Pro group call · Fri 7 Aug 2026 · 1 hr 24 min
Sibling rivalry, spay recovery, and leash mastery in dog Q&A
This OhMyDog Pro group call was a rapid-fire Q&A led by Sunny Luthra covering real client cases brought by members. Topics ranged from resolving territorial fighting between an older male and a young assertive female, to post-spay behavioural confusion, prey-drive triggered reactivity, excitement urination, walking-order dominance, and reinforcing calm behaviour in non-food-driven dogs. Sunny also previewed a new breed lineage tool he is building to help members understand instinctive behaviours tied to a dog's ancestry.
Key points (6)
- Territorial and fighting-spirit behaviour in a young female dog toward an older male should be managed with more exercise for her, leashing her indoors, and staying calm during growling since growling and minor fights are normal canine communication, not misbehaviour.
- A recently spayed female dog's walking anxiety and reduced play were explained as temporary hormonal disorientation lasting one to two months, to be managed with reduced outdoor pressure and stair exercise instead of pushing walks.
- Panic in a reactive dog should be handled by shortening the leash and bringing the dog close to the handler's body rather than repeatedly nudging, since calm energy transfers physically and blocks the panic zone.
- A dog's breed lineage can explain surprising instincts, such as a Shih Tzu showing Lhasa Apso hunting behaviour triggered by squeaky or crying sounds, which should be satisfied through tug of war and chasing games.
- Reactivity training should reinforce redirection rather than use treats to redirect directly, and repeated short bursts of calm exposure build both the dog's tolerance and the handler's own emotional regulation skills.
- For sensitive, non-food-driven dogs, genuine positive feeling and eye contact from the handler can serve as a stronger reward than treats or toys.
- On the call
- Sunny, Manya, Yashika, Paresh, Kashish, Sakshi, Parth, Praphul, speaker_0, Manya Soni, Kashish Bhatia
Sibling rivalry, spay recovery, and leash mastery in dog Q&A
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Transcript
Hindi written in English letters. The audio is the record.
Speaker 1
Sheru then is when this problem started arising because Wolfie also started to retaliate. Like agar Sheru growl kar raha hai.
Sunny
Kitni age mein hua? Kuch age ka bataiye.
Speaker 1
Around six months around six after six months.
Sunny
Okay, six, six, seven months mein Wolfie ka behavior change hona start hua. Right?
Speaker 1
Yes, yes.
Sunny
Okay, okay.
Speaker 1
So she also started giving back to Sheru like replying back to Sheru. And then once it was so bad that you know I had to come in between and I separated both of them. Toh mujhe laga ki Sheru because he is older now he is eleven years old and Wolfie is a puppy but she is still big you know.
So agar usne usko kuch kar diya like it takes longer for Sheru to- Abhi Wolfie ka age kya hai?
Abhi she is ten months.
Sunny
Aur uski heat aa chuki hai.
Speaker 1
Aa chuki hai first heat is done.
Sunny
Six to seven months mein heat aayi thi. Kab heat aayi thi?
Speaker 1
Six to seven, six to seven around that time only.
Sunny
Yeah, that is the issue. So it is, it is not about the height ka issue. It is about ki maturity ka issue hai woh. So- Okay. Jaise hi ek female ki heat aati hai aur us heat ke dauran uski body mein changes start hote hain. Not just in body, in mind also.
Speaker 1
Okay.
Sunny
So woh puppy us, us time se woh puppyhood se bahar nikal jaate hain. Okay. So agar us, us, us toh woh puppyhood mein nahi hai. Woh teenage mein aa chuki hai. Okay. Like matured, ek matured. Aur woh chhah se saat mahine mein hi aa chuki thi. Okay.
So six to seven months mein jab puppy is stage mein pahunch jaata hai, woh apni dominance assert karna chaalu karta hai.
Speaker 1
Right.
Sunny
So, so he so she is asserting her dominance over apna Sheru.
Speaker 1
Sheru.
Sunny
Okay. Now aapke video ko dekhkar jo Wolfie ke baare mein samajh mein aaya. Wolfie ke andar ek fighting spirit hai. Okay. Usko tug of war khelna pasand aata hai. Like- Pasand hai.
Speaker 1
Yeah, yeah, yeah, she loves it. Yeah.
Sunny
To she, she loves that. Aur jab kabhi aapne usko khelte hue dekha hai doosre dogs ke saath?
Speaker 1
So doosri dog she goes to a daycare alternate day I told you na wahan par aur dogs hai. So she is mostly fine with bigger dogs like there is a Pakistani bully there like he is huge huge like big face.
So she is fine with that submissiveness dikhaate she comes down that rolling and all everything she does okay. She knows her social discipline but she doesn't want to show it to any other dog.
Sunny
Yeah because because it is not because it is about assertiveness. Agar saamne waale dog ke paas woh assertive energy hai she will surrender. Lekin agar saamne waale dog ke paas assertive energy nahi hai she will dominant.
Speaker 1
Right.
Sunny
She will dominant that thing. So jo aapne Wolfie ka video diya so hum jab uski body ke type ko dekhte hain toh hum chest par bhi dekhte hain. So uska chest bahut solid hai. So aise dogs ke andar fighting spirit zyada hoti hai. Unko tug of war zyada pasand hota hai.
Unko hunt karna zyada pasand hota hai aur jab woh khelte hain na woh dono pairon par oopar khade hokar- Right.
-apni chest ko pump chest ko pump karte hain.
Speaker 1
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Sunny
So woh Sheru nahi hai. Okay.
Speaker 1
Sheru is also like that as when he was young.
Sunny
Haan but ab nahi hai.
Speaker 1
Ab nahi hai. Yeah because of the age he slowed down.
Sunny
Yeah so, so Wolfie jo bhi age ke hisaab se jo bhi joints ke issues ke hisaab se ya phir weight ke hisaab se uska yeh behavior ab itna prominent nahi hai Sheru ka.
Speaker 1
Right.
Sunny
Lekin jab Wolfie uske saath yeh try karegi na toh Sheru chidhega aur us chidh mein fight hogi.
Speaker 1
Yes.
Sunny
Toh aur, aur yeh fight ka phir habit hota jaayega. Phir aur zyada aapko territorial behavior aapko Wolfie ke andar dikhaayi dene lagegi.
Speaker 1
Correct.
Sunny
Toh Wolfie agar kahin baithi hui hogi aur Sheru ya koi bhi matlab Sheru wahan se niklega toh she will growl.
Speaker 1
Yes, yes it is happening.
Sunny
Aur agar woh, aur agar woh khaana khaa rahi hogi toh she will growl again usko dekhkar.
Speaker 1
Okay. Khaane mein itna woh nahi hai like insecurity nahi hai.
Sunny
It is not about, it is not about insecurity. Agar Sheru usko dekhega khaana khaate samay ya phir uske paas se niklega she can growl.
Speaker 1
She will yes, yes.
Sunny
Yes. Toh, toh is aise dogs ke andar territorial behavior hota hai aur ek fighting spirit hoti hai.
Speaker 1
Okay.
Sunny
Okay. Wolfie ke andar. Har ek dog ke andar aisa nahi hota. Okay. Lekin Wolfie ke andar ek territorial behavior hai aur fighting ki spirit hai.
Speaker 1
Right.
Sunny
So territorial behavior jab woh Sheru ke oopar daalte hain aur Sheru usko mana karte hain toh fighting spirit trigger ho jaati hai.
Speaker 1
Okay.
Sunny
So ab aise dogs ke saath humein kaise behave karna hota hai? Aise dogs ke saath humein exercise ko increase karna hota hai. Okay. Toh hum jab exercise ko increase karte hain Sheru ko jitni exercise chahiye usse kahin zyada Wolfie ko chahiye.
Lekin right now kya ho raha hoga Sheru ko jitni mil rahi hogi utna hi Wolfie ko mil rahi hogi.
Speaker 1
Zyada milta hai.
Sunny
Kaise jaate ho? Walk par kaise, kaise hota hai?
Speaker 1
Three times a week we have a dog walker. Toh usko aadha-aadha ek ek ghanta ghumaate both of them and Wolfie she goes to a farm alternately maine aapko bataaya na.
Sunny
Okay.
Speaker 1
So alternate day woh jab jaati hai then she is running around in the farm like when she comes back at around 7 o'clock in the evening she goes up at around 9 o'clock in the morning. Toh shaam ko 7:00 baje tak aati hai tab tak woh thak ke aa jaati hai like she gets a good dose.
But when she like we have an apartment situation we live in an apartment toh Tai says so I send her alternate day and because I also want to spend time with her in the house. So usko yeh nahi lagna chahiye ki that farmhouse is her house.
Sunny
Yeah, yeah. So basically- So then yeah. Yeah so jaise jab woh thak kar aati hai tab bhi ladaai ke chances aapko zyada dikhte hain ya phir kam hote hue dikhaayi dete hain?
Speaker 1
Woh so jaati hai phir.
Sunny
Matlab Sheru agar baahar ghoom raha hota hai, Sheru baahar ghoom raha hota hai toh- No Sheru doesn't go around anymore now.
Speaker 1
He has his space there. One space is there. Wolfie is I will show you. So- Yeah. Isli turn around. Wolfie. So Sheru that those are my cats couple. He is sitting here in this room. Okay.
Sunny
Okay.
Speaker 1
Now then we have space here. There is kitchen right here. So if Sheru wants to go in the kitchen here, Wolfie will growl like usse lunch bhi karegi uske upar. Then Wolfie is kept here. She has an entire space here.
Wolfie and alternate karke haan isko leash karke rakha hai. Maine kaha mere baba.
Sunny
Yeah, that's good thing. It's okay.
Speaker 1
So alternate karke hum isko rotate karte hain, but we are getting really occupied in this, you know, alternate karke ek ko supervise karna, phir dusre ko karna. So our lot of time is going in there.
Sunny
Yeah, yeah. So aap Wolfie ko jo yeah Wolfie ko jo aapne leash karke rakha hua hai, woh ek achhi strategy hai.
Speaker 1
Okay.
Sunny
Okay, so aap usko leash karke rakh sakte ho and Sheru ko open kar sakte ho. Sheru ko khol sakte ho. Sheru by default usse thodi doori bana ke rakhega. Woh uske pass nahi jayega.
Speaker 1
Haan true.
Sunny
So humein Wolfie ko bhi yeh sikhana hai aur hum woh kaise sikhaenge? Leash ke through sikhaenge. So initial, initial days mein Wolfie hamesha leash pe rahegi ghar ke andar uski ek jagah ke upar.
Toh jab woh aur, aur woh ek aisi jagah honi chahiye jahan woh jaise abhi, abhi aapne rakhi hui na that is the perfect jagah. Woh secluded hai. Woh darwaze ki taraf bhi nahi hai. Woh, woh uske kone mein hai aur woh wahan se dekh bhi sakti hai aur Sheru bhi usko dekh sakta hai. Toh Sheru ko aap open rakh sakte ho.
Over a period of time kya hoga na? Wolfie ki aadat ho jayegi ki Sheru ko is tarike se khula hua dekhne ki aur attack nahi karne ki. Lekin woh kab hoga jab aap usko leash pe hi rakhoge, not without leash. Lekin dog ko hum leash pe tabhi rakh sakte hain jab hum usko enough exercise provide kar rahe ho jo aap kar rahe ho.
Jo aap keh rahe ho ki aap alternate days usko farmhouse pe bhejte ho aur woh aakar soti hai, which means it's aap already ek sahi strategy aapne pakdi hui hai. Bas aapko understanding ki kami thi. So aapke dog ke andar territorial behavior hai aur ek fighting spirit hai.
Okay? Territorial behavior, fighting spirit jo Sheru ke andar abhi nahi hai. Toh Sheru ki taraf attract hogi khelne ke liye. Lekin Sheru usko jab mana karega ya woh karega toh fighting, fighting hogi us jagah par aur fighting zyadatar hogi ghar ke andar, bahar nahi.
Jab woh ghar ke, jab woh ghar ke andar honge toh fighting ke chances increase, increase milenge kyunki wahan par door jaane ki possibilities kam ho jaati hai. Getting, getting a point? So bahar fights, bahar fights kam hote hain aur ghar ke andar pack zyaada fight karta hai. Pack zyaada fight karta hai.
For example, jaise mere dogs hai yahan par abhi woh idhar char divari hai is jagah par. Agar woh yahan par honge, koi female heat pe hogi toh fight hone ke chances bahut zyaada increase ho jaate hain. Lekin, lekin wohi female agar bahar heat pe hogi toh fight hone ke chances kam hote hain.
Zero ho jaate hain kyunki distance maintain ho sakti hai wahan par dogs ke andar. Wohi gharon ke andar bhi yahi problem hoti hai. So Wolfie ko leash karna, doosra usko exercise zyaada provide karna yahi strategy hai. Okay?
Speaker 1
Okay.
Sunny
Leash karke rakhna. Over a period of time aapko supervise karne ki zarurat nahi hai. Aap Sheru ko chhod sakte ho. Sheru kuch nahi karega. Wolfie karegi. Hai na? Wolfie attack karegi. Lekin Sheru ki ek achhi aadat yeh hogi ki Wolfie ke growl se woh thoda usko dekhega aur door hatne lag jayega.
Speaker 1
Hatega, yes, yes.
