Pro group call · Fri 19 Jun 2026 · 1 hr 51 min
Dog Arousal, Touch Correction, Boarding Cruelty and Puppy Instincts
Sunny led an open Q&A covering how to read arousal and tension in dogs, why touch correction should only ever be a last resort, and why board-and-train fixes symptoms while true behaviour work fixes root causes in the home. A large part of the call exposed how common physical abuse is inside boarding and training facilities and how to vet a caretaker in the absence of 24/7 video feeds. The group also discussed pack versus paternal instinct when puppies are born, mating and pack psychology across wolves, lions and dogs, and closed with a detailed look at newborn puppy development, instinct, the prefrontal cortex, and why certain breeds have cropped ears or docked tails.
Key points (6)
- Arousal shows in the whole body making itself bigger and shaking with intensity, and is usually caused by too much excitement and too little exercise at home.
- Touch correction should be used only as an absolute last resort to break a dog's focus, never to inflict pain or as a first response to growling.
- Board-and-train and symptom-based dog training rarely last because they do not address the human behaviour and environment that create the problem.
- Boarding and training facilities frequently hit or mishandle dogs, so members were advised to judge the humans running the place rather than trust body language or photos alone.
- A male dog protecting a mother and puppies is pack-learned behaviour, not paternal instinct, since dogs are not self-aware and act purely on instinct.
- Newborn puppies develop nose sensation first, then eyes around day 10 to 15, then ears around day 21, with touch sensation spreading gradually across the body.
- On the call
- Sunny, Tripti, Sakshi, Vaibhav, speaker_1, and others
Dog Arousal, Touch Correction, Boarding Cruelty and Puppy Instincts
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Transcript
Hindi written in English letters. The audio is the record.
Sunny
Kyunki government ke orders aaye hain Telegram ko lekar. NEET ka paper Telegram par leak ho raha hai aisa bolne, bolne ka hai unka.
Speaker 2
Toh aisi baat mein aapko thoda rest mil jayega na bande toh.
Sunny
Yeh, yeh kaun sa wo hai? Mere toh aur wo badh gaya ki ab main kaise contact karun logon ko. Rest lena hota hai toh main aise off le leta hoon. Like yeh Sunday shayad main off loonga completely.
Speaker 2
Achha.
Sunny
Warna toh zaroorat hoti hai. Community ki aur in sab ki baat karne ke liye. So yeah. Toh kam log hain aaj toh mere khayal se kyunki email par hi bhej raha hoon sabko and I don't know sabne email read kiya bhi hoga ki nahi kiya hoga.
But anyways aaj QnA kar lete hain and jo bhi aapke kisi ke kuch sawaal hain toh wo theek hai warna main puppies ke baare mein hi bata sakta hoon aaj ke din ki puppies actual mein kya hote hain, maa kaise kaam karti hai and kaise uska behavior change hota hai.
Speaker 2
Haan bataiye na unke baare mein.
Sunny
Start kar lein. Ek minute just. Haan, okay. Chaloon main. Haan, yeah sab sahi hai. Toh kisi ke kuch sawaal hain abhi? Pehle sawaal dekh leta hoon. Uske baad interesting cheezein batata hoon puppies ke baare mein. Koi sawaal hai kisi ke? Vayujeet, Manya.
Speaker 2
Mere paas ek hai.
Sunny
Haan bolo na. Sab sahi.
Speaker 2
Haan, abhi arousal ka main padh rahi thi aur jaise maine thoda observation zyaada karna chaalu kar diya hai.
Sunny
Yeah.
Speaker 2
Toh mujhe aisa feel hua hai ki dogs hamesha arousal mein hi rehte hain. Matlab 50-60% of time.
Sunny
Haan.
Speaker 2
Toh wo sahi hai ki nahi aur agar aise hai toh unko shaant kaise karna hai?
Matlab isko thoda time lag raha hai.
Sunny
Kaun se dog ko obser-observe kiya aapne jismein aapko laga 60-70% wo arousal mein rehte hain? Khud ke dog ko kiya ya baakiyon ke dog ko kiya?
Speaker 2
Khud ka toh hai hi. Baaki ka bhi maine dekha. Matlab ek neighbor ka hai.
Sunny
Hmm.
Speaker 2
Toh matlab wo sahi matlab hai ki kaise hai. Matlab jaise maine unki sign dekhi pehle mujhe lagta tha ki wo smile kar rahe hain, hai na.
Sunny
Haan.
Speaker 2
Aise smile karke thoda aise unka tongue beech mein rehta hai.
Sunny
Haan.
Speaker 2
Wo hamara human interpretation tha.
Sunny
Hmm.
Speaker 2
But matlab jaise wo arousal ke baare mein jaana aur phir mujhe laga ye toh smile nahi hai, ye toh arousal state hai.
Sunny
Zyaada tez wo saans le rahe the, aisa tha?
Speaker 2
Nahi, nahi normal matlab baithe aur aise smile type sa. Matlab ye aise lips peeche aur, aur aise jeebh thoda beech mein uske.
Sunny
Usse aro-- uska matlab arousal nahi hota. Uska matlab arousal nahi hota. Matlab arousal mein aapko poori body dekhni hoti hai not just uska munh. Agar aro-- dog ka arousal kaise pata chalta hai? Jaise dog khada hua hai, hai na? Aur uska poora ka poora posture oopar ki taraf ja raha hai like, like this.
Oopar ki taraf ja raha hai, hai na? Aur doosron ke oopar wo aise aane ki koshish kar raha hai. Yaani arousal mein kya hota hai unke andar mounting ka wo trigger hota hai toh wo apne aap ko bada karte hain.
Apne aap ko kheenchte hain oopar unki apne gardan ko taaki wo kis-- kisi aur ke shoulder tak pahunch sake aur oopar munh rakh sake.
Hai na? Ek yeh one of the sign hota hai ki wo apne aap ko oopar kheenchte hain. Apne aap ko bada, bada karte hain toh wo ek arousal ka wo hota hai aur uske baad unki body jo hilti hai na, wo aisa lagta hai ki bahut zyaada mass aise hil raha hai. Wo zyaada tezi se nahi hilte lekin ek intensity ke saath hilte hain.
Chhote-thoda sa like this kind of thing. Is tareeqe se hilte hain wo. Like toh wo, wo arousal hai, wo arousal hai.
Lekin aapka ek observation matlab jo dog arousal, aroused rehte hain aur hamare paas jo bhi cases aate hain usmein high arousal waale cases zyaadatar aate hain aur high arousal waale zyaadatar cases isliye aate hain kyunki jo humans hote hain wo arousal mein hi rehte hain.
