Fear peeing, territorial marking, and the case for structured walks

Hindi written in English letters. The audio is the record.

1. Sunny

   0:01

   Arey yaar. Recording, recording abhi start hui hai. Itni saari cheezein nikal gayi. Anyways, jinhone nahi dekha, nahi dekha. So umar ki wajah se Manya matlab wo age ki wajah se age aur excitement ki wajah se. First of all jo ise a-unse tujhe poochna padega ki wo bachpan mein bhi aise kar raha tha kya?

2. 0:20

   Ya abhi uska badhte jaa raha hai susu karna. Susu ba-zyada nahi obviously abhi bada ho raha hai toh susu zyada badhega. Lekin frequency.

3. Speaker 2

   0:27

   Recently matlab abhi matlab un logon ne thode time pehle walker jab se hire kiya hai na tab se ye badh raha hai. Phir abhi toh un logon ne a-like walker par bhi wo react karta tha. Matlab jab walker aaya usko lene ke liye then he didn't wanted to go. So jab bhi walker bell bajayega he will go and pee aisa.

4. Sunny

   0:47

   Darr ke kaaran hai toh excitement ke kaaran.

5. Speaker 2

   0:49

   And also treats matlab jab treats deke leash pehnate hai na tab wo nahi karta.

6. Sunny

   0:56

   Treats deke leash, wo walker se pehle hi?

7. Speaker 2

   0:59

   Haan, haan.

8. Sunny

   1:00

   Wo toh change ho gaya na. Walker se pehle agar tum usko leash pehna loge toh wo tum aur wa-wa jab susu jab karta hai wo jab walker aata hai aur wo leash par nahi hota. Ye poora criteria hai uska hai na?

9. Speaker 2

   1:11

   Haan.

10. Sunny

    1:11

    Wa-walker jab aata hai aur agar dog leash par nahi hai toh wo jaake susu kar raha hai.

11. Speaker 2

    1:16

    Yes.

12. Sunny

    1:17

    Okay. Agar walker aa raha hai aur dog already leash par hai toh wo susu nahi kar raha.

13. Speaker 2

    1:22

    Yes.

14. Sunny

    1:23

    Ya so wo dog ko jaane ki zaroorat wo nahi ho rahi na par wo lekin uski poonch neeche jaa rahi hogi walker ke aane par.

15. Speaker 2

    1:28

    Yes.

16. Sunny

    1:29

    So hum-humein kya pooch, humein kya poochna padega is cheez ke liye? Ki walker aa raha hai toh dog ki poonch neeche jaa rahi hai kya leash ke upar?

17. 1:37

    Dekh do tangent mile hain yahan par. Theek hai, do tangent kya hai? Pehla, haan pehla.

18. Speaker 2

    1:41

    Ek baar thoda sa repeat kar do na maine miss kar diya I think.

19. Sunny

    1:45

    Okay, so dekho dog, dog a-dog susu kar raha hai. Lekin dog susu tab kar raha hai jab walker aa raha hai aur dog leash par nahi hai toh. Lekin agar dog leash par hai toh dog susu nahi kar raha hai walker ke aane ke baad bhi. Toh yahan par ab kya ho gaye? Do tangents ho gaye. Do informations aa gayi hamari. Theek hai.

20. 2:04

    Hamara, hamara dimaag kidhar jaa raha tha fear ki taraf. Hai na? Ab lekin doosre tangent mein hum fear ko verify kar sakte hain kya? Doosra tangent kya jismein dog leash ke upar hai. Hum usmein fear ko verify kar sakte hain kya ki dog fearful hai? Hum usmein verify nahi kar sakte toh hum usmein kya poochenge?

21. 2:19

    Sawaal poochenge. Wo sawaal kya hoga data gathering ka? Uski poonch neeche jaa rahi hai kya? Wo ekdam chupke se aapke paas aakar baith raha hai kya?

22. 2:28

    Ye ek fear ka ho gaya. Nahi bhai nahi baith raha toh hum kya poochenge? Toh phir wo idhar-udhar hil raha hai kya aapke uske upar hi? Wo out of anxiety ho raha hai kya? Hai na? Out of anxiety ho raha hai kya?

23. 2:39

    So phir humein samajh mein aayega agar ye fearful aa raha hai toh walker ke saath iski association fear waali kaise bani? Fear waali kaise bani? Aur wo badhti kyun aur wo badhti kyun rahi hai? Haan.

24. Speaker 2

    2:50

    Because wo walker like a-matlab wo walk par jaate hain na so wo doosre dog agar uske paas aate hain na toh walker un-unko matlab unke upar stone phenkte ya phir unko chilla ke bolte hain. So usse she said ki isko bhi thoda wo problem hota hai.

25. Sunny

    3:07

    A-ye kisne bataya? Ye walker ki kahaani hai?

26. Speaker 2

    3:09

    Haan, pet parent ne bataya. Nahi, nahi pet parent ko maine bola tha ki aap jaao walker ke saath aur peeche aap unko observe karoge.

27. Sunny

    3:17

    So okay toh, toh usne observe karke bataya ki wo aise kar raha tha.

28. Speaker 2

    3:21

    Haan, haan.

29. Sunny

    3:22

    You are absolutely iske upar tu verified hai poora ka poora.

30. Speaker 2

    3:25

    Haan, haan verified. Unhone videos bhi bheje mujhe.

31. Sunny

    3:28

    Okay, okay. Haan so iski, ye bhi ek kaaran hai, ye bhi ek kaaran hai. So dog, dog fearful hai bas humein ye pata hai.

32. Speaker 2

    3:35

    And also like agar walker bhi nahi aa raha hai, unko leke jaana hai usko walk pe toh bhi wo leash jab pehnane jaata hai na tab wo pee kar deta hai.

33. Sunny

    3:44

    Oh yaar, sa-dekho is ab is cheez se.

34. Speaker 2

    3:47

    Start walker ki wajah se hua matlab, matlab a-thode time pehle hi start hua ye. But abhi ye ek kind of habit ban chuki hai uski.

35. Sunny

    3:55

    Okay, so walker ke pehle wo usko kya walk pe leke jaate the?

36. Speaker 2

    4:00

    Haan, leke jaate the.

37. Sunny

    4:02

    Toh sirf walker ke saath hi wo ghabraya.

38. Speaker 2

    4:04

    Haan matlab un-uske baad ye start hua uska ki ye aise pee kar raha hai almost everyday.

39. Sunny

    4:11

    Haan simple hai is cheez ko theek karna. Toh jaise wo wa-waise start hua toh ab jaise apan ko ek tujhe kahan clue mila ki kaise theek kar sakte hain isko? Kaise kahan clue, clue mila? Tere ko clue toh mila hai is poori baat mein. Mujhe bhi clue mila hai. Toh kidhar hai clue bata ki usko theek kar sakte hain.

40. Speaker 2

    4:27

    So like maine unko suggest kiya ki aap use neeche leke jaao aur neeche handover karo because upar se maine usse kaha ki, ki a-wo upar unko aane ko mat bolo. Unhein bolo ki aapko call karein or something. So usne bola ki wo mujhe call karta hai toh bhi ise samajh aa jaata hai aur ye pee kar deta hai.

41. 4:45

    So maine kaha ki aap timing fix rakho. Aapko timing pata hai so aap waise hi apne hisaab se usko leash pehna ke neeche leke jaao aur unko handover karo.

42. 4:54

    So at least jo ye a-everyday ka jo pattern ban raha hai wo pehle break ho. Uske baad we can work with the walker ki aap unko like treats ke saath work karke unke saath association ek achha create kar sakte hain.

43. Sunny

    5:06

    Achha dekho ab iske andar kya hai na bahut saari frictions hain. Bahut saare pieces hain. Ab bahut saare pieces kya? Wo walker ka timing, wo walker ka call, ye inki, in, ye available hai ki nahi uske time ke upar. Ya agar kuch kaam kar rahe hain toh phir kya? So bahut saare frictions aa gaye yahan par.

44. 5:23

    Lekin agar hum is poore dog mein ek, ek cheez dekhi jaaye toh dog zaroori nahi hai ki wo walker ke time hi ab aisa kar. Usko kabhi bhi aap leash laga rahe ho toh wo kar raha hai.

45. Speaker 2

    5:31

    Hmm right.

46. Sunny

    5:32

    Har, har ek baar. Lekin tune ek clue kya diya tha? Agar usko treat ke saath kar rahe hain toh nahi kar raha.

47. Speaker 2

    5:36

    Toh nahi kar.

48. Sunny

    5:37

    So daily basis par kya karenge? Hum ye parent se bolenge aap paanch minute, das minute ke liye khud leke chale jaao taaki iska dimaag walker ko side karo.

49. 5:45

    Walker toh aayega, aayega tab karega toh karega. Lekin aap usse kya bolo, aap kabhi bhi din mein kabhi bhi randomly treat uthaao, treat se usko bulaao, usko leash karo aur baahar leke jaao. Wo susu nahi karna chahiye.

50. Speaker 2

    5:57

    Okay.

51. Sunny

    5:58

    Okay na? Aur ye clue kahan se mila? Teri baat se hi mila na ki wo treat jo ek cheez apan ko mil jaaye ki wo kab nahi kar raha hai usko pakad ke rakhna zaroori nahi istemaal karna.

52. 6:09

    Lekin usko kya karegi usko pakad ke rakhegi ki istemaal ho sakta hai kahin par aage strategy ke upar usko bhoolna nahi hai ki haan bhai ye kab kar raha hai wo lena dena nahi usse. Nahi, wo sabse important point hai ki ye kab nahi kar raha hai. Ye itni baar kar raha hai toh ye kaun si time hai jab nahi kar raha hai.

53. 6:26

    Wo tab bhi kar raha hai toh wo kya client kaise bolega? Ye tab bhi kar raha hai, tab bhi kar raha hai, tab bhi kar raha hai, tab bhi kar raha hai.

54. 6:32

    Ab bhi kar raha hai toh apan kya bolenge? Kab nahi kar raha hai? Kuch aisa moment hai kya aapke paas ki woh nahi kar raha hai? Toh woh bolenge nahi, nahi hai. That is a different thing. Tab hamare paas ek green field hai ki ab hamare paas kuch bhi karein.

55. 6:45

    Lekin agar woh bol raha hai ki nahi is samay nahi kar raha hai toh try karenge ki hum usse go through hone ka zaroori nahi hai. okay, lekin hamare arsenal mein ek yeh cheez honi strategy honi chahiye ki hum usse bhi go through ho sakte hain. Toh agar hamare dimaag mein koi aur cheez nahi aa rahi.

56. 6:59

    Chalo isse go through hote hain. Dekhte hain kya nikalta hai. okay, aur sense bhi make kar raha hai. Jitni hamari knowledge hai dog ki association, association based thinking, association based memory un sab cheezon se sense make kar raha hai poori ki poori strategy.

57. 7:12

    Agar hum usko leash lagayenge treat se bulayenge aur phir lekar jayenge toh ek association toh create ho rahi hai na.

58. 7:18

    Abhi kya association create hogi? Create ho gayi uski leash is equal to fear aur fear is equal to bladder out of control. okay, fear mein kya hota hai? Dog ka insaano mein bhi susu nikal jaata hai na fear se. Woh, woh fear ka response hai.

59. 7:33

    Fear se bladder control choot jaata hai aur jo bhi cheez hoti hai woh baahar nikal jaati hai taaki insaan halka ho jaaye aur bhaag sake. Matlab it's like stress mein kya aata hai? Peeche sher pada hai evolutionary perspective se. Matlab abhi 200 saal mein hi apan ek safe jagah rehne lage hain yaar.

60. 7:51

    Usse pehle jangalon mein the apan. Hai na? Matlab ek peeche sher pada hai aur wildlife bahut tagdi thi. Insaano ka shikaar hota tha kind of thing. okay na. Aur bahut pehle toh aisi aisi billiyan thi jinke saber tooth jinke, jinke tooth is tareeke se evolve hue the taaki woh hamari spine ko poori nikaal sakein.

61. 8:11

    Toote nahi spine. okay, spine ko poora se zabaak nikaal sake. Lo spine baahar insaan ki. so toh hamara itna shikaar hua hai toh aur baaki sab jaanwaron ka bhi. Toh stress ka matlab kya hai? Peeche sher pada hai. Peeche koi predator hai toh usmein susu, potty sab cheezein nikal jaati hai. Hai na? Aur woh bhaagta hai.