Sunny
Woh bhi usko growl karega and then woh door hat jayega. Woh jaake fight karne ki woh nahi karega. Okay? Kyunki Sheru ke andar woh fighting ka itna tagda nahi hai jitna Wolfie ke andar hai. Okay. That's cute. Haan, so this is, this is Wolfie.
Speaker 1
This is Wolfie, yeah.
Sunny
This is Wolfie. Young hai, kaafi young dog hai aur iske andar playful behavior bahut zyaada hai.
Iske andar fighting behavior zyaada hai aur iske andar territorial behavior Sheru se bahut zyaada hai.
Speaker 1
Zyaada hai.
Sunny
So energy ki matching ka issue hai. Woh energy match kab ho sakti hai? Jab hum isko zyaada exercise provide karenge aur Sheru ko kam exercise provide karenge. Aur agar Sheru ka weight agar aapko dekhna hai, woh increase hua hai toh woh bhi aap kam kar sakte ho. Okay?
Suppose uske piche ke, woh uske Sheru jaise age badhti hi jaati hai na, toh humein weight par bahut zyaada dhyan dena padta hai. Kyunki jo dogs ke joints hote hai na, woh age ke saath degrade hote hai.
Speaker 1
Right.
Sunny
Lekin age ke saath aap dekhoge toh dogs ka weight increase hota jaata hai. Kyunki ab humans lagataar food khilata hai aur dekhta hai ki uski age increase ho rahi hai toh lagataar hum treats dete hain. Lekin jaise, jaise age badhti hai waise, waise weight humein aur kam karna chahiye dog ka.
Toh usse kya hota hai na, unke joints healthy rehte hain. Joints pe itna pressure nahi padta. Aur phir dog ke andar more yeh jo playful behavior hai aur fighting behavior hai, woh thoda upgrade ho sakta hai jo humein Sheru mein chahiye. Thoda badhe.
Uske andar, uske andar playful behavior badhe aur apne aap ko apna stand lene ka behavior badhe. Woh kab hoga? Jab uski body optimal weight pe hogi. Optimal weight se thoda kam hogi.
Speaker 1
Okay.
Sunny
Jo uska optimal weight hai usse thoda kam 10%, 15% kam reduction. Thode ribs aakhri ke ribs thode dikhne lag jaaye. Matlab thode se. So that woh usko thoda ground provide karega to protect himself.
Speaker 1
Sheru is otherwise a playful dog. I mean like he is healthy khelta hai woh bhi. Toh mujhe agar if he wants to should I let them play? See if they want to play.
Sunny
Yes.
Speaker 1
Agar growl karenge toh kya karna chahiye? Should I stop- Growl is also, growl is also okay.
Sunny
Okay, growl is a communication ki mujhe distance do. Uske baad kya dog growl karte, karte aate hain aur ek dusre ke paas aate hain aur aise karke waapis se settle ho sakte hain.
Speaker 1
Oh.
Sunny
Hai na? Agar woh, agar woh waapis, woh waapis se settle ho jaate hain. Lekin uske beech mein agar aap chilla gaye ya uske beech mein aap like panic ho gaye toh fight mein convert ho jaate hai. Yeh unka natural behavior hai to calm down each other.
Speaker 1
So aise karte hain then when I go and hold Wolfie in the leash na then she will become more ferocious.
Sunny
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Woh isliye ferocious ho jaati hai- Exactly what you said. Woh isliye ferocious ho jaati hai kyunki uske paas options khatam ho gaye aur aapke haath se jo aapne haath se touch kiya uss haath mein tension thi.
Speaker 1
Right. Energy.
Sunny
Uss haath mein, haan, uss haath mein tension thi, uss haath mein panic tha toh woh aur escalate karega. So better yeh hota hai agar aapke andar calmness nahi hai, confidence nahi hai aur aap beech mein ja rahe ho toh aap aur escalate kar sakte ho cheezon ko.
So you have to wait matlab ek back step lena hota hai, thoda wait karna hota hai and thode breathe karna hota hai then you can go ahead. Nahi toh maamla bigad jayega. Aur zyaada fight ho jayegi. So bahar agar aap yeh test kar sakte ho like bahar aap lekar jaate ho jahan Wolfie aur Sheru rehta hai.
Sheru ko lekar ja sakte ho. Wahan unko khelne ka mauka de sakte ho aur wahan par ho sakta hai ki thodi fight, thodi-thodi jhadap ho lekin thoda allow kar sakte ho. Ho sakta hai thodi lag bhi jaaye. Par yeh dog ka ek tareeke se behavior hota hai ek dusre ke saath settle down karne ke liye.
Toh agar zyaada settle down karne ke liye lekin wahaan par jo aas-paas humans hote hain unko shaant rehna padta hai. Unko shaant rehna padta hai.
So jab woh humans shaant rehte hain toh aap easily unko mana sakte ho ki bhai tumhaara growling ho gaya, tumhaara jab-jab-jab ho gaya, ab doosre ek doosre ko doori do and then phir aap dono ko bol sakte ho no. Yeh sab nahi karna hai yahaan par assertively. Okay? So that's it. Panic se andar nahi ghusna.
Speaker 1
When I take to when I jab Wolfie goes to the farm, can I take Sheru also in the same place so that there is a neutral ground and wahaan par aur phir se ek baar introduce karwa doon.
Sunny
Yes, yes, yes.
Speaker 1
And if the ground also I will leave him for some time na to see.
Sunny
Agar baahar growl ho raha hai that is completely okay. Hai na that is main aur videos share karoonga growling ke video share karoonga ki hum kaise allow karte hain growling dogs ko aur kaise hum thodi-thodi fights unko like would they fight, they manage themselves and then they calm down.
Hai na woh inka expression hota hai. Otherwise kya hota hai ki log dogs ko alag band karna start kar dete hain. Lekin fighting or growling or snarling is their behavior. Is their is a expression of their behavior. It is not a misbehavior. Okay.
Jaise hum woh jaise hum ek doosre se assertively baat karte hain, woh unka tareeka hai assertively ek doosre se baat karne ka. They are animals. Matlab like hum like ek animals ek term ke saath aate hain na, ek meaning ke saath aate hain ki they are an-they are animals.
Hum usko kinko kitna bhi baby kar le but dogs are animals aur animal ka apna ek behavior hota hai, apna ek express karne ka tareeka hota hai. Growling is okay, snarling is okay, fighting like is completely okay.
Yeh unka tradition hai, unka culture hai. Lekin hum usko agar hum isme panic hote hain that is not okay. Human ka panic is not okay kyunki jo pack ko guide kar raha hota hai, woh guide panic mein nahi aa sakta. Iska matlab kya hota hai? Us guide ke paas knowledge nahi hai.
Dog ko aisa lagta hai dog ke perspective se ki is-is human, is human ke paas interaction ki knowledge nahi hai aur hum usse matlab unko aisa lagta nahi hai. Main aapko samjhane ke perspective se bata raha hoon.
Speaker 1
I am listening.
Sunny
Ki aapko interaction ka woh nahi hai ki unse kaise interact karna hai. So panic is not a interaction ki energy. Usse woh interact nahi karte. Panic se woh ladte hain ya phir door bhaagte hain. Surrender nahi karte. It's their nature. Woh panic ki taraf surrender kabhi nahi karega ek animal.
So animal kabhi bhi panic ki taraf surrender nahi karta, tension ki taraf surrender nahi karta. Agar ba-agar ghar ke andar hota hai aur aapke andar tension aati hai toh woh ek kone mein jaakar baith sakta hai. Lekin ghar ke baahar aa-aapke andar tension aayegi toh woh aapse door bhaagega.
Panic aayega, woh aapse-aapse door bhaagega. Animals sirf calm, assertive energy ke towards hi surrender karte hain. So as a human, as a matlab dog ke dog parent humein yeh seekhna padta hai ki how to project that energy jab mauka mile.
Hai na daily, daily hum sochte hain ki we are projecting calm, assertive energy, lekin mauka kab milta hai? Jab chaos aata hai.
Speaker 1
Chaos, right.
Sunny
Chaos ke time aapko samajh mein aayega ki how calm, how assertive your mind is aur woh dog aapko daily basis par bata sakte hain ki jitna aap sochte ho ki mera mind utna calm, assertive hai, utna hai nahi.
Hai na phir we-we get a chance to work on ourself. That's how we work on ourself and that's how we lead our dogs. So apne dog ko baahar lekar jaaiye and jo aap cheezein practice kar rahe ho that is the right approach.
Farmhouse mein bhejna, usko leash par rakhna plus exercise dena, exercise par dhyaan dena plus discipline par dhyaan dena all are there. Bas thodi si cheezein growling is okay, fighting is okay and panic is not okay. Okay?
So panic aayega but next time par dhyaan rakhna us cheez ke oopar ki woh phir-phir woh nahi aayega. Okay?
Speaker 1
Yes sir, yes sir. Thank you so much.
Sunny
Yeah man.
Speaker 1
I'll try.
Sunny
Yeah, okay. Bilkul. Yes, next question is Manya Soni. Yes, Manya.
Manya
Yes sir, actually mujhe aaj Betty ke related kuch baat karni thi because recently uska behavior like walks par bahut different ho gaya.
Matlab bahut hi anxious rehti hai woh. Matlab pehle bhi woh rehti thi thodi but I have noticed ki abhi last few days se matlab baarish bhi ho rahi thi and it's like ki baahar jaati hai and ek hi baar mein susu kar deti hai. Matlab pehle woh karti thi mark karti thi sab jagah par.
Abhi ek minute ek jagah par baithegi, wahaan par susu kar degi and then return jaane ki try karegi ki ghar par chalo, abhi aage nahi walk karna. Agar bahut baarish ho rahi hai ya phir ground wet hai toh woh aisa karegi.
Sunny
Baarish ki wajah se.
Manya
Haan. Phir main usko push karti hoon ki walk karne ke liye. Phir main apne building area ke baahar lekar jaati hoon.
Wahaan par bhi certain places par usko nahi jaana hota hai and phir woh ekdam peeche kheenchti hai, ekdam resist karti hai and even dogs bhi agar koi mile toh unke saath itna achhe se interact nahi karti.
Pehle woh ekdam excited ho jaati thi. Matlab unke saath thoda khelti thi. But abhi kya hota hai ki woh thoda milegi but phir uska aas-paas dhyaan hoga ki yahaan par kuch nahi ho raha, wahaan par kuch nahi ho raha hai na aise and phir woh waapas ghar jaane ke liye peeche pull karegi.
Sunny
Yeah.
Manya
So yeh kya actual mein uska abhi spay hua hai. Matlab one month, one and a half month aisa hua hai. So uske wajah se.
Sunny
Yeah, there are lots of things bahut saari cheezein ho rahi hai. Ek toh spay bahut badi cheez hai female dog ke liye. Matlab male dog ke liye bhi bahut badi cheez, bahut badi cheez hoti hai. So spay and neutering is very big thing aur just ek mahina hua hai toh uska mind completely confused hai.
Manya
Hmm.
Sunny
Okay, woh abhi confusion mein hai. Woh disorientation mein hai. So ek se do, ek se dedh mahina tumhe woh confusion aur disorientation milega.
Lekin is confusion aur disorientation ek habit create kar deta hai confusion aur disorientation ki. So confusion disorientation from medical side aa raha hai. Lekin woh habit create ho jaata hai toh yeh lambe time tak chalta hai. Tumhe usko kyunki ab baarish bhi aa gayi.
Manya
Hmm.
Sunny
Hai na? Baarish se bhi, baarish se bhi issue hai usko. Uske baad baarish ki wajah se walk kam mil rahi hai uska bhi ek issue hai. Plus spay se uske hormones change ho rahe hain uska bhi ek issue hai. So multiple cheezein chal rahi hai toh tumhe usko thoda time dena padega.
Abhi kisi cheez ke oopar, kisi cheez ke oopar work karne ki zaroorat nahi hai. Apne aap ko consistent rakho. Usko push karne ki bhi zaroorat nahi hai. Agar ghar ki seedhiyaan chadh sakte ho that is okay. Ghar mein treadmill hai toh that is tum woh use kar sakte ho aur agar yeh sab nahi hai toh seedhiyaan best hoti hai.
Manya
Haan, hamare yahan toh matlab lift nahi hai toh hum roz chadhte hi hain.
Sunny
Haan, so it's like agar refuge area hai aur tum shaam ko ja rahe ho toh like you can just wahan par tum gol-gol ghoom sakte ho apne dog, dog ke saath and like yeah so is tareeke se tum usko exercise de sakte ho taaki uska mind shaant rahe. Lekin baahar jaayegi toh thoda stress mein aa sakti hai.
So baahar abhi, baahar abhi push nahi karna because of baarish aur I think Mumbai ki baarish toh I think.
Manya
Haan, bahut like kabhi bhi aa jaati hai and it's very party also. Also hum like station area ke paas rehte hain so it is very crowded. So I am taking her early morning matlab thoda less crowd ho and also main usko baahar abhi nahi lekar ja rahi hoon jahan par usually walk karte hain.
Ek safe area jahan par less crowd ho but at least woh explore kar paaye aur thoda walk kar le.
Sunny
Abhi toh, abhi toh mushkil aayega yaar abhi usko kyunki ek mahine hi hua na usko spay hue hue. Toh ek mahina agar spay kiya hua hai toh already dimaag uska abhi disoriented hai. Hai na? Aur uske hormones dheere-dheere stabilized honge. Ek se do mahina lagta hai stabilize hone mein.