Matlab wo excitement mein rehte hain zyaadatar aur dog ko energy release karne ka mauka nahi dete toh dog ke andar arousal aa jata hai because of that.
Toh zyaadatar humans aur isse aage ke behavior generate hote hain. So arousal se aage ke behavior kya generate hote hain? Dog mein territorial behavior increase hota hai. Dog mein humping increase hota hai. Dog mein se snapping increase ho sakta hai arousal ke.
Dogs, dogs mein destroy karne ka behavior increase hota hai. Toh hamare paas jab clients aate hain aur wo jaise symptoms dikhaate hain, hai na? Aur phir hum unse, unse video maangte hain.
Apne dog ka video do aur hamein pata chal jata hai ki wo arousal mein hai toh do cheezein isse saaf-saaf, wo ho jaati, saaf ho jaati hai. Pehli cheez yeh hoti hai ki uske ghar mein excitement ko bahut zyaada practice kiya ja raha hai.
Okay, the first thing is ki uske ghar mein excitement ko bahut zyaada practice kiya ja raha hai dog ke saath. Doosri cheez hai us excitement ko release hone ka mauka nahi diya ja raha hai.
Toh hum, haan, so phir hum jab strategy banaate hain, hum strategy dog ki training ki nahi banaate. Hum uski arousal ki release ki banaate hain aur wo kaise release karte hain? Hum human ko bolte hain excitement kam karo aur dog ki exercise increase karo.
Toh jisse ye symptoms hote hain na territorial, snapping aur destroying ye khatam hone lag jaate hain. Toh aap jaise basically agar isko ek dog training ke perspective se dekhein toh dog trainer kabhi bhi yeh cheez nahi batayega. Isliye dog training fail ho rahi hai. Na dog training fail ho jaati hai.
Dog training kab pass hoti hai jab dog ko board and train kiya jaata hai. Jab dog ko board and train kiya jaata hai wahan par usko different environment milta hai aur usko different stimulation milta hai toh wo kuch time ke liye shaant ho jaata hai.
Lekin wo dog waapas se aata hai toh chheh, paanch, chaar, teen-chaar-paanch mahine mein waapas se wo behavior saamne aane lag jaata hai.
Depending on dogs ki energy kitni hai? Dog kaisa hai? Dog low energy dog hai, low, medium energy dog hai, high energy dog hai, hyper energy dog hai. Us hisaab se uske ye issues waapas aane lag jaate hain. Toh isliye dog training fail ho jaati hai. Dog behavior life, lifelong chalta hai.
Matlab agar aap kisi isko kisi ko bataoge ki bhai aapko apne ghar mein excitement ko kam karna hai aur iski exercise increase karna hai toh ye lifelong dog shaant rahega na. Dog aroused nahi rahega. Lekin agar aap dog ko iska training perspective se dog ke oopar kaam karoge toh aap uske snapping par kaam karoge.
Aap uske destroying behavior par kaam karoge. Aap usko crate training sikhaoge. Usko obedience training sikhaoge. Yeh sab hai symptoms par kaam karna. getting my point yeh sab hai symptoms par kaam karna. Lekin agar aap human ko bologe excitement kam aur dog ki exercise zyaada.
Yeh hai root cause par kaam karna jo zyada jaldi tareeke se work karta hai. Ismein kam paisa kharch hota hai, kam time lagta hai lekin yeh daily basis ka kaam hota hai.
Toh human ko aise understanding dena woh jisko dog behavior ki knowledge hai, dog psychology ki knowledge hai sirf wahi de sakta hai, wahi kar sakta hai. Isliye dog training kaam nahi aati. Khaaskar dog training sirf obedience mein kaam aati hai.
Jab aap dog ko sit, stay yeh sab cheezein sikhaate ho, crate training dete ho, car ke andar baithaate ho usmein sirf dog training kaam aati hai. Lekin dog ke andar agar behavioral problems aa rahi hai toh wahan dog training kaam nahi aati. Tuk mein zaroor kaam ho jaati hai lekin woh kuch time ke liye rehti hai.
Then waapas se dog back to woh. Kyunki jo uska root cause hota hai woh humans aur uska environment hota hai. You know dog ke behavior issues ka root cause.
So that's isliye zyada cases arousal mein ya snapping mein ya phir dog jo cheezein destroy karta hai usmein dog ko training ki zaroorat nahi hoti. Usmein human ko understanding ki zaroorat hoti hai aur woh ek dog behaviorist hi kar sakta hai.
Dog ke understanding dene ke liye isliye arousal waale dogs aapko bahut dikhenge. Lekin woh arousal ko samajhna bhi ek woh hai aapka skill hai. Aur arousal ko samajhne ka kya hai? Dog apne aap ko bada karte hain like they will do this. You know aap kai saare videos mein dekhoge.
Woh doosre dog ke paas ja raha hai aur apne munh ko ekdam aise kar raha hai. Apni poori body ko ekdam aise kar raha hai. Aapko lagega peeche hat raha hai lekin woh munh oopar kar raha hai apna.
You know taaki woh kandhe ke oopar aa sake and then phir woh kandhe ke oopar aayega toh check karega ki saamne waala dog kaisa behave kar raha hai.
Kandhe ke oopar aakar yoon rakhta hai ki kaisa behave kar raha hai, snap kar raha hai, kya kar raha hai. Agar woh snap nahi karta, kuch nahi karta toh uske oopar chadh jaata hai. Lekin agar woh snap karta hai toh peeche hat jaata hai aur phir try karta hai. Toh aise unka game chalta hai apne arousal ko.
Lekin yeh kya hai arousal ko release karna hai. Arousal ko release karna not a dominance ki wajah se arousal ko release karna. Ab yeh dog agar consistent basis par kar raha hai like woh apne gharon mein karte hain consistent basis par apne human ke oopar.
Toh humare paas aise clients aate hain jo bolte hain ki hum apne dog ko apne pair ke oopar hump karne dete hain, apne haath ke oopar hump karne dete hain ya phir kisi pillow ke oopar hump karne dete hain. Woh actual mein kya ho raha hai? Dog arousal ko release kar raha hai plus saath mein habit develop kar raha hai.
Toh uske baad kya hota hai? Aap usko exercise bhi de dete ho. Aap uski excitement bhi khatam kar dete ho lekin habit toh build ho gayi.