62. 8:29

    Toh yeh dogs ke saath wahi ho raha hai. Usko fear aa raha hai. Toh fear kaise hatayenge? Woh hume clue mila kismein? Treat se. so we will start from there. okay, aur usmein kya friction bhi kam hai. Hai na? dog walker ka call nahi, kuch nahi. Usmein friction kam hai.

63. 8:44

    so we will toh hume in sab criteria mein jab hum isko strategy ko rakhte hain toh usmein woh success ho rahi hai. Toh kaun si there are n number of strategies. Toh kaun si strategy deni hai jismein least friction ho aur most effective hone ke chances ho? That is our criteria. okay, that is the best strategy.

64. 9:00

    zero friction 100% guaranteed. but aisi koi strategy nahi hogi. but this is the, this is the benchmark. okay, zero friction yahan se start karna. zero friction, zero friction 100% guaranteed. Tumhe kya milega? 10% friction 90% guaranteed. this is the yeh best case bola tumko maine.

65. 9:20

    okay, so is tareeke se hume jaana hoga. Agar tumne ek strategy choose kari ki dog walker call kar raha hai there is a friction. dog walker ka time, aapka time in sab ka time. Toh yeh poori equation mein hume isko criteria mein lena padega. okay, that's it.

66. Speaker 2

    9:37

    And one case hai matlab woh dog actually mein kuch bhi agar new item hai toh uske upar mark kar raha hai.

67. Sunny

    9:45

    Wahi same dog?

68. Speaker 2

    9:46

    Nahi doosra dog hai. Yeh nahi hai.

69. Sunny

    9:48

    Okay.

70. Speaker 2

    9:49

    So woh Shih Tzu hai and around three years old hoga. I'm not sure about his age but he is peeing on everything. Matlab jo bhi kuch agar nayi item hai ghar mein koi, koi baahar se aaya, usne helmet rakh diya neeche. Toh us par.

71. Sunny

    10:05

    Age kya hai uski?

72. Speaker 2

    10:07

    Age around three years.

73. Sunny

    10:10

    Neutered toh nahi hoga.

74. Speaker 2

    10:11

    Nahi, nahi neutered nahi hai.

75. Sunny

    10:13

    Aur saath mein ghar pe excitement bhi bahut zyada hoga. Hyper bhi bahut zyada hoga.

76. Speaker 2

    10:18

    And also matlab kya bol sakte hain ki uska prey drive bahut zyada hai.

77. Sunny

    10:24

    Haan, toh like again dekho prey drive zyada hai. Usko uski walk kitni ho rahi hai, uske saath play kitna ho raha hai, flirt pole khel rahi hai ki nahi khel rahi hai all that cheez.

78. 10:32

    Yeh sab cheezein matter karti hai iske andar. so woh jo woh kar raha hai na usko uski training nahi milti. Woh ek territorial behavior hai. so agar dog ke andar oorja zyada hogi aur uske andar territorial instinct hai toh yeh sab cheezein zyada dikhai dene, dene ko milegi.

79. 10:45

    plus saath mein agar ghar ki female human, female human unki monthly cycle pe aa rahi hongi toh bhi is dog ke andar territorial behavior increase hota hua dikhega. okay, agar, agar baahar ki like dog female heat pe aa rahi hai toh bhi iske andar woh increase hote hue milega.

80. 11:02

    exercise kam milegi toh bhi increase hote hue milega. ghar pe excitement badhega toh bhi increase hote hue milega. so you have to explain all these things. Yeh just ek side effect hai aur uska matlab yeh bhi nahi ki iska ekdam marking band ho jaayega. marking kam ho jaayega. okay, yeah, that's it.

81. Speaker 2

    11:18

    Thank you sir.

82. Sunny

    11:19

    Yes.

83. Speaker 3

    11:22

    Sunny on the similar lines like Wolfie my puppy she is one year old she also pees when she sees certain strangers like guest aate toh. so that- baahar karti hai.

84. Sunny

    11:33

    Baahar karte-karte, baahar karte-karte peeche hatti hai.

85. Speaker 3

    11:36

    Haan.

86. Sunny

    11:37

    Aur poonch itni tezi se, tezi se hilaati hai.

87. Speaker 3

    11:40

    Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

88. Sunny

    11:41

    So yeah, so woh dog, woh dog dari hui hai aur saath mein hyper ho rahi hai toh uska bladder pe control choot jaayega. okay, so that is not woh because woh karna chahti hai. Woh bahut zyada hyper hogi aur bahut zyada tensed ho gayi aur woh is tareeke se kar rahi hai.

89. 11:56

    Toh jab guest aa rahe hote hain toh hume aise dog ko pehle baahar lekar jaana hota hai aur guest ke saath andar lekar aana hota hai. Okay, toh toh isko hum kaise karte hain? Not in real life scenario.

90. 12:08

    Hum kaise karenge? Apne friends ko bolenge ki please jinke upar bhaunkti hai, jinke upar woh karti hai aur khaaskar kinki taraf bhaunkegi? Do logon ki taraf bhaunkegi. Ek, ek aise log jo andar se bahut zyada excited hain, unke upar bhaunkegi aur doosre aise log jo andar se tensed hain, unke upar bhaunkege.

91. 12:25

    Jo thode stiff hain, unke upar bahut zyada bhaunkegi. Okay. Yeah, so bas unhi ke upar aur jo thode passive hain, thode yeh hain aur thode se friendly hain, thode se jhuke hue rehte hain toh unke upar kam bhaunkegi. Unke upar zero bhaunkegi. Okay?

92. 12:38

    So jo humble thode zyada hai toh aise aapko pata bhi chal jaayega kaun insaan kaun hai. Okay.

93. 12:47

    So that's lekin jaise guest aate hain toh aapko baahar lekar jaana hota hai inko isko aur un guest ke saath waapas andar lekar aana hota hai aur phir ek jagah par rakhna, rakhna hota hai aur aisi jagah par rakhna hota hai jahaan par guest iski taraf nahi mude, iski taraf nahi jaaye.

94. 13:01

    Toh lekin yeh aap doston ko invite karne ke is perspective se karo. Okay na. Is perspective se, is perspective se karo ki hum apne dog ko train kar rahe hain toh woh dost bhi usi perspective se aayenge. Got it?

95. Speaker 3

    13:13

    Understood. How long is this going to go? Like is this going to go for a while?

96. Sunny

    13:17

    Woh, woh hum kitni repetition karte hain dog ka. Woh warna yeh lifelong chalta hai.

97. Speaker 3

    13:24

    Oh, okay.

98. Sunny

    13:25

    Dog, dog isse bahar nahi nikal, bahar nahi nikalta. Woh lifelong chalta hai.

99. Speaker 3

    13:28

    Understood.

100. Sunny

     13:29

     Toh jitne toh hume isko kya lagta hai na ki yeh jo hyper insaan aa raha hai kahin yeh mere upar na chadh jaaye. Okay? Toh woh bark karke usko door karti hai. Yeh jo tensed insaan aa raha hai, kahin yeh tension mere upar nahi nikaal de frustrate hoke. So khaaskar woh tensed insaan jaldi frustrate ho jaata hai.

101. 13:49

     So kahin mujh pe frustration nahi nikaal de aur frustration mein uske haath chalte hain. Hai na? Haath chalte hain toh kahin yeh frustration se koi cheez utha ke mujh pe na phenk de. Hai na? Out of toh woh isliye usko bark karna start kare. Mujhse door rahe, mujhse door rahe, mujhse door rahe.

102. 14:02

     Is ghar se door rahe, is ghar se door rahe. So that's how they will. Woh is tareeke se behave karna start kar denge us cheez ke upar.

103. Speaker 3

     14:09

     Achha. Understood. Is it true that aise dogs ko abhi like we were planning to neuter, spay her at six months but abhi one year ke liye hold kara hai kyunki unka bladder control kharab ho jaata hai after the surgery and then this. So should I wait?

104. Sunny

     14:26

     See matlab agar one, iski ek heat nikal chuki hai?

105. Speaker 3

     14:30

     Ek heat nikal chuki hai.

106. Sunny

     14:32

     Haan, toh uske baad aap kara sakte ho. Matlab 15 mahine ke ho jayenge tab aap kara sakte ho.

107. 14:36

     Lekin heat matlab yeh spay karane se jab heat ke time par jo crankiness aati hai, us crankiness se jo behavior ke outcome hote hain, sirf usme help milegi. Not overall, overall behavior ke us cheez ke upar. It is not because of spaying ka. Jo dog aapka issue dikha raha hai, woh spaying ka issue nahi hai.

108. 14:58

     Woh just read kar raha hai aur us reading par dogs naturally kaise behave karte hain, waise behave kar raha hai. Okay? So lekin hum usko change kar sakte hain. Woh kyunki usko yeh nahi pata. Unki, unki real life mein jo dog tense hote hain ya jo dog hyper hote hain, unke against yeh dog is tareeke se bhaunkte hain.

109. 15:19

     Okay? Woh lekin woh jab ghar pe aate hain toh unko yeh nahi pata na ki saamne insaan hai.

110. 15:23

     Woh toh sabko ek being, energetic being ki tarah dekhte hain. So woh energetic being kaun se hain? Excitement waale aur tension waale jisse aapke puppy ko dikkat hogi. Aapke dog ko dikkat hogi. Excitement aur tension se usko dikkat hogi. Okay?

111. Speaker 3

     15:36

     Understood. Okay, thank you.

112. Sunny

     15:38

     Yeah, no problem.

113. Speaker 4

     15:39

     Sunny isi pe ek mera question hai. Sorry, I know Kashish is waiting but isi pe question hai. So aapne bola ki woh dog ko bolo guest ke saath andar aaye. Uska kya relevance hai?

114. Sunny

     15:49

     Kyunki dog ke jaise suppose kar lo dog andar hai, uski territory hai. Uska enclosed area hai uske jagah. Jaise aapne kayi baar dekha hoga ki dog waise theek rehta hai lekin car ke andar jaate hi baawla ho jaata hai. Hai na? Ya dog gate ke baahar sahi rehta hai.

115. 16:04

     Gate ke andar se agar woh dekh raha hai toh woh bark zyaada karta hai. So jab ek cheez enclosed ho jaati hai, woh enclosed mein ek energy release ka kahin option nahi milta hai aur yeh dog ke andar ek territorial behavior ko increase karta hai.

116. 16:17

     Enclosed jagah territorial behavior increase, increase karta hai. Why? Because koi safe zone nahi hai bhaagne ke liye. Woh kahin par door nahi ja sakta us cheez se. Agar jo cheez uski taraf aa rahi hai, usko bas ab usko face karna hai. So face karne ke liye kya lagega?

117. 16:33

     That is territorial behavior, face karne ke liye usko. So dog ke andar territory insti-unke instincts, unki territorial behavior increase kar dete hain unki territory mein. Theek hai.

118. 16:43

     Woh toh that's why agar woh ghar ke andar rahega toh uski territorial increase rahegi aur woh increase rahegi toh guest aayenge aur guest aayenge toh kya association hoga? Guest ke saath territorial hona hai. Lekin wahi guest baahar hai. Ab woh baahar ja raha hai aur unke peeche-peeche andar aa raha hai.

119. 17:00

     Toh uski territory mein kaun pehle ghusa? Guest andar ghuse aur guest ke peeche-peeche yeh aaya.

120. 17:06

     Toh yeh kya, yeh kya karte hue aa raha hai? Yeh follow karte hue aa raha hai. Follow karte hue aa raha hai. Pehle yeh face kar raha tha. Ab kya kar raha hai? Ab yeh follow karte hue aa raha hai. Lekin ab us follow karte hue aapne usko aise hi chhod diya aur beech mein kya hoga? Yeh guest ke ekdam saamne aa jaayega.

121. 17:21

     Toh again kya hoga? Follow khatam ho gaya aur abhi uski association itni strong toh thi nahi. Toh woh bhool jaayega ki yeh follow karte hue aaya tha aur woh uske dimaag mein kya? Yeh kaun aa gaya? Then again bark karna chaalu ho gaya aur yeh dangerous ho sakta hai. Woh bahut close ho sakte hain is cheez ke upar.