So uska ek issue hai, baarish ka ek issue hai. So thoda time dena padega aur usko push thoda kam karna padega. Zyaada seedhiyan try karni padegi oopar neeche, oopar neeche. Chaar-paanch chakkar toh she will be all right.
Manya
Okay, okay thank you. And also ek in general question hai mujhe ki aapne bataya ki jab bhi dog matlab idhar-udhar, idhar-udhar dekhta hai toh woh panic state mein jaata hai. Toh uske liye humein continuously usko guide karna padta hai. But agar hum usko like matlab usko idhar-udhar dekhne nahi dena hota hai.
Matlab uska vision humein seedha rakhna hota hai ki woh clear rahe, ek jagah par focus kar paaye and yahan-wahan dekh ke panic state of mind mein na jaaye. So agar hum log baar-baar usko leash par nudge karenge, pop karenge toh woh frustrate bhi ho sakta hai na usse.
Sunny
Hundred percent, hundred percent. So, so dekho toh is jagah par kya hota hai na jab main bolta hoon na ki munh seedha rakhna, uska seedha rakhna hota hai toh dimaag mein aaya ki humein usko baar-baar nudge karna padega. Hai na? Lekin zaroori nahi hai ki sirf yahi tareeka ho.
Ek aur tareeka kya, ek aur tareeka kya ho sakta hai? Tum ekdam chhoti leash kar loge. Apne pair ke paas usko le aaoge. Ab woh right nahi dekh sakta kyunki tumhara pair hai. Getting my point? Main kya keh raha hoon? Woh panic mein, ab uska, uska munh right ja sakta hai kya?
Manya
Nahi.
Sunny
Nahi ja sakta kyunki tumhari, tumhari thigh hai us jagah par.
Woh right nahi ja sakta. Lekin woh left ja sakta hai kya? Woh left bhi nahi ja sakta kyunki leash itni chhoti hai. Jaise hi woh left jaayega tum halka sa aise karogi. Woh nudge nahi hoga.
Lekin leash par agar bahut zyaada distance hai toh tumhein baar-baar nudge karna hoga aur tumhari timing completely off hogi kyunki panic mein reactivity bahut fast hoti hai. Toh tumhari timing ke off ke kaaran frustration create hoga. Toh hum is, is dauraan kya karte hain?
Jaise hi dog panic mein aata hai, hum leash jitni chhoti kar sake safely hum utni chhoti kar lete hain. Aur phir kya hota hai jab woh hamari body se touch ho raha hota hai yaani hamari vibration se touch ho raha hota hai, hamare andar jitni confidence hai woh kahan jaata hai? Woh travel hota hai.
Manya
Hmm.
Sunny
Hai na? Matlab bolte hain na sangati ka asar.
Manya
Right.
Sunny
Sangati ka that is real thing man. Sirf baaton se nahi hota sangati ka asar.
Sangati body ka like tumhara emotional health met, woh travel hota hai emotional health.
Manya
Yes.
Sunny
Haan, so generally log kya bolte hain? Aadatein travel ho rahi hoti hai, lekin emotions travel hote hain aur un emotions se aadatein banti hain.
Manya
Hmm.
Sunny
Getting my point? So hamare emotions hamari vibration set karte hain. So agar mera emotion mera dog dar raha hai aur mera emotion calmness aur confidence hai aur main usko apne paas ekdam chhoti leash apne aap se touch karke rakh leta hoon toh travel hone ke chances emotions ko sabse zyaada ho jaate hain uske andar.
Sabse zyaada effective ho jaate hain aur hum uske panic zone ko block kar dete hain. Panic zone ko kaise block karte hain? Apne thigh se right ka zone block karte hain aur leash se left ka block zone karte hain.
Manya
Yes.
Sunny
Zone block karte hain. Okay? So is, is tareeke se hum safely aur effectively uska movement block kar lete hain.
Movement block kar lete hain aur apni energy dete hain toh result jaldi milte hain. Lekin generally log kya, log jaise aapne bola wahi cheez karte hain aur woh galat hai.
Manya
Hmm.
Sunny
Hum leash se usko yoon-yoon karte rehte hain, is tareeke se karte rehte hain. Nahi, lekin jitna chhota kar sako sabse pehla step kya hai utna karna chahiye safely. Bahut se dogs panic mein aakar bite karna bhi chaaloo kar sakte hain.
Manya
Hmm.
Sunny
So us samay par us dog ke paas muzzle honi chahiye. Tab aap usko paas mein lekar aao otherwise it will not work. Okay, agar woh panic mein aakar bite karta hai, woh itna zyaada panic mein ho jaata hai aur aap tense ho jaate ho toh biting ke chance increase hai kyunki aapko pata hai woh bite karega.
Main usko paas lekar aaunga toh aap kya hoga? Aap tense ho jaoge aur aap jaise tense honge, woh aur zyaada panic ho jaayega aur panic aur tension is equal to aggression. Okay, so wahan par tumhare liye, tumhari calmness ke liye humein dog ko muzzle pehnani padegi.
Manya
Okay.
Sunny
And then phir dog ko tumhein dena padta hai aur phir tumhein batana hota hai ki usko apne paas lekar aao. Woh aise-aise karega, lekin woh bite nahi kar paayega aur tum relax ho. Aur woh phir uske baad woh shaant hone lagta hai aur jab woh shaant hota hai toh woh tumhein thank you bolta hai.
Kyunki every woh seriously thank you bolta hai. Uski aankhein-vaankhein tumhare liye completely change ho jaati hai. Phir tumhein andar se samajh mein aata hai ki yaar ye ab mere ko bite nahi karega. Kyunki usko samajh mein aa jaata hai ki balance ye lekar aaya meri zindagi mein.
Dog khud ki zindagi, insaan khud ki zindagi mein balance lekar aa sakta hai. Ek animal khud ki zindagi mein balance lekar nahi aa sakta agar woh out of balance pahunch gaya. Ya toh uska pack help karta hai. Jaise for example, ek pack mein ek dog out of balance ho gaya. out of balance ho gaya. Woh bhaag raha hai.
Toh uska pack kya karega? Uske peeche bhaagega. Uske gardan ko apne daanton se pakdega aur usko dhaboch dega neeche.
Neeche baitha dega. Doosre dog aayenge uske oopar aisa panja rakhenge aur growl karenge. They do this. Woh usko maarne ke liye nahi kar rahe hain. Woh usko kya bol rahe hain, shaant ho ja. They are, woh apni bhasha mein usko bata rahe hain shaant ho ja, koi darne ki baat nahi hai. Itna usko assertiveness de rahe hain.
Itna usko confidence de rahe hain. Toh woh kehta hai, phir dheere-dheere karke woh shaant hota hai. so woh apne aap shaant nahi ho sakta. Woh bhaagna, kayi baar kya hota hai jab Diwali ke bam phataake phootte hain toh kya hota hai? Dog bhaagne lagta hai. Woh bhaagta rehta hai.
Jab tak uski poori energy khatam nahi ho jaaye tab tak bhaagta rehta hai. Woh lagaataar, lagaataar idhar-udhar, idhar-udhar dekhta hai. Phir koi dog milta hai, koi gaadi milti hai, usse woh takraata hai toh woh shaant hota hai. Toh woh chupchaap, chupchaap hota hai.
so dog ka mind stuck ho jaata hai zone ke andar aur saalon tak stuck reh sakta hai.
agar usko unstuck nahi kiya toh. Usko human ki help lagti hai yaani external help lagti hai. Yeh insano mein aur animal mein antar hai. Insaan khud ko analyze kar sakta hai. Ek dog khud ko analyze nahi kar sakta. Khud ko aware nahi kar sakta. Usko external body lagti hai. Haan jao.
Yashika
Okay. Thank you.
Sunny
Yeah. Yes, Yashika ji.
Yashika
Hi Sunny. Sunny mujhe situation par thoda sa guidance chahiye tha. Aaj jaise morning mein main Tin Tin ko walk kara ke lekar aayi and we were sitting, wahan par ek passage bana hua tha kyunki baarish ho rahi thi toh usually park mein baithta hai.
But wahan park par ek hamare society mein wahan par baitha tha aur bahut distance par ek chhota bachha tha aur woh isko kar raha tha aur yeh ghoom ke baitha hua tha.
Yeh bhi nahi ki iska face udhar tha ya kya. He was sitting straight aur bachha peeche gir. Suddenly woh bachhe ne aawaaz kari jaise chhote bachhe hote hain six months ka, uan jo bhi hai aur yeh ekdam aur bilkul wahan par snap karne ke liye matlab move toh why this?
Kyunki woh paas hota toh mujhe samajh mein bhi aata ki woh trigger kar raha hai. Aapne last time bataya tha ki bachhon se thoda sa dogs ko hota hai insecurity but...
Sunny
Saare dogs ko nahi hota. Saare dogs ko nahi hota.
Yashika
Matlab in Tin Tin's case matlab specifically, okay. Toh why he reacted like this? Kyunki woh toh distance par tha.
Sunny
Haan, distance, distance par tha. Lekin aapko yeh cheez dekhni chahiye ki aapke dog ke andar Tin Tin ke andar Lhasa Apso zyada hai.
Aur Lhasa, Lhasa Apsos are terriers. Hai na? They woh they hunt, woh cheezein karte hain. So aapke dog ke andar Tin Tin ke andar ek hunting instinct hai jo aapne dekhi bhi hogi. Sirf main aisa nahi, woh Shih Tzu normal, aise aam matlab aise Shih Tzu ke andar nahi dikhegi aapko hunting, hunting instincts.
Kyunki woh tune down ho jaati hai. Lekin Shih Tzu nikle Lhasa Apsos hai, Lhasa Apsos se. Aur aaj bhi Shih Tzu ki female ko Lhasa Apso se mate karaya ja raha hai. So matlab ho sakta hai Tin Tin ka pita Lhasa Apso hai na. But Lhasa Apso ke andar terrier hai.
Uske andar ek hunting ki instinct hai jo Tin Tin ke andar bhi aayi hui hai. Aur Tin, jo hunting ki instincts hoti hai woh kaise trigger hoti hai? Puppy ki kaise aawa, jaise mere paas hunter dog thi.
Uski hunting instinct kaise trigger ho gayi? Puppy ki aawaaz se. Okay puppy bhale hi door rahe, lekin woh jo aawaaz aati hai na, vulnerable aawaaz aati hai na unki. Aap sab jaise squeaky toys hai. Tin Tin agar squeaky toys dekhega toh woh trigger ho jayegi uski.
Aap usko jab woh pichkaaoge aur woh aawaaz niklegi uske andar, woh uski hunting instinct trigger ho jayegi. Yeh dog ke andar hunting, toh aapke dog ke andar hunting instincts hai. Agar woh fulfill nahi hogi, woh in sab aawaazon se trigger hogi. Toh humein usko fulfill karna hota hai. Fulfill kaise karte hain?
Kuch chasing ka game jisko woh chase kar sake. Kuch destroying ka game jisko woh destroy kar sake. Lekin with this thing, supervision, with this thing ke hum usko bata rahe hain tu kitna, kitna lead kar sakta hai.
Tu kitni aage tak ja sakta hai. You know so jab hum woh cheezein provide, jaise tug of war hai. Agar aap Tin Tin ke, Tin Tin tug of war khel raha hai kya?
Yashika
Haan, khelta hai. Kayi baar Amazon ki boxes laati. Main isko pack karke de deti hoon uske andar treat daal ke ki yeh phaade. Yeh iska yeh thodi der uske saath khela aur aise-aise kara, idhar-udhar le ke gaya. After five minutes woh chhod deta hai.
Matlab usually maine kayi baar dogs ko dekha ki phaad denge aur uske poore pieces ho jayenge but yeh aise nahi karta hai.
Sunny
Haan, so uske saath kuch hunting waale game khelne padenge aapko.
Yashika
Okay.
Sunny
Toh iska, iska jo yeh behavior hai na yeh tune down hone lag jayega. Kyunki woh it's like uske andar Lhasa Apso hai lekin Tin Tin ke andar zyada Lhasa Apso hai. So woh Lhasa, woh Lhasa Apso se nikle hain aur, aur ek aur cheez hai woh Lhasa Apso ancient Tibetan dog se nikle.
so agar aap inki, inki lineage dekhoge na, inki lineage is not a toy breed. Inki lineage is a territorial, is a hunting, is a prey drive ki. Hum jo sochte the ki Shih Tzu are like toy, no. Agar uske andar uski lineage ke genes aa gaye then woh toy ka type ka nahi hai.
Woh, woh ek hunting type ka ho sakta hai jo Tin Tin mein aapko dekhne ko milta hai. Woh rare hai lekin phir bhi humein dekhne ko mil sakte hain unke descent matlab unke jo lineage ke breeds hai, unki, unki instincts. So aapke us Tin Tin ke andar Lhasa Apso ki instincts hai.
Toh uske saath humein hunting ke games khelne honge. So jab bhi hunting ki opportunity milegi na aapko iska behavior change milega. Hunting ke jaise opportunity milegi.
Koi squeaky aawaaz, koi halki si squeal ya phir koi puppy jaise bachha woh kiya, bachha kaise kuch bhi aisa kiya toh iske andar behavior woh chaalu ho jayega.
okay, behavior chaalu ho jayega. So that's the issue. Woh uske baad aapko hunting ke game chaalu karne padenge. Okay. Okay. Yeah, yeah cool hai. Toh guys like yeh ek bahut important cheez hai ki humein na dog ki lineage samajhni padti hai aur main abhi kaam kar raha hoon jo aapko kaafi help karega.
