha hoon ki affection kaise dena hai. Kisi ko yeh sikha raha hoon ki discipline kaise dena hai.
Kisi ko yeh sikha raha hoon ki khaana kaise dena hai. Jab food ka unka issue chaaloo ho gaya toh unhone shuruat mein kya galtiyan kari ki woh khaana dene mein, ki dog ke andar food guarding start ho gayi.
So affection ke baare mein sikhaya, play ke baare mein sikhaya. Toh kuch is, inhinn areas ke baare mein main sikha raha tha. Toh ek baar main naha raha tha aur ekdam mujhe samajh mein aaya. Matlab like hum hota hai na ki hum shaant hote hain aur hum soch hi rahe hote hain.
Toh main us samay par all, all the time sirf dogs ke baare mein hi socha karta tha. Mere dimaag mein sirf dogs hi chala karte the aur jo consultations hoti thi, sirf wahi chala karti thi ki kya ho raha hai, kya chal raha hai aur kya cheezein aa rahi hai.
Tab mujhe ek pattern samajh mein aaya ki jitne bhi log hain na, woh sirf is paanch se chhah jagah par galtiyan kar rahe hain, jo main unko sikha ke aa raha hoon. Aur usko main rituals of dogs bolne lag gaya. Woh rituals kya the? Woh chhah rituals the. Woh sabse zyada, sabse zyada mistake kar rahe the walk ke andar.
Doosri, doosri badi mistake kar rahe the woh discipline ke andar.
Teesri badi mistake kar rahe the dog se milte waqt jisko hum socializing ka bolte hain. Chauthi mistake kar rahe the feeding ke saath, matlab jisko hum feeding ritual kehte hain. Paanchvi mistake kar rahe the aur woh thi affection ke saath. Aur jo chhathi aakhiri mistake thi, woh thi play ke saath.
Toh is tareeqe se humne yeh cheez samjha ki yeh log sirf chhah jagah par hi mistake kar rahe hain. Toh hum mostly personal consultations lete the. Gharon mein jaate the aur gharon mein jaakar unko sikhaya karte the, diagnose karte the.
Lekin jab hamein yeh framework samajh mein aa gayi, hamare paas online channel open ho gaya.
Hamara online channel open ho gaya aur hum logon ko sirf in chhah cheezon ke baare mein bataane lag gaye aur hamare paas data, kyunki humne online bhi phir free mein chaaloo kiya, ki hum free mein consultations, calls lete the lagaataar aur logon se sunte the woh kya bolte hain, unko kya dikkat aati hai.
And again isi framework ke according hum figure out karte the ki unko kya dikkat hai.
So over a period time hamare paas personal consultations ka bhi bahut saara data ho gaya aur hamare paas online consultations ka bhi data ho gaya aur un sab data mein hamein success mil raha tha, sirf unhi logon ke saath, jo in chhah cheezon par achhi tareeqe se work kar rahe the.
So uske baad hamara rituals of dogs baaki logon ko bhi humne sikhaana start kiya. Toh main aap logon ko overview doonga rituals of dogs ka. Humne PDF bhi banayi hui hai, plus hamari blog post bhi hai, plus hamare free courses bhi hain rituals of dogs ke upar.
Hum aapke liye course toh daalenge hi sahi, lekin agar aap Oh My Dog ki website par jaoge, wahan par humne free courses bhi launch kiye hue hain. Most of people ko ho sakta hai nahi pata howe ki wahan par free courses bhi hain bahut different, different topics ke upar. So rituals of dogs aakhir hota kya hai?
So yeh chhah rituals ka ek group hai.
Ek consolidate type ki ek cheez hai, ek pattern hai, jo koi bhi insaan apne dog ke upar agar implement karta hai toh usko result kya milta hai? Calmness aur confidence ka. Uska dog more calm ho jaata hai, more confident ho jaata hai aur human ke saath more connected ho jaata hai.
Kyunki jo rituals hai na, yeh unke nature ke behavior ko mimic karte hue banayi hui hai. Ab mimic karte hue kaise banayi hui hai? Dog ko sabse zyada kya achha lagta hai? Dog ko sabse zyada achha lagta hai walk karna. So jis tareeqe se agar main aap se poochhoon ki machhli ko sabse zyada achha kya lagta hai?
Toh machhli ko, usko tairna hai. Agar usko tairne ki jagah nahi milegi toh kya hoga? Woh frustrate ho jaayegi. Agar aap usko itne se bottle mein band kar loge jo ki bahut se log karte bhi hain, usko aquarium bolte hain. Hai na?
Woh kitna bada hota hai, kitna chhota hota, agar chhote pe band kar loge toh machhli kya ho jaati hai?
Machhli frustrate ho jaati hai aur jaldi mar jaati hai. Okay? Uski life kam, life kam ho jaati hai. Agar hum panchhi ko ek tareeqe se band kar denge toh parrots kya karte hain, jo band ho jaate hain ek pinjre ke andar? Woh frustrate hoke apne pankh ko noch lete hain aur poore pankhon ko tod dete hain apne. Okay?
Yeh, yeh ek bird frustrate ho chuki hai. Usi tareeqe se agar ek dog ko walk nahi milta toh woh kya ho jaata hai? Woh frustrate ho jaata hai. Aur bahut se log kya karte hain? Dog ko walk nahi dete. Okay, dog ko walk nahi dete. Susu potty ke liye lekar jaate hain bas.
Toh yeh hamara pehla ek point hota hai logon se data lene ka ki walk kitni milti hai. Woh bolenge walk achhi milti hai toh hamara kya maqsad hota hai unse timing poochhna. Jab woh time bataenge kitni duration ki hoti hai toh woh bolenge ek kilometer, do kilometer.
Toh hum kya bolenge kilometer nahi timing bataiye timing. Woh hamesha aise bolenge ek kilometer hoti hai, do kilometer hoti hai, paanch kilometer hoti hai, hai na. Toh hum kya bolenge unse timing toh hum timing poochhte hain 15 minute ki, paanch minute ki, 10 minute ki. Yeh average hai. Okay, log kya jawab denge?
Paanch minute, 10 minute, 15 minute. Isse zyada jawab nahi denge. Most of the people sirf itna jawab denge. Most of the people ke paas tumhe Indie dogs milenge aur woh jawab kya denge issues wale. Woh kya tumhe walk ke jawab kya denge? Hum dog ko 10 minute walk dete hain subah aur shaam. Kuch log jawab kya denge?
Hum unko raat ko walk dete hain bas ek time par aadhe ghante ki Indie ko. Woh poora din bhar akela rehta hai. Yeh cases mein common hai saare issues mein. Main apna experience aap logon ke saath share kar raha hoon itni saari consultations ka.
Yeh common hai. Okay, kya ko-kya common hai? Walk 15 minute ki milna ek Indie dog ko, ek high energy dog ko, ek medium energy dog ko. Koi lena-dena nahi hai ki dog ki energy kya hai. 15 minute human ki convenience ke according dog ko walk milti hai. Okay, pehla cheez kya dekha humne?
Human apni convenience ke according dog ka timing set karta hai apne conve-- toh hume unka mindset change karna hota hai. Kya mindset karna hota hai? Human ki convenience ke according nahi dog ki personality, dog ke nature, dog ke instincts ke according hume walk set karna hota hai.
Okay, so pehli cheez hume unke mindset mein yeh cheez badalni hoti hai ki bhai woh walk ko dog ke perspective se dekhein na ki khud ke perspective se. Ki mere paas paanch minute ka time hai ya phir mujhe subah office jaana hota hai toh main usko shaam ko aakar walk doonga ya shaam ko aakar walk doongi.
So usse kya hota hai? Poora din bhar woh akela rehta hai. Poora din bhar woh frustrated rehta hai aur ghar ko tabaah karta hai, howl karta hai, separation anxiety lekar aata hai. Lekin yeh hum, lekin yeh jo human hai yeh is conclusion pe kaise nikla ki usko shaam ko walk deni hai? Do tareeqon se nikla.
Pehla tareeqa kya hai? Usko dog's ecology ka pata nahi hai. Okay, dog's ecology ka pata nahi hai ki dog ko kya zaroorat hoti hai, dog ki kya need hoti hai. Aur doosra kya hai?
Usko apni convenience ke baare mein zyada pata hai ki usko yehi pata hai ki yeh isi tareeqe se life mein behave karte hain aur woh hai mere convenience ke according. Uska convenience kya hai ki main subah jaa, subah nahi de sakta toh main shaam ko aakar doonga.
Toh hume us perspective se jaana hota hai ki hume ismein apni convenience nahi dekhni. Kyon yeh cheez main bol raha hoon?
Kyunki uske dimaag mein human ke dimaag mein convenience ki baat chal rahi hoti hai ki mujhe subah jaana hai aur agar hume usse relate karna hai toh hume is baat ko trigger karna hota hai ki yeh humare convenience ki baat nahi hai.
Woh isse relate kar paata hai. Okay, usne is, yeh conclusion pe kaise aaya? Yeh convenience ke liye aaya. It's not ki iske peeche koi logic hai. Mera is-it's not ki iske peeche kuch rationalizing hai ya iske peeche dog's ecology ki koi knowledge hai. Ismein convenience hai. Okay, aur dog's ecology ki ignorance hai.
So dog's ecology ki ignorance hum kaise hata-hata-hataate hain? Aise jaise main aapko bata raha hoon ki dog ko woh hum step by step ek human ko lekar jaate hain uski knowledge ke according. So bahut chhote mein, bahut shortly, bahut simply hum unko is information se roobaroo karaate hain ki walk zaroori hai.
Woh ek animal hai, woh ek dog hai aur dog's ecology ke hisaab se unko subah walk chahiye hoti hai, unki dopahar ko walk chahiye, shaam ko walk chahiye hoti hai.
At least two walks toh unko chahiye-chahiye hoti hai aur jo walk ki duration hoti hai woh dog ke convenience ke hisaab hoti hai na ki humare convenience ke hisaab se. Aur dog mein different tareeqe ki energy hoti hai toh us energy ke according hum walk ki duration and pace decide karte hain.
Okay, so dog ki energy ke according hum unki pace aur woh unki duration decide karte hain aur yeh walk ritual hoti hai. Now, walk ritual sirf yehi par khatam nahi hoti hai. Walk ritual mein dog ki training bhi hoti hai aur woh training kya hoti hai? For example, dog ko sabse zyada kya trigger kar sakta hai?
Environment. Okay, environment trigger karta hai. Environment kaise trigger karta hai? Baahar se agar koi banda ja raha hai toh dog kya hoga? Alert ho jaayega, bark karne lag jaayega. Kayi baar aapne dekha hoga.
Ab is cheez ko hum kaise solve kar sakte hain? Agar koi cheez hili toh woh usko catch karne lag jaayega. Kahin se smell aayi toh uski taraf badh jaayega, jo uska nature hai. Toh hum isko kaise solve karte hain? Walk pe toh hum lekar jaate hain, lekin walk pe hum structure follow karte hain.
Usko structured walk bolte hain. Ab hum structure kyon follow kar rahe hain? Jab aap dog ko baahar lekar jaate ho, woh sabse zyada stimulating hota hai dog ke liye. Okay, sabse zyada stimulating hota hai. Kis stimulating ka matlab kya? Wahan par zyada sound hai, zyada visuals hai, zyada smell hai.
Toh uske liye kitna zyada rahega? Aapke ghar pe toh woh daily rehta hai. Toh jab aap usko structured walk pe lekar jaate hain toh aap kya kar rahe ho? Uski jitne bhi impulses hain against these triggers, uske kaan, uski, uski aankhein, uske nose, usko kya bol rahe ho?
Tujhe koi bhi kuch bhi trigger kar raha ho, lekin tujhe trigger hone ki zaroorat nahi hai, kyunki main tujhe bataoonga kab kya karna hai. Kyunki is duniya mein main tujhe lekar aaya hoon, is human ki duniya mein aur yeh bahut complex hai.
Toh tujhe idea nahi hai kahan par kaisa behave karna hai aur woh trouble mein lekar aa sakta hai tujhe bhi aur mujhe bhi aur humari life ko bhi.
So jab hum dog ko baahar lekar jaate hain, hum unko ek bahut hi zyada stimulating environment mein daalte hain aur structure follow karke hum usko bataate hain in stimulation se trigger hone ki zaroorat nahi hai. Okay, woh structured walk se hota hai.
So reactive dog ko, hyper dog ko, jo dog sunte nahi hain, un sab mein structured walk bahut zyada work karti hai. Kyunki aap daily basis pe kya practice kar rahe ho? Zara isko logically socho. Aap daily basis par kya practice kar rahe ho?
Dog ko ek impulse ki situation par daal rahe ho aur wahan par usko control kar rahe ho. Toh dog kya seekh raha hai? Impulse control. Lekin usko kaun kara raha hai? Aap. Toh jab bhi aap chaahoge aap uske impulse ko control kar sakte ho.