122. 17:37

     So hum kya karenge? Us dog ko phir kone mein le jaakar baandhte aur hum guest ko bolte hain unki taraf na badhein. So guest jab tak usse door rahega, woh shaant rahega. Lekin guest agar uske paas ja raha hai aur usko dekh ke ja raha hai toh aapko behavior change hota hua dikhega uske andar.

123. 17:53

     Toh, toh, toh, toh guest ko kaise jaana hota hai? Sideways kahin aur dekhkar ya neeche dekhkar, uski taraf na dekhein. Uski taraf badh bhi raha hai na. Kaise dekhna hota hai? Side mein dekhna hota hai ya dheere-dheere baat karni hoti hai. Aise-aise nahi chalna hota. Aise-aise karke nahi chalna hota.

124. 18:08

     So woh guest ko bataana padta hai humko.

125. Speaker 4

     18:12

     Why I asked you Sunny ki you remember maine Pari ka bataaya tha ki she started again susu waala thing. Toh aapne bola tha checkup karwao but abhi jaise recently guest nahi aaye toh kabhi bhi woh incident nahi hua. Toh I think woh infection waala aisa kuch toh nahi hai. But recently ab dobaara guest aaye.

126. 18:30

     What I tried this time is ki pehle guest aane se pehle baahar lekar gaya, susu karwaya, waapas lekar aaya, guest se milwaya achhe se sniff karke.

127. 18:41

     Phir uske baad dobaara susu karwaya and then usko waapas laakar room mein band kar diya and I was watching her from a camera.

128. Sunny

     18:50

     Okay.

129. Speaker 4

     18:50

     So initially paanch chhah sec, paanch chhah minute she was fine. Uske baad again she started barking, barking, barking. Phir usne pee kiya. Phir barking, barking, barking and this time main toh yeh sab saari cheezein observe kar raha tha toh maine jaanke abhi door nahi khola aur phir woh shaant ho gayi.

130. 19:09

     Phir kabhi woh uthke bark kar rahi hai, phir woh shaant ho ja rahi hai.

131. Sunny

     19:14

     Okay, got it. So- To add on this Sunny yeh bhi hai ki ab jaise guest comfortable ho gaye, maine guest ke paas jaakar chhod diya.

132. Speaker 4

     19:22

     Woh guest ke paas hi jaakar baith jaayegi aur phir main bhi Pari ke paas jaunga toh mere par bhi growl karegi.

133. 19:28

     Bhai sahab bhi Pari, uske Pari ke paas jaayega guest ke paas toh us par bhi growl karegi.

134. Sunny

     19:35

     Yeah, yeah so like, kaafi different behavior laga hoga aapko yeh sab dekhkar ki yaar yeh kya cheez hai ki mere par bhi growl kar rahi hai aur- Yeh pehle bhi kuch, kuch baar mein dekha hai maine.

135. Speaker 4

     19:46

     I know it's a part of communication toh usko phir hataane ke liye bas main leash dikhata hoon aur woh sab bhool ke leash ke peeche aa jaati hai. Phir use redirect kar deta hoon.

136. 19:56

     But main yeh nahi samajh paa raha hoon Sunny ki jab bhi koi guest aata hai aur main usko ek enclosed area mein band kar deta hoon toh woh uski barking continuous rehti hai.

137. Sunny

     20:06

     Enclosed area mein band nahi karna usko. First of all dekho dog stress mein aa raha hai guest aane ke upar. So yahaan par kya cheez dekhni hoti hai for example, jo humans hain woh bhi stress mein aa rahe hain kya guest ke aane ke upar?

138. 20:17

     That is the first thing. Hai na? Jo ki generally mera experience hai na, mere ko toh nahi jamta bhai. Matlab like main toh akele rehta hoon toh mere liye this is too much. Hai na? Kind of thing. Toh main dog ka bhi samajh sakta hoon. Haan, it's like it's a too much. Haan.

139. 20:29

     So woh jo humans lekin already hai wahaan par unke liye kaisa hai? Uske unke liye woh cheezein kaise matter karti hai? First cheez toh humein yeh figure out karni hoti hai ki yaar woh kaise soch rahe hain aur Pari ghar ki sensitive hai, bhai sahab se zyaada sensitive.

140. 20:44

     Toh Pari sabse pehle ghar ko observe kar sakti hai sab logon se. Guest aa rahe, aane waale hote hain usse pehle hi woh samajh sakti hai aap sabki dhadkanon ko sunkar.

141. Speaker 4

     20:55

     Right.

142. Sunny

     20:55

     Okay? Haan, ab guest aa rahe hain toh ho sakta hai dhadkan increase ho jaaye kisi member ki. Hai na? Just matlab ho sakti hai na bhai. Matlab like meri ho sakti hai, woh ho sakti hai.

143. 21:04

     Hai na? Main toh yeh soch raha hoon. Hai na? Toh dhadkan strong, dhadkan badh sakti hai, anxiety aa sakti hai. Bahut saari cheezein ho sakti hai ghar ke, ghar ke usmein. Ho sakta hai aapko pasand ho lekin kisi aur member ko nahi pasand ho. Ghar mein, ghar mein guest aana. Hai na?

144. 21:17

     You, for you it is socializing but for other member it is not socializing. The first part humein wahaan par, wahaan par jaana hota hai. Toh like that's, woh sab, this is the first jo sabse zyaada matter karta hai. Okay? Ki humein ghar ki energy ko pata hota hai humans ko, woh kya kar rahe hain.

145. 21:35

     Second thing chalo maan liya ghar ki yeh sab cheezein hain, lekin hum dog ke saath kya karein? So jo sabse stable banda hai jaise for example dog ke perspective mein aap honge. Hai na? Ya phir guest ko karne mein bhi aap honge. Aapki ho sakta hai dhadkan nahi ho, for you it is a very casual thing kind of thing. Hai na?

146. 21:49

     But other member it may be it's a big thing.

147. 21:51

     So aap kya karoge? Aap isko apne paas rakhoge Pari ko. All day, all time, always on leash with you taaki aap usko directly direct feedback de sako ki kya chahiye. Usko akela nahi chhodoge.

148. 22:05

     Usko akele aur yeh cheez aap ghar ke member ke saath bhi kar sakte ho ki kyunki dekho Pari kya kar rahi hai na mimic kar rahi hai jo kisi ke andar chal raha hai. Most of the time kya hota hai?

149. 22:16

     Dog mimic kar raha hota hai jo kisi member ke andar chal raha hota hai jab aap is tareeqe ke behavior experience karte ho dog ke andar. So aap jis tareeqe se apne dog ko us samay par saath rakh rahe ho, usi samay par guest ke aane se pehle jo member ghabra raha hai usko saath rakhoge.

150. 22:31

     Getting a point kya keh raha hoon main aapko? Usko, usko saath rakhoge, usko calmness aur usko help karoge taaki uske andar ki usko calmness mil sake.

151. 22:41

     Yeh bhi aapko help karega kyunki sirf Pari woh nahi ho rahi, Pari dikh rahi hai. Okay? Pari ka behavior dikh raha hai lekin woh ek jab bhi dog kuch hota hai na usko dog ka mat samjha karo, usko ghar ki oorja samjha karo. Hai na? Ghar ki, ghar ki energy samjha karo. Dog bhi uska ek part hai.

152. 22:56

     Ho sakta hai 90% dog hi ho us energy ka perspective, lekin 10% kuch aur hai. Aur most, many time kya milega? 90% ghar tha aur dog 10% and that is a big finding. Okay? Jab humein yeh pata chalta hai ki 10% dog hai, 90% ghar hai toh woh cheez par apan work karte toh poora ghar badal jaata hai. Everything changes.

153. 23:18

     Poora rishta vishta, insaan ke saath, duniya, universe sab change ho jaata hai. Jab humein yeh pata chal jaata hai ki arey that's humein kuch badalne ki zaroorat hai yahaan par, kisi aur ko nahi.

154. 23:28

     Jisko pata chalta hai, jisko samajh mein aati hai. Woh bhale hi aapko samajh mein aaye, kisi aur ko samajh mein aaye, jisko samajh mein aati hai uska responsibility rehti hai badalna sabse pehle. So that will be yours. So you have to figure it out ki kaise karna hai.

155. 23:41

     Lekin dog ke perspective se main bata deta hoon ki dog ko apne saath leash par rakhna hai us samay ke upar always. Aap usko baahar lekar jaao, andar lekar jaao, kuch bhi karo but dog ko apne saath leash par rakho. Baahar lekar jaaoge, waapas laaoge dog thoda shaant rahegi.

156. 23:53

     Phir baahar lekar jaaoge, phir waapas lekar aaoge kyunki uska thoda pressure release ho gaya.

157. Speaker 4

     23:57

     Right, right.

158. Sunny

     23:57

     Hai na? Saath-saath just aap jaise pehle behave karte the ya phir puraane time mein jaise suppose kar lo koi guest aa gaya toh hum ek automatic behavior mein chale jaate hain. Kyun? Hai na? Automatic behavior mein chala jaata hai and uski consciousness udd jaati hai.

159. 24:13

     Then usko samajh mein nahi aata ki time kidhar nikal gaya, cheezein kya ho gayi. Usko cheezein dikhti nahi hai. Hai na? Aur woh automatic cheezein karta rehta hai, karta, karta rehta hai. Toh you can break that part. Ho sakta hai ki guest waale time mein aap automatic ho jaaye.

160. 24:24

     Ek automatic system create ho jaaye aapke andar aur aap us samay par ek alag tareeqe se behave karne lag jaao. So you can break, break that part and you can observe us samay par ki kahaan par kya chal raha hai yahaan par.

161. 24:35

     Main kaise behave kar raha hoon aur log kaise behave kar rahe hain aur woh pehle kaise behave karte aate the aur ab kaise behave kar, kar rahe hain. Dog ko chhod ke. So you will gather a lot of data and then you can work on this. But home and then dog is case mein. Okay?

162. Kashish

     24:50

     Hmm.

163. Sunny

     24:51

     Let it. Cool hai. Yes, Kashish Sharma.

164. Kashish

     24:57

     Hi Sunny. So, uh, I've been, um, following a dog these days.

165. 25:01

     Toh woh my friend ka dog hai. Humne iske baare mein pehle bhi baat ki thi. Toh actually woh walk par kuch bhi utha ke khaa leta hai. Remember I told you ki woh cigarette butts, leaves har cheez utha lega. So you told me to ask them ki kya woh ghar par toh aisa nahi kar raha.

166. Sunny

     25:18

     Haan.

167. Kashish

     25:19

     Toh um, when I asked them, they said ki jab um, matlab koi treat ka time ho ya kuch aisa ho, bas tab woh utha ke khud se kabhi kuch nahi khaata hai.

168. Sunny

     25:31

     Hmm.

169. Kashish

     25:31

     Toh now I want to understand ki woh dog aisa um, like uske dimaag mein kya chal raha hoga? Aisa kya hai jo dogs usually aise kar, kar rahe hote hain?

170. Sunny

     25:42

     Woh sirf khaane ki cheez uthata hai ya koi bhi cheez uthata hai?

171. Kashish

     25:44

     Kuch bhi. Matlab cigarette butt utha li, leaf utha li.

172. Sunny

     25:47

     Kaun batayega? Kaun batayega? Interesting hai. Kaun batayega? Lekin reverse engineering karna padega isko. Kaun batayega ki dog-- sabse pehle chalo ek cheez bolta hoon. Kashish tum mat bolna. Dog kis state mein hoga? Mentally, emotionally kis state mein hai yahan par? Manya mute hai tu.

173. Speaker 6

     26:07

     Hyper.

174. Sunny

     26:09

     Hyper. Dog hyper hai. Dog hyper kyon hai? Wo ghar se hi hyper ja raha hai. Jab dog-- so dekho, ye case dekho kaisa hota hai. Wo ghar par shant rehta hai. Wo kuch nahi khayega, kuch nahi uthayega. Wo kab uthayega, kab khayega? Jab wo hyper state mein jayega.

175. 26:24

     Hyper state mein jab dogs jaate hain, unko kaise na kaise karke oorja nikaalni hoti hai, release karni hoti hai. Bahut se dog kaise release karte hain? Kood ke release karte hain.