Ab jaise humari habit build ho gayi naakhoon chabaane ki. Ab humein pata rehta hai ki hum naakhoon chaba rahe hain. Kai baar aisa ho jaata hai humein pata nahi rehta naakhoon chaba rahe hote hain ya phir humari habit ho gayi munh pe se baar baar aise karne ki.
You know toh humein pata rehta hai ki hum aise kar rahe nahi. Baar baar apna haath jaayega, baar baar hum khujlenge, baar baar hum aisa karenge. Woh habit build ho gayi. Aapko understanding aa jaayegi ki buri cheez hai lekin aap usko chhod nahi paaoge. Kyun? Kyunki woh habit build ho gayi.
Toh dog ki aisi habit build ho jaati hai. Toh phir client kya bolta hai? Yeh toh theek nahi hua. Humne isko teen hafte, humne isko hafte bhar tak humne isko walk diya, lekin yeh toh abhi bhi aisa kar raha hai. Toh habit khatam hone mein 21 din lagte hain, 90 days lagte hain.
Ab us hisaab se humein phir unko guidance deni hoti hai. So arousal ke cases environment se related hai, environment se related hai, lack of understanding se. Okay toh cases bahut saare aayenge aapke paas matlab this thing aur yeh cases solve karna easy hota hai kaafi.
Lekin jinke liye solve kar rahe ho unke liye bahut badi baat hoti hai. Kyunki unke toh unko nahi pata chal raha na ki unka dog hump kar raha hai lagaataar embarrassment ho raha hai, cheezein kharaab kar raha hai. Phir aap jaate ho aur aap do cheezein bolte ho.
Apna excitement kam karo, dog ko exercise zyada karo that's it aur dog change hona start ho jaata hai. Toh unke liye bahut badi baat hai aur yeh saste mein hota hai. Kyun? Haal filhaal jo humare paas cases aa rahe hain usmein generally jo cases aate hain woh trainers ke baad hi humare paas pahunchte hain.
You know multiple trainers ke paas hi. Toh humein kya samajh mein aaya? Jo multiple trainers hain woh sirf board and train, board and train, board and train kare ja rahe hain. Board and train toh simple, simple cheezon ke liye board and train par bulaaya ja raha hai dogs ko aur board and train kitna 30, 30 dinon ka.
So ek trainer jo board and train bulaata hai is cheezon ke liye jo maine aapko abhi explain kiya like destroying, snapping aur yeh sab cheezein.
Uske liye 30 dinon ke liye board and train karaata hai. Usmein bahut zyada paisa kharch hota hai. Lekin aap jab jaate ho aur aap ek hi session mein usko solve kar dete ho toh aapki mouth publicity bahut zyada hoti hai.
You know market se market ne 30 din liye aur saath mein 25 hazaar liya 30 hazaar liya aur more kind of thing. You know lekin aap ek hi session mein gaye aur aapne paanch guna kam liya lekin utna kam time liya aur usmein aapne solve karke de diya.
So aapki aisi mouth publicity bahut zyada hone lag jaati hai kyunki aapko ek comparison hota hai phir uske baad market se. Toh market mein abhi right now condition kya hai? 30 days ki board and train hai chhoti se chhoti cheezon ke liye. You know like dog yeh kar raha hai, dog snap kar raha hai board and train.
Dog ko crate and training dene board and train. Everything is right now board and train hui baat kyunki because woh profitable hai, profitable hai.
Okay toh that's isliye aap market se ekdam alag ho jaate ho and slowly, slowly aapki bahut zyada mouth publicity hone lag jaati hai. Then you will start getting recurring clients lagaataar, lagaataar. Okay toh that's why dog behavior is very important. Dog behavior ko samajhna, dog psychology ko samajhna.
Phir aap ekdam root cause par apni strategy create kar sakte ho and then woh strategy jaldi results lekar aati hai.
Speaker 3
Hackles raise hona matlab woh bhi ek sign hai na arousal ki. Hackles raise hona.
Sunny
Hackles, hackles raise karna woh tension mix hui hui hai. Tension mix hui hui hai. Toh dekho hackles, hackles raise hone ka matlab kya hai? Baal khade ho rahe hain. Baal khade, baal khade kab hote hain? Jab skin compressed hoti hai. Okay you know humein goosebumps kab aate hain?
Jab humari skin like compressed hoti hai some kind of thing.
You know waise tension kya unki kya hota hai? Unki skin compressed ho rahi hai. You know skin chhoti skin chhoti kab hoti hai? Cheezein chhoti kab hoti hai? Jab usmein tension aati hai. Relaxation mein iski relaxation mein cheezein chhoti hoti hai ki nahi.
Cheezein chhoti kab hoti hai jab usmein tension aati hai toh dog tense ho raha hai. Uske alaawa aur kuch bhi ho sakta hai. Uske alaawa arousal bhi ho sakta hai. Uske alaawa woh insecure bhi ho sakta hai.
Anything lekin hackles raise karna is equal to uski yahan ki body tense ho rahi kahin ki bhi body tense ho sakti hai. Lekin humein generally hackles kahan ke dikhte hain. Yahan oopar ke dikhte hain. Uske side ke ho sakte hain, uske gardan ke ho sakte hain. Lekin humein oopar ka spine ka dikhta hai.
Tension aaya hua so tension ki wajah se.
Speaker 2
Toh woh differentiate kaise karte hain ki yeh matlab tension hai ya phir arousal hai matlab.
Sunny
So basically dekho agar jab aap dog ke chehre ko dekhte ho, observe karte ho aur uski aankhon ko dekhte ho.
Agar aapko aankhein dikh rahi hai uski. Aap uski jab aankhon ko observe karte ho toh human ka ek bahut hi achha woh hai like hamara brain ka ek bahut mechanism hai ki hum jab jisko dekh rahe hote hain aur agar hum usko copy karte hain toh woh jo feel kar raha hota hai, hum woh feel karne lag jaate hain.
vice versa isko repo banana bolte hain. Matlab it's like yeh negotiation mein har cheez mein sikhaya jaata hai. Hai na negotiation mein ki aapko repo repo kaise banana hai. Saamne wale ko dekho aur uski body language ko mimic karo toh aap dono mein ek connection ban jaata hai.
so dog ki agar hum aankhon ko dekh rahe hain aur usko hum dekh rahe hain ki woh kaise ho raha hai. Woh is tareeke se ho raha hai. Woh ho raha hai toh aapko ek feedback milta hai. Lekin sirf yahi feedback nahi hai. Connect hona aur feedback kya hota hai? Uski body language bhi hoti hai.
for example agar hackles dikh rahe hain toh woh tense ho raha hai.