Like abhi jaise kisko pata tha like Shih Tzu is... Yeh dekh rahe hain screen dikh raha hai logon ko? So abhi kisko pata tha like Shih Tzu descendant hai Lhasa Apso se aur Lhasa Apso terrier hai, hai na? Lekin jaise abhi aap yahan par jaakar dekhoge toh saare descendant aayenge. Kahaan se descendant hai?
Lhasa Apso Pekingese, ancient Tibetan dog, ancient Chinese lap dog in sab ke genes hain. Okay, lekin yeh abhi available nahi hai, yeh abhi available nahi hai lekin yeh dono hain.
Toh Lhasa yeh yahan se aaye. Yeh unki lineage hai poori ki poori. So abhi main lineage ke upar work kar raha hoon. I think 99 breeds ki lineage define ho gayi hai. Main jaldi share karoonga. But isi tareeqe se like main thoda excited tha yeh poora cheez dikhane ke liye. But look at this thing.
Hai na so like mast hai na? Like all saari breeds yahan par hai. It's like you can just you see nayi-nayi breeds dekhne ko milega. Kaun si breed kahaan se hai and it's like Bangladeshi Hound ke baare mein kisko pata tha? Toh bahut saari breeds mere ko this thing Kurumban Hound, see. Japan ka Kai Ken. See look at this.
Kya beauty hai. Toh aise hi maine bahut saari breeds ke baare mein, Basenji, Basenji ke baare mein toh humne suna hua hai Banjara Hound aur inke baare mein details.
So I will share this with, with you all. But this is like kaafi breeds humne ikatthi kar li hai aur kaafi lineage humne ikatthi kar li hai. Abhi main build kar raha hoon poori, poori cheez ko. But it will be, I will launch it soon. Sabse pehle aap logon ko dikhaunga. Anyways back to Q&A.
Toh aa Yashika ji usko prey drive waale humein play zyada dene padenge. Like tug of war ho sakti hai ya phir flirt pole ho sakti hai, kuch chasing ka ho sakta hai aur daily basis par doge toh aapko uska yeh hunting ka behavior kam hote huye dikhega kyunki woh fulfill ho, okay. Theek hai noted. Yeah, okay.
Yes next Paresh ji tell me.
Paresh
Sunny this is regarding Pari. So initially jab Pari aayi thi humare paas, main aapse tab associated nahi tha. Toh jab bhi ghar mein koi guest aata tha, woh excited ho jaati thi and then we have seen this pattern ki woh pee kar deti thi ghar mein bahut jaldi se.
Sunny
Excitement se, yeah.
Paresh
Excitement se. Phir humne yeh pattern kiya jaise hi koi guest aaya, jaise hi usko nayi fragrance aayi, hum baahar le jaate the, pee karwa dete the aur phir normal ho jaata tha. And aapse milne ke baad saari cheezein settle down thin. Abhi sab kuch theek tha. But all of a sudden Pari mein yeh dobaara waapas aa gaya.
Ab main koi stranger aata hai, baahar le jaakar pee karwa deta hoon. Uske baad Bhai Sahab aur Pari ghar par hain aur ab agar ghar par unko akela chhoda toh dobaara Pari pee kar deti hai.
Sunny
Excitement mein again?
Paresh
Haan excitement jaise woh mili kisi se excitement aayi uske andar, belly rub hua, baahar le jaakar maine pee karwa diya. Ek baar pee ho gaya. Ab uske baad dobaara Pari ghar mein aayi aur ab Pari ko akele chhod ke ja rahe hain jab bhi hum.
Terrace par baahar gaye toh woh dobaara pee kar deti hai. Toh yeh behavior mujhe samajh nahi aaya.
Sunny
Woh toh yeah, yeah yeh behavior anxiety se nikalta hai. Hai na anxiety aur fear, insecurity se nikalta hai.
So hota kya hai ki jab dog darta hai na usko kuch familiar smell chahiye hoti hai aur uske andar usko kuch familiar smell chahiye hoti hai aur usko apni territory manage karne ka woh, usko chahiye ki yeh meri jagah hai. Main yahan par comfortable feel kar sakta. Toh woh wahan par kahin par jaakar susu kar sakti hai.
Bahut se dogs bed ke oopar susu kar dete hain. Bahut se dog idhar-udhar susu kar dete hain. Woh ghabrahat ki wajah se karte hain. So usko ghabra... usko jaane mein ghabrahat kyun ho rahi ho sakta hai ki hum usko excitement ke peeche chhod ke ja rahe hain ya phir ho sak... yeh har din hota hai?
Ya phir kabhi-kabhi jab aap exercise kam dete ho usko ya phir kabhi uski aawaaz jisse woh dari hui hoti hai.
Kabhi dari hui hoti hai ghar ke andar woh?
Paresh
Maine Sunny yeh recently hi notice kiya hai aur mujhe kya lag raha hai ki woh territory banane ke liye kyunki Bhai Sahab ko woh strangers ke paas aane nahi deti. Agar koi stranger, koi jo guest hai woh Pari ko jab pet kar raha hai, Bhai Sahab aas-paas nahi aayega toh woh growling chalti hai.
Aur jab phir hum dobaara chhod ke ja rahe hain toh mujhe chahe thoda sa hi pee milta hai, woh milta zaroor hai. Toh mujhe aisa feel ho raha tha ki woh territory bana rahi hai. I don't know.
Sunny
Do cheez ho sakti hai. Do cheez ho sakti hai. Pehli cheez hai ki jo guest aa rahe hain woh thode excitement se mil rahe hain. Hai na? Pehli cheez toh yeh galti ho sakti hai ki woh excitement se mil rahe hain.
Jisse thoda territorial behavior badh raha hai aur thoda excitement badh raha hai aur ghar ke andar badh raha hai toh woh barking aur growling chaalu ho sakta hai Pari ki taraf se.
Doosri cheez yeh ho sakti hai jo kuch infection bhi ho sakta hai. Dogs main just aapko bata raha hoon dog kab-kab aisa karte hain. Kuch infection bhi ho sakta hai. Toh early stage par jab kuch andar infection hota hai aur dog mein thoda sa bhi stress aata hai toh apne bladder ko hold nahi kar sakte.
Paresh
Okay.
Sunny
Toh yeh ek early, yeh early symptom bhi ho sakta hai.
Paresh
Okay.
Sunny
Ki kuch infection chal... uska blood test kab karaya tha?
Paresh
Not remember. Kaafi time ho gaya.
Sunny
Kaafi time, kaafi time ho gaya. Toh agar aapko uske andar thodi lethargic lage ya phir uske kaan thode garam-garam lage ya phir uski appetite mein thoda sa antar dikhe ya phir uski walks mein thoda sa aapko lage ki yaar yeh down ho rahi hai toh ho sakta hai early stage of uska infection chal raha hai.
Paresh
Does it depend on age also? Abhi jaise she is six years.
Toh jaise-jaise age badhegi woh hold karna kam kar degi?
Sunny
Nahi, abhi chheh saal mein woh kam nahi karegi. Hai na so holding ka problem infection ya toh early age mein, early age mein unka control nahi hota unke bladder ke oopar. Chheh se saa... matlab is age mein ho raha hai toh zyada hum priority infection ko dete hain.
Okay there can be some infection or too much excitement. So agar yeh normal nahi hai ki woh daily basis par is tareeke se pehle nahi karti thi lekin woh ab karne lagi hai aur kuch time se kar rahi hai toh ho sakta hai infection ki toh aapko baaki cheezein bhi dekhni padegi. Not just behavior.
Uski health, uska health ka dekhna padega humko ki woh khaana theek se khaa rahi hai kya? Woh walk theek se kar rahi hai kya? Aankhon mein uski lethargic hai kya? Kaanon mein uski thoda garmahat hai kya? So agar woh dikh raha hai toh iska matlab hai woh baar-baar peeche jaakar chaat rahi hai kya?
Hai na. Yeh sab cheezein, yeh sab cheezein kar rahi. Agar yeh sab cheezein kar rahi hai toh infection ki taraf hum zyada ja rahe hain. Toh do cheezein ho sakti hain par woh excitement waala in dono ko hum nullify nahi kar sakte.
Lekin main phir bhi bolunga to be safer side jab mauka mile toh ek CBC kara lena uska complete matlab aur aur doosre test karaane ki zaroorat nahi hai. CBC mein kya hota hai ki infection ke count aa jaate hain. Okay. Okay. Main baat karunga ki kaise report padhte hain lekin usmein infections ke count ho jaate hain.
Uske baad phir hum decide kar sakte hain ki kaun sa alag test karaana hai. Lekin ek CBC kaafi sasta sa test hota hai aur kaafi jaldi milta hai. 10 minute mein mil jaata hai.
Paresh
Theek hai then quickly on Bhai Sahab side. Abhi aajkal maine racket lekar jaana start kiya Bhai Sahab ke saath aur uska behavior ekdam badal sa raha hai and I want him to be like this only.
Toh use main pet karna start karoon? Treat doon ya what should I do that time?
Sunny
Nahi continue rakho us cheez ke liye. Woh habit ke, habit ke oopar hai. Agar woh achha behavior kar raha hai, aap usko treat de sakte ho. Achhi treat de sakte ho. Achhi treat de sakte ho. Lekin consistent rehne ki is par zyada zaroorat, zyada zaroorat hoti hai. Treats reinforce kar sakta hai cheezon ko.
Lekin treats hamesha aise dena ki woh completely calm down ho. Uske baad hum us cheez ko de rahe hain. Okay.
Paresh
Theek hai.
Sunny
Cool hai, cool hai. Okay yeah. Toh aur kaun hai? Let's next Kashish. Yes Kashish tell me.
Kashish
Hi Sunny. So aajkal Dodo, Pino ka retraining chal rahi hai so it's going good. I have two questions. First is quite okay I guess I know the answer but still I guess I will need your help.
Toh Pino ko main reactivity ke liye rok rahi hoon ki woh doosre dogs ko dekhkar lunge na kare. Toh but continuously like either she is standing on my right or left depending on where the dog is standing. Toh woh dog ko dekhti hai aise karti hai, dog ko dekhti hai, aise karti hai. Sorry phir se bolega?
Sunny
Phir se bolega, thoda main distract ho gaya tha. Dog ko dekhti hai toh initially maine snapping se shuru kiya tha.
Kashish
Usko snap out karti thi. Toh idhar dekhti hai phir woh idhar dekhti hai. Phir woh idhar dekhti hai. Then maine usko redirect karna shuru kiya uske snout ke aage ek liver treat laakar. Toh abhi bhi bolegi kuch nahi nikal jaayegi. In fact, pehle woh dog dekhkar uthkar chali jaati thi.
Ab woh matlab theek hai kar leti hai. Woh lunge nahi karti but woh aise dekhegi.
Phir idhar dekhegi, idhar dekhegi, idhar dekhegi. Toh is it because maine woh beech mein treats laaya toh treats ke liye phir se mujhe dekhti hai ki maine yeh chhoda us cheez ke liye ya baar-baar abhi bhi uska brain is wired like that?
Woh itne time ka itna lamba chhah saal hai, chhah saal ka ki udhar jaata hai now she is controlling.
Sunny
No, no sorry. So jaise woh udhar dekh rahi hai ya aapko dekh rahi hai?
Kashish
Nahi, pehle woh dog ko dekh rahi hai. Phir woh mujhe dekh rahi hai.
Sunny
Haan, toh usse bhi dono cheezein ho sakti hai. First of all woh nahi ek yeh habit bhi create ho rahi hai aur plus usko expectation bhi ho rahi hai us treat ki ki yeh dog aaya hai. Pehle dog se toh jab bhi dog aata tha, mere ko treat milti thi. Ab aaj bhi milne waali hai kya? So yeh actually good sign hai.
Good sign hai. So good sign, good sign kya hai?
Woh dog ko chhodkar expect karne lag gayi hai. So that is a good sign. Aap usko kya kar sakte ho? Aap usko kabhi-kabhi abhi bhi treat de sakte ho. Jab woh expect, jab woh expect kar rahi hai ki mujhe treat, treat chahiye. Hai na ki maine dekho maine kuch nahi kiya. Aap pehle treat lekar aaye the.
Matlab woh aisa soch nahi rahi but apni understanding ke liye ki bhai dekho maine pehle aisa kiya tha aur aapne mujhe treat di thi aur aaj bhi main aisa kar rahi hoon. Lekin bhai tum toh treat hi nahi de rahe ho. Yeh kya baat hai? Hai na? So woh toh phir baar-baar udhar dekhegi.
Phir aapko dekhegi, phir woh udhar dekhegi. Phir aapko dekhegi. So continue, continuous kar rahi hai woh ki ek baar karke chhod deti hai?
Kashish
Kuch dogs ke saath woh initially jab uska matlab walk shuru ho raha hai na tab woh ek dog se usko problem rehti thi. Abhi woh usko nahi bhaunk rahi. She is like society ke andar rehti hai woh.
Sunny
Good, good work yaar good work. So yeah, so you can yeah it's a good work.