176. 26:34

     Bahut se dog kaise release karte hain? Bark karke release karte hain. Bahut se dog kaise release karte hain? Takiya uthate hain aur faadna start karte hain. Ye dog walk ke time par hyper ho jaata hai. Toh ye kya karega?

177. 26:44

     Ye insaan ko kheenchega, apna munh neeche layega aur jo bhi cheez milegi usko bite karega aur tan-tan-tan-tan aise karta rahega. Toh ye problem kiski hai? Ye dog ki problem nahi hai. Walk kaise start, haan walk kaise start ho rahi hai, wahan dikkat hai. So Kashish you have to work where?

178. 26:59

     Jahan par walk start ho rahi hai. Wo start hai.

179. Kashish

     27:02

     So, so I went to their house and I told them ki aap isko ek earlier-earlier Mango, ghoomwa chalega, ghoomwa chalega and he starts jumping toh ye nahi kar sakte. Calm him down and wo din mein 10 baar ghoomne jaata hai because now he is fascinated by ghoomna. Wo apni leash lekar aayega aur ghoomne jaana chahta hai.

180. Sunny

     27:21

     Yeah.

181. Kashish

     27:21

     And jab maine uski owner ko usko walk karate dekha toh she was like aisa and Mango aage bhaag raha hai.

182. Sunny

     27:30

     Haan.

183. Kashish

     27:31

     So Mango is like 50 kgs Labrador aur wo matlab kheenchti ja rahi hai. Usko realize nahi ho raha ki this is not normal. Then I sat down with her and, um, asked her ki ye, ye kuch cheezein hain jo aapko change karni padegi. Usko calm state mein le jaana padega.

184. 27:47

     Matlab but, um, toh unhone abhi ki hai toh khaana usne abhi nahi chhoda hai. But, toh maine unhein kaha tha ki walk par aap ek baar tethering bhi kara sakte ho. Jab aap strays ko feed kar rahe ho, use kahin baandh do. Toh unhone wo karna shuru kiya toh abhi he is calm and- Kitna door hai?

185. Sunny

     28:05

     Kitna door hai matlab? Tere ghar se kitna door hai?

186. Kashish

     28:07

     Like I am in, um, tower eight and she is in tower one.

187. Sunny

     28:12

     Achha matlab paas hi hoga. Mujhe nahi pata.

188. Kashish

     28:14

     Haan, paas.

189. Sunny

     28:15

     Haan. Toh like ek martingale collar use kar sakti hai and jaakar try kar sakti hai, dekh sakte ho usko khud hi.

190. Kashish

     28:21

     Right.

191. Sunny

     28:22

     Martingale collar dekh sakte ho and then apni jo aapka experience hai apne dog ke upar wo practice kar sakte ho and phir khud hi lekar ja sakte ho usko. Lekin completely calm, completely observation perspective se not theek karne ke perspective se.

192. Kashish

     28:34

     Okay.

193. Sunny

     28:34

     Just experimentation perspective se. So experimentation mein kya hota hai? Hum dog ko chance dete hain different, different behavior karne ke liye.

194. Kashish

     28:43

     Right.

195. Sunny

     28:43

     Tu excite bhi ho sakta hai, mere par kood bhi sakta hai, tu bark bhi kar sakta hai, tu har cheez kar sakta hai. Lekin hum bahut leni-bahut lenient rehte hain aur thodi-thodi cheezein try karke dekhte hain. Uske upar kya work ho raha hai, kaise wo behave kar raha hai.

196. 28:54

     For example, humne martingale collar pakda aur seedha uske upar laga diya. Toh jaise hi wo aage ja raha hai, usko thoda sa idhar mod ke waapas se hum bithayein toh baith paa raha hai kya? Hai na? Jab hum darwaza khol rahe hain toh wo ekdam baahar bhaag raha hai.

197. 29:05

     Lekin hum usko waapas se andar lekar aaye toh wo phir se ruk paa raha hai kya? Is tareeqe ke aap uske saath experiments kar sakte ho.

198. 29:12

     So jab aap, haan, ye case ko agar aap ek baar mein, do baar mein, teen baar mein, chaar baar mein jitna marzi chahe chances lekar, agar wo aapki dost hai aur aap andar se calm ho, confident ho, compassionate ho, dog ko lekar frustrate nahi ho rahe ho toh kabhi bhi mana nahi karegi. Ye she will...

199. 29:28

     Lekin agar aap frustrate ho gaye aur wo frus-frustration dikh gayi then wo aapko mana kar degi. Matlab most, mostly zaroori nahi mana nahi kare. Agar wo understandable hogi toh nahi karegi otherwise mana kar degi don't work.

200. 29:39

     But aap kya kar sakte ho agar aap is cheez ko successfully kar sakte ho then you can handle any dog because ye ek high intensity wala dog hai.

201. 29:48

     Neeche dog kaun khaate hain? Jo ek high intensity par arouse ho jaate hain, wo khaate hain. So agar aap ye high intensity wale dog ko shant kar sakte ho then you can take every dog jo leash par pull karta hai.

202. Kashish

     30:01

     Okay.

203. Sunny

     30:02

     Every Labrador, Golden Retriever ka jo bhi pull karte hain wale dogs hain, un sabka cases aap le sakte ho phir uske baad.

204. Kashish

     30:07

     So to that, um, to add to that ki main usko walk par lekar gayi not on martingale collar. Uske paas jo normal collar tha, maine usse liya ki chal theek hai, tu mujhe de, hum chalein. He was okay. He was of course pulling. Toh maine sh-leash short kar di.

205. 30:22

     And now it's like ki um Mango and I are of the same age na, same weight na. Toh maine leash short kiye and then I walked him. Wo achha walk kiya. Aisa kuch problem nahi tha.

206. 30:36

     But agar usko nudge dete ho na bahut halka sa toh the owner goes like she is a friend of mine but still she goes like haay, haay, haay nahi. Uska gala, gala, gala matlab she is typical Punjabi and like nahi gala mere bachhe ka gala mud jayega. Aise nahi karo.

207. Sunny

     30:54

     Haan toh, yeah so wahi maine aapko bola na this thing ki bahut, bahut light hai na bahut light. Toh generally, generally kya hota hai na jab hum start kar rahe hote hain na toh jitna dekho wo dog pull kar raha hai right? Us pull se lagataar us dog ka gala ghut raha hai.

208. 31:12

     Okay toh yeh humko usko batana hota hai pehle kyonki wo humein guilt trip par daal rahi hai. Okay humein kahan bhej rahi hai wo? Ek guilt trip par bhej rahi hai. Hai na? Ek embarrassment, ek guilt trip par bhej rahi hai aur humein low confidence par daal rahi hai.

209. 31:24

     Toh humein unka aaina dikhana hoga unko. Unka aaina kya hai ki aapko is cheez se abhi dikkat ho rahi hai jo ek second ki thi. Okay ek second ki thi, lekin aapke saath yeh continuously iska gala dab raha hai, uska kya karenge apan? Uska kya karenge apan?

210. 31:39

     Hai na kuch time ke baad iska trachea aur isi wajah se toh aaya hai problem.

211. Kashish

     31:43

     Right.

212. Sunny

     31:43

     So lekin yeh toh ek part hua. Doosra part kya hota hai jo main naye behaviorist mein dekhta hoon, wo pull bahut tez karte hain jitni zaroorat nahi hoti hai aur plus tools galat use kar lete hain ya situation galat use kar lete hain. For example, aapke paas already dog hai. Aap naye-naye seekh rahe ho toh.

213. 32:03

     Aapke paas already dog hai. Aap dog ko walk kara rahe ho aur koi aapko doosra dog dikha toh aap bologe chalo main isko bhi walk kara leta hoon. That is the biggest mistake. Yeh biggest mistake hoti hai.

214. 32:13

     Matlab apna dog apne paas hai. Aap doosra dog bhi le rahe ho. Yaani abhi apne dog ki skill nahi aa rahi hai apne paas aur apan do dog ko saath mein walk karane ki skill seekh rahe hain. First yeh.

215. 32:20

     Doosra mistake yeh tools hum correct use nahi kar sakte, karte hain ki jo uska already collar tha kyunki hume, hum mana kar dete us samay par ki isko martingale collar lagega fabric wala. Is collar par nahi hoga yeh cheez.

216. 32:33

     Us collar ki wajah se aapke pulling behavior kyunki wo collar aapko frustration dega aur dog ko bhi frustration dega wo collar. Wo dog, wo collar kya hota hai na wo aise-aise hilta rehta hai lagataar. Wo kisi kaam ka nahi hai wo collar. Usko toh nikaal do dog ko aise hi chhod do.

217. 32:46

     Matlab it's like dog ke gale ke liye bhi kharaab, control ke liye bhi kharaab, dog ke guidance ke liye bhi kharaab. Wo jo neck ke collars aate hain khule hue poore. So hume martingale collar hi stuff aur hume tool ka wait karna hota hai phir.

218. 33:00

     Okay so yeah toh that's, that, that is also a mistake jo behaviorist karte hain. Wo tools ka wait nahi karte aur wo eager ho jaate hain yeh cheez karne ke liye ki we have to do this, we have to try this, we have to complete this. Hai na ki hum kar sakte hain kind of thing.

219. 33:13

     Aur isse kya hota hai confidence low chala jaata hai. So dono cases mein aapka confidence low chala jaayega. Why? It's not because of dog. It's not because of that human. It is because of your approach. Getting a point? Your approach galat thi. Woh human ki mistake thi kyunki aap human ko nahi badal sakte.

220. 33:32

     Okay aap dog ko nahi badal sakte. Wo toh wahi ke wahi rahenge. Aur reality kya hai? Galti unmein nahi thi, aapki approach mein thi. But best, best part kya hai? Hum apna, wo hamari hi toh approach hai. Jab chahe badal le. Haan toh yaar jab chahe badal le.

221. 33:46

     Toh jab hamari approach mein mistake thi, humne apni approach badal di toh ab outcome alag aayega. So apni approach kya hogi? Tools correct hone chahiye. Tools correct hone chahiye aur situation correct honi chahiye. Then you will take the case.

222. Kashish

     33:57

     Okay.

223. Sunny

     33:59

     But martingale collar par usko walk karao aur wo pehle uski wo lo approval.

224. Kashish

     34:03

     Yeh bhi mere ko aisa approval aisa mil gaya ki wo mil gayi mujhe neeche toh unhone kaha ki theek hai ek baar walk kara lo, koi baat nahi. Otherwise she doesn't want to, she doesn't want to put in the efforts. Like he was 50 kgs, now he is 54 kgs.

225. 34:21

     Toh abhi, abhi- You have to tell her ki iska weight toh badhta ja raha hai, kam nahi karna kya?

226. Sunny

     34:26

     Phir diabetes aur yeh sab cheezein kaise handle karoge?

227. Kashish

     34:29

     Yes, usko hips ke issues already hai, arthritis hai, usko bahut kuch hai.

228. Sunny

     34:32

     Toh vet se wo bologe na vet ne iska weight kam karne ke liye nahi bola kya?

229. Kashish

     34:36

     Haan bola wo hai wo vet ki diet. Toh I told her ki hum yeh sab bhi de sakte hain and she said ki mere ghar mein chicken nahi aata hai. So that's the thing na ki wo jaise adamant nahi ho jaate kayi baar.

230. 34:51

     So I have realized just to give a pretext ki wo meri bhi nahi, meri ke kisi bhi subject par aap baat kar rahe ho, wo kaat ke apni baat karke aur oh chalo main baad mein kar deti hoon wale log nahi hote. Wo waise type ke hai.

231. Sunny

     35:05

     So we have to inflict fear in them.

232. Kashish

     35:07

     I guess so.

233. Sunny

     35:09

     Yeah, to unke dimaag quiet karne ke liye. Bahut sar par chadhe hue hain, bahut ude hue hain. So that's completely on us ki matlab agar mere ko saamne agar is tareeke se log milte hain, matlab it's like aise hote hain jo is tareeke se, I inflict fear in their mind ki there dude what the fuck are you doing?

234. 35:28

     Matlab tu kar kya raha hai, kar kya rahi hai tu? Na dog ke saath kar, kar kya rahe ho?

235. Kashish

     35:32

     Right.

236. Sunny

     35:32

     Matlab yeah matlab usko lagataar choke kar rahe ho aur wo tumko dikh nahi raha hai. Aur tumko dikh yeh cheez, yeh cheez dikh rahi hai.