Yahan par aisa ho raha hai. Kya dekh raha hoon main. Main tense dikh raha hoon. Hai na toh uske andar uske andar tension aa rahi hai. Lekin sirf tension nahi hoti aur bhi cheez ho sakti hai. Woh tense kyon ho raha hai? Kya reason hai? Woh tense arousal ki wajah se ho raha hai kyonki usko uske upar hump karna hai.
Lekin usko pata nahi hai ki woh kya kaise aage behave kare toh uske liye woh tension ho raha hai. Woh tense isliye ho raha hai kyonki woh insecure hai aur woh situation ek aisi aa gayi jisme jisme usme kabhi bhi usko pata nahi tha ki kaise behave karna hai.
Toh again woh usme tense toh kuch insecurity ki wajah se tension ho sakta hai. Kuch arousal ki wajah se tension ho sakta hai. so woh humein woh humein dekhna hota hai. Dono sirf aisa nahi ki dog sirf tense hota hai. Sirf aisa nahi ki dog sirf arouse ho sakta hai. Hai na.
Like woh aas-paas kya chal raha hai, uski aankhon mein kya dikh raha hai.
Uske poore jo uska yahan ka jo poora portion hota hai, uske snout ka jo portion hota hai, woh humko kaafi feedback deta hai. Kaafi feedback deta hai uske yahan upar ke uski aankhein kaisi hai, hai na. Woh kis tareeke se dekh raha hai toh yeh do cheezein bahut zyaada feedback deti hai humko.
Yeh do cheez hai na yahan upar kya hai aur idhar aankhein kaisi kar rahi hai. so aap unko observe karte ho aur us tareeke se mimic karna start karte ho na apne body ko toh aapko samajh mein aane lag jaata hai. over a period time yeh turant hone lag jaata hai.
Matlab just jaise main aapko kai baar bolta hoon ki mujhe kai baar aapne dekha hoga ki main logon se bolta hoon ki mujhe photos do, mujhe videos do. Mujhe uski emotional health check karni hai. Woh emotional health kaise check karta hoon. Main completely focused ho jaata hoon. Mere duniya mein aur kuch bhi nahi rehta.
Sirf woh dog rehta hai aur main rehta hoon. okay aur main completely uski aankhon ko dekhta rehta hoon and then ab woh turant hone lag gaya hai.
Lekin shuruwaat mein maine is tareeke se start kiya tha jab mujhe iske baare mein pata chala tha ki aap ek doosre se connect ho sakte ho. Agar aap body language ko mimic kar rahe ho toh. Toh maine kaha sirf agar yeh insaanon ke saath work karta hai toh yeh dogs ke saath bhi work karta hoga.
so main human psychology padh raha tha aur negotiation ki skills seekh raha tha. Matlab padh raha tha ki kaise kaam karte hain.
Toh wahan par mujhe understanding aayi humans ke saath when I started applying this on dogs and then phir mujhe wahan par samajh mein aane lag gaya ki oh that's yeh yeh kisi bhi being ke saath work karta hai. it is not just dog, just humans. so aap woh dogs ke saath kar sakte ho.
Toh jab hum photos mangaate hain ya phir hum videos mangaate hain toh hum generally uske chehre ko aur uski aankhon ko dekhte hain aur usko mimic karte hain apne andar. then we figure out ki uske andar kya chal raha hai.
Toh aise aapko pata aise aapko pata chalta hai toh practice se samajh mein aata hai aapko sab cheezein.
over a period time aapko samajh mein aane lag jaata hai. Jaldi ho jaayega. Shuruwaat mein time lagega. Lekin agar aap yeh process follow karoge you will understand the dog. Thoda time lagega shuruwaat mein over a period time instant ho jaayega instant. Jaise ab mere saath instant ho gaya.
Jaise hum dekhte hain then woh cheez samajh mein samajh mein aa jaata hai. Lekin human 30 minute tak apni gaatha gaata hai. Woh humein gaatha matlab humein bolna dena unko bataana woh hota hai ki tum bolte raho. Lekin shuruwaat ke paanch-teen-paanch second mein poora dog ka case samajh mein aa jaata hai.
Lekin 30 minute tak humein human ko listen karna hota hai. then phir hum usko woh bataate hain. humans ko kyon listen karna hota hai taaki jo usne bola hai usko anchor bana ke hum usko samjha sakein. anchor bana ke. Lekin woh shuruwaat mein aapko samajh mein aa jaata hai toh abhi filhaal nahi aayega.
Lekin over a period time you will get this agar aap isko lagaataar time dete raho, consistent rahoge toh consistent rahoge toh you will understand dogs ki woh kya hai. Woh bahut simple hai. Woh jo unke andar chal raha hota hai na, woh baahar hota hai.
Ab jaise insaanon ke saath hai, jo andar chal raha hota hai, woh zaroori nahi ki woh baahar hai. Hai na. Woh zaroori nahi baahar hai. Lekin dogs ke saath simple hai. Kyon? Woh jo andar chal raha hai, wahi baahar hai unke. Aur log usko unpredictable zaroor bolte hain dogs ko. Woh unpredictable is because of ignorance.
ignorance hai otherwise dog unpredictable nahi hote. dog is very predictable. Kyonki predictable hai na. Jo andar chal raha hai woh baahar hai. Woh toh phir predictable predictable hua na. Matlab aap read nahi kar pa rahe ho that is a different matter. Lekin dog jo andar hai wahi baahar hai na.
humans ke saath aisa nahi hota.
humans ke saath toh bahut zyaada high skill lagti hai pakad pehchaanne ke liye ki actual mein andar kya chal raha hai. Bahut minute observation karni padti hai aankhon ki and all this thing ki. but dogs is pretty simple pretty simple as compared to humans. okay so that's that's yeah.
Speaker 2
Thank you.
Sunny
Aur kisi ke kuch sawaal hain. Tapti kuch pooch rahe the aap.
Speaker 2
Yes I was having one question regarding yeh jo abhi puppies aur woh Bani hai toh I think I are. Sorry Yes.
Tripti
So basically Bani is a father right?
Sunny
Haan.
Tripti
So how he is behaving around puppy? Kyonki yahan par what I have seen is ki ek female hai jisne puppy diya tha toh father is protecting woh mother aur woh puppy ko.
Kyonki baaki puppies ko shaayad kuch ho gaya issue hua hai toh baaki puppies nahi bache.