Okay, that is why structured walk bahut zyada matter karta hai reactivity dogs mein, dare hue dogs mein. Dare hue dog mein kya hota hai zara mujhe batao. Environment mein koi trigger hota hai, uska impulse aata hai aur woh darr ki taraf chala jaata hai. Yehi hota hai. Envi-haan.
Toh hum jab walk par structure mein lekar jaate hain, hum usko kya bolte hain? Yeh trigger aayega, tujhe darne ki zaroorat nahi hai, mujh par bharosa kar. Aur hum yeh daily basis par karte hain. Toh phir kya hota hai? Dog ke andar confidence aa jaata hai aur woh confidence kiski wajah se aaya hai?
Jo human usko structure de raha hai. Toh uska uske saath connection achha hoga, bura hoga?
Obviously achha hoga. Woh aapke aur kareeb aa jaati hai. So ek dog jitna dara hua hota hai utni hi badi opportunity hoti hai human ki usse bond create karne ki. Dara hua matlab is vulnerable.
Woh khula hua hai, woh open hai aur lekin human usko softness de raha hai, usko compassion de raha hai aur usko confidence de raha hai. Toh woh kya ho, kya hoga? Woh balance ki taraf jaata hai. Aur balance ka matlab kya? Woh human. So nature mein animal kuch koi bhi animal ho, woh balance ki taraf bhaagte hain.
Balance yaani neutral zone. Aur jo unko balance provide karta hai, woh usse chipak jaate hain because woh unka nature hai. Woh balance ki taraf jaate hain. Aur yahan par walk ke through kaun balance provide kar raha hai? Human.
So structured walk is the biggest, biggest thing dog ke behavior ko shape karne ke liye, dog ko calmness dene ke liye, dog ko confidence dene ke liye aur woh connection build karne ke liye human ka.
So sabse zyaada priority hum jo data gathering ki karte hain, woh hum walk se karte hain. Okay, the most, sabse zyaada priority kis cheez ki hai? Hamaari walk ki. Okay, got it? Walk ke baare mein samajh mein aaya kitna important cheez hai aur yeh kya-kya cheezein karta hai.
Ab aapko samajh mein aa raha hai ki kitne issues ke upar yeh work kar sakta hai.
Jo bhi impulse se related hai, jo bhi uske triggers hain baahar ke environment se, bhale woh dar ho, anxiety ho, frustration ho, aggression ho, territorial behavior ho, koi bhi cheez linked hai baahar ke environment se aur trigger hone mein, un sab cheezon par structured walk, w-w-work karti hai. Iska matlab kya?
In everything. Whole dog ki life depend karti hai structured walk ke upar.
Human ka connection depend karta hai structured walk par. So hum is par sabse zyaada focus karte hain. Structured walk ke multiple sessions dog behaviorist le sakte hain, dog trainers le sakte hain. Yeh cheez sikhaakar, is cheez ka, agar is cheez ka mahatvapurna importance aapne dog parent ke dimaag mein daal diya.
Getting my point? Iska importance, jo ki reality hai, jo ki truth hai, uske baad ek dog trainer, ek dog behaviorist sessions le sakta hai walk sikhaane ka. Okay? Kyunki saamne waala more inclined hoga yeh cheez seekhne ke liye. Right now logon ko pata nahi hai walk kyon important hai aur walk kaise dete hain.
So ek dog behaviorist ka yeh kaam hota hai sikhaane ka. So lekin yeh koi bhi nahi kar raha. Hai na? Most people nahi kar rahe.
Most people kya karte hain? Most log jo is field mein, jo training ke field mein, jo behaviorist ke field mein, woh sirf aur sirf dog se interact karte hain. Sirf aur sirf dog se interact karte hain. Lekin is jagah par kya karna hai? Walk kisko seekhni hai? Human ko seekhni hai.
Okay, so behaviorist ka kaam dog ko sikhaana nahi hota. Behaviorist ka kaam hota hai dog ko samajhna aur human ko sikhaana. Okay? Ek dog trainer ka matlab jo yeh field hai, dog trainer ka matlab kya hota hai? Dog ko train karne ki priority hoti hai unki.
Dog trainer ko, dog trainer ek dog ko train karta hai aur saath mein woh human ko bhi sikha sakta hai. Lekin ek dog behaviorist ka pehli priority kya hoti hai? Dog ko samajhna. Aap dog, hum dog behaviorist dog ko train kar sakte hain. Aisa koi kisi cheez mein manaahi nahi hai. Aap dog training ka istemaal kar sakte ho.
Lekin woh prism kya hai jisse hamaari poori flow hoti hai, jisse hamaari poori strategy flow hoti hai? Dog ko samajhna, human ko samjhaana, human ko sikhaana. Okay? So hamaara poora focus human ke upar hota hai ki human yeh cheez seekh sake. Toh walk multiple cheezon par work karta hai.
Okay, multiple aur yeh top ki priority rehti hai. So agar aap socho, agar aap kisi bhi insaan ko iske baare mein yeh nahi pata ki walk kahaan-kahaan istemaal hoti hai, kaise istemaal hoti hai. Bas usko yeh pata hai ki mujhe usko walk karaani hai, usko structured walk karaani hai.
Aapko kya lagta hai ki dog ke issues solve ho sakte hain usse? Bina understanding ke. Bina understanding ke bhi solve ho sakte hain. Kyunki dog ki toh need poori ho rahi hai. Dog ka toh impulse control ho raha hai. Okay, toh isliye bahut se log bin, anjaane mein unke dog is tareeqe se hote hain.
Kyunki aa, ki woh shaant hote hain, woh calm hote hain, woh confident hote hain. Aapko unse baat karke samajh mein aayega ki inke daily basis mein dog ke saath structure hai. There are some structure involved.
Aur aapko yeh bhi samajh mein aayega jinke dog unruly hai, idhar kood rahe hain, udhar kood rahe hain aur kuch bhi nahi hai. Wahaan par affection zyaada hai. Okay, wahaan par affection zyaada hai, walk kam hai aur discipline zero hai. Toh isko lekar hum second ritual par aate hain jo hai discipline ritual.
Ab suppose yeh Tavisha ji ne, a, chat mein question poocha, "How many breaks are zaroori hai walk ke upar?" Woh breaks kitne zyaada zaroori hai? Toh walk ko hum kis tareeqe se dekh sakte hain? Ek gym ki exercise ki tarah dekh sakte hain. Okay, woh ek tareeqe ki exercise hai.
Mental, gym sirf physical nahi hai na, gy-gym mental bhi hota hai.
Aapko jaakar exercise karni hoti hai, apne aap ko aage lekar jaana hota hai. Lekin woh karte kaise hain? Woh sets hote hain. Usi tareeqe se structured walk ke bhi set hote hain. For example, aap 15 minute ki unko walk kara, example hai. Har ek dog different hota hai. Okay?
Lekin structure 80% hona chahiye aur jo yeh off time hota hai, woh 20% hona chahiye. Yeh aapko samajh ke chalna hai. Okay, 80%, 20% ka feel, feel lekar chalo. 70%, 30% ka feel lekar chalo. Dogs ke saath experiment karo lekin structure more, off time less. Agar aapko off time dena hai, woh ek different walk hai.
Woh aap alag se, structured walk ke andar nahi aata woh cheez. Main aisa nahi bol raha ki structured walk hi do. Lekin agar dog ko structured walk ka hum de rahe hain, daily basis par hum strategy decide, decide kar rahe hain toh structured walk isi tareeqe se follow hoti hai.
Because question aayega ki yeh toh dog ka time hota hai. Dog free ghoom sakta hai. Usko hum is tareeqe se structure kyon de rahe hain? Hai na? Yeh question aayega aur aap logon ke dimaag mein bhi kai baar ek question aayega kyunki internet par bhi hai ki dog ko free time do, off time do.
Yeh jo walk hai, yeh dog ke baare mein, yeh jo walk hai, yeh dog ke baare mein nahi hai. Yeh dog aur human ke connection ke baare mein. Agar aap usko is tareeqe se walk dena chaahte ho, woh extra nikaalo time apne liye. Lekin dog, lekin human ke paas convenience ke according woh time nahi hota hai.
Toh woh structure follow karne ka nahi sochta hai. Woh off ka sochta hai. Okay, so lekin dog ke saath structure zyaada matter karta hai, ja-- off ke, obviously, obviously off bhi chahiye unko lekin structure zyaada matter karta hai. Ki pack mein, walk mein, activities mein structure ho.
Wo humans nahi hai, wo animals hai. Aur animals ki life mein agar structure nahi hota toh unmein pata hai kya aata hai? Anxiety, anxiety. Chidiya ek time par uthti hai, ek time par soti hai, ek time par khaana khaati hai, ud ke ek direction par jaati hai. Wo aise nahi chal rahi hoti hai kahin par bhi.
Un sabki life mein structure hai. Har ek animal ki life mein structure hai. Is samay shikaar ka hai, is samay sone ka hai. Wo har taraf unka ye nahi, ye nahi chalta hai. Agar unke life mein structure nahi hai, wo anxiety lekar aata hai. Again, 80-20% ka hai. Okay?
Agar poora din bhar hi same cheez, same cheez ho rahi hai toh again, 80-20% maan ke chalo. Wo, wo boredom bhi aa sakti hai, frustration bhi aa sakti hai. Kuch naya karte hain, kuch wo karte hain. Okay, so 80-20% ka har cheez mein rule pakad ke chalo.
So this, first cheez walk ke baare mein aapko maine bataya ki kyon ye zaroori hai aur kitni zyada zaroori, kitni zyada zaroori hai aur kyon hum sabse pehle walk ke upar hi fo-focus karte hain. So walk ka sabse pehle humein data gather karna chahiye. Walk kab hoti hai? Kitni hoti hai? Dog ki energy kya hai?
Dog ki energy bhi walk ka gather hi hai. Kyunki aapne socha 15 minute, 20 minute ki hoti hai, aapne 40 minute soch liya. Lekin humne dog ki energy nahi poocha. Toh phir aap kaise bataoge 40 minute is good? Hai na? Dog kaisa hai? Dog hyper hota hai? Dog khelta hai kya? Dog walk ke baad kya karta hai?
Kyunki human ko nahi pata hoga energy ke baare mein, kitni energy. Toh hum kya poochenge? Dog walk ke baad ghar par baith jaata hai ya phir active rehta hai? Agar aap wo bolenge ki active rehta hai toh humein kya samajh mein aata hai?
Walk kam ho rahi hai. Walk mein structure kam hai. Toh hum sabse pehle structure lekar aate hain aur kyunki dog structure se jaldi thakta hai. Idhar-udhar bha-bhaagne se jaldi wo structure se thakte hain. Kyunki us samay unko control karna hota hai apni impulse ko, toh wo zyada thak jaate hain.
Usmein zyada mental power lagti hai. Toh dog ke mein pehle hum structure lekar aate hain, phir unki durations ko increase karte hain. Okay? Dog ke energy ke according. Aur hum kaise samajhte hain? Walk ke baad uska behavior kaisa hai? Usse hum samajhte hain ki walk us par kya impact kar rahi hai. Got, got it? Okay?
Second cheez aati hai discipline ke baare mein. Discipline is the second thing jo aapko dog ke gharon mein dikhega ki wo absent hai ya phir enough nahi hai ya phir inconsistent hai. Okay? So not enough se inconsistency zyada kharab hai dog ke perspective se.
Dog confused rehte hain. Agar dog ko hum dis-discipline nahi de rahe toh dog confused nahi rehte. Unko kya lag gaya? Jo maango milta hai. Lekin agar hum inconsistent, inconsistent dog ko lagta hai milega nahi milega, milega nahi milega, milega nahi milega. So there will be more barking, there will be more whining.
Agar unko har cheez de rahe toh there will be no barking. Wo sirf paw karenge, unko mil jaayega. Lekin agar aap inconsistent ho toh wo different, different cheezein try karenge.
Wo paw denge, wo kabhi bark karenge, wo kabhi whine karenge, wo kabhi takiya utha laayenge, wo kabhi sofa phaad denge, wo kabhi cheezon ko aise kar denge, tujhe kya sunayi de raha hai, kya samajh mein aa raha hai? Wo is tareeqe se baat, is tareeqe se, agar inconsistent rahega.
So ye humein figure out karna hota hai ki ghar mein kaise rules hain, kitne log hain, wo sab log kaise behave karte hain usse.
Aur dog ka kaisa behavior rehta hai unse. Jab wo aate hain toh zyada bark karta hai kya? Zyada anxious rehta hai kya? So hum ise poora gather karte hain. Aapke ghar mein rules, wo usko kitchen mein allowed hai kya? Wo kitchen mein kabhi bhi ja sakta hai kya? Aapki plate se khaana kha leta hai kya?
Dining table ke upar se chura leta hai kya? Dustbin mein se khaana utha lekar aa, aa jaata hai kya? Aapke saamne hi cheezon ko kutar raha hai kya? Chaba raha hai kya? Matlab aap baithe hue ho aur aap, wo joota lekar aa raha hai toh, toh usko koi humare peeche se aata hai that is a different thing.