237. Kashish

     35:40

     Right.

238. Sunny

     35:40

     So tum usko lagataar ganda khaana khila rahe ho, apni plate mein se khaana khila rahe ho. Uska weight badhta ja raha hai. Usko hip dysplasia hota ja raha hai. Wo mota hota ja raha hai. Wo ek diabetic condition mein hai. Usko hyper blood pressure aaya hua hai.

239. 35:51

     Uske kya uski aankhein chali jaayengi, usko cataract ho jaayega. Kab tak wait karoge? Aise dogs ko cancer jaldi hota hai, jaldi mar jaate hain. Toh kya wait kar rahe ho?

240. Kashish

     36:00

     Uski body, body par bhi na do-teen lumps aayi hain. Ab wo mujhe pooch rahi thi ki kya test karana chahiye na? I said ki definitely karana chahiye. Lumps are never good.

241. Sunny

     36:08

     Haan matlab lumps jo age ke wise aate hain lumps, lekin wo motape ki wajah se, cancer ki wajah se bhi aate hain.

242. Kashish

     36:14

     Right.

243. Sunny

     36:15

     Yeah so we have to unko dimaag mein pain daalna padta hai, matlab fear daalna padta hai. Tab jaake wo shaant hote hain. Nahi toh shaant nahi hote. So shaant hote hain aur wo chup sehme hue log hain. Pata hai kaun log is tareeke se bolta hai? Jo sabse zyada nervous hote hain.

244. Kashish

     36:27

     I know right.

245. Sunny

     36:29

     From a psychology ke perspective jo sabse zyada nervous hote hain wo sabse zyada bolte hain. Wo kisi ko sunte nahi. Hamesha apne mind mein hi rehte hain. Unko baahar nikalne mein dikkat aati hai. Agar unko ek minute bhi meditation aankhein band karne ke liye baith do na wo phat jaayenge. They phat jaayenge wo cheez.

246. 36:43

     Toh we have to unko agar aise logon se communicate karna hota hai you have to put your point then you have to take help of fear. Okay, that's how they calm down. Unko fear dikhaana kyunki wo usi cheez ko face nahi kar rahe. They are speaking lagataar, lagataar, lagataar.

247. 37:00

     Why? Because they don't want to face the fear. Unka jo fear hai. So uska sabse bada fear kya hota hai uska apne loved one ko khone ka. Okay, that, that, that woman has the fear of sab ke fear hote hain but sabke apne top top ke kisi ke poverty ke zyada bada fear hota hai.

248. 37:20

     Hai na kisi ke loved one ka aise chheh tareeke ke fear hai. We will talk about something. Sab humans ke is tareeke hota hai. Kisi ke poverty ka fear hota hai. Kisi ke ill health ka sabse bada fear hota hai. Usi tareeke se fear of loved ones ka hai aur jab wo fear badh jaata hai toh nahi dekhte.

249. 37:33

     Dekhna band kar dete hain. Toh agar usko nahi dikh raha hai, kyun nahi dikh raha hai? Hai na usko kyun nahi dikh raha? Kyunki uske andar wo fear hai. Fear of losing loved ones. Toh hume iske baare mein bataana hota hai ki you will lose him.

250. Kashish

     37:46

     Sure.

251. 37:48

     I will work on it and I will let you know.

252. Sunny

     37:50

     Yeah maza aayega. Cool. Zyada, zyada mat fear de dena.

253. Kashish

     37:55

     Nahi, nahi, nahi she is already a very paranoid person sir.

254. Sunny

     37:59

     I told you. Yeah, that's, that's wo sure signs hai unke. Matlab sure signs hote hain. Okay. Toh again ye hamare upar yadi agar hum zyada bol rahe hain aur hum, hume samajh nahi aa raha hum kya bolte ja rahe hain, kya bolte hain which means hamare andar nervousness aa chuki hai, insecurity aa chuki hai. Okay.

255. 38:19

     Yes, Parth.

256. Parth

     38:21

     Teen question.

257. Sunny

     38:21

     Tere toh sawaal, tere toh sawaal ho gaye the. Tu waapas aa gaya.

258. Parth

     38:24

     Yaad aa gaye call.

259. Sunny

     38:25

     Line mein, line mein waapas lag gaya. Bol.

260. Parth

     38:29

     Pehla question hai ki jaise koi in-person ke liye aapke paas koi case aaya ki aapko usko in-person attend karna hai.

261. Sunny

     38:36

     Haan.

262. Parth

     38:36

     Wo session se pehle abhi tak jaise abhi jaise main Pawna mein aapke saath sessions mein volunteer karta hoon toh hamari approach hoti hai ki hum session se pehle kaafi details le lete hain dog ke baare mein aur humein ek brief pata hota hai ki dog kaisa hai and hum mentally uske hisaab se prepared rehte hain aur thoda strategy bhi hoti hai, discussion bhi hoti hai.

263. 38:52

     Uske hisaab se we go through a session. Ab ek different approach mili ki go without knowing anything about the dog ki bas chale jao session mein.

264. Sunny

     39:00

     Yes.

265. Parth

     39:00

     So that aap pehle se mindset na lekar aa rahe ho. Aap wo inflict na kar rahe ho dog pe toh ab kaise?

266. Sunny

     39:07

     This is, this is mujhe nahi pata hota dog ke baare mein kuch bhi.

267. Parth

     39:11

     Okay.

268. Sunny

     39:12

     Okay. So jaise generally main jab leta hoon toh Tapti usko, unko wo karti hai aur mujhe bolti hai jaise for example Tapti ke paas call aaya. Tapti ne mere ko bola ki yaar ye call baar-baar aa raha hai aur baar-baar request kar rahi hai aur ismein dog bahut darta hai aur attack karta hai aur bulaya tere ko.

269. 39:28

     That's it. I know that's it that much only. Mere ko sirf pata hai ki kahan, kahan par hai aur kab jaana hai. That's it. Toh itna hi pata, itna hi, itna hi pata hota hai. For example ab ye kyon? Kyunki human apni story banata hai aur human apni story banata hai. Wo tumhare dimaag mein jaati hai.

270. 39:43

     Ab jab tumhare dimaag mein jaati hai toh ek baar toh jaati nahi hai. You will keep repeating on yourself. Toh tum apni story bana lete ho. Ab jab tumhari story banti hai, ab tum dog ko us story se dekhte ho. Okay, not as a dog.

271. 39:54

     Aur main jaata hoon mere, main toh, main, main jaata hoon aur main ye, ye koshish bhi karta hoon ki dog ke jaane se pehle jo bhi mere dimaag mein data hai, main usko hata doon dog ke baare mein. Ki main present mein reh ke jaaoon. Mujhe past aur future ka kuch bhi nahi pata.

272. 40:07

     Toh aise karke bhi main andar ghusta hoon ki haan ek saans leta hoon. Ab mujhe past aur future ka kuch bhi nahi pata. Mujhe jo pata hai abhi pata hai aur abhi saamne nameplate kya likhi hai.

273. 40:14

     Ye hai, inka, inka ghar hai. Achha inka dog hai. Darwaja kholta hoon. So that's how prime my mind to be in present. Toh present ki cheezein dekhne lag jaata hoon wahan par. Okay. Ki ye, ye present ki cheez hai ki present ki cheez hai ki usse kuch trigger ho raha hai kya? Usse lagataar trigger hona hota hai.

274. 40:29

     Past din again I stop. Kuch bhi trigger nahi ho raha but ye naam, ye naam hai nothing else. Then I go enter. Ye automatically ho gaya but tum pooch rahe ho toh I can recall ki aise ho raha hai, aise kar raha hoon.

275. Parth

     40:39

     Second question is ki slip aur martingale mein kab, kismein, kahan use karna chahiye matlab?

276. Sunny

     40:45

     Main mostly martingale collar prefer karta hoon. Main pehle slip leash, slip leash prefer kar-kar-karta tha. So slip leash jo human dekh raha hota hai uske liye bhi achha nahi hota. Wahan se bhi hum confidence lose karte hain. Slip leash ka bas ek ye faayda hota hai ki humein kam mehnat karni padti hai.

277. 40:59

     Correction jaldi hota hai. Okay. Agar hamari skill down hai toh bhi slip leash madad kar deti hai usmein. That is the, that is the, that is the benefit. Toh tumhare upar hai. But main ab slip leash use nahi karta. Main martingale collar use karta hoon.

278. 41:11

     Martingale collar mujhe zyada safe lagta hai dog ke perspective se aur, aur mere ko zyada confidence deta hai ki mujhe pata hota hai ki yaar wo slip leash jaisa usko choke nahi karega aur wo kheenchega bhi toh use kind of thing. Okay.

279. Parth

     41:21

     And pressure matlab dono poora 360 dete hain ki...

280. Sunny

     41:27

     Ek toh tumhe pressure difference ka tumhe pata chalega ki nudge, nudge is not the correct thing. Getting a point? Nudge is not the correct thing jo poora bhale wo Cesar Millan bhi bata rahe hain aur ye sab bhi baaki log bhi yahi cheez focus karte hain. But nudge is not the correct thing.

281. 41:42

     Nudge, nudge se bhi behtar ek tareeka hai aur wo, wo tareeka hota hai wo tension ko carry karna.

282. 41:49

     Tension ko carry karne se kya matlab hota hai? For example agar dog ke yahan par collar laga hua hai. Okay. Collar laga hua hai toh agar main usko nudge nahi karoonga, main usko upar pull karoonga, tension doonga then release karoonga. It's not a nudge thing. Okay.

283. 42:01

     Lekin agar dog aage, dog aage chala gaya, dog aage ja raha hai, dog aage ja raha hai toh main usko usi gardan se waapas se tension ke saath hi waapas se lekar aata hoon aur tension ke saath there is no nudging. Okay.

284. 42:13

     For example dog agar react karta hai toh dog ko react karne dete hain then again, again tension se waapas se usko ghuma ke lekar aate hain then waapas se bithate hain. There is no nudging. Okay. Kahin par bhi nudge ka concept nahi hai is jagah par.

285. 42:27

     Lekin aapko nudging bahut common lagegi is poore ke poore behaviorist ke field mein Cesar Millan ke field mein.

286. 42:34

     Cesar Millan ke bhi agar aap baaki ke videos dekhoge toh aage chalkar unhone nudging band kar di thi. Because wo bhale wo consciously nahi ho us cheez ke upar unko pata nahi ho ya unhone kabhi is cheez ke baare mein socha nahi ho.

287. 42:45

     Nudging aur tension ko kaise wo karna ki like wo difference lekar aa rahe hain in sab cheezon mein toh unke aage ke naye jo latest videos hai toh usmein wo kam hote hue dikhai diye. Okay, it's more tension se fly karna usko.

288. Parth

     43:01

     Third question, ki jaisa abhi aap calf bhi hai, aapke paas dogs bhi hai toh aapko species level par kya difference lagta hai dono mein? Jaise ek predator ek prey ho gaya.

289. Sunny

     43:12

     Yaar matlab abhi jaise emotional perspective se toh same hai saare ka saara hisaab lekin intensity different hoti hai.

290. 43:21

     So intensity jaise dogs, jaise dogs mein predator intensity zyada hai, wo calf mein thodi hai. Hai na? Wo toh zero hai uske andar. Wo calf ke andar wo maarne zaroor aata hai lekin wo predator thodi hai. Wo hunt karne nahi aa raha. Wo apne aap ko door karne aa raha toh uske andar wo instinct hi nahi hai hunting ki.

291. 43:37

     So that's the, baaki dog jaisa hi hai completely. Dog jaisa matlab hai ki ek emotional being hai. Jaise bachhe samajh lo, dog samajh lo. Ab jo dogs ko samajh rahe ho emotional toh bachhe bhi waise hi hote hain na. Human ke bachhe bhi emotional beings hi hai na. Matlab hum bhi toh ek, ek tareeke se being hai na.

292. 43:54

     Usi tareeke se dog bhi ek tareeke se being hai. Wo emotional beings hai. Unke andar emotions hai. Unka apna parivaar hota hai, apna connections hote hain. Usi tareeke se calf ke saath bhi aisa hi hai. Calf ke saath, mujhe calf ke saath ye main bata sakta, ye bata sakta hoon ki calf ne mere andar kya badlaav kara.