Sirf ek puppy bacha hai aur protecting that area and mother ek kaafi aise enclosed area mein us puppy ke saath hai aur baahar koi bhi agar dog lekar aa raha hai ya phir in fact human bhi agar koi aas-paas aa raha hai toh bite kar raha hai.
So like dog knows that they need to protect it by default woh kar rahe hain ya phir matlab kya behavior wise kya chal raha hai wahan par.
Sunny
So woh jo female- Sorry to interrupt.
Speaker 2
Maine isi mein ek ulta dekha hua hai ki matlab mother ko maine protect karte hue dekha hai woh area aur even khaane ke maamle mein bhi matlab jaise unko hum khaana dete hain toh matlab female ko woh peeche chhod dete hain.
matlab wo pehle ye hota hai matlab aur pata nahi matlab wo sahi hai ki nahi. Lekin maine aise observe kiya hai wo aur wo female unko aisi jagah chhupati hai jahan koi bhi pahunch nahi paaye aur agar koi pahunch jaata hai toh wo jagah change karte hue maine unko dekha hua hai.
Sunny
Yes, yes. Haan toh wo generally aisa father ka role nahi hota iske andar. Toh basically kya ho raha hai? Tripti ke case mein kya ho raha hai ki jaise bachhe diye usne hai na. Ab wo jo female thi wo usi ke pack ki thi. Ho sakta hai wo dog akela ho and then uske baad wo female aayi ho.
Toh iska ek pack, ek pack mentality hai. It's not father mentality. It is a, it is a pack mentality. So agar wo pack mentality hai aur uska pack ka member jab puppy hue toh growl kar raha hai.
Yaani uski mother agar growl kar rahi hai, agar mother doosron ko wo kar rahi hai toh ye jo pack ka doosra male member hai wo usko inherit kar lega uske behavior ko.
hai na like ki wo usse seekhega. Wo usse inherit kar lega ki okay abhi right now pack ho sakta hai wo female strong ho. Hai na. Wo female mazboot ho psychological perspective se. Hai na. Zyada, zyada calm ho, zyada assertive ho aur ye usko mimic kar raha hai.
So is tareeqe se bhi wo behave karte hain plus ismein father ka wo role nahi hota. Lekin doosri agar female doosre agar lekin ismein ek interesting cheez ye hai ki agar koi doosri female hai aas-paas wo uske andar maternal instinct zaroor trigger kar sakta hai. female ke andar, doosri female ke andar.
Hai na wo maternal instinct trigger kar sakta hai. Yaani wo female bhi usko un bachhon ko protect karne lag jaayegi. Kai baar suna hai pseudo pregnancy mein jo female dog hoti hai wo apne khilonon ko puppies samajh ke usko protect karne lag jaayegi.
hai na. Khilonon ko hold karti hai, apne paas rakhti hai. Ek neeche palang ke neeche chali jaayegi. Wahan par saare khilonon ko le jaayegi. Chhote-chhote jo uske khilone honge aur usko puppies ki tarah treat karegi aur usko protect karna start kar degi.
Toh, toh zaroori nahi hai ki bachhe hue toh inke andar maternal instincts aate hain. maternal instincts female ke andar aate hain agar wo ek age ke oopar chali jaati hai. Sab female ke andar nahi aate.
Sab female ke andar nahi aate lekin kuchh female ke andar aapko ye dekhne ko milega ki bhale uske puppy ho ya nahi ho maternal instincts unke andar bhi trigger ho gayi. Toh yaani wo bhi protect karna start kar deti hai. Wo bhi protect karna start kar deti hai. Lekin males ke saath nahi hai.
Males usko pack mentality ki wajah se usko protect kar raha hai, usko control kar raha hai. okay aur wo usse learned behavior hai apni female se.
Toh pehle female ne start kiya hoga then usne catch up kiya ki usko bhi aisa, usko bhi aisa karna hai. Okay. Jaise toh ek doosre se seekhte hain. Dog ek doosre se seekhte hain. So that's a, that's unka learned behavior. It's not from father perspective. Unko in cheezon ka idea nahi hai. Okay na. Ye instincts hai.
Agar socho ki ye mere bachhe hain, ye wo thought hai. Samjha? Agar ek dog soch, ek male dog soch raha hai ki ye mere bachhe hain. Wo thought hai not instincts. Hai na. Wo ek thought hai. Ye mere bachhe hain. Wo ek thought hai. Ab mother instincts kya hoti hai? Mujhe inki care karni hai that's it. Ye mere bachhe hain.
Ye falaana-dhikaana wo nahi. Mujhe inki care karni hai. Wo mother, wo maternal instincts hoti hai.
So wo, wo female ke andar hoti hai ki mujhe inki care karni hai. Mujhe inko bachaana hai. Mujhe inko protect karna hai. Mujhe inko milk pilaana hai that's it. Wo unke, unke instincts hote hain. Hai na. Lekin ye mere bachhe hain. Main kya hoon? Bachhe kya hain? Wo ek differentiation hai.
Wo self awareness ke andar aata hai. Dog self aware nahi hote.
Tripti
Haan.
Sunny
Okay. Dog self, dog self aware nahi hote. So wo instincts ke through kaam karte hain ki this we have to do this that's it. Okay.
Tripti
Okay.
Sunny
Any more questions guys?
Speaker 3
I have one question. Touch correction humein kab use karna chahiye aur kab use nahi karna chahiye?
Sunny
Touch correction.
Speaker 3
Haan.
Sunny
So, so jaise, jaise touch sabse pehle toh touch correction tumhaara aakhiri wo hona chahiye not first.
Pehle apne dimaag mein baithana hai ki humein touch correction humein aakhiri use karna hai. Touch correction use kiya jaata hai focus ko break karne ke liye. Okay not to hurt. Focus ko break karne ke liye. Ab wo focus kitna zyada hai, kitni so suppose karo jaise ek dog hai. Hai na.
Ek dog hai aur wo aise aage badh raha hai lekin wo tensed hai. So tensed tension ek mirror ki tarah hoti hai. Ek kaanch, ek glass ki mirror nahi ek glass ki tarah hoti hai. So agar humein usko break karna hai toh humein utne level ka touch istemaal karna hota hai. Samajh mein, samajh mein, samajh mein aaya kya?
Jaise dog is tareeqe se aage badh raha ho. Hmm, hmm, hmm, hmm. Toh hum usko kaise uske ek glass hai ek. Ab humein usko break karna hoga us glass ko. Lekin hum glass ka oopar ka part break nahi kar sakte. Hum neeche ka part break nahi kar sakte. Humein beech ka part break karna hota hai us glass ka.