Yeh reactivity ke bahut zyada issues aate hain aur is par agar hum address nahi karte toh yeh increase hone lag jaate hain aur aapko dekhne ko bhi milega online bhi and har jagah bhi ki lekin kisi dog ko is tareeqe se waapas se revert back karna, woh time and knowledge leta hai.
You know yeah so that's a, that's a good work aur aap abhi bhi usko liver ki treat de sakte ho and same tareeqe se. Woh reinforce karega. Kabhi dena hai, kabhi nahi dena hai. You know you, you, you deciding. Hum treats reinforce karne ke liye karte hain. Jo bhi uska behavior hai.
Woh bark kar rahi hai, hum treat de rahe hain. Hum barking reinforce kar rahe hain, redirect nahi kar rahe. Hum reinforce kar rahe hain. So hum uske redirection ko reinforce kar rahe hain.
Kashish
Okay.
Sunny
Okay. Haan, treat se humein redirect nahi karna hota. Redirect ko reinforce karna hota hai. Getting my point? Log kya karte hain? Trainers kya galtiyan karte hain?
Treat se redirect karne ki koshish karte hain. That is the wrong approach. Hum treat se, aap treat ki smell se redirect kar sakte ho. Treat se redirect mat karo. Getting my point? Main kya bol raha hoon? direct treat nahi deni hai humko. Hum usko redirect kar sakte hain smell se.
Then hum usko jab woh redirect hogi tab hum usko redirection ko reinforce kar sakte hain treat dekar.
Kashish
Yeah right because even I just keep the treats in my hand toh woh mere ko hi dekhte hue chalti hai. Usko treat ka aisa lagta hai ki haan kyunki woh smell hai toh dog ko chhodkar us smell ki taraf zyada rehti hai. Woh udhar jaati bhi hai toh smell ki taraf aa jaati hai.
Sunny
Good work, good work. So you can, you can keep on giving treats but gradually thoda kam karo aur kai baar thoda badha do. So woh always expect karein.
Kashish
Okay.
Sunny
Okay. Woh dog ki taraf jaane se pehle woh jaise suppose kar lo ab woh expect hi nahi kar rahi bhai treat ka toh woh choose kar sakti hai waapas se uski taraf jaana. Lekin agar woh lagataar expect kare toh hamesha usko hum confusion ke usmein disorientation ke usmein rakh sakte hain. Samajh mein aaya?
This is confusion milega ya nahi milega. Toh uska dhyaan attack karoon ya na karoon par nahi hai.
Kashish
Right.
Sunny
Milega, nahi milega us par hai. So hum kuch jab kuch time ke liye hum is tareeqe se continue karte hain toh uska habit attack karne ka band ho jaata hai. Lekin dogs zaroori nahi ki hamesha habits ki wajah se attack karte hain. Dog apni instincts ki wajah se bhi attack karte hain. So us samay par kya hota hai?
Woh waapas agar expectation band ho gayi hai, woh instincts aapko waapas se aate dikhaayi dene lag jaayenge, dikhaayi dene lag jaayenge.
So it's not always out of habit. Woh aapko apne dog ke saath work karte-karte samajh mein aayega ki yeh iski instincts ja rahi hai ya iski habit create ho rahi hai. Okay?
Kashish
Right, abhi toh it's too early. Second is kya ek cheez jo mujhe nahi samajh aa rahi Dodo and Pino agar main saath mein walk kara rahi hoon toh Dodo ko aage rehna hai walk mein. Like even if she is with my husband usko aage rehna hai.
Agar woh thoda peeche chal rahi hai, hum itne se gap par hain she lunges, she pushes herself ki woh thoda sa aage khada rahe. Why is this behavior? Is it something I am missing here?
Sunny
No, it's also. Kiske saath?
Paresh
Bhai sahab.
Kashish
Bhai sahab ke saath.
Sunny
So it's like ya matlab main bhi apne dogs mein yahan par dekhta hoon.
Toh suppose kar lo jaise main walk par ja raha hoon aur saare dogs ready ho gaye ki bhai chalo ab walk par jaaya-jaaya ja raha hai. Toh do jo humare bade dogs hain, woh aise niklenge aur woh dono ek doosre ki taraf dekhenge. Ab main pehle nikloonga, ab main pehle nikloonga. So it's like ki unka humein pehle chalna hai.
Unka yeh dogs ke andar ek behavior hota hai aur yeh sab dogs ke andar behavior nahi hota. Lekin kuch dogs ke andar yeh behavior hota hai ki mujhe aage jaana hai. Yeh insaanon ke andar bhi toh aata hai na. Main pehle jaaoonga, main pehle jaaoonga.
It's pretty matlab it's like woh dog ke andar bhi hota hai ki main pehle jaaoonga, main pehle jaaoonga. It's, it's about ki hum yahan par apna dominance project kar rahe hain ki I am leading here and they feel usmein enjoyment ki main gate se pehle main baahar nikla toh usmein enjoy, enjoyment feel karte hain.
Uske andar toh woh bhaagenge ki mujhe aage jaana hai, main isse peeche nahi reh sakta.
So it's completely harmless behavior. Agar aap control mein ho toh apne dog ke liye ye completely ek harmless behavior hai aur ye ek unki personality ke andar aata hai. Okay, unki personality, ye unki personality ke andar aata hai aur wo environment based personality nahi hai. Ye unki personality hai.
Like they will be, they want to be in front, they want to be move ahead, they want to be like khelne mein aage, walk mein aage, khaane mein wo pehle so they- Right. So har cheez mein like wo pehle, main pehle, main pehle, main pehle kind of toh bachpana rehta hai aur wo insaanon ke andar bhi dikhta hai.
Toh dog ke andar toh continuously jab tak zinda hai wahi bachpana dikhne ko milta hai.
Kashish
Right. Toy toh pehle main, khaana toh pehle mujhe.
Sunny
Pehle main, pyaar toh pehle main, bed toh pehle main, main pehle main, mera rumaal pehle rakho tum seat par.
Toh wo dogs ki personality, ye dog ki personality not instinct, not nothing. Ye dog ki personality. Jaise bola har ek dog ki individual personality hoti hai. Wo personality ke saath wo paida bhi hote hain. Lekin mostly personality ka part environment based hota hai. Ye environment based nahi hai.
Okay, ye unki personality, personality hoti hai ki unko aage rehna hai, unko pehla rehna hai. So they are like that. Okay.
Kashish
So what I am doing is ki na main walk par na thodi der kabhi-kabhi hai na Prateek aur Dodo ko aage rakhti hoon my husband and Dodo and then Pino and I are walking. I switch them.
Kabhi-kabhi Dodo ko main le leti hoon and Pino is with him because you said na ki switch karke bhi dekho ek baar ek jane ko ek hi mat ghumate raho. Tab usko okay chalta rehta hai ki aage-peeche, aage-peeche chal rahe hain. So that is okay because- Tumhare saath, tumhare saath okay chalti hai na wo?
Ab wo like even with my husband she is you know way calmer because abhi maine unka bahut change kar diya hai walking habit like.
Sunny
Aage, aage jaane ka jo uski habit hai wo tumhare saath, tumhare saath calmer rehti hai ya tumhare husband ke saath calmer rehti hai?
Kashish
Mere saath.
Sunny
Oh tumhare saath isliye calmer rehti hai because you know how to give corrections.
Kashish
Right.
Sunny
Okay na that is why. Wo aage jaane ke liye karti hai, tum turant correction de dete ho. Lekin wo husband turant abhi correction nahi de sakte na because tumhare paas zyada knowledge hai na because of this group na.
Kashish
Yeah.
Sunny
So that is the reason. Aap dog ko rok sakte ho. Jaise main yahan par dog ko rok sakta hoon ki bhai tu aage nahi jaayega, toh nahi jaayega. Waise aap bhi rok sakte ho, lekin wo information aapke husband ke paas nahi hai. So that is why she is calmer with you. Wo aage jaane ki koshish nahi karegi.
Lekin agar aap, ye aap try kar sakte ho, aap lenient ho jaao but don't give correction toh aapko dikhega wo aage bhaagne ki koshish kar rahi hai.
Kashish
Yeah.
Sunny
Same behavior karegi wo. Agar aap apne husband ki tarah behave karoge toh dog bhi same behave karega.
Kashish
Okay.
Sunny
Agar usko habit, habit nahi padi hai aapke saath us tareeqe ki. Okay?
Kashish
Thank you.
Sunny
Okay. Yes, Sakshi ji let's go.
Sakshi
Hi, good evening. So Sunny mera question ek hai Barkie se related. Recently usne kya karna shuru kar diya, neeche jaate hain toh society ke jo security guard bhaiya hain unhone kittens rakh liye.
Sunny
Kya rakh liye kittens?
Sakshi
Kittens. Toh wo thoda sa dekh ke chase karne ke usmein toh rehta hai.
Sunny
Good opportunity.
Sakshi
Thoda difficult ho jaata hai. Haan, thoda difficult ho jaata hai but manageable hai. Ab hota kya hai jab hum waapas aate hain toh everything is going good. Sab, sab sun raha hai. Main jab tak nahi bolungi andar nahi aayega.
Everything is going good but aane ke baad maine uske pair-wair wipe kar diye. Wo turant jaata hai Mishti ko chase karne.
Sunny
Baahar jaata hai ki andar se- Nahi-nahi, Mishti andar ghar ke aage ke paas. Mishti, Mishti your, your cat, your cat.
Sakshi
Haan, toh wo usko chase karne jaata hai. Matlab obviously kisi tarah ka ye nahi hai, negative wo nahi hai but usko chase karna hota hai.
Sunny
Ya wo is tak ho gaya kittens ko chase wahan par us zone mein.
Sakshi
Haan kyunki hum usko wo wala nahi wahan par nahi karne dete obviously aur wahan ke cats thode heavy.
Sunny
Do cheezein karni padegi. Yeah got it. So pehli cheez toh hai ki ek bahut achhi opportunity hai aapke liye learn karne ke liye. Okay the first lekin learn kaise karna hai? Ismein aapko learn kya karna hai ki dog ki reactivity ko stop karna.
Sakshi
Right.
Sunny
Okay. Dog ki reactivity ko stop kaise karenge? Isko hum ek assignment ki tarah dekhte hain in sab cheezon ko. So hum wahan se jaise suppose kar lo hum dog ko lekar ja rahe hain aur wo cat ki taraf react kiya toh hum aage nahi jaayenge. Hum us dog ko waapas se peeche lekar aayenge and then waapas se start karenge.
Sakshi
Right.
Sunny
Hai na ki uska chase. Phir usne chase kiya thoda usne bhon bhon kiya. Hum abhi bhi aage nahi jaayenge. Hum phir se peeche aayenge aur hum phir usko lekar jaayenge. So hum yeh continuous karte rehte hain, continuous karte rehte hain jab tak humein desired behavior nahi mil jaata.
Sakshi
Okay. So I have been doing this for the past I would say twelve-fifteen days.
Sunny
Aap aage nikal jaate ho ya waapas se peeche aakar usko ye sab?
Sakshi
Nahi nahi main toh usko poora andar ki parking tak waapas ek round laga ke aa jaati hoon.
Sunny
Wo aage nikal jaate ho.
Sakshi
Let's say 200 nahi peeche aa jaate hain, peeche aate hain. I put him on a follow me. 200 meter straight hai wo. Matlab wo straight hai bilkul.
Sunny
Let me matlab mujhe aapko iska concept samjhane do. Kya hota hai is cheez ka concept? Toh dog ko humein itna door bhi lekar nahi jaana. Mujhe nahi pata 200 meters kitna hota hai? 200 meters kitna hota hai? Yahan se kitna hoga? Nahi, nahi, nahi, nahi, itna door nahi lekar jaana hota. Itna door nahi lekar jaana hota.
So that is too far. Hai na? So hum kya karte hain? Jaise suppose kar lo ek cabin bana hua hai. Okay ek cabin. Usne wow, wow, wow, wow is tareeqe se kiya. Hum usko leash se nudge-nudge karte hain. Uske munh ko modte hain.
Kuch 15-20 kadam chadhte hain uski taraf dekhkar usko shaant karte-karte aur waapas se ghuma lete hain aur wahin par ghuma ke usko baithate hain ki ab this is an assignment.
Toh assignment ka matlab kya hai ki bhai ab yeh humara assignment hai. walk humari assignment nahi hai. Hai na? walk ab humara wo nahi hai. 200 meter jaana ab humara wo nahi hai. Ab hum isko hi face karte rahenge jahan par tune misbehave kiya hai.
So jaise abhi aap is community mein nahi hote toh hum aapko bolte ki yes tu aap aage chale jaao and don't is cheez ko.
Sakshi
Interact with the haan.
Sunny
Wo mat karo. Lekin aap kar sakte ho. Aapke paas wo knowledge, aapke paas wo knowledge hai. Toh hum waapas se thoda sa, thoda sa door jaayenge. Usko baithayenge apne paas aur wo ho sakta hai completely focused ho. Is tareeqe se apne dono pair-pair is tareeqe se kar raha hai ki mere ko unki taraf jaana hai.
Full, full, full focused ho raha hai. Toh hum usko thoda sa aage lekar jaayenge aur phir turn maarte hain. Uske paas lekar hi jaayenge us cabin ke paas. Agar wo focused hai toh humne thode sa usko aage diya toh humein uska focus samajh mein aayega.