293. 44:11

     So calf se pehle, calf ke baad mere ko yeh samajh mein aaya mujhe apni oorja ko soft karna nahi aata tha. Okay, ek dog ke saath ek level tak aate thi lekin calf ke saath aur softer karna tha. Jo meri nahi thi, wo Tripti ki thi. So Tripti ke paas wo khincha chala aa raha tha lekin mujhse door bhaag raha tha. Hai na?

294. 44:31

     Toh maine kaha what the fuck? Hai na? Ye kya hai? So us samay maine kaha aisa kya hai? Toh maine kaha apni energy aur neeche karta hoon. Lekin ek level par pahuncha usse neeche ja hi nahi rahi. Isse neeche soft hi nahi ho rahi. Maine kaha isse neeche soft kya hota hai? Zameen par let jaaoon? Matlab kya karoon?

295. 44:45

     Agar insaan ko pata nahi hai ki isko kaise karein. Jaise agar main kisi ko bol doon assertive ho jao. Assertive kya, kya ho jaaoon? Saamaan phod doon? Are bhai ab matlab usko main kaise bataaoon ki assertive ka koi level nahi hai. Usi tareeke se mere ko us din samajh mein aaya ki softness ka koi level nahi hai.

296. 44:59

     Hai na? Main hamesha idhar hi dekh raha tha. Assertiveness, assertiveness, assertiveness, softness ka kidhar gaya? Softness par kaam hi nahi kiya. Toh main toh assertive hota ja raha tha cheezon ko lekar. Lekin ab calf aaya. Uske saath toh softness lagegi yaar. Uske saath toh calmness zyada lagega.

297. 45:14

     Uske saath toh main tezi se move nahi ho sakta is tareeke se, jis tareeke se main dog ke saath hunting mode mein move ho jaata hoon aur unko baitha deta hoon. Toh woh toh bilkul bhaagne lag gaya mujhse. Then phir mere ko understanding aayi. Then I started practicing. Kya bulao Nandu bulao.

298. 45:27

     Bhaaga chala aata hai aur yeh bolo Nandu bhaaga chala gaya. Kidhar hai mera aalu kidhar hai? Maine kaha baad mein doonga. Ghus jaata hai andar. Maarne lag jaata hai mere ko seeng se ki hat ja, hat ja raaste se. Maine kaha teri bataoon tujhe mujhse pange le raha tu.

299. 45:42

     Toh main apni energy ko soft karke aise kar sakta hoon uske saath.

300. 45:45

     Lekin usse, usse learn kiya maine. Usse, usse, usse seekha. So that's usne sikhaya mere ko. Baaki emotional level, energetic level par sab same hai bhai. Sab same hai. Bas kisi ke andar yeh instinct zyada aati hai, kisi ke andar yeh instinct zyada aati hai.

301. 46:00

     Kisi ka define, kisi ka mind, brain bachpan se hi kisi tareeke se work karne ke liye bana hai. Lekin har ek ka kisi na kisi tareeke ka ek intelligence hai.

302. 46:11

     Ab jaise iska intelligence hai, apne level ka intelligence hai, ghaas dhoondhna, ghaas khaana, ghaas ko pachaana, lagataar ghaas khaate rehna, kahan par baithna, kahan par uthna, uska intelligence hai.

303. 46:22

     Yeh toh sab, sab ke apne-apne intelligence hai but beings same hi lage mujhe emotional level par, energetic level par same hi cheez lagi. Same hi hai.

304. Parth

     46:32

     Thank you.

305. Sunny

     46:32

     Yeah. Yes Sanshul last one. Arre Pulushka ji bhi baaki hai.

306. Sanshul

     46:39

     Just give me a moment Sunny.

307. Sunny

     46:40

     Yeah.

308. Sanshul

     46:45

     So Sunny jaise humne abhi jaise aapne assertiveness ki baat ki toh mera usi se related ek question tha. I have one of my friend's dog lived with me for like five to ten days long back. So uski ek aadat thi ki woh pehli baar toh woh shayad mate nahi hua tha. Woh bahut hyperactive tha shayad.

309. 47:00

     Toh jaise mera ek friend mere saath us time par rehta tha. Woh 24 by 7 uske pair par hump hi karta rehta tha. Woh initially jab aaya toh usne pehla usko, sabse pehle usko hi attack kiya aur woh poore time jab ghar par rehta tha toh woh normal aise walk kar raha hai jaise koala ek tree ke saath hai.

310. 47:19

     Uske saath- Hump kar raha hai. Haan, uske baad usne ek do baar mere saath kiya. But I calm him down. I put her on a, put him on a ground. Then after that he stopped.

311. Sunny

     47:29

     Yeah.

312. Sanshul

     47:29

     But uske saath woh 24 by 7 aisa hi rehta tha.

313. Sunny

     47:32

     Yeah man.

314. Sanshul

     47:33

     Toh yeh uski hyperactiveness ki wajah se.

315. Sunny

     47:37

     Not hyperactiveness. Dog ke andar frustration hai, pehli cheez. So dog ke andar frustration hai. Dog humping karke woh release karte hain.

316. Sanshul

     47:44

     Okay.

317. Sunny

     47:45

     Okay, but that is a bad habit. Humping karke release, humping karke release karte hain. Lekin woh humping karke release unhi ke upar karte hain jo insaan passive hota hai.

318. Sanshul

     47:53

     Okay.

319. Sunny

     47:54

     Jo apna ground stand nahi kar sakta.

320. Sanshul

     47:57

     Okay.

321. Sunny

     47:58

     Okay, that human has to work on it. Kyunki uski duniya ki lagi padi hai because of this habit.

322. Sanshul

     48:04

     Okay.

323. Sunny

     48:05

     Coming to the point, tu usko matlab bata dega teri duniya ki isliye, tere, teri zindagi ki isliye lagi hui hai kyunki tu apna ground stand nahi kar sakta. Simple as that. Woh seekh le toh teri life badal jaayegi. Toh woh bande ka woh issue hai. Woh dog usko bata raha hai.

324. 48:22

     Ab dog aise, aise symbiotic relationship nahi hota. Symbiotic relationship samajhte ho na? Ek doosre ki help karte hue relationship hota hai. Woh poora nature hai yeh. Toh nature ek doosre ki help kar raha hai. Lekin woh help tum decide nahi karoge na ki kaise kar raha hai. Hai na?

325. 48:36

     Help nature decide karta hai ki woh help kaise karega. So yeh dog uski emotionally usko bataane ki koshish kar raha hai. Agar tu read kar sakta hai nature ke signs ko. Nature ke sign kya bata raha hai ki mere bhai agar tu aise behave karta raha na toh teri lagti rahegi.

326. 48:53

     Samajh mein aa raha usko uska kya bata raha hai. Tumhaare saath bhi yahi problem thi. But somehow you are learning it. Hai na. Somehow you are learning how to stand your ground. Somehow you are learning. Tu uske upar work kar raha hai. Tere ko pata chal gaya. Lekin tera bhi yahi problem tha. Okay na.

327. 49:08

     That's why matlab woh dog ne tere pe try kiya. But mujhe kaise pata ki tere andar yeh problem thi ya yeh tere andar problem ja rahi hai? Kyunki tune apna ground stand kiya. Okay. Tune apna ground stand kiya toh human pattern mein behave karta hai patterns mein.

328. 49:23

     Aap jahan chhoti jagah par jis tareeke se behave kar rahe ho waise hi pahaad ki jagah par bhi waise hi behave karte ho. That's the pattern. So dog ke saath pattern kya aa raha hai? Dog mere upar hump kiya isko isko samajik bhasha mein translate kar.

329. 49:37

     Dog ne mere upar hump kiya yaani main kuch nahi chahta tha aur yeh mere upar entertainment lekar ja raha hai.

330. 49:45

     Samajik bhasha mein kya hai iska matlab ki main nahi chahta tha logon ko entertain karna. Lekin log mujh par force karke mujhse entertainment lekar ja rahe hain. Ab tu apni duniya mein yeh kitne scenes dekh sakta hai. Tere saath jeevan mein kitni baar hua yeh ki tu entertain nahi karna chahta tha.

331. Sanshul

     50:04

     But just getting along with the thing.

332. Sunny

     50:06

     Logon ne force karke tere upar ya kisi bhi emotionally woh karke tujhse entertainment liya aur baad mein chalkar tujhe woh jab khayal aate hain toh tujhe kya feel hota hai? Low confidence. Because tune kya kiya jo tu nahi karna chahta tha. Aur unko kya feel hota hai confidence. Kyunki unko kya mila unhone karwaya.

333. Sanshul

     50:27

     They can do things.

334. Sunny

     50:28

     Yeah they can, they can manipulate you. They can tujhe dance kara sakte hain woh.

335. 50:33

     Toh they have a puppet toh how they will feel? They will feel significant. Okay toh tujhe woh group mein kyun rakhenge? Tujhe apne saath mein kyun rakhenge? To feel significant. So be careful about that. Okay so that's that's tere friend ke saath zyada dikkat hai. If you observe them na.

336. 50:51

     Agar tu observe karega na usko toh you will find ki usko zyada problem hai uske ground usko stand karne ke liye. Toh maybe woh tujhse guidance leta hai.

337. 50:59

     Okay tujhse cheezein leta hai and you usko tu usko batata ho ki aise kar le aise kar le kind of somehow, somehow kisi na kisi bhale career ho ya kisi bhi cheez mein guidance de raha ho. Toh that's you both have to work karna iske upar. But you have to be careful about it man.

338. 51:15

     Okay you have to be careful about it and I am giving you more this because I was like that.

339. 51:21

     Okay to becoming a part of entertainment for people. People pleasing karna aur like inko meri care hai ya phir kisi tareeke se sochna ki bhai log mere baare mein care karte hain toh zara sa bhi jhootha bhi care dikhayenge na tu beh jaayega. Haan tu beh jaayega. Tu beh jaayega. Toh khaaskar ye kaun karta hai?

340. 51:42

     Kaun insaan karte hain? Matlab jaise tu bhi kar raha hai, main bhi kar raha hoon ise. Toh kaun insaan generally ye karte hain jinko care ki talaash hoti hai but unko care ki talaash kyon hoti hai? Kyonki unko jitni care milni chahiye thi ghar mein utni nahin mili.

341. Sanshul

     51:55

     Ya matlab emotional well being achhe se nahin hui starting se ya again.

342. Sunny

     52:01

     Wo unka dosh nahin hai. Unko nahin pata. Okay unka dosh nahin hai. Lekin wo ho gaya na. Matlab haan, main bhi apne environment ko jaakar thodi bolta rahoonga ki bhai tumne aisa kiya, tumne aisa kiya, tumne aisa kiya.

343. 52:13

     Wo kya bolenge? Bhai humko toh pata hi nahin tha ye sab cheezein hoti hain. Mahiti mala mahiti nahin hai na wo bol denge. so hume ka matlab Marathi mein bolte hain. Mahiti naahi Marathi matlab mahiti naahi matlab mujhe pata nahin. Mujhe pata nahin bhai. Toh wo aise bol denge toh un par grudge nahin rakhne ka.

344. 52:31

     Lekin tumhari toh life hai na. Tumhari toh problem hai na. So what mistake we do? People like us. What mistake we do? Jahan bhi care milti hai hum wahan beh jaate hain. Okay wahan beh jaate hain. So we don't humein aisa nahin karne ka. Sabse pehle kya karne ka? Mujhe care hi nahin chahiye. Care is overrated man.

345. 52:50

     Haan, mujhe care hi nahin, mujhe care hi nahin chahiye. Aapke I can do. Main apni khud ki care kar sakta hai. Haan, main apni khud ki care karega. Main apne dog ki care karega.

346. 52:59

     Main jo mere jaanwar mere paas aayenge main unki care karega. Meri care Prabhu ke haath mein. Matlab like main itna frustrated ho gaya. Maine bola meri care haan, mere ko nahin chahiye kind of thing. Hai na. Toh then uske baad kya hua? I can see people, I can see people manipulating me.

347. 53:16

     I can watch and that was painful. That was again painful. Okay humein mujhe wo pehle dikh nahin raha tha. Jinko main apna samajh ke baitha tha. Mujhe dikh nahin raha tha ki wo nakli the. Lekin jab maine care ka wo nikaal diya, mujhe shakl unki change dikhne lag gayi. Maine kaha yaar ye toh acting kar raha hai. Hai na.