Yaani glass matlab tension. Bye. Hai na? So humein nahi, humein beech, humein beech ka part break karna hota. Us beech ke part ko break karne ke liye humein wo intensity se touch karna hota hai.
For example, jab hum socializing session lete the toh kai baar aise cases ho jaate the ki do dogs aamne-saamne aane waale hote the aur humein door se pata chal jaata tha toh hum bhaag ke jaate the, unke beech mein aate the, ek ko haath se jo kam intensity ka tha, ek ko haath se rok dete the.
Toh wo haath se ruk jaata tha. Lekin doosra badhe ja raha hai, badhe ja raha hai. Toh phir hum neeche jhukte the aur apne haath ko loose karte the aur unke gardan par touch karte the. Not like aisa touch, it will, it is, it is fast touch. Okay now fast touch hota like this. Ye, ye uska gardan hai like this.
Okay fast touch, hai na? So fast touch kyon? Hum yahan nahi rakhenge haath ko. Haath ko agar yahan rakha, iska munh hua aur ye bite hua.
Okay? Toh dog ek doosre ko kaise touch karte hain? Thapaak. Hai na? Wo tension break karne ke liye, uska tension break karne ke liye. So agar ye uska, uski gardan hai toh we will do this depending on uski tension, kitni zyada tension hai us-uska wo. Toh dog ekdam jheep jaata tha, aisa ho jaata tha ki ye kya hua?
Hai na? Then wo humare oopar, phir humein wo attention deta tha. So this way tum, lekin phir hua kya? Agar tum out of control ho gaye is touch ko lekar. Kyon? Kyunki tumhein results milte hain touch se. Toh phir tum sabse pehle touch ko priority dene lag jaate ho aur wo galti hoti hai. Hai na?
Sabse pehle hum touch ko priority nahi dete. Agar tum sabse pehle touch ko priority de rahe ho toh dog bhi sabse pehle touch ko priority dega. Aur dog ke liye sabse pehle touch ko priority dene ka matlab kya hai? Bite. Nahi toh wo kya karega? Wo sabse pehle touch ko priority nahi dega.
Vo apni body language ko priority dega. Hai na? Body language ko priority dega. For example, jab dogs growl karta hai toh hum sabse pehle kya bolte hain? "Ae chup, ae chup." Hai na? Trainers, behaviorist sabse pehle kya karte hain? "Ae chup." Jaise vo, jaise "Ae" toh hum usko growl karne ke liye mana kar dete hain.
Kind of, hai na? Growl karne, toh phir vo growl nahi karta. Phir vo kya karta hai? Growl ke baad kya aata hai? Bite. Toh growl miss ho jaata hai. Vo direct bite par aata hai. So agar hum galat tareeke se implement karte hain koi bhi cheezon ko just because of our uh, convenience, hai na? Vo backfire maarta hai.
Uska growl ekdam rokna hamara convenience hai ki hum chahte hain ki bhai hamare saamne ek baar bhi growl nahi karein. Usko sabse pehle touch karna, turant touch karna hamara convenience hai kyunki humein turant, turant result chahiye.
Ya phir hum kehte hain ki hamare saamne tune growl kaise kiya? Hai na? Agar vo hamare andar se aa jaata hai toh, jo aata hai yaar matlab main bhi go through hua hi hoon na poora is cheez se behaviorist banne se. Hai na?
Toh vo aata hai ki tune mere saamne, jab humein samajh mein aata hai ki bande ko calm hona chahiye, usko assertive hona chahiye. Agar vo growl kar raha hai, agar vo ba, hamari taraf is tareeke se aa raha hai, uska matlab hai ki main calm nahi hoon, main assertive nahi hoon toh hum ego pe le lete hain.
Main calm, assertive kyun nahi hoon? Tu chup ho varna mera poora belief toot jaayega. So haan, toh phir hum usko alag tareeke se behave karte hain aur hum ego ki like through nikalte hain, ego ke prism se nikalte hain hamari energy aur vo backfire maarti hai.
So that's, that's hum dog ko touch kar sakte hain lekin vo hamara ekdam aakhiri vo hona chahiye. Hai na? Gardan par hum touch kar sakte hain plus ribs ke idhar touch kar sakte hain.
Okay, ribs ke idhar hum kaise touch karte hain? Two fingers se. Okay? Ya phir poore haath se, is jagah se. Jaise koi humko yahan touch karega toh humko gudgudi hoti hai na, us perspective se, not to hurt. Okay, not to hurt but from a this perspective hum kyun kar rahe hain? Focus tod apna.
Jahan tu focused the, vahan se hata, mere par attention de. Hum usko A, U, hum aage khade hue hain, lekin vo sun nahi raha hamari. Hai na? Hamari sun, hamari sun nahi, humein dikh rahi hai bahut zyada tension, bahut zyada focused mein hai, abhi hamari nahi sunega.
Hamari nahi sunega toh hum, hum jaayenge aur peeche se halka sa touch karenge usko. Toh vo humein dekhega aise ki kya hua? Then hum usko bolenge shaant beta shaant, shaant ho ja. Lekin vo uska focus break karne ke liye, not to hurt or not to this, this kind of thing.
Lekin agar tum apna path loose kar doge, jo ki main dekhta hoon, hai na?
Agar tu apna path loose kar doge, tum overconfident ho jaaoge ya phir egoistic ho jaaoge toh tum touch karne lag jaaoge to inflict pain. Okay, to inflict pain aur vo phir ek galat direction mein tum ab chale jaa rahe ho.
Matlab tum ab behavior ke, jab tak tum sambhloge nahi toh tum jo behavior ke, dog behavior ke path par ghuse hue ho, vo aage tak nahi jaa paayega. Ek time aayega jab tum loose karne lag jaaoge. Matlab dog ke cases tum loose karne lag jaaoge. Theek hona band ho jaayenge.
Tumhare saamne dog calm karenge, lekin vo jab ghar par jaayenge toh aur zyada aggressive ho jaayenge. Toh phir log tumhe bolne lag jaayenge ki yaar vo toh udhar calm karta hai, ghar par aakar toh ye aur aggressive ho gaya. Yaani tumhare under dog aaya aur tumhare under aane ke baad vo aur aggressive ho gaya.
So it will happen and then tumhara business ya tumhara jo practice hai vo down jaana start ho jaayegi vahan se.
So that's a, touch is a good technique but hamesha low, matlab hamesha aakhiri vo hai hamara, aakhiri zone hai. Yeah.