Wo ekdam fast jaayega unki taraf. Jaise hi wo fast jaayega again nudge again peeche. Phir hum baithayenge aur phir hum usko unki taraf le gaye toh phir fast jaayega. Phir nudge aur phir toh usko kya samajh mein aa raha hai tu fast nahi ja sakta. The first step kya first step wo cats ki taraf usne kab start kiya?
Focus and then wo fast jaana start kiya. Aur humne kya kiya jab uske munh ko seedha rakhne ki koshish kari, munh ko seedha. Uski, uske, uske jo pace tha usko tune down karne ki koshish nahi kari. Hai na? Aur pace ko bhi agar hum tune down kar rahe the toh ho sakta tha ki gale par baar-baar pressure pad raha ho.
Wo baar-baar tension, baar-baar tension pad rahi hai. Lekin jo strategy main bata raha hoon aap wo chhote se time mein multiple burst kar sakte ho. Yaani multiple, multiple times kar sakte ho. Multiple times karte toh kya ho raha hai? Yeh humari practice ho rahi hai.
Aur every occurrence ke saath agar aapne apne mind ko calm rakha toh aap improve karoge. Lekin every occurrence ke saath agar aapne apne mind ko calm nahi rakha toh aap frustration ki taraf jaaoge. Kyunki aap same insaan kya karta hai yaar ek hi cheez baar-baar kitni baar karein, tu maan kyon nahi jaata hai?
Toh that's hai na toh humari ek hi, ek hi baari mein kyon nahi sun leta hai? Toh agar koi humare.
Sakshi
Mujhe wo kaam karte-karte bahut patience aa gaya us cheez pe toh which is a very good thing hai.
Sunny
Trap bata raha hoon trap kahan aata hai? Insaan kahan trap ho jaata hai? Toh insaan agar frustration mein trap ho gaya toh uski skill down ja rahi hai same kaam karne ki.
Aur agar wo frustration mein trap nahi hua, usne apne mind ko calm rakh liya enough even ki wo dasveen baar yeh kar raha hai us short burst mein toh uski growth ho rahi hai life mein.
Toh aapke, aapka mind trained ho raha hai ki ok this ok. Sirf dog train nahi ho raha. This is like as a behaviorist hum har ek case mein apni skills ko upgrade karte hain. So jab aap aise jab aapke ghar mein ek aisa dog hai toh wahan aur aapko ek aisi opportunity mili toh aap apni skill ko upgrade kar sakte ho.
Apni mind ki skill ko sabse pehle. Toh humari mind ki skill kya hai? Frustration ko chhod ke calmness choose karna. Kyunki aapke paas wahan par do choice hogi.
Jab wo nahi manega na, jab wo kheenchega, jab wo teesri baar mein, chauthi baar mein, paanchveen baar mein aaw-aaw karne lag jaayega aur uski intensity aapko badhti hui dikhai dene lag jaayegi tab wahan par calmness chhod ke aap ho sakta hai frustration out of habit, out of habit insaan frustration choose kar leta hai out of habit not so hum compulsive ho jaate hain apne usko lekar.
Usi tareeke se dog compulsive hai. Dekh rahe ho dono mein similarity dekh rahe ho? Dog compulsive hai cat ki taraf attack karne ke liye. Usi tareeke se human bhi compulsive hota hai frustration choose karne ke liye. So jab hum compulsive hai, hum kisi aur se kaise bol sakte hain ki tu compulsive mat ho.
So humein lead by example karna padta hai wahan par uske compulsion ko todne ke liye. Dog ke compulsion ko todne ke liye jo compulsive ho raha hai out of habit wo cheez kar raha hai. Usi tareeke se hum out of habit frustration choose nahi karte us samay par. Hum calmness choose karte hain.
Then we get the authority to communicate with the dog ki this is not allowed. You have to choose something else. This is not allowed but wo chhote burst mein karna hota hai. Lambe burst mein nahi, chhote burst mein karna hota hai.
Wo toh aapko chhote se chhota find karna padega ki aapka chhota kya hai. 200 meter is not chhota. Okay, wo saara context hi khatam ho gaya wahan par. Humein us context mein karna. Phir billi dobaara aayegi toh wo context trigger hoga. Toh ghar mein hota hai. Theek hai. Wo, wo zone mein tha.
Hum usko us zone se hata ke lekar gaye. Uska context change kiya. Lekin jaise hi billi aayegi wo context waapas se trigger ho jaayega aapke dog ke saath. Kyunki wo zone se hata nahi wo.
Ab koi community ke baahar ka koi insaan yeh kar raha hota toh hum usko yahi strategy batate jo aap kar rahe ho ki usko lekar chale jaao. Wahan par wo cheez ko wo karo aur thodi, thodi time usko leash par rakho. Lekin aapke saath aap upgrade kar sakte ho. Aap advance level par ja sakte ho. Okay?
Aur wo advance level hai. Aap usko chhote burst mein exposure do aur aap calmness choose karo aur leash se usko guide karo.
So over a period time aapki skills increase ho jaayegi plus dog ek nayi habit seekhega. Okay?
Sakshi
Sunny ismein ek aur approach bhi li ja sakti hai na ki jahan par dog ko hum Barfi ko bahut zyada flirt pole khilayein and uska drive hum wahan satisfy kar dein pehle toh ho sakta hai yeh reactions aane hi kam ho jayein. Is this a possibility?
Sunny
Nahi possible matlab reaction kam- nahi, yeh correction toh lagegi.
Sakshi
Yeh correction, redirection, follow through toh lagega hi lagega. But instances of this happening would reduce drastically with introducing flirt, flirt pole to him.
Sunny
Yes.
Sakshi
Or is it only instinct based?
Sunny
No, no, no, it will, instincts, instincts based hai, lekin instincts poori hui hui hai. Dog thaka hua hai.
Sakshi
Drive fulfill ho rakhi hai na pehle. Toh phir shayad wo, wo jo burst aayega with looking at the kittens wo thoda kam aayega.
Is what I am trying- Yes, wo kam, wo kam aayega.
Sunny
Lekin, lekin Sakshi ji ka skill bhi kam improve hoga phir. Dono taraf hai wo. Like is tareeke se dog ko manage karne ki.
Sakshi
Matlab main, main dog ke bhi, matlab main dog ke perspective se dekh rahi thi isko.
Sunny
Haan, waise tum jaao treadmill par ek ghanta dauda lo usko aur phir cat ke saamne lekar aao toh bhi kam hoga. Flirt pole khila lo aadha ghanta, 15 minute toh bhi uska kam hoga. Lekin- Lekin main yeh soch rahi thi ki yeh ho kyon raha hai.
Sakshi
Toh ho isliye raha hai probably because uska wo prey drive activate ho raha hai kittens ko dekh ke.
Sunny
Haan.
Sakshi
And wo prey drive ko solve, matlab prey drive ko fulfill karne ka tareeka flirt pole is one of the ways to do that.
Sunny
Tug of war, flirt pole, yeah, yeh sab cheezein khel sakte ho uske saath.
Sakshi
Matlab funny thing is ki yeh saari cheezein khelne hum baahar jaate hain kyunki ghar ke andar nahi khel sakte.
Gray light hai sab jagah aur baahar jaane ke liye society ka gate cross hi karna hai.
Sunny
Skills ko upgrade karna hi padega. No other option. Haan, no other option.
Sakshi
Toh yeh skills se related ek just sharing an instance ki main Barfi ko maine aapko bataya tha main alag-alag jagah lekar jaati hoon walk karane ke liye. Toh ek matlab this woman she came to me. She must be around the same age and pehle unhone kaafi der baat karne ki koshish kari kya kaisa dog se manage karte ho?
And then she told me ki main notice kar rahi hoon ki aap apne dog ko bahut achhe se walk karaate hain. Aapka dog bahut achha walk karta hai.
Sunny
Haan.
Sakshi
Toh mere liye kaafi achha moment tha wo. And then she started telling me about her dog.
She has a Belgian Malinois.
Sunny
Okay.
Sakshi
Aur usne macha ke rakha hai ghar par.
Sunny
Haan 100% wo itni pareshan hokar mujhse bolne lagi hai ki mere ko nahi samajh mein aa raha hai.
Sakshi
Trainers ke paas lekar ja rahi hoon. Toh maine unse normally poochne ki koshish kari ki kya aapki iske saath routine rehta hai? Toh she is like subah toh hamare paas time nahi rehta hai toh usko bas hum susu aur potty break de dete hain.
Aur phir shaam ko jab hum aate hain toh ek round de dete hain, ek ghante ki aur phir raat mein sone. Maine bola wo Malinois hai. Wo sabki jahan par drive khatam hoti hai, uski shuruat hoti hai.
Sunny
Shuru hoti hai. Exactly right, yeah.
Sakshi
Toh then she also asked for my number. So I am thinking ki maine unko bhi bola chahiye I, I would be happy to take their dog for walk as well.
Sunny
Yeah.
Sakshi
Dono Barfi ko bhi usse introduce karwaya maine. Toh wo toh thoda kyunki wo puppy hai.
Sunny
Karaya?
Sakshi
Haan, haan. Main Barfi- kitni hai age? She, I think she is eight or nine months.
Sunny
Haan, matlab wo ab teenage mein aa chuki hai. Puppy toh nahi hai, lekin aapne kara liya uske saath?
Sakshi
Haan. Maine pichhle ek mahine mein Barfi ko around 10-12 dogs, stray dogs se dosti karwa di hai.
Sunny
Are, are solid. Good work.
Sakshi
Thank you so much.
Sunny
Good work. Good work. So ab toh kaafi skill aapki improve ho rahi hai. Like aapne one to one evaluation ka form bhara hai? Like full ki feeling?
Sakshi
Nahi, abhi mere assignments poore nahi hue. Mere chaar assignments baaki hai.
Sunny
Okay cool. Okay cool. Okay cool hai. So yeah, please bhariyega wo cheez ke liye and I think, I think yaar upgrade kar sakte ho aap cheezon ko.
Like you are practicing a lot. Very good.
Sakshi
Mujhe bhi yeh samajh mein aaya. Main khud mein notice kar rahi hoon ki kaafi changes aaye hain in terms of a lot of things, not just Barfi ka training. Oh my God, thank you so much.
Sunny
Okay.
Sakshi
So yes, it was a good experience.
Sunny
Very good.
Sakshi
Thank you.
Sunny
Very good. So unki bhi help karo. Dekho aur experience milega. Belgian Malinois ka experience milega. So aapke paas jitne bhi abhi dogs hain they are like strong breed. So agar hum jab inke saath interact karke, practice karke hum field mein utarte hain toh kaafi smooth ho jaata hai baaki breeds ke saath kaam karna.
Sakshi
Right.
Sunny
Like aapko cases milenge Beagles ke, Labradors ke, Retrievers ke, Indies ke. Wo is tareeqe se match nahi kar paate inki intensity. Jaise Paresh ji ke paas bhai sahab hai. And then aapke paas German Shepherd hai.
Belgian Malinois ka case le rahe ho. Kashish ji ke paas like bade dogs hain and these like, these like they are a big opportunity for you guys ki aapke ghar mein hi is like is tareeqe se dogs hain jo aapko challenge kar sakte hain. Nice, good work. Good work.
Sakshi
Thank you so much.
Sunny
Okay. That's it. Okay. Yes, Parth.
Parth
Jaldi kar do teen question hai.
Sunny
Teen question hai.
Parth
Jaise abhi baarish ho rahi hai na toh jaise bheeg ke aata hai baahar kar toh agar main usko jab dry karta hoon toh towel rub karne se usme arousal aata hai toh se wo ya toh mere haath par ya towel par direct karta hai. Toh agar main usko correct kar doon toh kara leta aaram se.
But at the same time agar main doosri strategy laaoon, agar main usko kuch aur saath mein chew karne ko de do toh kya wo theek hai ya uska impulse control kharab kar.
Sunny
Nahi nahi wo, wo theek hai but jaise ab dog ko tum baahar se lekar aaye geele geela ho raha hai toh jaise apan aise aise karte hain kya waise hi tu dog ke saath kar de.
Parth
Nahi matlab dheere dheere dheere nahi nahi nahi aise nahi.
Sunny
Apan ne apne baal ka kara uska bhi kar diya apan ne toh.
Toh dog dog se jaise suppose kar lo dog arouse ho jaata hai is tareeqe se aur khaaskar wo arouse kab hoga jab hum uske spine ke ekdam peeche jaakar hum is tareeqe se karna start karenge ya phir unke shoulders par hum is tareeqe se karna start karenge so they will get like this thing so humein unko saaf kaise karna hota hai ek haath se jo dog is tareeqe se ho jaate hain, ek haath se uske collar ko pakadna hota hai close aur usko apne close lekar aana hota hai.
Uske back ko is tareeqe se karna hota hai. Oopar towel rakhna hota hai aur halka sa bas aise pherna hota hai not aise aise. Okay?
Parth
Wo toh ho gaya matlab kar leta hoon. Wo saara main aise pooch raha hoon ki agar main udhar usko wo arousal mein agar main kisi cheez par chew karne ko doon toh kya usse uska impulse control kharab hota hai?
Sunny
Nahi nahi nahi.
Parth
Ya matlab aise direct karne dena chahiye dog ko. Agar wo arouse ho raha hai toh usko correct ke jagah direct.
Sunny
Haan haan bilkul bilkul bilkul bilkul. Tum usko haddi de sakte ho. Bilkul tum koi cheez de sakte ho uske arousal ko. Agar aisa hum kuch nahi dete toh pillow pakad ke hum karna start kar sakte hain apne arousal ko release karne ke liye. They will require something.