348. 53:34

     Then I asked question they fumbled and then I gave them some task they again fumbled. So it matlab it was painful. Hai na. Matlab it was painful.

349. 53:45

     Kyon? Apne toh jeevan ke bahut saare life wo gaye. Lekin unhone thodi bola tha. Apne andar chool machi thi na care ki. Apan ko care chahiye tha na. So it was our mistake. They were mistake. Unhone faayda liya that's on them. Lekin mistake toh apni hai na. mistake toh apni hai na.

350. 53:59

     Yeah so dude wo dog ne achha signal diya ki stand your ground. Ab stand your ground karoge kaise? Karoge kaise stand your ground? Ye toh bolna toh bahut aasan hai. Abhi stand your ground karte kaise hain? Aata toh tum kar hi lete na.

351. Sanshul

     54:15

     To do what? To say your opinion or like present yourself at that point what you are thinking.

352. Sunny

     54:22

     Yeah to, to say always what you believe which is truth. Jo tumhe truth pata hai wo, wo bolna aur uske consequences ke responsible banna.

353. 54:33

     Okay jo uske consequences honge. For example logon ne bola chal party mein chalte hain. You will say no I don't want to go to party. Hai na. Chaliye masti karte hain. Daaru peete hain. No I don't want to drink this thing. Arre chal na kya boring hai. Arre chal na na par aana na dhikaana. So you will say no.

354. 54:48

     You will say no, always no. Agar karna hai toh is tareeke se lekin always truthful. Kabhi bhi jo nahin karna chahte wo nahin karne ka. okay, wo nahin karne ka. Matlab for a time being toh apne aap ko waapas se training dene ki yeh cheez ki tum apna ground stand kar sako. otherwise kaise karoge? Sab bech khaayenge.

355. 55:04

     Hundred percent, hundred percent guaranteed ke saath duniya will sell you bech khaayegi. Ek ek part, ek ek purza apne shareer ka, apne aatma ka, apne emotions ka. Jisko nahin pata jisko pata hai yeh baat duniya bech khaayegi.

356. 55:21

     dude bech khaayegi. Ek ek cheez agar hum badlenge nahin, agar hum badlenge nahin that's hundred percent guaranteed. okay toh change. Haan guys. Yes Purushka ji last one.

357. Pulushka

     55:36

     Mere ko do cheez poochna tha. Ek toh it's regarding dog behavior ka ek issue hai aur haalaanki usmein jiski mere friend ke ek dogs hai. Do German shepherd, ek retriever, ek indie aur ek lab. Ye sab ikattha rehte hain.

358. 55:56

     Ab point is their usko sabse badi problem yeh ho rahi hai ki jab bhi wo baahar jaata hai, out of station jaate hain, kahin par bhi jaate hain 10 minute bhi ghar se baahar nikalta hai toh phir they have this anxiety issues.

359. 56:11

     initially toh wo neeche chale jaate hain ya 10 minute ke liye jaate hain ek ghante ke liye that's the manageable. but bahut baar aisa hua hai ki jaise wo kahin Uttarakhand ja rahe the.

360. 56:22

     Idhar halfway he has to come back because wahan par halla mach gaya ghar par and also phir boarding mein bhi rakha sabko ek baar baahar nahin jaana tha toh flight cancel karke waapas aana pada matlab.

361. Sunny

     56:37

     Kyon?

362. Pulushka

     56:37

     They couldn't even, they couldn't even board the flight. Itna in logon ko karte hain aur in logon ne cage bhi todne lag gaya tha.

363. Sunny

     56:47

     Arre toh okay bahut saari cheezein iske andar jo correct karni hai. okay pehli cheez toh ek boarding aisi find karni hai jahan par trials ho sake. trials ka matlab, trials ka matlab hota hai ki aap usi city mein hote ho aur tab dog ko wahan par rakhkar aate ho check karne ke liye aur trials dog ke according hota hai.

364. 57:02

     for example ek dog ko 3 se 4 trial par jaana padta hai. Agar ek anxious dog hai toh okay. Lekin agar ye chaaron hi aise kar rahe hain toh iska matlab yeh bahut zyaada hai ki iski walk toh inki walk bilkul hi proper nahin hai. zero walk hai.

365. Pulushka

     57:14

     Maine pehli cheez yahi bola tha. Toh actually yeh problem owner ka bhi hai. he is matlab I don't know yeh thoda ego issues bhi hote hain. Shaayad I don't know yeh kaise handle kiya jaata hai because he is like nahin, nahin walk poora deta hoon main.

366. 57:28

     Mera toh poora society ke baahar ek park maine alag se rent you know he pays that area ka wo dogs ke liye.

367. Sunny

     57:36

     Main bolne waala tha unhone yard liya hua hai kya? Matlab unhone garden liya hua hai. garden mein chhoda hua hai.

368. Pulushka

     57:41

     Kya hai aur phir wo wahan par poora you know he let them lose and they play themselves.

369. 57:48

     Maine kaha phir bhi aapko shayad usse bhi ab mujhe lagta hai jis hisaab se iska energy hai saare ka toh utna kam hai nahi, nahi woh ghar aakar thak jaata hai ekdum. Ae bekaar I mean mujhe toh lagta hai usko bhi thoda he needs more you know training than the dog.

370. Sunny

     58:06

     Unko obviously unko antar batana hota hai ki jo aap usko open chhod rahe ho woh play hai.

371. Pulushka

     58:12

     Haan.

372. Sunny

     58:12

     Okay woh play hai. Kya woh exercise nahi hai. Exercise mein structure hota hai structure.

373. Pulushka

     58:19

     Exactly.

374. Sunny

     58:19

     Okay toh aur dog ko jab hum exercise mein structure dete hain toh unka mind calm down hota hai. Lekin agar hum dog ko sirf khuli exercise de rahe hain aur koi structure nahi de rahe toh unka, unka mind anxious hota hai, hyper hota hai.

375. 58:33

     Aur aapka dog humein kya dikha raha hai? Hyperness, anxiety, separation anxiety. Kyon? Kyunki usko utne jeevan mein structure nahi mil raha hai. Toh zara walk ka structure bataiye. Kab kab lekar jaate ho? Kya karte ho? Chalo theek hai. Chalo khaane ka structure bataiye. Chalo discipline ka kya hai? Play ka kya hai?

376. 58:50

     Aur aap log milte kaise ho? Affection kaise dete ho? Structure kya hai? Is dog ke saath structure ka issue hai. Okay toh is dog ko hum kaise theek karte hain? Human ko poori knowledge dete hain structure ki, rituals of dogs ki.

377. 59:03

     Iska structure ka issue hai aur agar woh human kya bolte hain iske liye agree karta hai ki hum ek ghar mein unki treadmill hoti hai toh hum unko sikha ke aate hain ki dog ko treadmill par kaise chalana hai. Okay toh tab jaakar woh dog treadmill par bhaagte hain.

378. 59:19

     Dham dham dham dham dham dham exercise karte hain. Phir doosra aata hai phir woh bhaagta hai teesra bhaagta hai. Woh yeh bhaagna aur park ka bhaagna alag kya hai? Alag kya hai? Park mein idhar udhar falan jagah. Treadmill kya hai? Straight.

379. Pulushka

     59:32

     Haan, yeh kya karta hai ek ball lekar phenkta hai. Woh laata hai. Yeh ek game ho raha hai. Unko lagta hai sab kuch isi mein mera that's what I am.

380. Sunny

     59:41

     Woh unko samjhana padta hai. Play aur structure mein structure exercise mein samjhana. Woh matlab samjhana padta hai. Phir saare din ka structure toh unko batana hota hai ki aapke jo dog ka issue hai na woh structure ki wajah se. Toh phir bolte hain are achha, achha kaisa structure?

381. 59:55

     Toh phir hum unko structure samjhate hain. Lekin pehle unko problem batani hoti hai. Solution se pehle kya batayenge unko problem batayenge poori ki poori. Ki aap jo park mein de rahe ho bahut hi achhi cheez hai aur bahut hi kam log aise karte hain.

382. 1:00:08

     Yeh kya hua ego ko nourishment.

383. Pulushka

     1:00:11

     Use unka bahut hai.

384. Sunny

     1:00:12

     Ego toh humein samajh mein jo cheez saamne waala jis cheez se samajhta hai woh istemaal karega na insaan.

385. Pulushka

     1:00:18

     Haan.

386. Sunny

     1:00:18

     Hai na. Saamne waala Marathi mein samajhta hai aur main Kannada bolun yeh toh chalega nahi na bhai. Hai na. Ab woh egoist samajh gaya toh apan kya bolenge? Are aap isko itna dete ho, inke saath khelte ho. Haan bhai khelte. Are aisa toh bahut hi kam log karte hain aur yeh bahut hi achhi cheez hai.

387. 1:00:32

     Lekin ek cheez aapko jaanni padegi woh yeh hai ki dog ka mind calm tab hota hai jab hum unko unki life mein ek structure lekar aate hain. So woh jo play hai usmein structure nahi hai. Toh agar hum bina structure ke koi bhi activity karte hain aur woh hum zyada karte hain toh dog more anxious ho jaata hai.

388. 1:00:48

     Calm down kam hote hain toh humein aise exercise lekar aani hoti hai jiske andar structure ho toh bolenge yeh kaun se exercise hai bhai jiske andar structure hai.

389. 1:00:55

     Aap bologe structured walk. Toh hum is tareeqe se unko lead karte hain. Kis taraf lekar lead. Jaise ab aap kaise lead karne ki koshish kar rahe the. Aap saamne break, break le aaye. Humein break nahi laana. Isse kya isse oorja ruk jaayegi aur isse chilla chot chaalu ho jaayegi. Unki aawaaz badhne lag jaayegi.

390. 1:01:13

     Woh tez tez bolne lag jaayenge. Woh jaldi jaldi aapko kaatna start kar denge aapki baaton ko. Toh us samay kya samajh mein aayega yaar main kahin na kahin maine break le aayi hoon. Hai na? Woh flow nahi hua us jagah par toh hum break hataenge. Woh bolenge ki main unko park mein khilaata hoon.

391. 1:01:27

     Are achha achha aap unko park mein khilaate ho. Kya bahut lamba khelte hain? Kya khelte hain? Are aisa toh koi bhi nahi karta. Bahut hi achhi baat hai. Yahan se aap unko lead karoge, okay lead karoge. So pehle unke saath chalenge hum.

392. 1:01:38

     Jo jis jagah ja rahe hain unmein unko thoda nourishment denge, thoda encouragement denge aur unko thoda apna woh compassion denge, calmness denge.

393. 1:01:48

     then uske baad hum confidence se unko lead karte hain. not pehle okay.

394. Pulushka

     1:01:52

     okay achha last question yeh tha ki ek meri friend hai unhone na woh ek Maltese laayi hai.

395. Sunny

     1:02:01

     haan.

396. Pulushka

     1:02:01

     so now she is almost three months vaccination poori hui nahi hai toh baahar lekar nahi gayi hai. but woh- bahut mushkil hai. pee karne ka poora, pee karne ka badi issue chal raha hai ghar pe.

397. Sunny

     1:02:14

     haan.

398. Pulushka

     1:02:14

     aisa do case hai ek Bangalore ka hai aur idhar ka hai.

399. Sunny

     1:02:19

     haan.

400. Pulushka

     1:02:19

     toh how to just you know abhi baahar lekar nahi gaye obviously.

401. Sunny

     1:02:25

     so unka ghar par na ek area banana hota hai pee pad lagaane hote hain us jagah par.

402. Pulushka

     1:02:29

     woh keep hai. woh ek washroom mein hai na pee pad toh beech beech mein bahut time tak woh lamba usi habits mein ja rahi thi.

403. 1:02:38

     Aur kabhi kabhaar toh yeh ho raha hai ki jaise treat dekhti hai na woh pee pad ke paas jaakar pee karke aayegi turant treat chahiye. Yeh bhi habit unhone bana liya toh treat legi aur jaayegi.

404. Sunny

     1:02:52

     Haan baar baar pee karegi.

405. Pulushka

     1:02:54

     Haan aur lekin beech beech mein bilkul aisa bhoolkar sab jagah kar deti hai.