Speaker 3
And suppose agar growling kar rahe hain, koi dog growl kar raha hai toh use kaise matlab rok sakte hain? Matlab to escalate hone se, matlab tension mein vo growl kar raha hai.
Sunny
Haan, toh jaise, jaise growl kar raha hai, growl ke baad vo agar aage bhi badh raha hai. Hai na? Suppose kar lo aage, toh hum uske aage aake aur bolna hota hai ekdam shaanti se, shaant ho jaao. Not to yell, not to this, "Ae shaant ho ja." Hai na?
Is tareeke se, yell nahi karna hota hai, tension mein nahi aana hota ya phir humein usko, uske upar "Ae u" is tareeke se "Ae" aisa, ye sab nahi karna.
Speaker 3
Shaanti se.
Sunny
Haan, shaanti se. Toh kai baar trainers aate the hamare socializing session mein aur maine ek baar unko bola tha ki chalo handle karo yahan par dogs ko.
So kisi ne just growl kiya aur vo trainer uske paas aake "Ae" aur maine kaha ruk ja, ruk ja bhai, bhai ruk ja, bhai ruk ja. Hai na? It's, toh phir ye phir common dikha mujhe.
Trainers ke andar, behaviorist ke andar this is common ki zara sa kuch growl hota hai, kuch hota hai, uski taraf badh chalte hain, then like kuch pahaad toot gaya kind of thing karte hain jisse dog bahut overwhelmed ho jaata hai, vo trust lose kar deta hai ki yahan par main apna express nahi kar sakta.
Toh vo aise dip, vo hone lag jaata, suppress hone lag jaata hai. Ab koi bhi suppressed hoga, kab tak suppressed reh sakta hai? Hai na koi bhi kab tak suppress reh sakta hai? Ek din toh phoote ga. So insaan sirf suppress reh sakta hai aur apni suppression intoxication ya kuch bhi bad habit se release karta hai.
Lekin usi tareeke se dog kaise release karta hai? Biting se, destroying se. Unka jo suppress hue hue.
So growling is completely okay. Growling, barking, whining is completely okay. Vo ek expression ka part hai. Agar aap usko shaant karana chahte ho toh uske saamne jaakar soft vo bol sakte ho, "Shaant ho ja" aisa tell, not chillaakar aur not egoistic ki mere saamne tumne growl kaise kiya?
Ya phir mere saamne tumne daant kaise dikhaaye? Us tareeke se. But galtiyan hongi jab aap dog se behave karenge kyunki aapka mood hamesha sahi nahi rahega na. Toh hamara mood matlab aapka mood hamesha sahi nahi rahega. Toh agar aapka mood hamesha sahi nahi rahega aur dog halki si galti karega toh kya hoga?
Frustration aayega. Toh as a behaviorist aapko apne day to day life mein dhyaan dena hota hai. Matlab it's like you have to life mein drama kam, hai na health, health zyada. Hai na raat time par sona, sugar band karna. Sugar is a big thing.
Sugar toh band karna hi padega. Hai na sugar band karna taaki anxiety nahi aaye aapke andar. Sugar anxiety create karta hai, craving create karta hai, frustration create karta hai. Toh sugar band, reels scrolling band, Netflix band.
Toh sacrifice karne padte hain cheezon ke liye kyunki aap healthy nahi reh paaoge mentally. So mentally healthy rehna bahut zyada zaroori hai. Behavior vaale I think poori life mein zaroori hai, lekin abhi yahan par dogs included hai toh aapko turant bata denge vo. You are not mentally healthy.
So that's vo humein dekhna hota hai as a matlab as a behaviorist. Okay, any more questions guys? Yes, yes, Kaksha ji.
Sakshi
So hi. Mera actual mein Barfi se related hai question. Toh abhi na Barfi ki pulling, leash pulling thodi badh gayi hai.
Yahan par maine observe kara. Toh kal, kal ki baat hai. Shaam mein main usko lekar gayi and uska na leash neeche aa gaya tha aur wo ek jagah hyper focused ho gaya tha. Basically ek billi nikal rahi thi staircase se. Toh usko ekdum aise dekhne laga tha aur wo uski taraf thoda lunge karne ki koshish kar raha tha.
Ab kyunki leash neeche aa gayi thi toh main bahut zyada pressure bhi nahi dena chah rahi thi usko. Aur main matlab vlog bhi kar rahi thi aur sab kuch ho raha tha. Toh mera dhyan bhi ekdum se wahan par nahi tha.
Ab maine kya kiya ki kyunki main leash se nahi keh sakti thi toh I matlab not scream, scream but ekdum aise usmein bola maine Barfi karke. Toh maine kya notice kara ki Barfi ne bilkul apni body ekdum aise bitha li neeche aur ekdum aankhein band kar li and matlab not band kar li but aise squint karne laga.
Haan, aise ki aur phir mujhe realize hua ki matlab uska poonchh bhi thoda sa koshish kar raha tha wo andar karne ki but kyunki wo neeche zameen par tha toh wo obviously poori nahi ho paa rahi thi. But I realize ki wo dara hua hai.
Jaise maine usko matlab aise Barfi bola aur it was not like bahut tez bola ho maine kyunki obviously matlab uska naam chilla ke toh nahi leti hoon. Pehle liya karti thi shuruat mein but uske baad se maine completely band kar diya tha kyunki mujhe samajh mein aaya ki naam ko bhi aise nahi use karna hai.
Anyway, kal jab maine usko bola toh ekdum se neeche baith gaya dar ke aur mujhe ye lag raha hai ki haan, wo scared hai kisi tareeke se. Ya toh uske saath maybe boarding mein kuch hua hai ya I don't know kuch incident hua hai jiske kaaran wo dar gaya hai.
Sunny
Uske kaan kaise the?
Sakshi
Kaan ekdum aise peeche jaise band- Theek hai. ho jaate hain.
Sunny
Toh kabhi usko Barfi bol ke magazine se fatka maara hai?
Sakshi
Nahi.
Sunny
Toh boarding mein hua phir. Boarding mein hua. Barfi bol ke ae, thak. Jo, jo tone hoti hai. Jo matlab aapke nahi kiya hoga, lekin jo dog aap mujhe bata rahe ho, matlab jis tareeke se aap mujhe bata rahe ho toh wo aapko ek fear signal de raha hai. Toh uska wo fear signal kyun de raha hai?
Toh uski ek association hai is cheez se. Jis tareeke se aapne Barfi bola ya jis tone mein aapne Barfi bola. Toh ab wo association kab, kab bani? Ya toh aapke through bani ya toh boarding center mein bani. Aur kahan ban sakti hai associations uski? Wo dar ki association usko kaise bani?