Agar unke andar aa gaya tum usko saaf kare toh geele hoke dog thode wo jaate hain like hai na? Wo jaate hain. Uske baad tu usko saaf bhi kar raha hai toh again jab hum saaf karte hain, kya kar rahe hain actual? Poori body ko touch kar rahe hain uski body ko aur body ko hum touch kaise kar rahe hain nihaar rahe hain.
Like soch ek doosra dog kya karega? Samajh raha hai tu main kya kya dog ko kya feel ho raha hai? Hai na? Toh wo arouse, wo arouse ho jaayega. Wo kya wo kya kare?
Wo kaise nikaale us cheez ko. Toh hum usko haddi de sakte hain. Ye toh wahan se aise karke tu apna nikaal le us cheez ko. So it's completely okay. Are sparking.
Parth
Second question ek pehle poocha tha ki wo jaise apna bowl food food finish karta hai phir wo bowl ko lick karta rehta hai toh.
Sunny
Bowl ko.
Parth
Haan khaali bowl ko lick karta hai. Toh aapne tab kaha tha ki usko usme thandak mil gayi toh kar do. Wo ab wo roz ka ho gaya. Wo 15 20 minute hamesha kar raha hai. Toh wo ek obsession hai aur wo galat sahi.
Sunny
Haan, wo obsession wo obsession mein aa raha hai. Toh just like ki like khaana thoda increase kar sakte hain. Increase karte hain toh dekhne ko milta hai ye sab cheezein.
Parth
Jaise last year shuru hui thi jab uska ye saara stomach ka issue shuru hua tha. Usse pehle tak nahi karta tha toh mere ko lagta hai ki uska jaise digestibility kam ho gaya toh usko shayad bhookh zyaada lagti hai. Isliye wo kar raha hai itna mere ko lagta hai.
Sunny
Jaise jaise suppose kar le yaar wo jab chaatte hain na toh wo isliye chaat rahe hote hain ki khaana aur aata rahe uske andar.
Parth
Haan, wahi toh.
Sunny
Khaana khaana aur aata rahe. Jitne bhi aakhiri molecule bache hain khaane ke sab main nikaal sab main nikaal loon apne sab le laaoon, sab le jaaoon main. Toh wo us tareeqe se is tareeqe se behave karte hain. Plus lekin agar metal metal ka bowl hai.
Parth
Yeah.
Sunny
Haan toh metal ka metal ka hota hai toh metal ka wo unko pleasure bhi deta hai.
Parth
Toh pleasure kya theek hai? Wo pleasure galat hai.
Sunny
Nahi matlab main main actual mein mujhe uska shakl dekhni padegi.
Parth
Theek hai.
Sunny
tere ko direct tere ko exactly wo bataane ke liye bas main tujhe ye bataa sakta hoon ki dog kis kis usse kar sakta hai plus ki wo aakhiri molecule khaa jaave khaane ka, us liye bhi karta hai. Lekin wo jo metal hota hai wo unko pleasure bhi deta hai unki tongue ko.
Kyunki toh wo uske liye bhi toh agar wo poori apni tongue nikaal raha hai aur ant ka jo tongue hai wo touch kar raha hai usse so zyaada perspective ki wo pleasure ki taraf jaa raha hai.
Sirf agar wo aage oopar ka munh oopar tongue ka thoda sa part nikaal raha hai aur chaat raha hai toh ho sakta hai wo aakhiri molecule khatam karne ki usmein soch raha hai. Toh tu video agar uska banaayega toh mere ko samajh mein aayega ki wo kis level se ye cheez perform kar raha hai. okay?
Parth
Five, ten seconds toh khaane ke baad tak toh normal hai but ye itna lamba hai. Maine kal suna tha toh I asked him ki bhai tu hataa kyon nahi raha bowl jaa ke? Keh raha Sunny sir ne bola hai ki karne do. Maine kaha Sunny sir ko zara dobaara poochho.
Sunny
multiple cheezein multiple cheezein ho sakti hain aur agar wo wahaan par nahi karega toh wo kahin aur karega toh humein root cause par jaana padega. actual mein kya.
Parth
lagta hai kyunki last year se jab se wo ye EPI waala sab kuchh shuru hua na tab se licking badh gayi. Pehle nahi thi toh mere ko lagta hai ki use bhookh aur lag rahi hai.
Sunny
Ho sakta hai, ho sakta hai toh khaana khaana increase kar sakta hai. Ek video le sakta hai taaki main samajh sakoon ki wo kis level par ye cheez kar raha hai. okay?
Parth
Ek aur last question. Jaise hum cycling ke liye jaate hain na. Toh jab maine cycle introduce kari thi toh maine cycle par baithne tak ka toh poora shaanti shaanti mein kiya tha. then wo cycle chalaate samay kyunki wo bite kar raha tha toh wo ek continuous run mein lekar gaya.
Phir usko habit ban gayi ki wo cycle jaise hi hum cycle jaise lock karke baahar lekar jaa raha hota hai cycle se wo bhaunkne lag jaata hai. Wo anxious aur aroused hota hai. Ab maine usmein.
Sunny
excitement zyaada dikhta hai mujhe lagta hai uske andar excitement zyaada hota hai bhaagne ka. Bhaagna achha lagta hai na use.
Parth
Haan toh ab maine usko itna kar liya ki hum jab tak saath mein chalein matlab cycle par I am not cycling but main cycle ko saath mein lekar chal raha hoon tab tak wo shaanti se chal leta hai.
but the moment I sit on the cycle wo itna matlab usmein anxious excitement aur arousal aise mix aata hai aur wo poora ready hota hai ki bhaago. Toh ab us stage par expecting him to be calm is a wrong expectation or a right expectation?
Sunny
Nahi matlab it's not about right or wrong. Us samay par suppose kar le agar humein aisa behavior chaahiye jismein wo shaant shaanti hamaare saath chale toh first of all ye dog ke liye kaafi mushkil hota hai. Ye humein understanding lekar aani chaahiye. Sab dogs ke liye nahi, sab dogs ke liye nahi.
Lekin jo ek high energy dogs hain, jinko bhaagna bahut zyaada pasand hai aur bahut instincts waale hain, jinko play drive hai and running ka drive hai uske andar toh unke liye bahut zyaada mushkil hoga.
Lekin as an assignment as an exercise to for yourself jab wo bhaunkna chaaloo karein, start giving complete avoidance. do not move. Okay, do not move as an assignment. Main aisa nahi bol raha ki we will tell this to every client but as an assignment kya hoga? Hum us bicycle par saamne dekhne lag jaayenge.
Yeh dog bark karega and then hum apni mental state dekhenge kaise change ho rahi hai. Samajh mein aaya tere ko? It is like ki...
Parth
Wo aadhe ghante tak bhaunkta raha. Chala aadhe ghante tak chala. Phir uske baad maine thoda sa phir maine leash guidance usko baithaaya. Wo baitha hua.
Sunny
Haan.
Parth
bhi baith ke bhi bhaunkta raha. Chalta raha aadhe ghante. Phir maine strategy change karne ki rakhi toh wo shaant hokar baith gaya. The moment halka sa bhi cycle hili, waapas se bhaunk.
chal raha tha.
Sunny
Let's change the approach here. Okay, ab hum approach kaise karenge? Pehle usko bhagaayenge. Okay, pehle usko, pehle usko bhagaayenge, usko thoda exercise denge, thoda usko shaant karenge taaki wo ab aadha ghanta. Uske baad hum same cheez waapas se repeat karenge. Kaise repeat karenge? Jaise tu end karta hai.
Tune poori process end kar di. Thoda sa aage gaya then return back and then start again. Aur phir dekh wo kis tarah, kis tareeqe se bhaunkta hai. Tujhe lag raha hai ki yaar ye abhi bhi iski intensity baraabar hi hai jaise pehle thi. Then again usko run de. Phir waapas aa aur phir wahi cheez kar.
Jaise jo maine Sakshi ji ko bola. But tere case mein different approach wahi hai. Samajh mein aa raha hai? Approach same hai. Short burst mein multiple times same cheez karna usko activity ko aur usko tune down, tune down karte hue jaana.
toh tere ko understanding hogi dog ki intensity ki. Yaar dog ki intensity kya hai? Tere paas bhi ek high intense dog hai. market mein is tareeqe ke high intense dog nahi aate hain sabke paas. hai na? matlab clients is tareeqe se nahi aate. clients jo aate hain na wo low, medium maximum low, medium ke aate hain.
Kyunki high, high intensity ke dogs hi rare hain. Toh clients kaise aayenge? So agar jab tum is tareeqe ke dogs ke saath kaam karte ho, baaki jaise maine pehle hi bola, baaki ke dogs tumhe kaise lagenge? Smooth. Doosron ko hi nahi lagenge. Tum andar training ho apne khud ke dog ke.
Toh wo achhi opportunity hai ki tumhaare paas ek high energy ka dog hai. Toh tumhe clients ke liye wo kaafi prepare kar sakta hai. Tumhe lagega are yaar ye kya hai? Ye toh low, ye toh, ye turant hi maan gaya yaar. Ye toh paanch minute mein hi shaant ho gaya. Mere waale toh aadha ghanta laga diya.
Tumhe pata hi nahi hai main kahaan se aa raha hoon.
So that's apni preparation hai wo. hai na? So lekin yeh strategy yaad rakho. Yeh strategy tum har jagah-jagah laga sakte ho. Kaun si strategy hai? Short burst mein same exposure again and again short burst mein. Aur wo human ki practice hai, not dog ki practice.
Dog maane na, maane na maane usse matter nahi karta hai humein. Wo tumhaari practice hai. Dog toh maan hi jaayega. hai na? Dog toh maan hi jaayega. So tu yeh practice kar. Agar wo bahut zyaada intense bhaag raha hai, chal tere ko bhaga ke le jaata hoon. Main bhi aise hi improvise karta hoon.
On the field jab hum jaate hain toh aisa nahi ki hum ek strategy soch ke jaate hain. On the field hum improvise karte hain dog ke perspective se, hamaare perspective se aur environment ke perspective se. Lekin hamaare paas knowledge honi chaahiye ki what strategies are there aur wo kaise build hoti hai.
So short burst mein exposure dena. Sakshi ji ke case mein same tha short burst mein exposure dena. Tere case mein fundamental same hai. Oopar ki cheez different hai. Hai toh same fundamental. Fundamental, ye fundamental yaad rakhna toh tum create kar paaoge different, different strategies. So ye karke dekh maza aayega.
Parth
Ye maine kar raha hoon. Main do din se ye kar raha hoon. But ismein ek question ye tha ki jab hum shuru karte hain jaise wo jab burst ke liye bhi hum de rahe hain toh ek association nahi ban rahi ki main is state mein jaa sakta hoon udhar ya...
Sunny
Nahi, tu association par chhod nahi raha hai, us association par.
Parth
Us association par.
Sunny
Yeah, tu aage badh raha hai, usko tune down kar raha hai aur phir tu aage badh raha hai. Phir tune down kar raha hai, phir aage badh raha hai. Tune down, tune down, tune down, tune down. Aise, aise banta hai us cheez ka. Phir wo ekdam relax mode mein aayega aur phir tu teen-chaar baar karega, wo association hai.
Wahan par tu liver ki treats ya jo bhi cheez hai wo introduce kar sakta hai reinforce karne ke liye uske behavior ko. Okay? Maza aayega.
Parth
Thank you, sir.
Sunny
Yeah, cool hai. Toh last one Praphul ji.
Sakshi
Chat par bhi question hai.
Sunny
Are, chat par questions hain? Dikhte kyun nahi hai?
Sakshi
Kashishi ji ke.
Sunny
Okay, okay.
Praphul
Yeah, so...
Sunny
Haan, ye Praphul ji.
Praphul
With Kulfi, I have observed something. Ab maine kuch teen-chaar dino se observe kar raha hoon ki he is tending to slow, slow calmness in walks. Thoda-thoda calm down ho raha hai.
Sunny
Haan.
Praphul
Jaise ki jo main kar raha hoon, I took out my long leash aur long leash par hi walk kara raha hoon aur main aise time par ja raha hoon jahan log kam hai so that I can give him freedom.
Sunny
Okay.
Praphul
Toh I am not directing him on walks at all.
Main bas chal raha hoon and he is following me and I am ensuring loose leash.
Sunny
Yeah.
Praphul
Aur wo kahin jaata hai toh I don't stop him.
Sunny
Yeah.
Praphul
So he exploring on his own. Toh I am not interrupting that.
Sunny
Yeah, yeah.
Praphul
Isse I am seeing ki wo mera baat sunna zyada ho gaya hai usme. He is able to follow me more.
Sunny
Yes, yes.
Praphul
So I am just continuing that. Toh uski wajah se it is now being seen in other aspects of his life also.
Sunny
Yes.
Praphul
Toh wo dheere-dheere, dheere kam ho raha hai.
Sunny
Haan.
Praphul
Toh, uh, now wo ek aisa dog hai jo nervous, anxious rehta hai. Toh he is not food driven outside of the house.
Sunny
Yeah.
Praphul
Jab wo achha behavior dikha raha hai toh how do I reinforce his positive behavior when he is not taking treats?
Sunny
That's wo bol ke good boy.
Praphul
Wo toh main bol deta hoon but then is that enough to...