406. Sunny

     1:02:59

     So woh toh dekho ab usko koi yeh galat cheezein ban rahi hai na. Matlab galat cheezein ho rahi hai. Baar baar treat dena galat hai aur humein pee pad- Maine bola treat mat dena. Humein, humein pee pad ab do teen jagah rakhne padenge uske liye.

407. Pulushka

     1:03:11

     Achha.

408. Sunny

     1:03:12

     Haan, sirf ek jagah nahi. Ab jaise woh suppose kar lo dog ek tareeqe se karte aa raha tha. Ab uska behavior change ho gaya. Woh baahar bhi kar raha hai toh humein ek step back jaana padega. Direct humne idhar se thodi start kiya hoga ki direct hi humne bathroom mein rakhna.

409. 1:03:25

     Humne pehle baahar thoda rakha hoga phir thoda rakha hoga. Aur agar yeh female hai.

410. Pulushka

     1:03:30

     Haan female.

411. Sunny

     1:03:31

     Agar uska, agar uski abhi heat aa rahi hogi toh bhi zyada ho jaayegi.

412. Pulushka

     1:03:34

     Nahi nahi he is just three months old.

413. Sunny

     1:03:36

     Achha three months old hai sorry, sorry. Haan lekin knowledge ke liye ki agar jaise female ki heat aa rahi hoti hai toh bhi susu bahut zyada badh jaata hai.

414. Pulushka

     1:03:43

     Haan haan.

415. Sunny

     1:03:44

     Three month old ke liye toh humein jagah jagah pee pad rakhna padega. Woh toh bahut jaldi kar rahe ho phir.

416. Pulushka

     1:03:49

     Woh toh I don't know unhone ek habit bana liya tha ki do do ghante mein woh washroom le jaati thi pee pad mein karwaati thi aur uska aadat ban gaya. Woh karti thi bhi.

417. 1:03:58

     Ab kya ho raha hai beech beech mein ek hafta aisa hota hai ki poora jagah jagah karegi aur uske baad phir pee pad le, le jaakar woh jagah par woh karti hai toh bhi karti hai.

418. Sunny

     1:04:07

     Nahi woh toh treats dena band karna hai aur uski do teen jagah baahar bhi jagah banaani hai pee karne ki.

419. Pulushka

     1:04:12

     Achha.

420. Sunny

     1:04:13

     okay na bahar bhi jagah banani hai. Teen mahine ki hai bas abhi aur uske saath agar excitement se rahoge toh bhi wo baar baar pee karegi.

421. Pulushka

     1:04:19

     Wo toh godi wodi lekar ghoom rahe hain abhi.

422. Sunny

     1:04:22

     Toh unko batana padega kyunki Maltese bahut cute hoti hai.

423. Pulushka

     1:04:25

     Godi karne ka bhi aisa hota hai ki arey kaise isko aise karo. Itna cute hai ye. affection pehle hi apply ho raha hai.

424. Sunny

     1:04:34

     Haan toh wo humein batana hota hai na. just for example bolenge itna cute hai nahi sahi baat hai Maltese toh again same cheez. Maltese bahut cute hote hain. Humein bahut unko uthane ka man karta hai lekin ye jaldi bade ho jaate hain aur hamare baar baar uthane se inke andar separation anxiety develop ho jaati hai.

425. 1:04:48

     Toh jab bhi hum inko uthate hain toh hum kya de rahe hain inko comfort de rahe hain. Toh inki kya aadat banti hai ki human hi mujhe comfort de sakta hai aur jab human hi mujhe comfort dega toh aap bahar jaaoge toh bahut chillayega.

426. 1:04:58

     Toh agar aapko wo chalega toh aap uthate raho. Hai na uthate raho toh humein aise batana padta hai inko phir aise aise cheez kar. Lekin kya aap lagataar aise lete rahoge na toh aapko behavior aspect samajh mein aayega Pulushka ji.

427. 1:05:10

     Hai na kaafi ye aapko kaafi madad karengi ye saari ki saari aur ye behavior ke concepts lagane ke liye. Toh kabhi bhi break nahi lagani hai. Hamesha unke kisi bhi saath mein koi bhi cheez batani hai.

428. 1:05:21

     Jaise aapko godi mein uthana change karwana hai toh aap direct mein directly nahi bolenge hum koi bhi- abhi main kuch bol nahi rahi hoon. directly nahi bolenge ki godi mein, godi mein uthana. Jaise wo jaise hi bolenge na ki bahut cute hai bahut ye. Toh hum bolenge haan Maltese bahut cute hote hain.

429. 1:05:38

     Bahut ye hota hai then you will present. Kyunki aise separation anxiety create kar deta hai okay. Toh aap aise calmly unki kitni bhi cheezein aane do.

430. 1:05:46

     Ye sab objections hote hain. what we have to learn how to clear the objections that's it. Aur ye objections hum kaise seekhte hain by taking consultations nothing else. Lekin objection clear humein hi karne hai okay. Hum kabhi bhi sochenge human khud seekhega.

431. Pulushka

     1:06:01

     Same, same Maltese ka hi ek similar case aur family mein hi hai Bangalore mein. Unhone phir jaise hi laya uske baad trainer winner laye usko train karne ke liye. but then I suggested ki don't get into a training phase. trainer nahi hai behaviors lao. Toh wahi pee wali issues tha.

432. 1:06:17

     Ab mujhe yeh behaviors ka bhi kaise class hua mujhe nahi pata chal raha hai because unhone ek din yeh kiya ki bola unko ki 24 ghante usko sofa ke oopar chadha kar rakho so that jagah jagah pee na kare. Sirf pee break do.

433. Sunny

     1:06:32

     Kaun hain ye log?

434. Pulushka

     1:06:33

     I don't know.

435. Sunny

     1:06:38

     Kaun hain ye log? Matlab phir koi bhi- When I objected that this is abhi toh mera class hi shuru hua hai phir bhi mujhe itna knowledge hai ki yeh koi tareeka nahi hai.

436. Pulushka

     1:06:50

     then they change the behaviors. Na, dekh ye bhi hai behaviorist theek hai. Ab mujhe sunayi nahi. I mean recently I got to know that this pee issue is the major issue of that case also. For one day that behaviorist took the dog to his own place. Ab ye kyun lekar gaye mujhe ye bhi nahi samajh.

437. 1:07:11

     Ye bhi possibility hota hai?

438. Sunny

     1:07:13

     Nahi, bilkul nahi. Zero possibility.

439. Pulushka

     1:07:15

     Apne ghar par le jaane ka koi matlab nahi banta hai.

440. Sunny

     1:07:17

     Nahi, zero possibility. Hai na, apne ghar par tabhi le jaane ka matlab banta hai jab hum koi bada behavior ko change kar rahe ho.

441. 1:07:24

     Otherwise 90 se 98% jo bhi dog ki cheezein aani chahiye wo wahin par hi honi chahiye jahan par dog already hota hai. Kyunki dog waise hi behave karta hai environment ke hisaab se. Toh itne chhote dog ko wahan par lekar jaana against ye behaviorist nahi hai.

442. Pulushka

     1:07:36

     Exactly, mere ko pata nahi tha.

443. Sunny

     1:07:39

     Maine tum jitne bhi log join kiye the, tumne kai baar mere videos mein dekha hoga ki log apne aap ko behaviorist bolte hain, wo behaviorist nahi hai.

444. Pulushka

     1:07:44

     Haan.

445. Sunny

     1:07:45

     Koi na unki approach se lekar, na unki strategy se lekar, na unke dimaag se lekar kuch bhi behaviorist nahi hai. Bas behaviorist ek naam laga diya because ye regulated nahi hai. Regulated nahi hai. Okay?

446. Pulushka

     1:07:54

     Haan.

447. Sunny

     1:07:55

     So let's wo aapko batana padega this is not, not- haan, mujhe sofa wala toh maine usi time bataya.

448. Pulushka

     1:08:00

     Phir unko bhi bahut laga ki this is a kind of cruelty ho raha hai abhi. Toh matlab bahut hi unke beech mein bhi bahut wo hua ki bhai ye dog laakar hum cruelty mein thodi daalenge is tarah se.

449. 1:08:11

     Toh better I should change the...

450. Sunny

     1:08:13

     Yeah, su su wala wahi jo aapne pehle unse seekha na. Wo jo waise-waise jaise wo kar rahi hain. Wo same to same jagah-jagah mein pee pads rakhne hote hain aur observe karna hota hai dog ko ki actually dog hai na ek particular time par hi pee karte rehte hain. Wo khaane ke itni der ke baad, khaane ke...

451. 1:08:29

     toh shuruat mein humein bas thoda observe karna hota hai ki wo kab pee kar rahe hain. Toh humein unko treat se wahan lead karke lekar jaana hota hai aur wo kahin par bhi pee kar le na. Suppose kar lo aapke aankhon ke saamne usne kahin pee kar liya toh wo, usko galat mat samjho. Jaise usne zameen par hi pee kar liya.

452. 1:08:44

     Usko sahi samjho aur wahan par kya bologe? Go su su. Wo use kar loge. Wo word add- Sorry to intervene Sunny toh because maine Dodo Biden ko khud se train kiya tha toh main kya karti hoon kahin bhi agar aap jo keh rahe ho go su su ya go pee pee toh maine unko utha ke unke pee pad par rakh dete the.

453. Kashish

     1:09:01

     Again and again and again and again. Unke pee pads har jagah the.

454. Sunny

     1:09:07

     That is also a good thing. That is also a good thing. Aap puppy chhota hai na, chhote se hai toh su su kar raha hai usko uthao aur wahan jaakar rakh do. Okay? Usko wahan jaakar rakh do. Cool hai. So wo it's a very this thing.

455. 1:09:19

     Aap usko, unko onboard kar sakte ho apne saath and continuous unko seekhate raho aur unse poochho like abhi kaisa hai? Abhi kaisa result hai? Abhi kaisa result hai? Keep following them. Kaise karna hai? Kaise ho raha hai? Kya dog kaise respond kar raha hai? Aapne video banaya hai kya? Videos lo, ye sab cheezein lo.

456. 1:09:35

     You will learn a lot. Okay?

457. Pulushka

     1:09:38

     Thank you.

458. Sunny

     1:09:39

     Okay, that's it guys aaj ke liye. Aaj late ho gaye apan lekin kaafi achhi discussions hui aur main Oh My Dog ke jitne bhi hum nayi cheezein launch kar rahe hain main share karta hoon.

459. 1:09:48

     Ek baar go through ho aur main Everything Dog ke baare mein bhi share karunga ki kaise hum uske andar pack ke andar pack launch kar rahe hain aur poori India ko us taraf lekar aayenge. Okay? So let's go and let's work and let's meet again. Okay? Bye bye. That's it.

460. Kashish

     1:10:03

     Thank you.

461. Sunny

     1:10:04

     Yes, Sunday ko case study. Okay.

462. Kashish

     1:10:07

     Toh hum koi bhi apna case utha sakte hain like according to our understanding ek case lekar aana hai ya phir koi topic par discussion karna hai?

463. Sunny

     1:10:15

     Anything, anything, any topic ke oopar, any case ke oopar, kuch bhi tumhare experience ke oopar. Tumne kya cheez learn kari, kya cheez practice kari, usse kya results aaye, tumhare dimaag mein kya change hua? Anything which you can say.

464. 1:10:28

     The motive here is ki aap logon ko promote karna ki aap confidently apni baat rakh sako on a stage.

465. 1:10:36

     That is the thing. Ab uske liye aap koi bhi topic choose kar sakte ho. Okay? Koi bhi topic, complete freedom hai. Saturday bola, Saturday bola. Not this Saturday, next week, next week. Yeh Saturday nahi hai, next week aur sirf first batch ke liye. Yeh aapke liye nahi hai abhi Case Study Party.

466. 1:10:51

     Jo first batch ke liye hai.

467. Kashish

     1:10:54

     Jisme maine exam nahi diya, main de sakti hoon phir bhi?

468. Sunny

     1:10:57

     Haan, tu bhi, haan, de sakti ho, de sakti ho. Okay? Cool hai. That's it guys. Bye bye.

469. Kashish

     1:11:04

     Thank you.

470. Pulushka

     1:11:05

     Thank you everyone. Bye.