Okay, lekin agar humare saamne se aa raha hai that is a discipline ka problem. Yaani wo humein matter hi nahi karta. Matlab wo humein, hum, hum, hum wahan par hain, usko koi farq hi nahi padta.
Wo apne aap ko itna samajh raha hai ki humare saamne jaakar joota utha raha hai, ye cheez utha, toh usse kya samajh mein aata hai?
Ki ghar mein discipline zero hai. Okay, zero hai. Yaani human ko discipline dena nahi aa raha hai ya phir usko is cheez ke baare mein nahi pata hai. Toh hum usko discipline, toh hum usko discipline sikhaate hain, human ko, ki discipline kaise dena hota hai. Aur sabse pehle hum kaise sikhaate hain?
Jab aap walk par ja, jab aap walk par jaate ho aur ghar mein waapas aate ho toh usko ghar ke baahar thoda baithaana hai aur ghar ke andar laakar thoda baithaana hai. Yahan, yahan se hum start karte hain. Okay? Kyunki unke zero idea hai discipline ko lekar. Unko zero idea hai.
So hum yahan se rules, boundaries and limitations ke baare mein unko sikhaate hain ki jab bhi dog ko baahar lekar jaao, usko pehle ghar ke andar baithaao aur jab ghar ke baahar lekar, waapas usko lekar aa rahe ho toh ghar ke baahar usko baithaao. Isse kya hota hai? Isse kya hota hai? Toh isse kya hota hai?
Dog shaanti seekhta hai ghar ke andar aane ke liye. Ek nayi association create karta hai ki jo ghar ka andar ka environment hai, iska matlab calmness hai. Warna kya hota hai?
Dog jab ghar mein aate hain toh hum dog ko off leash kar dete hain aur dog ko chhod dete hain aur andar-andar tezi se bhaag ke aata hai toh koi bhi uska ek association nahi banta hai.
Lekin agar humein usko ek association banaana hai calmness ka, confidence ka toh hum kya karte hain usko ghar ke baahar thodi der baithaate hain aur ye hum human ko sikhaate hain taaki usko ek habit mein aa-aa sake ki usko apne dog ko discipline dena aur ye khaaskar kin dogs ke saath karte hain, jo territorial ho rahe hain, jinke andar separation anxiety aa rahi hai.
Okay, unke saath bahut achha work karta hai. Jo territorial ho rahe hain toh unko kya sikhaate hain? Ye territory nahi hai, ye calmness ki jagah hai. Hai na. Uske baad hum andar jaake jab unko leash karte hain, tu yahan manage nahi karta, yahan par main manage karta hoon.
Ye hum usko bataate hain. Okay, so nature mein kya hota hai? Nature mein same to same cheez hota hai. Territory mein andar ghusne se pehle wo territory ke baahar baitha hua rehta hai.
Jo already jo pack ke members hote hain wo usko baithaate hain, jo territorial hota hai ya phir usko pin down karte hain depending on the intensity of the terri-jo territorial ke instincts hai. Warna usko sirf baithaate hain.
So usko hamesha territory ke baahar ek jagah par baitha ke rakhenge agar instinct unki drive zyada hai saamne walon ki territorial ke upar. Toh hum kya kar rahe hain? Wo mimic kar rahe hain. Mimic kaise kar rahe hain?
Ghar ke baahar baithna aur daily basis par kar rahe hain ki ghar ke baahar, ghar ke baahar baithna aur ghar ke andar baithna.
Is, ye territorial waale dogs ke saath bahut zyada work karta hai aur generally saare dogs ke cases mein aapko ye issue milega kyunki har ek dog territorial ho sakta hai agar human ko knowledge nahi hai kaise behave karna hai toh.
Aur generally jitne bhi humans hain bachpan se hi puppies ko bahut adore karte hain. Obvious hi baat hai na. Agar knowledge nahi toh aap puppies ko kaise dekhoge? Is, tere ko sab cheez allowed hai. Kyunki unka, wo unka look, unka behavior unka itna pyaara hota hai, itna caring hota hai ki human pighal jaata hai.
Uske saamne tik nahi paata hai. Us emotions ke saamne jo puppy present karte hain puppy eyes aisi thodi famous hai. Koi reason hoga na. You know puppy eyes jab puppy dikhaate hain toh hum pighal jaate hain.
Toh wo bachp-- toh isliye generally saare dogs territorial cases mein saare dogs mein territorial common cheez hai. On an average territorial common cheez hai isliye ye jo rituals hain unke saath work karti hai. Aapko ye common milega. Hai na.
Aap a-haal filhaal agar aap aaspaas ke logon se ya phir aapke koi dost hain toh aapko unmein bhi common milega ki ek territorial tendencies hai un dogs ke upar.
Kisi ke upar chadhna, kisi ke andar hump karna, saamne se cheezein, cheezein uthaana aur bina koi bole dining table se cheezein chori, chori karna. So un sab, ye it's a common thing. It's a common theme aur ye kaise, ye kaise hum start karte hain theek karna.
Walk ke time par baahar baithaana aur walk ke time par andar baithaana aur saath mein human ko knowledge dena ki ye kyon zaroori hai. Okay, aur ye kaise, ye mimic hua hai unke nature ke behavior ke upar. This is not something ki like bina logic ka hai. This is how they behave in their nature. Okay?
So first thing aapko walk ke baare mein bataaya. Second aapko discipline ke baare mein, discipline ke ba, discipline ke baare mein bataaya. Teesri badi mistake kahaan hoti hai? Dog se hum kis tareeqe se milte hain? Wo hai socializing ritual.
Toh generally saare on an average matlab 80 se 90% log apne dog se excitement se milte hain aur wo puppyhood se hi start hota hai.
So puppyhood se hi hum unse excitement se milte hain. Wo itne se hote hain toh excitement chalta hai.
Phir saat, aath, nau mahine ke baad kya humaare paas call aate hain aur wo call kis tareeqe ke aayenge ki dog humaare par bahut zyaada jump karta hai, humaare papa ko gira diya, humaare, humaare mummy ko gira diya, humaare bachhon ko kaat diya. Aur kaat kaise diya?
Jaise hi dog hyper hote hain aur insaan chillaate hain ya phir aise-aise karte hain, unke andar snapping behavior trigger ho jaata hai. Ab usmein dogs kya karein? Aur dogs ko is tareeqe se aggressi-aggressive ka label lag jaata hai. Uske baad kya hota hai?
Sab log dog se darne lag jaate hain aur jaise-jaise darte hain dog ke andar more territorial behavior trigger ho jaata hai.
Ek achhe-khaase dog ke andar pehle hyperness aayi, phir log usse tensed ho gaye jiski wajah se uske andar territorial behavior increase hua toh logon ka fear aur badh gaya aur dog usko dekhte hi bite karne lag gaya.
Lekin ye dog ki taraf se aaya kya? Ye dog ki taraf se nahi aaya. Getting my point? Ye kahaan se start hua? Ye start kahaan se hua? Human ki misunderstanding se ki dog se milna kaise hai. Toh humaare paas cases kis taree, tumhaare paas cases kis tareeqe ke aayenge?
Humaara dog bahut zyaada jump karta hai aur wo bite karna chaalu kar deta hai because of this reason. Okay, wo humaare parents ko gira deta hai, humaare bachhon ko gira, gi-gira, gira deta hai. Ye common issues aapke paas aayenge aur ye cheez kaise theek hoti hai? Socializing ritual se. Baaki sab ke saath.
Okay, baaki sab ke saath. Unke saath walk bhi jaati hai, unke saath discipline bhi jaata hai. Phir socializing ritual kya? Dog se jab bhi milo no touch, no talk, no eye contact follow karo aur move mat karo jab tak dog shaant nahi ho jaaye.
Okay? So ye humein, humein unko bataana hota hai aur phir uske baad jab wo ye implement karte hain toh unko chheh se saat din mein fark dikhne ko milta hai not immediately. Unko humein kya bataana hota hai ki shuruwaat mein dog aur zyaada kar sakta hai aapki attention lene ke liye.
Toh dog, dog zyaada whine karta hai, zyaada bark karta hai ek-do din ke liye. Uske baad wo tune down hona chaalu karta hai. Toh humein human ko knowledge deni hoti hai is cheez ke liye ki aisa hoga. Okay? Toh uske baad wo tune down hona chaalu hota hai.
Phir dog, inko samajh mein aata hai ki haan, iska hyperness thoda toh kam ho raha hai. Chheh se saat din mein hyperness kam hote hue dikhaayi deta hai. Usse zyaada hum badhte hain toh uski anxiety, uska, uska biting, uska snapping behavior kam, kam hone lag jaata hai.
Ab jaise Manya ne poochha tension kaise increase karta hai territorial, territorial behavior ko?
Kyunki hu-human ki taraf se tension aa rahi hai, lekin human mein wo caliber nahi hai ko, usko carry karne ke liye. Carry karne ka matlab kya? Humne tension di, dog humaari taraf aaya aur hum kya ho gaye? Dar gaye. Ye common hai.
Agar dog, dog humaari taraf jump karke aa raha hai aur wo tense, hum tense ho gaye toh dog ke andar kya aayega? Growling. Is tareeqe se growling aayega. Humaari taraf se jab tension ja rahi hai toh. Uska matlab biting nahi hai. Uska matlab growling hai. Hai na ki haan bhai tu bhi tense hai, main bhi tense hoon.
Iska-- lekin jaise hi wo growl sunega toh human ka pehla nature kya hoga? Pehla res-pehla respond kya hoga? Fear. Okay, jaise hi fear aayega, jab bhi ek dog ke environment mein fear aata hai toh dog ke andar territorial behavior badh jaayega.
Kyon? Koi khatra hai. Koi khatra hai. Ye dog ko, dog ko samajh mein aa raha hai ki koi, koi khatra hai yahaan par kyunki fear aa raha hai. Aur fear kiski taraf se aata hai? Iski taraf se aa raha hai toh isi ko pakdo. Isi ko pakdo, isi ko baahar nikaalo toh biting chaalu hoga. Jo hai na biting chaalu hoga.
Toh is tareeqe se tension territorial behavior ko trigger karti hai. Agar aap tension ko carry kar sakte ho toh wo trigger nahi karegi. Dog saham jaayega. Agar aap usko carry kar sakte ho tension ko. Tension ko carry karne ka matlab, matlab kya hua?
Dog bhi tense ho raha hai, growl ho raha hai, lekin aap back down nahi kar rahe. Apne gusse se, apne frustration se, apne us cheez se. Toh ho sakta hai kya? Dog saham jaaye aapke us tension se. Aapne danda utha liya us tension mein aakar.
Hai na, aapne koi cheez utha li aur aapne bahut tez chilla diya aapne uske, aapne uske upar.
Toh dog saham jaayega. Surrender nahi, saham jaayega. Lekin aap agar fear mein aa gaye toh ho sakta hai wo aapke upar kaatne lag jaaye. Dono cheezon mein dono ho sakta hai. Pata hai, agar aap tense ho gaye aur aapne chillaaya toh ho sakta hai aap kat bhi jaao. Dog to dog depend karta hai. Dog to dog depend karta hai.
So carry karna zaroori hai. Agar aap tension, tension kar rahe ho aur aapmein fear aaya toh territorial behavior aa sakta hai. Agar aap tension lekar aa rahe ho aur aap usko carry kar rahe ho toh dog self-defense mein attack kar sakta hai.
Dono taraf se, not out of territorial but out of self-defense mein wo attack kar sakta hai. Ki tu bahut zyaada tense mein aa raha hai, tu mujhe hurt kar sakta hai. Toh let's, mere paas aur koi chaara nahi hai fight karne ke alaawa.
Okay, so dis-- socialize, socializing bahut saare issues create karta hai aur usmein anxiety ek bahut bada issue hai.
Territorial bahut bada issue hai jo socializing ki wajah se hota hai. Dog to dog socializing nahi, human to dog socialize. Aur ye khaaskar kya hota hai jab hu, jab aapko, aapko ismein pata hai kaise, kaise cases milenge because human is tareeqe se theek se follow nahi kar pata socializing ka.
Aapko kis tarah ke cases milenge? Dog to human aggression waale cases milenge aapko iske andar. Walk mein aapko dog to human waale cases itne nahi milenge. Okay? Discipline mein aapko dog to human waale itne cases nahi milenge.
Lekin agar aapka socializing galat hai toh aapko usmein dog to human aggression waale cases bahut zyada milenge. Okay, kyunki hu, dog human ki respect poori tareeqe se band kar deta hai because of galat tareeqe se milne ke liye.
Aur is par bahut zyada cases aate hain aur khaaskar Indies dogs aur jitne bhi power breeds hain unmein aapko cases sabse zyada dekhne ko milenge.
Kyunki log kis mansha se aa rahe hain, kis mentality se aa rahe hain. Labradors se, saare Labradors bhi aise nahi hai ki woh allow karenge sab cheezein saare. Main just aapko example de raha hoon soft breed and power breeds ki.