Sunny
Yeah, yeah, that's because he is a sensitive guy aur agar wo food drive nahi hai. Agar play drive hai kya uske andar?
Praphul
Play drive bahut hai, bahut zyada hai.
Sunny
Haan, so uska like usko kuch, uske liye koi stick de sakte ho usko us samay par. Agar usne kya, usko kuch khilona de sakte ho, apne paas khilona rakh sakte ho uske paas. Us samay par uske saath khilone se khel sakte ho aur kuch bhi nahi karna hai toh aap achha feel kar sakte ho.
Aise dogs ke saath jab wo baahar hote hain, jo sensitive dogs hote hain aur wo food driven nahi hote, hamari feelings bahut zyada matter karti hai. For example, wo loose leash par kaise achhe chalne lag gaya because, because ho sakta hai jab aap usko short leash par rakho toh hamari taraf se wo tension ja rahi ho.
Jo feel kar, jo, jo aur loose leash par wo tension nahi thi. So tension minus ho gayi. Getting my point? So tension minus hone ke baad kya hua? Yeh dog sensitive hai. So agar aap usko reward dena hai, so really from inside look at him and feel good, feel good. So that wo unko reinforce karta hai.
Wo unko understanding hoti hai in cheezon, sensitive dogs ko, sab dogs ko nahi, sab dogs ko nahi. Jo sensitive dogs hote hain, sirf aur sirf unke paas yeh capability hoti hai yeh cheez samajhne ki. Jab hum andar se achha feel karte hain, they take that as a reward, as a reward. Okay?
Praphul
Maine dekha ki kayi baar uh, when he is doing certain things, wo meri taraf dekhta hai. He is like waiting some input from my side.
Sunny
Acknowledgement.
Praphul
Yeah, tab main of course acknowledge and then he walks on his own. Ye sab sahi hai. Now what he started is since he is exploring, toh wo logon ke paas dheere-dheere ja raha hai to smell unko and then he is turning around coming back.
Sunny
Yeah, yeah.
Praphul
Ye cheez he is doing with cats. Pehle attack karne ke liye jaata tha. Dheere-dheere calm down ho raha hai. This is a very uh, good progress that I am seeing.
Sunny
Yes, yes, beautiful man.
Praphul
Toh again I was thinking ki isko reinforce kaise karun? Toh...
Sunny
Good feel, good feeling, good feeling. That's it.
Praphul
Okay, understood. I will try and work on that. Agar main jab ball lekar jaun, he is very highly play driven. Agar main ball lekar jaun toh wo ball par fixate ho jaayega during the walks.
Sunny
Yeah, don't take, don't take it, take toys. Toh wo main bolte-bolte mujhe samajh mein aaya ki Kulfi ke saath toys work nahi karenge.
Ho sakta hai wo thoda hyper ho jaaye, uske andar territorial behavior thoda trigger ho jaaye toh wo thoda, wo gadbad, wo gadbad ho sakti hai. Uske saath aapki, kya suppose wo father son ka relationship nahi hota hai.
Ek son baar-baar father ki taraf dekhta hai to get acknowledgement ki uska pita usko dekhkar kuch achha feel kar sake. So that is the case with the Kulfi. Hai na? Matlab humans se agar hum compare karna chahein, human ke behavior se, toh ek bachha hamesha apne father ko dekhega, "Maine achha kiya kya?
Maine achha kiya kya?" Aao, aa raha. Usko, usko father se koi reward nahi chahiye hota. Bas kya chahiye hota hai ki uska father uske liye achha feel kar raha ho. That's the uska main. Toh wo sensitive dogs ke andar aisa hota hai. So sensitive dogs will look at you, will look at the fact ki maine kaisa kiya?
Maine theek kiya kya? Yahan par theek, theek behave kiya kya?
Aur aap us samay usko achhi feeling de sakte ho. Hai na? Achha, uske aankhon mein usko dekh sakte ho. So you will feel that depth ki wo seriously aapse acknowledgement maang raha hai that I did something good. Yeah.
Praphul
Just to add up, abhi thodi der pehle ek discussion ho raha tha I think with Saxi ji regarding wo 200 meter tak waapas lekar jaake lekar aane wala cheez. So uh, what I used to do, jaise abhi meri maid aayi ghar par, house help, uh, toh he bell sunte hi wo hyper ho jaata hai.
Toh now we know ki what time the house help is going to come, toh main use bedroom mein lekar jaata hoon aur wahin then the house help comes inside, they go to the kitchen. Now he can smell her. Main darwaza bedroom ka khol deta hoon. I have taken a video of this. I will send it on the group later.
Toh I just take him back inside the bedroom, open the door aur main usse sit aur stay kara ke ruk, bitha deta hoon wahin par.
Now he starts whining. He start uh, breathing hard. Toh mujhe, mujhe, he is just like raring to go. But don't let him. It takes about five minutes of time or something. Just one second. I am sorry, one second.
Sunny
Yeah, that is completely okay waise.
Sakshi
Misty is being...
Praphul
Kanishka wo chat wala answer kar do aap mere ko. Ek call par jaana hai. Wo wala interesting hai mere liye.
Sunny
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay.
Praphul
So uh, he is always raring to go, toh I make him sit and calm down. Toh it takes about good five minutes to show some calmness. Uske baad if I start walking, wo do-teen kadam chalega and then he starts running towards the, ki wo jaake dekhna chahta hai ki kaun hai, kya hai.
At this point, I just make him turn around and make him go back to the same place and sit again. Agli baar jab tak wo daudna shuru nahi karta, tab tak main use lekar ja raha hoon aage. Aur jaise hi usne dikhaya kuch intention, I correct him and get him back.
Isse kya, teen, do-teen baar hone ke baad he calms down completely and just normally comes out with a calm energy and he is just looking at things and going. Now he is not even trying to uh, anybody.
Sunny
Good work. Yeah, good work. Good work, man. That's the, that's the sahi, sahi strategy hai.
Praphul
So I, I think distance is actually doing more harm than good because he is sort of disassociating from the reason ki usko waapas kyon lekar ja rahe hain.
Sunny
Okay, okay.
Sakshi
That's, that's possible, yeah.
Sunny
Haan.
Praphul
Toh if it's a quick thing, ki use jaise hi usne kuch unfavorable behavior dikhaya, we stop and we correct wahin ke wahin. Toh I think that association and his understanding...
Sunny
ya matlab isi, see, zyaada doori nahi hai na. Matlab wo wahin par hi hai, ghar ke andar hi hai. It's not ki kahin par baahar 200 meter us jagah par jaana, jaana pad raha hai usko. Wo wahin par hi hai. Lekin aap jo baar-baar occurrence kar rahe ho, jaise maine Parth ko bola, aap bhi wahi kar rahe ho.
Like baar-baar occurrence kar rahe ho us cheez ko, baar-baar usko shaant kar rahe ho ya phir wo andar ja raha hai. Wo calm down kab hona start karta hai?
Praphul
Yeah, sorry?
Sunny
Calm down kab hona start karta hai? Kaun se matlab kab, kis position par jaake wo calm down hona start karta hai?
Praphul
Jab wo waapas hum origin par jaate hain, jahaan se shuruwaat kiya tha.
Sunny
Haan.
Praphul
And I have made him sit and stay bolke main use bitha ke rakha hua hai. Jab uski breathing thodi si calm down hoti hai, I, I notice that. Kuch lagte hain use aaraam se do-teen minute toh.
Sunny
Haan.
Praphul
Yahaan main use aur kuch bhi nahi bol raha hoon. Main uske saath baitha hoon sirf and I am letting him discover his own self on his own.
Sunny
Yeah, yeah.
Praphul
Agar main zyaada attempt karun toh he starts getting distracted.
Sunny
Yes, yes 100%. So see first of all dog Kulfi ke andar wo kya hai ki like impulse control, aap jab bolte ho usko wo uthta nahi hai wahaan se. Wo aage nahi badh raha. Wo koshish zaroor karta hai aur jaise hi koshish karta hai aap usko turant correct kar dete ho us jagah, us jagah par.
So wo kya karta hai wahin par baithe-baithe apni jo anxiety release karta hai. Kaise release karta hai? Breathing karke fast, fast ki bhai inhone mujhe bola yahaan se hilna mat.
Anxiety kya karti hai? Aage push karti hai. Hai na? Running behavior karti hai towards lekar aati hai. Figure out karni hai ye kya hai? Ye kya hai? Hai na? Yahaan par kya-kya hai? Jaise koi bhi ghar par aaya toh jab aap usko shaant baitha rahe, usko aage badhne nahi de rahe, usne apni anxiety release kar di.
Jab anxiety release kar di toh phir kya-kya, kaisa behave karega wo? Wo shaanti se behave karega. Ho sakta hai wo andar chale jaaye, waapas se aaye aur shaant hokar aaye. Toh this, this is jab hum dog ko, lekin har ek dog is tareeqe se behave nahi karta.
Jaise humne rok diya, wo ho sakta hai wo barking karna chaalu kar de. Lekin Kulfi ke saath kya? Wo ek bas breathe kar raha hai just because aap may-maybe aap usko achhe exercise de rahe ho daily basis par.
Yehi dog hota aur aap usko exercise nahi dete aur aap usko karte, wo baithe-baithe bark karta apni anxiety kyonki uske andar wo aage nahi badhta, wo aapki baat maanta. Lekin wo bark karta, wo bark karta us cheez ke liye.
Praphul
Jab wo kuch zyaada hi uh excited hai toh he starts whining also. Us theek aawaaz karke dikhaata hai. But then he calms down, eventually he calms down. Toh aur main kahin par bhi use leash tight karke nahi bitha ke rakh raha hoon. I have mera ekdam loose leash hai.
Maine sirf hua hua hai toh wo actually usko pehle se aadat hai toh wo baith-baith ke usko ho gaya aadat. Toh uh that is how he calms down. Toh I am, I am doing that every day. Uske wajah se dheere-dheere, dheere I think it's showing some sort of improvement.
Sunny
Amazing, amazing work man, amazing work. So that's the matlab wo ek yehi strategy hoti hai ki hum daily basis par unko exposure dein aur wo exposure unko calmness provide kare aur hum khud calm rahein. So aapne bahut saari strategies khud implement kari.
For example loose leash ka ek aapne achha strategy ki aapne dekha ki yaar loose leash de raha hoon toh meri tension nahi ja rahi, jisse dog shaant raha hai.
Aur aapne ghar par bhi aakar like loose rakha usko ki loose reh bhai. Hai na? Aur aap khud bhi ab thode se loose ho gaye ho. Loose matlab like wo tense nahi rahe uske behavior ke upar jo pehle tension aati thi.
"Ae!" ho sakta hai aap pehle yell ho jaata ho, thoda frustration mein aa jaata ho and over a period of time aapke andar bhi wo mellowness aa gayi hai Kulfi ko lekar aur bond uh deeper hua hai uske dog ke saath. So that's why it is working. That is why wo aap par trust karta hai, aapki taraf baar-baar dekhta hai.
So jitna aapka bond hai dog ke saath usse kahin guna zyaada bond hai dog ka aapke saath. Matlab uske level par dekho toh wo aapse zyaada bonded hai. Aap utna ho sakta hai uske liye pyaar feel nahi karte ho jitna wo aapke liye feel karta hai. Getting my point? So that's the abhi right now wo jagah.
Toh great dog man, great dog jo is tareeqe se listen karna aur aapki bhi bahut achhi skills hai improve ho rahi hai jo aap usko shaant kara paa rahe ho, learn kar rahe ho ki wo actual mein hai kaisa, uski personality kaisi hai.
Toh cat ke saamne usko allow karna, doosre logon ke saamne usko allow karna that requires skill man. It's not easy. It's not easy. Good work, good work.
Praphul
Thank you, thank you.
Sunny
Okay man, yeah.
Praphul
Yeah, I am done. Thank you.
Sunny
Yeah, good work, good work. So abhi Kashish ji ne poocha, Kashish Bhatia ji ne ki Sunny bhai being a big time perfume ethunist-enthusiast okay, can my love for fragrance impact my dog's health in long run? Nahi yaar, achhe perfumes like matlab wo dog ko agar wo karega toh wo aapko bhi karega fragrance.
So agar aap fragrance laga rahe ho aur aap obviously achhe hi laga rahe ho toh nahi, bilkul nahi. Fragrance toh dog ko calm down karte hain. Toh calm down karte hain. Agar achhe wo hai toh dog ko calm down karte hain toh mast lagaao, bilkul koi wo nahi hai.
Agar dog ki health par impact pad raha hai toh usse pehle aapki health par impact pad raha hai aapke nazdeek.
Okay? Cool hai guys, aaj ke liye itna hi. Thoda sa extend ho gaya. 2:30 tha lekin maine 2:00 bola tha. Okay anyways. So aaj ke liye itna hi.
Phir milte hain aur kal se I think exams chaalu hai and kal se pata chalega kaun-kaun online consultations lene ke liye ready hai aur mast page banayenge, mast exam lenge aur aapko ready karenge taaki aap baaki logon ko madad kar sako aur mere ko chhutti do. Okay? Bye guys, bye-bye.
Sakshi
Thank you so much everyone.
Sunny
Yeah.
Sakshi
Thank you Sunny, bye.
Sunny
Bye everyone. Sorry what?
Sakshi
Thank you so much.
Sunny
Okay, thank you. Okay, bye-bye.
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