Aapko ye saare cases po-power breeds aggression because of wrong socializing power breeds jaldi jaate hain aggression mein. Bas itna hi antar hai. Aggression ki taraf koi bhi jaa sakta hai in rituals mein agar aapne mistake kari. Just power breeds Indies jo primal hai zyada woh iski taraf jaldi jaayenge.
Golden Retriever, Labrador jo soft hai on an average woh dheere jaayenge. Woh kam, woh kam jaa, woh kam, kam, unke jaa-jaane ke chances kam honge aggression ki taraf. Lekin uska yeh matlab nahi ki woh aggression ki taraf jaa nahi sakte. Okay, woh jaa sakte hain. So ye ek aapko bahut zyada dekhne ko milegi.
In most of the cases mein aapko walk ka issue dekhne ko milega jo aap solve kar sakte ho walk aur structured walk ke baare mein bata ke. Kar sakte ho solve. Ye ab aapki skill ke upar hai ki aap kis tareeqe se khud walk karaate ho. Aapko kitni knowledge hai structured walk ki.
Lekin aap on a theory basis aap solve kar sakte ho is cheez ko. Okay, second cheez aap jab logon ko discipline ke baare mein bataoge toh aap bahut saare territorial ke behavior, bahut se fear ke behavior, separation anxiety ke behavior ko solve kar sakte ho.
Teesri cheez jab aap so-socializing ke baa-baare mein bataoge toh unka hyperactivity hai, unka jumpiness hai, unka snappiness hai, unka jo territorial behavior hai, aap us cheez ko solve kar sakte ho. In sabke combination mein, Rituals of Dogs ek combination hai.
Woh ek singularity cheez nahi hai ki aapse usmein aapko ek follow karna hai. No, aapko saare hi follow karne hain. Lekin ye knowledge humein unko deni hoti hai step by step.
Ek saath nahi. Okay, ek saath nahi. Ye session walk ka hai, ye session socializing ka hai, socializing kaise karna hai, ye session discipline kaise dena hai, us cheez ka hai. Toh hum unko step by step lekar jaate hain otherwise it will be too much for them.
So main aapko ye professional level se sikha raha hoon is cheez ko ki kaise humein clients ko onboard karna hota hai is cheez ke upar. One step at a time. It depend bhi karta hai ki saamne waale pe kitni knowledge hai. Lekin aapko kul milaakar chhah sessions toh milte hi hain ek human ko sikhaane ke liye.
Har ek session mein aap, lekin bahut se log ek cheez ko do sessions mein bhi seekh sakte hain. So chhah se 12 sessions ek dog ke saath aapko lag sakte hain, usko kam, uske upar work karne ke liye. Woh aap usko mahine bhar mein le sakte ho, do mahine mein le sakte ho.
Ye aapke upar hai aur human ke upar hai, uski pace ke upar hai, dog ke upar hai.
But six to twelve sessions you have to take for them. So har ek issue mein chhah se 12 session ka socho aur ek session is dedh se do ghante ka. Okay, ye samajh ke chalo ki itna time dena hota hai humein case ke upar. Okay, so aur jitna zyada hum online unse gather kar sakein woh bhi better hota hai.
So chhah se 12 session agar hum pe-personal sessions le rahe hain woh hote hain aur plus online unke sabse pehle onboarding ke sessions hote hain before taking in person, taaki aap us human se connect ho sako, dog ke baare mein jaan sako, taaki jab aap unke ghar mein jaao toh aap time waste baaton mein na karo.
Hands on ki practice mein, kyunki aap baatein online bhi kar sakte ho. hands on ki practice par karo. So you will save your time. So aap sabse pehle online sessions lete hain unke.
Kuch ek se do online sessions lete hain samajhne ke liye poori cheez ko. Phir uske baad hum unko theory ka knowledge dete hain. Thoda sa, bahut thoda sa ki hum ye-ye cheezein karne waale hain. Kyun nahi? Ye cheezein karne waale hain aur ye kyun zaroori hai?
So aapka next session ab yahan se start hoga and then we will walk par kaam karenge. Toh hum pehle din jaakar walk par kaam karte hain. Phir woh depend karta hai dog to dog. Aap kisi bhi cheez par pehle kaam kar sakte ho. Aap feeding par pehle kaam kar sakte ho. Lekin most of the cases mein walk is the first thing.
Okay? Aapko bond banaane ko mauka milega us dog, us dog ke saath. So walk par sabse pehle humein kaam karna hota hai khud and phir human ko dena hota hai us cheez ke liye. So is tareeqe se dog ke andar koi bhi issue hai you can work on, on him.
Aisa nahi ki humein figure out karne ki zaroorat hai use. Obviously figure out ek part hai uske andar. Lekin phir bhi dog ke andar koi bhi issue ho, ye same rituals ko same pattern mein follow karna hota hai. So that's a huge thing.
Jab humein same pattern mil jaata hai, aap kisi bhi dog ke upar implement kar sakte ho and you, aapke paas idea hai ki next chhah se 12 sessions mein aapko karna kya hai. Nahi toh aapko pata kaise rahega karna kya hai? How will you figure it out?
If there is no framework, if there is no rituals of dogs, how will you figure it out? Is session mein kya karna hai? Kaise figure out karoge? Is dog ke saath kya karna hai? There is no framework. There is nothing ki is session mein kya karna hai. Then you will sit every dog ke saath ki mujhe kya karna hai?
Is session mein kya karna hai? Is session mein kya karna hai? No, there is a predefined framework for you guys.
Work on this, work on this, work on this, work on this, work on this and dog will come, start changing from first session. Pehle session se dog mein changes dikhaayi dene lag jaate hain aur woh changes tumhe human ko dikhaane hote hain ki dekho ye pehle kaisa tha aur ab aise behave kar raha hai. Can you see that? Okay?
Ye humein unko bataana hota hai kyunki unko aankhon mein nahi dikhta hai ekdam. Kyunki unko habit ho chuki hoti hai. Hai na? Dog ko nahi dekhne ki. Woh itne habitual ho jaate hain dog ko lekar ki ab woh is aankhon se nahi dekhte. Unke andar hi chal raha hota hai ki dog kis tareeqe se behave kar raha hota hai.
So you have to bring them in the reality ki see right now ek walk ke baad woh kaisa behave kar raha hai. Ek discipline ke baad woh kaise behave kar raha hai aur humne is tareeqe se socializing kiya toh woh kaise behave kar raha hai.
Okay? So in every session you will, you will have complete understanding ki mujhe aaj kya karna hai aur kya expected hai iske outcome se. So walk ka kya expectation, expectation hota hai? Structure. Kar paayi kya main? Kar paaya kya main dog ke saath? Ye aapka rule wo hota hai, scale hota hai.
Main structure lekar aa paaya kya? Okay, Sakshi ji abhi aayenge na. Main structure abhi, main structure abhi lekar aa sa, aa paaya kya? Main usko discipline ki tarah lekar aa paaya kya? Main usko socializing pe isse theek se mil paaya kya? Aur ye shaant ho paaya kya?
This, this will be scale for you aur uske according aapko samajh mein aata hai ki main ab aage kya karne wala hoon ya mujhe kis cheez ke upar zyada importance deni hai. So most of the time kya hota hai, agar aap socialize kar rahe ho toh bahut zyada hyperness milegi.
Phir jab aap poochhoge toh kya walk kitna hai toh usmein aapko 10 minute milega. So aapko kya samajh mein aayega ki mujhe isko running deni hai. Mujhe isko walk lambi deni hai. Mujhe isko structure lekar aana hai. Toh main isko pehle walk par lekar jaati hoon. Isko running par lekar jaati hoon.
Now dog ko run dena is a big, big, big skill. Okay? Kyunki hum run kaise dete hain? Hum khud nahi bhaagte. Hum bicycle ride karte hain. So bicycle ride ke liye hamare paas kitna talent hai? Hamare paas kitni skill hai ki ek haath se hum dog ko pakad sakein aur ek haath se bicycle ko wo kar sakein.
Agar ye skill ek dog behaviorist ne seekh li toh wo jitne bhi frustrated aur hyper dogs hain unko shaant kar sakta hai. Phir hum ye nahi kar sakte toh ghar mein treadmill hai kya? Main usko treadmill par bhaga sakta hoon kya? Main usko-- ya phir mera khud ka center hai.
Mera khud ka training center hai. Kya main yahaan par chaar treadmill laga ke dog ko, unko laga sakta hoon kya yahaan par taaki unki pent up energy nikle? Main apne center par bula ke ye kaam kara sakta hoon kya? Har hafte mein do-teen baar yahaan par aa jao, hum usko bhagate hain ek treadmill ke upar.
So agar ek behaviorist ye seekh jaata hai bhale bicycle nahi seekh paaye, bicycle mein skill lagte hain. Agar wo bicycle, bicycle nahi seekh paaye toh wo treadmill seekh sakta hai kya? Treadmill mein kam skill lagte hain. Skill usmein bhi lagte hain. Dog ghabraata hai. Usko kaise lekar jaana hai treadmill ke upar?
But agar aap ye skill seekh gaye, har ek frustrated hyper drive dog ko, ke saath aap work kar sakte ho. So that's bahut zyada matlab it's like har ek, har ek dog ke saath jaaoge so you will understand ki kaun se rituals par aapko zyada focus karna hai.
Kis ritual par zyada kaam karna hai. Food guarding ke jab issues aate hain tab hum feeding rituals ke upar kaam karte hain. Most, most of the time feeding ritual ke upar kaam karte hain. So maine walk ke baare mein bata diya aapko. Aapko discipline ke baare mein bata diya. Aapko socializing ke baare mein bataya.
Chauthi cheez aati hai feeding ke baare mein. So log generally feeding kis tareeqe se karte hain? Apne dog ko wo bahut tez chillaate hain. Let's chalo khaana khaate hain aur then make a huge like celebration kind of thing which is a good thing but dog ke liye it is not a good thing. Hai na?
Toh everyday aap jab celebration cheez karte ho dog ke liye toh wo ek, main common bata raha hoon. Common kya hota hai? Aisa nahi ki har ek ghar mein same cheez hota hai. Kaafi excitement ke saath feeding start hoti hai. Dog kaafi excited hota hai, naachta hai puppy se hi.
Ye cheez, ye cheez karta hai aur khaane ki taraf tezi se bhaag-bhaagta hai aur hum bolte hain dekho kitna bhookha tha ya kitna wo tha.
Hum usko rokna nahi chahiye. Lekin dog isse kya seekhta hai? Wo dog isse impulse ko practice karna seekhta hai. Khaana kya hai? Impulse hai. Phir usko jahaan bhi khaana dikhta hai uski taraf badh chalta hai.
Ab jab human khaana khaa raha hota hai, roti khaa raha hota hai, yeh khaa raha hota hai, usmein itni achhi smell aa rahi hoti hai toh dog kya karega? Uski taraf badhega. Lekin dog ko jab hum impulse control sikha nahi rahe toh wo kya karega? Wo chori karna start kar dega sabse pehle chhote mein.
Hamari plate ki taraf bhaagega aur hum yoon-yoon karenge usko. Are mat kar, mat kar. Phir bhi wo chadh ke khaa lega hamari plate. Toh dog isse territorial hota jaata hai, hota jaata hai, hota jaata hai. Phir log kya karte hain? Uske munh se kheenchne lag jaate hain cheezein.
Usko door hataane lag jaate hain, usko aise maarne lag jaate hain. Wo kuchh khaa raha hota hai toh kheenchne lag jaate hain. Ye snatching behavior dog ke andar snapping behavior create karne lag jaata hai.
Wo start kahaan se hua? Ek feeding ke through excitement se. Feeding ke mein jab humne impulse control nahi sikhaaya toh feeding ritual kya sikhaati hai? Dog ko feeding ke time par impulse control ki training sikhaati hai. Usko training deti hai. Toh wo start kaise hota hai?
Hum poore feeding ritual mein shaanti first rakhte hain. Calmness first. Okay? Feeding ritual is not a dog ke hisaab se ek celebration ka perspective. Feeding ritual unke nature mein bahut silent activity hai. Dog chillaate nahi hain yahaan par khaana hai, yahaan par khaana hai toh poora jungle hi aa jaaye wahaan par.
Chalo bhai yahaan par khaana hai. Lekin human completely opposite hai. Human chillaata hai bhai khaana hai, bhandaara hai yahaan par toh. Lekin wo dog ke perspective se achha nahi hai. So feeding ritual hum humans ko kya sikhaate hain? Ye shaanti se start karni hai. Dog ko shaant rakhna hai.
Dog jab shaant hota hai toh uske saamne hum uska tiffin ya uska plate rakhte hain ki khaane ke liye ki bhai tu ab, ab tu khaa sakta hai. Ye dog ko kya sikhaata hai? Impulse control sikhaata hai. So gen-- on an average most gharon mein kya dekhne ko milega? Excitement during feeding. First mistake.
Doosri mistake feeding ke time kya, kya rakhta hai? Khaana hamesha zameen par pada rehta hai. Ye territorial behavior trigger karta hai dog ke andar. Aur dog ke andar kya trigger karta hai? Fussy eating. Okay? Fussy eating trigger karta hai dog ke andar. Dog ke andar territorial behavior trigger karta hai.
Teesri mistake kya karte hain log? Khaane ki position sahi nahi hoti. Wo middle of the ghar hoti hai ya kahin par bhi rakhi hui hoti hai. Dog ko khaana corner mein dena chahiye, corner mein taaki wo safe feel kare.
Uske saamne visions nahi ho. Idhar-udhar koi jaa nahi raha hai. Jab wo khaana khaa raha hota hai khaaskar Indies aur power breeds ke andar aapko ye food aggression ka bahut zyada milega.
Chhote dogs ko ye bahut zyada milta hai kyunki chhote dogs ko hum bigaad bahut dete hain aur unke munh se snatch bahut zyada karte hain. Lekin aapko sabse zyada issues on an average kahaan dekhne ko milega ye?
Indies ke andar dekhne ko milega plus saath mein power breeds ke andar aapko ye dekhne ko milega ki wo apne khaane ko protect karein.
Jitna dog ek primal hai aur jitni zyada aap feeding mein galtiyaan kar rahe ho utni hi zyada aapko chances hai ki dog ke andar guarding ke instincts trigger ho jaaye aur wo food ko guard karne lag jaaye aapke movements se. So ye common hai.
Log ek toh sabse pehli cheez hai feeding ke jab time wo excitement use karte hain.
Doosra koi structure nahi hota feeding mein. Structure se matlab kya hai? Us structure ke andar bahut saari cheezein aati hain. Khaane ko hamesha zameen mein rakhna, khaane ka timing fix nahi, fix nahi hona aur dog jab khaana maange usko khaana de dena.
So that is the big mistake, that is big mistake jo humans a-is pe karte hain aur hum yahan par unko feeding ritual ka a-poori strategy dete hain ki dog shaant ho uske baad humein unko feed karna hai. Isse kya hoga? Dog ka territorial behavior down jaata hai aur dog ke andar calmness nurture hoti hai.
Dog ke andar confidence nurture hota hai. Okay? Aur dog aapko ek food ke ek rewarding ke source ki tarah dekhta hai na ki ek butler ki tarah. Agar aap usko khaana hamesha zameen par pade rakhoge na usko koi matlab nahi hai ki kaun khaana kahan se aa raha hai.
Usko pata hi nahi chalta. Wo humbleness kho deta hai khaane ki taraf bhi aur aapki taraf bhi. Wo dog fussy eater ho jaata hai. So feeding ritual fussy eater dog ke oopar bhi work karte hain, hyperactive dog ke oopar work karte hain, jo dog react karte hain unke oopar bhi work karta hai.
Again, not in isolation, in combination of saare rituals. But aapko ye samajh mein aa gaya kaun si ritual pe aapko zyada focus karna hai aur human ko zyada understanding deni hai. Food guarding ka issue hai toh aap kya karoge?
Walk, socializing, discipline aur lekin feeding ritual pe aap zyada focus karoge aur walk pe zyada focus karoge. Okay? So feeding ke baare mein samajh mein aaya aap logon ko, walk ke baare mein samajh mein aaya, socializing ke baare mein samajh mein aaya, discipline ke baare mein samajh mein aaya.
Fifth sabse badi mistake affection. Okay? Ye khaaskar kin jagah par humein dekha jaata hai?
Dog ke andar anxiety badhi hui hoti hai. Anxiety kyon badhi hui hoti hai? Human dog ko lagataar haath lagaata rehta hai. Ag-lagataar comfort deta rehta hai. Lagataar godi mein uthaata rehta hai. So dog ki ek habit ban jaati hai ki jab bhi main darta hoon mujhe comfort kahan se milta hai? Human se milta hai.
Toh jab bhi wo human usse door jaata hai uske andar kya, kya aata hai? Anxiety aati hai. Aise dog kya develop karte hain? Separation anxiety because of affection. Dog affection ki v-- not because of lack of exercise. Lack of exercise is also a reason. But affection is also a reason of what? Separation anxiety.
Kyunki dog ki habit ho jaati hai human ka touch hi usko comfort de sakta hai.
Toh yahan par humein unko bataana hota hai ki dog ka, dog ko affection kab dena hai, kaise dena hai, kaun si oorja se dena hai, kaise uthaana hai, kab kyon nahi uthaana hai. Agar dog ke andar separation anxiety humein dikh rahi hai. So we have to focus more on what? This kind of things.
Ki usko affection hamesha humein walk pe focus karna hi hai lekin humein affection ka data bhi gather karna hai. Getting my point? So affection sirf separation anxiety ko nahi badhaata, affection fear ko bhi badhaata. Affection ek aisi cheez hai jo dog ke har ek-- Manya ubaasi mat le.
Jo har ek, jo har ek, jo har ek issue ko increase karta hai. Okay, har ek issue ko increase karta hai. So affection har ek cheez ko nurture karta hai. Okay?
Toh agar aap usko do-- toh hum ye samjhaate kaise separation anxiety hum isse link karte hain affection se ki agar dog ko hum lagataar affection dete hain toh dog comfort hamesha human ke touch se le sakta hai aur human ka touch agar usse door jaayega toh wo kya karega?
Wo howl karega, wo scratch karega, wo ghar mein susu karega. Kya? Usmein separation anxiety aayega. Lekin wo iski wajah se aa raha hai. Hum usse link karte hain taaki human is cheez ko maan sake. Aur jab hum fear ko aur most cases mein jitne bhi fear ke cases mein na aapko ek cheez common milegi. Wo pata hai kya?
Wo ye hai ki dog jab bhi darta hai hum usko pyaar dete hain. Kyunki human ko yahi pata hai. Saamne waala dar raha hai toh humein kya karna hai? Oh baby kya ho gaya? Hum uske saath darne lag jaate hain. Aapne kai baar ye bhi suna hoga ki human ko-- aap dog ko touch mat karo.
Matlab kai baar hum behaviorist ke munh se ye bhi sun lete hain ki dog agar dara hua hai, behaviorist ke munh se sunte hain ki agar dog dara hua hai toh usko touch mat karo. Hai na? Usko, usko haath mat lagaao ya usko ye mat karo. Wo poori sacchai nahi hai.
Aap dog ko touch kar sakte ho lekin not by worriedness, not from that sympathy perspective.
Aap dog ko touch kar sakte ho, apna haath rakh sakte ho, uske oopar aise rakh sakte ho but confidence ke saath ki kya hua? But calmness ke saath ki kya hua? Not arey kya ho gaya baby? Ye matter karta hai dog ke liye. Aap kis tareeqe se haath laga rahe ho.
Toh dog ko aap haath laga sakte ho, usko baitha sakte ho, usko shaant kara sakte ho but aapko apni energy par dhyaan dena ki wo worried mein nahi jaaye. Wo frustration mein nahi jaaye. Hai na? Wo kisi tareeqe se ek sympathy mein nahi jaaye. Wo ek calmness aur confidence se rahe toh aap dog ko haath laga sakte ho.
Toh affection bhi ek bahut badi mistake hai jo dog ko galat tareeqe ke behaviors nurture karti hai. Toh affection dog ka barking behavior increase karti hai, dog ka jumping behavior increase karti hai, anxiety behavior increase karti hai, territorial behavior increase karti hai, hyperactivity increase karti hai.
Affection jahan jaata hai wo cheez increase ho jaata hai. Okay? Toh ye humein unko bataana hota hai ki is time par aap, bahut se log kya karte hain dog growl kar raha hota hai, bark kar raha hota hai, usse pyaar se baat kar rahe hote hain, affection de rahe hote hain. But wo solve kuch nahi karta.
Wo aur badha raha hota hai. Wahi same cheez hai jab hum usko khaana de dete hain toh dog ko kya lag raha hai ki main bark karoonga toh next time mujhe matlab bark karne ki zaroorat nahi hai. Wo toh ye samjhega na ki main bark karoonga toh mujhe treat milti hai.
So that's the thing affection is the aur last cheez rituals of dogs mein hai wo play. Okay, wo play. Agar aap ek cheez common dekhoge in poori ki poori rituals mein toh sab rituals mein ek structure hai.
Okay, ek sab rituals mein wo bhale hi walk ho, wo bhale hi discipline ho, bhale hi socializing ho, bhale hi wo affection ho, un sab mein ek structure hai ki is tareeqe se behave karna hota hai.
Toh humein wo, wo human ko sikhaana hota hai ki ek structure hai taaki usko understanding ke liye easy ho. Jo aakhiri mistake karte hain wo log like bahut saari rituals hain, jo bahut saari primal rituals bhi hai. Like mating ritual hai, hunting ritual hai ya abhi mating ritual aaya.
Hai na, jaise mating ritual hai, hunting ritual hai lekin wo aa-- wo gharon mein iske oopar nahi baat hoti hai. Hai na? Matlab wo like wo behavior se linked nahi hai poori ki poori. Mating ritual, hum mating ritual ke baare mein bataate hain lekin usmein kuch kar nahi sakte, un sab cheezon ke baare mein.
Hum hunting ritual ke baare mein bata sakte hain unko. Jab maa bacche deti hai toh poori ki poori ek ritual hoti hai. Wo kaise un dogs ka apna tradition hai, apna culture hai. Hai na?
Agar hum unko dhyaan se observe karenge na aur unke nature mein unko dekhenge na wo ek taur se kaise behave karte hain, bacche kaise hote hain, bacchon ki parwarish kaisi hoti hai.
wo poora ek culture hai unka, poora tradition hai ki bachche aaj yahan hue, wo yahan pade hue hain. Agar wo is tareeqe se bade ho rahe hain, itna time ho gaya toh unko yahan se utha ke kahin aur lekar jaana hai aur us, uske beech mein pack unke paas nahin aana chahiye. Toh there are all rules.
So there are different rituals. Lekin jo gharon ke issues aate hain wo in chhah rituals par hi based hain. Okay? Aur bahut rare aapko milega ki baaki inko mating image se frustration aa raha hai. Usmein bhi wo territorial behavior, usmein bhi walk aur ye sab cheezein kaam karti hai.
Jo aakhiri mistake bata raha hoon wo hai play ritual ke saath. So play ritual mein jitne bhi log play karte hain, wo just play karte hain, usmein koi structure nahin hota. Play is also an impulse. Lekin agar aap unke ne-nature mein agar dog ko dekhoge na, unke play mein structure hota hai.
Ek banda hota hai matlab ek dog hota hai jo saara kuch drive kar raha hota hai. Wo apni marzi par play trigger karta hai aur apni marzi par play ko shaant bhi kar deta hai, growl karke, ye sab karke. Ye unke nature ka hai. Lekin human aisa nahin karta.
Lekin agar humein dog se behave karna hai, dog ke tradition ko samajhna hai, dog ka, se communicate karna hai toh unke nature ko mimic bhi karna hoga aur wo hai play ritual. So hum dog ko play ritual mein kya hota hai? Hum daily basis par dog ko ek impulse par lekar jaate hain.
Wo impulse ka threshold kaun decide karta hai? Hum decide karte hain hamari convenience ke hisaab se. Yahan par convenience matter karti hai. Aapki skill matter karti hai ki aapke liye kaun sa impulse hai. Toh aap usko ek impulse par lekar jaate ho aur us impulse par le jaane ke baad aap calmness sikhaate ho.
Okay? Aur ye daily basis par karte ho. Now aapko jitni understanding aayi hai abhi dog ko lekar, aap samajh sakte ho na ki agar hum daily basis par dog ko ek impulse par lekar jaenge aur usko phir confident par lekar jaenge toh over a period time kya hoga?
Uska kitna, hamara uske upar kitna control ho jaega uske impulse ke upar. Toh agar aap daily basis par ye cheez practice karoge toh jitne bhi impulse waale dogs hote hain jo turant idhar-udhar cheezein pakad lete hain, sunte nahin hai, gleary ko pakad ke, gleary ko dekh ke bhaagte hain, isko dekh kar bhaagte hain.
Agar unke saath aap ye practice karte ho daily basis par impulse control waala play yaani aap usko ek impulse par lekar gaye, ek high threshold par lekar gaye aur wahan par usko shaant kiya toh dog ke andar kya seekhta hai dog?
Ki ye human mera impulse control kar sakta hai aur main khud bhi apne impulse control kar sakta hoon.
Toh jitne bhi reactivity waali cheezein hoti hain ya jitne bhi lack of play ki wajah se issue hota hai, a, dog ke mind mein, human ke mind mein play circuit hai. Play circuit ka matlab hai wo, wo fulfill hota hai only through play, only through play. So agar play nahin milega, wo fulfill nahin hoga.
Wo fulfill nahin hoga toh frustration aaega. Toh sirf, sirf play impulse mein kaam nahin karta, frustration mein bhi kaam karta hai. Toh jitni bhi saari ki saari rituals hain aap isko kisi bhi case mein laga sakte ho aur aapko 90 se 95% success milega without any understanding. Okay?
Jitni zyaada aapki understanding hogi instinctually dog ke liye utna hi percentage increase hone lag jaega. Lekin aapko success 100% milegi. Okay. Kitna success milega wo matter karta hai.
Like aapki-- aap kitna achchhi tareeqe se yeh jo cheez hai aap transfer kar paate ho.
Toh isliye is cheez ke upar Rituals of Dogs ke upar humko baar-baar baat karna, baar-baar samajhna aur baar-baar case ke lens se ki ye case hai aur is par Rituals of Dogs kaise implement ho sakti hai aur kaise is par madad kar-kar sakti hai, wo aapko bahut zyaada help karegi. Okay.
So this is the rituals jo maine PDF bhi share kari hai, maine blog post bhi kiya hai. Maine iske baare mein course bhi banaya hai aur isko bahut logon par bahut dogs ke upar implement bhi kiya hai 100% success rate ke saath. By 100% success main yeh nahin bol raha ki dog ka poora behavior change ho gaya.
Main 100% success yeh bol raha hoon ki dog mein major changes the. Main wo 100% success bol raha hoon. Ki hum major changes implement karne mein, major changes dekhne mein hum successful hue.
Okay. Yeh meri success ki definition hai ki there was a major changes shift in the behavior. Not ki dog completely ek machine ban gaya ki jo usko bolo wahin baithega. Not like that. 100% success ka mera matlab hai there was a major shift in the behavior of the dog. Major shift. Okay.
Aur yeh unhi logon ke saath hua jinhonne implement kiya. Jaise-jaise unhonne implementation band kar diya, dog ka behavior waapas degrade hona chaalu ho gaya. Ekdam khatam nahin hua, degrade hona chaalu hua. Aur jaise hi waapas se badhaaya, waapas se theek hone lag gaya. So that was the common thing.
Kyunki human jaise hi dog achchha behavior dikhaane lag jaata hai, wo lenient ho jaate hain. Not towards dog, towards that structure. Okay. Us samay wo lenient ho jaate hain. Isliye humein continuously unke saath rehna hota hai aur unko follow-up karna hota hai.
A-agar as a professional aap aage badhna chaahte ho, so follow-- aapke professional, aap as a professional agar aage badhna chaahte ho, toh aapki success rate bahut zyaada matter karti hai na cases ki. Hai na? Aur cases ki success rate kab, success rate kaun decide karega?
Aapki skill toh decide karegi sahi, human ki consistency bhi decide karegi na. Human kitna consistent hai. Aur human consistent kab hota hai? Jab accountability hoti hai, jab follow-up hota hai. Toh wo accountability aur follow-up kiska kaam hoga? Wo aapka kaam hoga.
Agar aap accountable nahin rakh rahe aur isi cheez ka paisa hai. Okay. Isi cheez ka aap paisa charge karte hain. Ki agar aap saam-- sirf saamne se sikhaate nahin ho, aapko yeh cheez bhi apne offer mein, apne paise mein karna hoga. Apni services mein add karna hoga. It is not ki aap jaakar unko sikhaaein.
No. Accountability and follow-up is a part of that. Your package, your offer, your service. Wi-without that human will not be consistent. That is 100%. Okay. Human will not be consistent. So agar aapko human ko consistent rakhna hai, you have to follow up with them. Toh ek, ek schedule banana hota hai humko.
Jaise hamare clients hamare paas aaye, toh humein schedule banana hota hai. Ek tareeqe se humein poora end to end unka stages banaani hoti hai. Yeh human abhi is stage par hai aur ab human is stage par hai, toh is stage ki SOP kya hai? Is stage ki accountability hai, follow-up hai. Accountability kab hai?
Har doosre din, har teesre din, mahine mein ek baar, hafte mein ek baar. So you have to decide, then you have to do that thing. So tab jaakar you will get a huge amazing response from clients.
Aapki mouth publicity bhi hoti hai aur aapki success rate increase ho jaati hai. So yeh ek din ka kaam nahi hai. Saal bhar mein, do saal mein aapka itna bada network ho jaata hai ki aap sirf ek behaviorist nahi rehte. Aap phir uske baad kuch bhi kar sakte ho because you have that network.
See, for example aapko batata hoon ki kitna a-dog ka field kaisa field hai. Okay. Aap ek location par rehte ho. Okay. Us location par bahut saare dogs hain aur wo continuous basis par badhte jayenge. Continuous basis par right now boom nahi aaya hai dog industry mein. Right now boom nahi aaya hai.
Lekin hum boom dekh rahe hain. Log boom ki baat karte hain ki sab log. Yeh boom nahi hai. Boom aayega. Okay. Yeh boom aayega aur aap yeh dekhoge ki aaspaas sa-- aur yeh, yeh location based service hai.
Yeh all is-- yeh ja-log zyada prefer karenge location based service par. Location based ki aap jaakar in person wo kar sako. For example, aap in person apna network bana liye. You get 100 dog parents. Aapke paas 100 dog parent aa gaye. Okay.
100 dog parents aane ke baad aap ek boarding center, ek grooming center khol sakte ho. And aapke paas already clients honge. Wo dog, wo log dog kahan dekar jayenge? Jo aapke, aapke network mein. Wo log kahan dog dekar jayenge jo abhi jinhone puppy li hai aur shuruat se aap unke saath ho har ek stage par.
So main aapko business ki baat bataun, ek lifetime value hota hai. Matlab ek, ek cheez lifetime value hoti hai. For example, agar ek dog humare paas aakar reh raha hai, ek boarding center par reh raha hai. Aur wo saal mein kitni, kitne din rehta hoga?
On an average. 20, 25 toh bahut kam ho gaya. Agar aap khud bhi apne gharon mein dekho toh aap kitne saal mein kitni baar lekar chalte ho. Agar hum 20, 25 yeh bhi, yeh bhi, yeh bhi dekhein toh it's like ki aapke paas hamesha clients honge apne boarding center ke liye, apne next uske liye.
So first hum ek network create karte hain. Bhale wo ek animal therapy se network create kar rahe ho, bhale hum ek behaviorist se network kar lein, lekin yeh first stage hai. It is not the only stage. Okay. Toh hum because ismein scaling ka issue aata hai. Scaling ka issues, scaling ka issue kaun se bol raha hoon?
Ismein hamesha skill chahiye hogi. So aap-- bhai barking aa rahi hai kya aap logon ko? Nahi? Theek hai then. So ismein scale-- is business mein scaling ka issue aata hai.
Matlab aap hamesha itni hi dogs ko cater kar sakte ho. Matlab aapke paas hamesha itna hi time aayega. Toh aapke paas multiple services honi chahiye dene ke liye, taaki ek client multiple services se go through ho sake. Getting my point? So aap behaviorist ki cheez de rahe ho. Behaviorist ki cheez se kya ho raha hai?
Aapka network ban raha hai. Lekin aap phir kya ho rahe ho? Ek next stage par ja rahe ho. Maybe wo grooming ho sakta hai. Maybe wo different sessions ho sakte hain. Maybe wo boarding ho sakta hai. But you always will have a network of clients. Okay. Wo ek se do saal mein banta hai.
Hundred clients, dedh sau clients you will get in-- barking aa rahi hai? barking ho rahi hai mere ghar kaafi. Just a second, haan. Tapti aaja, aaja. Aaja. Bas idhar aao. Haan. So getting the point kaise yeh field work kar raha hai.
Okay, so you just have to focus on like 100 clients hum lekar aayein aur unko zabardast service dein. Ek se do saal mein. Ek se do saal mein hum yeh zabardast service dein then you can open any next service. Wo grooming ho sakti hai, wo dog boarding ho sakti hai and you will be sure ki aapke paas hamesha clients honge.
So that will be like phir aap uske upar aur increase kar sakte ho aur increase kar sakte ho. But start from there ki hum is network aur network kaise banega humara yeh wala service de ke. Aur service hum kaise denge? Aap dog behaviors ki service de sakte ho aur rituals of dogs ki service de sakte ho.
You will always have something ki kya dog ke upar implement karna that is why rituals of dog ko understand karna aur usko implement karna it's like aap logon ke liye bahut important cheez hai is cheez ko samajhna.
Got it? That's it guys. Yeh itna hi tha. Ek minute yaar. Just a one minute. Oye! Yes so yeah so that is all rituals of dogs kya hai aur I hope ki aapko iski importance samajh mein aaye.
So kaafi consultations lene ke baad aur kaafi brainstorming ke baad mere ko yeh cheez samajh mein aayi ki kaise hum logon tak simple tareeqe se yeh pahuncha sakein ki wo apne dog ko calm rakhein, wo confident rakhein aur jitne professionals hain unko ek framework de sakein taaki wo jahan rehte hain wahan par apne dog ke saath, doosre dogs ke saath wo work kar sakein in a simple way.
Matlab aapko kabhi bhi sochne-- so yeh skill hum jaldi transfer kar sakte hain na phir humare paas ek framework hoti hai toh. Main abhi aapko sikhaun dog kaise dimaag kaam karta hai, kya karta hai lekin aapke dimaag mein phir bhi aayega lekin karna kya hai? Matlab dog ke saath hum karein kya? Kahan se start karein?
Kaise start karein? So wahan rituals of dogs kaam aata hai. Okay? So as a professional jo bhi log ismein aage apna career dekh rahe hain there will be boom.
Ab log abhi boom bolte hain. Agar aap dekho kitne bhi bade players Reliance kyon aa raha hai is field mein? Matlab they are business people na. Reliance kyon aa raha hai is field mein? Unhone kyon nikala dogs ke food ko nikaal rahe hain. Bade-bade players kyon aa rahe hain iske andar?
Invest kyon kar rahe hain pedigree ke andar? Pedigree, Royal Canin jitne bhi aapko ye package milte hain na unki parent company same hai. It's not a different company. Unki parent company, unki parent investor same hai sabke. Why? Why it is happening?
Because there is a trend coming up and a huge trend in India jismein dogs aur yeh sab cheezein bahut aage jitni bhi nayi generation aa rahi hai wo dogs ki taraf ja rahi hai. Matlab unko dogs chahiye, unko pets chahiye, unko animals chahiye apne saath. So main business perspective se baat kar raha hoon.
We love dogs, we care for dogs aur jitne bhi log dog ko care karte hain, love karte hain wo toh is field mein business karne hi chahiye. Because agar aap abhi dekhoge toh service ek achhi service ki bahut zyada kami hai. You can see that apne around, hai na.
You can see that log pay karne ke liye ready hain but phir bhi service ki issue hai. Service ka issue hai. Knowledge ka issue hai jo is field mein hai. Unke paas knowledge nahi hai dog behavior ka, dog psychology ka jo already field mein hai. Unko knowledge nahi hai but they are in field already.
Unki already boarding centers hai, unki already training centers hai. Okay? Aur wo ho sakta hai poori tarike se pyaar bhi nahi karte ho dog ko completely business perspective hai unka. So hum dog se jude hain lekin hamara pehla maksad business nahi tha.
Hamara pehla maksad pyaar tha ki hum pyaar ki wajah se jude unse. Hum curiosity ki wajah se jude uske andar. Lekin hum sirf wahin kyon ruke? Hum sirf wahin kyon ruke? Hum aage kyon nahi badhe? Hum is field mein business ki tarah kyon nahi ghuse? Taaki ek caring environment ban sake na dogs ke liye.
Dogs ko hum jahan boarding center mein dekar aate hain hume, hume khud ko pata hai ki boarding centers ki haalat kya hui hai. Maximum boarding centers ki haalat kya hui hui hai. Maximum grooming centers ki haalat kya hui hui hai. So maximum trainings kaise di jaati hain?
Kitne cheezein hum sunte hain ki paise le liye kuch nahi hua. Training ke startups aa rahe hain jinko dog ke baare mein kuch nahi pata.
They are MBAs and wo training ke startups khol rahe hain just because ki wo sab trainers ko aggregate kar sakte hain aur logon ko ek form de sakte hain bharne ke liye aur phir jaakar bhai trainer jaaye.
Wo trainer ka selection kaun kar raha hai? Trainer selection kaun kar raha hai? So dog walkers trainers ban rahe hain.
Trainers ki tarah wahan par ja rahe hain aur phir gharon mein ja rahe hain aur "Hi baby, hello baby" kar rahe hain aur dog ka satyanaash kar rahe hain aur human apne paise ka satyanaash kar rahe hain aur dog trainers ka naam kharaab ho raha hai. Dog behaviors ka naam kharaab ho raha hai.
Toh that can be changed aur that can be improved aur usko kaun improve karega? Jo dog se pyaar karte hain wo improve karega. Jisko dog ke-- dog se pyaar karna hai, jisko business karna hai wo improve karega. Aur kaun service mein aayega is cheez mein?
Jisme jisko-- jo dog se pyaar karta hai usko business nahi karna wo nahi aayega. Wo service mein service dene nahi aayega. Sirf dog se pyaar karna zaroori nahi hai. Isme aapko business karne ka ichha bhi hona zyada zaroori hai. Kya isme business karna chahte ho kya is cheez ke upar?
Is cheez mein professionally aage badhna chahte ho kya? Toh hume phir vision lekar aana tha. Vision sirf ek mahina, do mahine nahi hota aur yeh sabse badi problem hoti hai. Mere saath bhi yeh problem thi ki mere visions like do mahina, teen mahine ka apan soch ke chalte hain, nahi aisa nahi hota.
Cheezon mein time lagta hai. Har ek cheez mein time lagta hai. Kuch jo bhi cheez matter karti hai na, jo bhi cheez achhi hai na usme time lagta hi lagta hai. You have to give your energy otherwise aapko, aapke paas ekdam bhagwan jitni energy hogi ek pal bhar mein sab cheez ko achha kar do. Wo toh hai nahi na.
Hum toh insaan hain. So we have to give energy. Wo energy mein time lagta hai dene mein. Energy ka matlab hai hamara dhyaan, hamari aatma, hamara, hamari aankhein, hamare kaan, hamara samay us cheez ke upar jaaye. Kitna hum, kitna hum us cheez ke upar de rahe hain. So it will take time.
Agar aap do mahine, teen mahine kar rahe ho aur aapko bol rahe ho ki results nahi aa rahe that is not enough.
Okay. Yes, Aashika ji please jaaiye. Yeah so, so that's wo enough nahi hai toh hume toh ek se do saal hume samajh ke chalna hota hai aur sabse zyada zaroori hota hai experience not money shuruat mein aap sab logon ke liye experience. How to gain experience. Money ko side mein rakhne ka shuruat mein.
How to gain experience for example, boarding center mein volunteer kar sakte hain kya? Sabse zyada experience aapko kahan mil sakta hai boarding center mein volunteer. Not, not shelters. Right now aap logon ke liye shelters achha nahi hai. Dog ko zaroor madad hogi lekin aap logon ke liye shelters achha nahi hai.
Wahan par too much trauma hai that will be too much for you guys. Aap completely bhatak jaaoge. Zindagi mein pareshaan ho jaaoge. You are not like aap wo aapka main wo nahi hai na. So shelters mat try karna volunteer ke liye. Try kya karoge boarding centers mein tum try wo kar sakte ho kya?
Agar aap apne aap ko hold kar sakte ho shelter mein jaana go try it. Yeah Tavisha ji hum like wo opportunity nahi mil rahi hai hum toh hume apni approach change karni padegi. Hai na for example, agar aap jaise Pune mein hi ho.
Agar aap Pune mein hi ho aur aap wahan jaakar bologe ki bhai hum, humne yeh course kiya hai aur hum yeh course kar rahe hain toh hume yeh hume aapke andar volunteer karna hai aur hum ya hum Sunny Luthra ke andar yeh kar rahe hain toh aapko volunteering ka nahi milega. Aapko volunteer karne ka nahi milega.
Matlab obviously they will try to sell their own, own courses. Wo phir wo phir kyon volunteer karenge? Aur phir unko samajh mein aayega kisi, kisi ke under kaam karke aao toh aap kya khufiya jaasoos toh nahi ho. Matlab business mein hi hota hai. This is common thing matlab business mein hi hota hai.
Agar aap kisi aur ke under wo karoge toh bhai aapne nahi bola hoga that is, that is okay. But just main aapko bata raha hoon ki kya-kya cheezein hum galti kar sakte hain jab hum volunteer ke liye jaate hain. Toh hum volunteer ke liye kisi ke bhi hum yeh nahi bolenge I love your dogs.
Hum kya bolenge maine aapka Instagram par page dekha you do such an amazing job. Main kya aapse kabhi aakar mil sakti hoon kya? You, you seems like a such a nice human. You go there. Main kabhi aapse aakar mil sakti hoon kya? Mere paas bhi ek dog hai. Main wahan par aakar rakh sakti hoon kya?
You go there, you check their facility, make some connection with them. Not directly say ki mujhe volunteer karna hai. Make some connection, make some personal connection. Jaakar unki tareef karo, unki uski tareef karo. Matlab not, not from fake perspective but that's how human mind work. How you connect with them na.
Toh not from fake perspective.
Go seriously find something good about them. Not fake perspective. Find something good about them. Aur there are many things which are good about people. Unki jagah se lekar bahut good hai. Aisa nahi hai. You will find it easily. So but first make connection.
Jab hum dog se kuch expect karte hain toh hum sabse pehle connection banate hain na. Usi tarike se agar unse kuch expect kar rahe hain toh hum sabse pehle connection banate hain. Aapko wahan connection banane ki zaroorat nahi hai jahan par volunteering ka program hai.
Wahan par bhi agar aap connection banaoge toh aapke chances increase ho jaayenge volunteer mein select hone ke. Getting a point? Toh hum connection kaise banate hain ek tarike se like human baat karna chahta hai ek doosre ko aur apni baat sunaana chahta hai. We will go hear them.
We will go unki genuinely hum tareef karenge not a fake perspective.
Okay genuine tareef karenge aur genuine hum unse connect honge. Then you will get a aapko opportunity increase ho sakti hai. Okay woh volunteer milne ki. Agar hum direct jaakar bolenge ki I love dogs and I want to volunteer most of the times they will say no. Okay they will say no.
Toh kyunki dekho saamne kya hota hai aur andar peeche kya hota hai usmein bahut zyada difference hota hai. Toh saamne woh present kar sakte hain ki saamne sab cheez achhi chal rahi hai lekin peeche ho sakta hai unke shelter mein problem ho, unke yeh ho, unki bahut saari dikkatein ho.
So that's woh unko dikkat hoga ki aapko volunteer dene ke liye. So find a good place aur wahan par jaakar jo unka owner hai, jo unka woh hai unse humein pehle woh banani padti hai, repo banana padta hai and then uske baad hum enter hote hain. Directly nahi ho sakte. Okay directly nahi hoga.
Directly wahin ho sakta hai jahan par volunteering ka program hai. Toh India mein bhi volunteering ka program nahi hai. Agar baahar jaaoge toh wahan volunteering ka program hai. Okay so that's it guys. Yeh Rituals of Dogs ka itna hi hai aap logon ke liye.
But aap is cheez ko samjhoge plus experience loge aur plus human ka bhi experience loge. So dog behavior is not just about dog psychology it is about psychology. Hai na usmein human psychology bhi see, see matlab psychology ki curiosity hai ki aakhir mein dimaag kaam kaise karta hai.
So woh aapka sirf dog se limit nahi hota ki mujhe dog ka dimaag, mujhe dimaag kaam kaise karta hai, mind kaise work karta hai, inki psychology kaise kaam karti hai. Aur ab aap ek cheez, ek cheez ek bahut hi major finding mujhe samajh mein aayi dog aur human completely same hai. Sirf ek cheez ko chhod ke.
Dog ka mind aur human mind completely ek poora same hai sirf ek cheez ko chhod ke aur woh hai ki dog present mein rehte hain aur insaan monkeys ki tarah uchhalte rehte hain.
Past aur past aur future mein that is the difference. Yeh sabse major difference hai. Matlab obviously humare paas ek conscious brain hai. Humare paas ek arey frontal lobe ko kya bolte hain? Frontal lobe. Frontal lobe matlab nahi usko C se waise conscious brain hi bolte hain.
Humare paas frontal lobe hai jo human jo dogs ke paas nahi hai. Like woh filter out karne ka logical brain filter out karne ka ki yeh sahi hai ki galat hai. Woh hum filter out kar sakte hain. Dogs nahi, dogs instincts ke base hote hain.
Yeh toh, yeh toh difference hai hi sahi lekin yeh sabse bada difference hai ki bhai hum koodte rehte hain idhar-udhar aur dog present mein rehte hain. Lekin emotion perspective se aapko bahut cheezein common mil jaayegi. That is why dogs mirror bhi ho jaate hain human ke emotional perspective se. Kyun?
Woh emotions ko carry kar lete hain, emotions ko copy kar lete hain. Okay. So ab hum yahan par case run nahi karenge.
Hum yahan par kya, kya cheez run karenge? Jo bhi aapki understanding hai, okay, jo bhi aapki understanding hai you will create an imaginary case. Okay. Ek imaginary case create karoge apne dimaag mein. Kya case create karoge?
Kuchh bhi imaginary, dog ke andar yeh issue hai and then us issue ke upar rituals of dogs implement karoge ki mere paas yeh case aaya jo dog aisa behave kar raha hai, aisa behave kar raha hai, aisa behave kar raha hai aur aisa behave kar raha hai. Okay. Toh yeh pehli cheez kya hogi? Yeh aisa behave kar kyun raha hai?
Human ne kya-kya mistake kari hogi aur kya-kya iski needs poori nahi ho rahi. First thing tum yeh cheez nikaaloge. Doosri cheez ab humein karna kya hai? Human ko sikhaana kya hai? Wahan rituals of dogs kaam aayegi.
Pehli cheez kya, kya help karegi aapko human ko se connect hone ke liye ki yeh bachpan mein aisa karta tha toh aap aise karte the kya?
Woh human bolega, "Haan." Isse kya hoga? Humari authority aati hai. Arey yaar, isko kaise pata? Yaani isko dog behavior ke baare mein pata hai. Yaani reverse engineer karna humare liye bahut zyada zaroori hota hai authority set karne ke liye. Kai baar main reverse engineer karta hoon.
Reverse, yaar main engineer hoon toh main reverse engineer term use karta hoon. Reverse engineer ka matlab like yeh cheez hai ki yeh case astitva mein aaya kaise? Matlab yeh issue astitva mein aaya kaise? Reality mein aaya kaise? Dog ke andar yeh issue create kaise hua? Toh usko reverse engineer bolte hain.
Reverse engineer yeh hai humne algorithm banayi, lekin yeh algorithm banayi kaise? Usko reverse engineering bolte hain. Okay. So dog ke case mein reverse engineer karna zaroori hota hai. Kyun? Woh aapki authority set hoti hai.
Jab main kisi bhi case ko reverse engineer karta hoon bina input liye ek authority set karti hai na aap logon ke dimaag mein ki I know behavior.
Isko kaise pata chal gaya yeh cheez? Isne kaise yeh figure out kar liya yeh, yeh cheez? Usko reverse engineer bolte hain. Iska matlab kya? Maine apne dimaag mein multiple cases run karein. Thousands of cases dimaag mein run karein ki yeh issue aaya kaise? Kya gadbad hui hogi?
So mere dimaag mein woh puppy paida hota hai aur phir uske baad kya-kya hua hoga aur kahan-kahan mistake ho sakti hai jisse woh is jagah par pahuncha. Okay, is jagah par pahuncha. Dogs and humans ke saath woh same hai. Okay.
Dogs ke andar jo behavioral issues aate hain anxiety ke, frustration ke, attacking ke, aggression ke, impulse ke control ke, us cheez ke human ke andar same hai. Okay.
So human ke andar jo behavior ke issues hote hain woh bhi aap link kar sakte ho unke parents ki usse ki uske environment mein kya-kya hua hoga jiski wajah se yeh aisa hai.
Toh phir hum personal hona band kar dete hain ki iski dikkat nahi hai yaar. Woh environment ki wajah se iske behavior mein aisa shape hua aur hum khud, khud ki taraf bhi phir aise hone lag jaate hain ki yaar environment ki wajah se mere andar yeh behavior aaya. I can change it. Okay.
You will learn all this thing along the way. So apne dimaag mein case banao. Usko reverse engineer karo aur reverse engineer ka matlab samajh mein aaya na? Kya matlab hai na? Common term ho gayi mere khayal se. So reverse engineer ko, usko reverse engineer karo and then uske baad rituals of dogs ko implement karo.
It will give you more understanding of this whole topic. Okay. So do this. Apne dimaag mein rakhna, koi case banana. Yaar dog mein yeh issue, bhale hi tumne kahin internet par suna ho, kuchh bhi suna ho, kaise bhi suna ho. Aapne, bhale tumhara hi dog ho, kuchh bhi, kaisa bhi ho, apne dimaag mein woh lekar aana.
Us dimaag, usko ek issues banana. Aapne dimaag mein dekho woh bark kar raha hai, hyper activated hai.
Just visualize it apne dimaag mein and socho woh us jagah tak pahuncha kaise. Aur humara kya rahega? Koi bhi dog aggressive paida nahi hota. Okay. Lekin jaise hi woh insaan ke saath rehne lag jaata hai, uske andar behavioral issues aane lag jaate hain, uske aane, aane lag jaate hain. Okay.
Yeh humara prism rahega aur uske through hum poora reverse engineer karenge. Got it? Okay. Do it and please share on, jab bhi ready ho bas but please share on the group taaki main usko read kar sakoon. Okay. Taaki hum uske upar baat kar sakein aur aapko more understanding aa sake.
Aur jitne bhi log is professionally is field mein aa rahe hain be ready aur start working on your Instagram profiles. Via Instagram profiles you will require attention. Okay. Attention of people. Otherwise how people will know ki you provide this service?
There is no way. Aapke paas ek bahut badhiya product hai, lekin aapne badhiya registan mein dukaan kholi. Ab kya karoge? Registan mein dukaan kholne ka matlab hai koi aapke baare mein nahi jaanta. Theek hai. Koi aapke baare mein nahi jaanta. Kitna bhi badhiya product ho, usi ke saath mar jaaoge.
Kahin, kahin koi use nahi kar paayega. Lekin agar aapke paas ek ghatiya product hai lekin aur aapne ek bahut hi badhiya market mein kholi hai, chances hai na us product ke bikne ke. So aapke paas achha, achha product banao aur achhe market mein dukaan kholo. Okay. Wo achha market kya hai abhi? Instagram.
Kal kuch aur ho sakta hai. Okay. Kabhi kuch aur ho sakta hai. Lekin Instagram kya hai? Ek marketplace ki tarah usko dekho, jahan par humein jaakar apna bolna padta hai, "bhai sahab, bhai sahab" matlab kind of thing. Aise mat socho bhai sahab, lekin apne baare mein bataana hota hai.
Apne attention leni hoti hai logon ki. Okay. Attention game hai. Jitna logon ka aap attention loge, utne aapka client base increase hoga. For example, main Instagram par nahi aata, aap log is class mein hote? Nahi hote. Nahi hote. So real example hai na aap logon ke saamne. Why you are, you all are here?
Why you all know me? Main, mere paas bahut knowledge hoti dog ke baare mein, lekin main aise hi mar jaata, bina kisi ko diye. Kyun? Kyunki main kahunga, "Kaun Instagram par jaaye yaar. Yaar mere se nahi hoga yaar Instagram par. Are yaar video kaun banaaye yaar.
Mere ko show off nahi karna hai yaar." All apna procrastination ke, dimaag ke bhasaad. Hai na? Hamaari khud ki phat rahi hai aur hum kya bolte hain? "Are Instagram par toh log show off karne jaate hain." Hai na, hum ye sab cheezein bol rahe hain. Are hum Instagram waale thode hain, hum toh real log hain.
Aapne, aapne procrastination nahi rakhna aur bahut truthful hona apne aap ko.
so apne dimaag mein ye rakhna agar is field mein jaana hai you will need attention. Aur right now attention aap kaise le sakte ho? Instagram ke through. Why not YouTube? YouTube is hard. Okay? Instagram is easy. That's why. this why Instagram and YouTube do, do cheezein hain jahaan se aap attention le sakte ho. Okay?
Toh Instagram ke through aap le sakte ho toh start with Instagram aur wahaan se aap aage badh sakte ho. Lekin Instagram ki profile apni ready karo aur usko ek business ki tarah dekho not casually. Usko ek business ki tarah dekho. Okay?
Toh usko business ki tarah dekhoge, Instagram par apni profile banaaoge, attention loge your client base will increase. Par ye kab chaalu karoge? Start for today. Today kaise start karte hain apan? Aaj kaise start kar sakte hain?
Jo bhi cheez aapne aaj seekhi try to articulate that thing koi bhi topic try to articulate that thing within 90 seconds.
Yeh aapko ek nayi skill dega. See, energy sabse, sabse zyaada matter karti hai. Agar aap same cheez ko main aapko samjha sakoon ek chhoti si line mein ya phir ek essay mein kya sahi rahega? Ek chhoti si line mein aapko koi cheez samjha sakoon. Ab main uski bhalta idhar-udhar articulate baatein karoon.
Lekin agar aapko chhoti cheez se samajh aa jaaye toh wo better hai na. so humein articulate karna seekhna zaroori hota hai ki hum kaise apni cheezon ko articulate kar sakein. Toh sabse badi power jo insaan aaj ke time par gain kar sakta hai wo yeh hai ki sochna kya-- apne aap ko train karna ki sochna kaise hai?
Jo main soch raha hoon usko bolna kaise hai? Aur jo main bol raha hoon usko likhna kaise hai? Okay? so this you can-- toh abhi jaise aapne is class mein jo bhi cheez seekhi, ek topic utha sakte ho, soch sakte ho ki main usko 90 minute mein kaise bataaoon, 90 seconds mein kaise bataaoon.
And you just can record and bolo usko ki aap 90 seconds mein is topic ke baare mein bata rahe ho. Toh jab hum bolna chaalu karte hain toh hum wo kaise, kaise, kaise start karte hain? Directly start nahi karte. Hum ek topic choose karenge sirf one. Hum kya-kya choose kar sak-sakte hain?
Hum kaise start kar sakte hain apni ye waali journey? Aap teen topic choose kar sakte ho koi bhi shuruat mein. Three topic choose kara. Usme se aap ek topic choose karoge jismein aapko lagta hai ki main iske baare mein zyaada confident hoon, zyaada bolna chaahti hoon, zyaada bolna chaahta hoon.
Us ek topic ko aapne choose kar liya. Uske baad aapka kaam hoga ki aap shuruat kaise karoge aur ant kaise karoge. Ye figure out karna. Getting my point? Aap shuruat, aap shuruat karoge, shuruat kaise karoge? For example aapko bolna hai dog ke uh, frustration ke baare mein.
so dog ke frustra-- so dogs aap usko kaise bologe ki mujhe isko shuruat-- maine topic choose kar liya what frustration in dogs.
Ab aap isko kaise bologe? Framework hai. Again framework hai. Pehli framework hai isko bolte hain hook. Jo hum pehle cheez bolte hain hook. Uske baad aata hai content. Okay? Uske baad aata hai outro ya CTA jo bhi ho. CTA ka matlab hota hai call to action. Kuch bhi call to act aap karne ko bol sakte ho.
so hook is like dog-- insaan ko apni taraf kheanchna hook karna. hook kaise karenge hum frustration ke topic ke upar? Kya aapko pata hai dog frustrate hote hain? Aapko ho-- aap logon ko hook kiya maine ye bolkar ki kya aapko pata hai dog frustrate hote hain? Okay? Ab aapne ye hook kar liya. Iske baad kya aata hai?
Content. Ab content aap simple kya kar sakte ho? Usmein aap teen cheez bataane ki koshish karte ho. Jab hum dog ko theek se walk nahi dete ya unke feeding ka hum timing fix nahi karte aur hum unke saath enough play nahi karte toh dog ke andar frustration aa jaati hai.
Aane waali reels mein main inke baare mein aur zyaada explain karoonga toh follow karna nahi bhooliyega. Matlab aap beech mein aur bhi content daal sakte ho but this is an idea. Okay? Ye ek idea hai. so hum is cheez ko jab aap, aapke mein kya hoga? Kya bol sakte ho?
Kya aapko pata hai dog frustrate hota hai aur aaj ki class mein main jab dog psychology seekh rahi thi ya dog psychology seekh raha tha toh mujhe yeh learn hua aur main amazed ho gayi yeh learn karke ki dog ke andar bhi aise frustration ke emotions aate hain aur yeh bhi aapne apne dog ke andar dekha hoga ki kabhi wo cheezein phaad deta hai, kabhi bahut zyaada howl karta hai, kabhi aapke upar chadh ke aapke haath ko pakad raha hai.
Ye sab signs ho sak, ho sakte hain ki dog ke andar frustration build ho rahi hai. Agar aapko jaanna hai apne dog ke baare mein so please is pe like kijiyega, comment-- kind of samjhe na tum log kaise cheez ko bolna hai.
Toh main abhi turant bol pa raha hoon because mere ko bahut saari practice ho gayi hai kind of thing. Hai na? Lekin wo aap logon ko time lagega. Lekin ye framework follow karo and start from now. Apni journey bataao not, not logon ko ki kya aaj maine kya seekha. Logon ko mat bataao kya karna hai.
Aaj maine abhi kahaan se start karoge? Maine kya seekha? Maine kya experiment kiya aur mujhe kya pata chala? You tell your own journey. Toh ye kya hai na aapke upar se load hata deta hai logon ko sikhaane ka.
Jab aap see-- sochoge na ki mujhe logon ko sikhaana hai toh aapke dimaag mein yaar main kaun hota hoon sikhaane waala? Wo imposter syndrome type ki cheez aane lagegi. Phir aap procrastinate karne lagoge ki main thodi deserve karta hoon ye cheez sikhaana kind of thing. Okay?
so imposter syndrome aayega, ye sab cheezein aayegi aur wo aayega bhi sahi. imposter syndrome aayega bhi sahi kyunki aapke paas wo skill nahi hai na, abhi, abhi wo experience nahi hai.
Lekin why you are waiting for that? Why you are waiting ki mujhe jab experience aayega tab main woh karunga. Aapko experience tabhi milega jab log aapko jaante honge. So that's a yeh toh wala khel ho gaya like kaun pehle aa karega, kaun pehle karega. Woh kaun sa tha woh train nikal jaati hai uski.
Toh train nikal jaane ka matlab hai hamari life nikal jaayegi aur hum gaadi par chadh nahi paayenge. So start with your journey. Jisko bolte hain content ki bhasha mein start documenting what you are doing. Okay? So documentation is easy.
I am documenting this thing ki I am learning dog psychology aur main usme professional banna chahti hoon aur this account is the this thing kind of thing ki yeh account uska proof hai ki main kaise aage badhti hoon. That's it and start posting your journey on that.
Logon ko sikhana nahi, logon ko batana nahi just apni journey, apni knowledge. Maine aise hi start kiya tha Oh My Dog! ki main kya seekh raha hoon ki maine aaj yeh seekha. Shuruat ki jab post dekhoge bahut, bahut saalon puraani mat dekho. Hai na? Haan. Lekin usme aise start kiya tha.
Main roz jaata tha aur dog ki ek cheez ki jo maine seekhi hai woh bata deta tha ki maine aaj yeh seekha, maine aaj yeh seekha.
Maine Hi, this is Sunny Purohit My Dog Rocks jab main shuruat mein aise start karta tha so and then I started talking so but woh journey yahan tak lekar aayi ki aap sab log yahan par ho aur main aap logon ko bata raha hoon. We started from that. Okay? Ek-ek, ek-ek, ek-ek karke hum yahan pahunche. Okay? So start that.
Okay? Apni journey share karna start karo. That's it guys aaj ke liye itna hi plus but please brainstorm kijiyega is poore ke poore cheez ke upar. Ek dimaag mein imaginary case lekar aaiye. Usko reverse engineer kariye ki kyon is dog ne develop aisa kiya aur ab hum kaise usko theek kar sakte hain by rituals of dogs.
Aur agar aapko rituals of dogs nahi pata hoga, dog psychology pata hogi toh ant mein aap rituals of dogs par hi aa jaoge automatically. Okay? Apne aap hi. So that's hamare paas framework hai that's a good thing. Okay? Aapko khud aane ki zaroorat nahi hai. All guys that's it aaj ke liye itna hi thank you so much.
Please group mein bataiyega aaj ki class kaisi rahi? Bye, bye. Thank you, bye. Bye. Thank you. Yes, bye, bye.
More calls on training
Sun 2 Aug 2026
1 hr 16 min
The behaviorist lens: instincts, personality and trigger stacking
Sunny Luthra gave batch one and two members a revision overview of Modules 1 and 2, covering the behaviorist lens's four layers (animal, species, breed, personality), how dogs perceive reality mainly through touch and smell before sight and sound, and how associative based thinking is driven by emotional intensity and repetition. He explained how unmet breed instincts and unstable environments cause fear, anxiety, aggression and reactivity, and answered member questions on breaking instincts, walking nervous dogs, and handling trigger stacking on walks. The call closed with logistics on exam slots and community resources for the Pro certification.
12 chapters · 6 member questions · behavioural, training, structure, body language
Wed 16 Sep 2026
1 hr 11 min
Fear peeing, territorial marking, and the case for structured walks
This OhMyDog Pro call worked through several live member cases: a dog urinating out of fear around a dog walker, a Shih Tzu marking territory, a puppy who submissively urinates with guests, and a multi-dog household with severe separation anxiety. Sunny Luthra used each case to teach diagnostic questioning, the difference between play and structured exercise, leash tool choice, and how a home's collective energy shows up in a dog's behaviour. The call closed with questions on leash tools versus a calf's energy, a dog's humping linked to a human's lack of boundaries, and puppy potty training for young Maltese dogs.
10 chapters · 8 member questions · behavioural, fear, anxiety, separation anxiety
Fri 14 Aug 2026
1 hr 25 min
Working on emotions, not just timing, when correcting dog fights
Sunny Luthra introduced a shift in the OhMyDog method: instead of relying only on the old 10 to 15 second correction window, trainers should first read how intense a dog's emotion is, especially in fights, heat-cycle aggression, or fear, since emotion drives the behaviour and the dog links corrections to the feeling itself, not just to the trigger. He explained that tethering a reactive dog and physically stepping away mimics how a pack withdraws from unacceptable emotion, which is why isolating a dog can work even when done for the wrong reasons. Members brought real cases including a fight between Brownie and another dog, Wolfy's chewing and guest reactivity, an Indie's sleep-startle biting, chewing from boredom versus separation anxiety, and the effect of training two dogs separately, and each was reframed through this emotion-first lens. The call closed with a short discussion on the limits of episodic memory in dogs and the concept of a canine trance state.
11 chapters · 11 member questions · aggression, behavioural, psychology, associative memory