Toh training ke time ban sakti hai. Training time par kya hota hai log, jaise aapne usko zor se bola Barfi aise karke.
Wo kisi ke upar suppose karo boarding center mein aur wo kuch kar raha hai. Hai na ekdum focused ho gaya. Peeche se kisi ne bola Barfi aur tika di uske. Hai na ya phir upar tika di uske karke. Toh phir dog ke andar kya hai? Wo usne aankhein se squint kari toh usko kya laga? Wo anticipate kar raha tha fatka.
Sakshi
Okay, okay.
Sunny
Anticipate kar raha tha pain. Ab wo kuch bhi ho sakta hai. Leash ka kheenchna ho sakta hai, upar kuch fatka ho sakta hai, magazine padna ho sakta hai, danda padna ho sakta hai, thappad padna ho sakta hai. Lekin wo anti- aankhein agar aisi kar li, hai na is tareeke se. Hai na aur wo aise-aise ho raha hai.
Hai na kind of thing. Is tareeke se ho raha hai.
Sakshi
Haan matlab wo ekdum baith gaya tha zameen par and usko jaise hi maine dekha na mera bilkul aise dil ekdum toot gaya ki ye kya hua bhai? Maine toh bas aur and obviously it was not like gusse wala Barfi because he was pulling and I was locking toh mera haath aise khinch raha tha.
Toh maine usko like mera intention obviously usko chillana nahi tha ki bhai tu dar jaa. Lekin jab wo dara toh meri thodi si- Nahi, nahi that's complete, wo toh humein aise dog ka pata chalta hai ki actual mein uske saath kya chal raha hai.
Sunny
Hai na kind of thing ki wo ho sakta hai matlab usne kahan se ye cheez seekhi? Ab wo soch toh, aisa toh nahi ki na ki naya behavior ijaad kar liya usne ekdum hi. Aisa nahi hota. Hai na aisa toh nahi. Toh humein phir kaise figure out karna hota hai? Aapki tone. Hai na aur wo kya kar raha tha?
Yaani wo focused tha aur ye tone aayi. Toh is focus se aur is tone se uski association hai. Aur wo association usne kab bana li? Ki jab bhi aisi tone aayegi kuch pain aayega. Ab jo aap mujhe bol rahe ho ki woh aise neeche baith gaya.
Ab generally agar aap mujhe bolte ki woh neeche baitha hua hai lekin uski aankhein aisi thi aur kaan aise the toh wo herding mode mein jaa raha tha.
Sakshi
Lekin flight mein waisa nahi tha.
Sunny
Lekin agar wo neeche baitha aur usne kaan peeche kar liye aur uski aankhein aisi aisi.
Sakshi
Matlab it was very clearly visible ki maybe usko aisi situation mein hurt hua hai and uska wo scared wala fear wala nikla hai.
Sunny
Zaroori nahi hai hurt tezi hurt hua ho. Wo chaunk gaya. Wo kahin focused tha. Hota kya hai jaise apan kahin focused hai aur koi aisa bole ae toh apan ke chaunk jaata hai na. Hai na? Toh kisi ne bola ae aur maar bhi diya apan ko toh apan aise ho jaayenge are kya hua? Zara samjho is cheez ko. Hai na?
Dog kya kar raha hai? Wo kahin focused tha aur ekdum aise ho gaya. Toh uske saath bahut baar aisi cheezein hui hain jisne uske dimaag mein ek anticipation create kar diya ki is aawa-- is tone ke baad main focused hota hoon aur yeh tone aati hai.
Ab yeh tone toh har jagah bhi aa sakti hai na. Agar wo boarding center gaya, kisi aur ke paas gaya. Jo tone aapne kari usko mana karne ke liye Barfi, hai na? Ae Barfi. Jo bhi aapne tone implement kari uske, uske upar. Hai na?
Wo tone ke baad agar wo neeche baith gaya aur aankhein aisi kar rahi hai yaani ki usko pain ka anticipation ho raha hai. Pain aane wala hai. Hai na? Wo pain aane wala hai. Toh yaar dekho generally abhi boarding centers mein log rakh, matlab aap boarding centers mein rakhoge sahi aur wahan caretakers aate hi hain.
Ab caretakers ko apne time bachane ke liye, abhi dekho yaar dog trainer, dog behaviorist se touch ka main bhi kya bol raha hoon? touch ka- Haan, toh haan usi liye pehle maine wo kaha ki. Haan, touch ka pehla priority rakhte hain.
Wo sirf dog trainer, dog behaviorist knowledgeable hone ke baad bhi touch ka pehla priority ra-rakhte hain out of convenience, out of convenience.
Toh hum kya expect kar sakte hain caretaker se? Jo wahan par boarding centers mein caretaker hoga toh kya isliye 24 into 7 video feed hona bahut zyada zaroori hai taaki everything humko pata ho ki dog ke saath kya hua. Dog aakar bol hi nahi sakta uske saath kya hua.
Sakshi
Haan.
Sunny
Toh wo bata hi nahi sakta. Toh yeh toh hum poora bhagwan bharose hain. Yeh poori boarding ki industry bhagwan bharose hai.
Sakshi
Haan.
Sunny
Ki bhai haan kya, kya hone wala hai? complete bhagwan bharose. Humein kya bheja jaata hai? Ek photo, ek video. Are matlab tum photo, video toh tumne dog ko accha kar diya ki haan, haan hello. Do fatke maar ke bhi tum treat le aaye toh dog toh poonchh ghumate hue aa.
Sakshi
Khush hi rehta hai, haan.
Sunny
Aur tumne photo, video kheench ke bhej diya aur humein lagta hai ki bhai all is, all well. Lekin all is not well. Matlab humare paas pehli baar aise thode, humare paas din raat aise cases aate hain aur hum bahut dukhi ho jaate hain us cheez se ki yeh ho kya raha hai.
Poora bhagwan bharose chal raha hai kyunki koi bhi boarding center is tareeke se provide nahi karti. Kyun provide nahi karti? Because kuch gadbad ho sakti hai, hum nahi dikhana chahte. Hum transparency nahi rakhna chahte. So yaar yeh toh galat hai. Yeh toh galat hai completely. So yeh cheezein toh hoti hi hain.
Dekho Sakshi ji ki hum boarding centers mein rakhte hain aur dog ko phatke padte hain wahan par. Toh main toh kabhi bol hi nahi sakta ki wahan par unko phatke nahi pad rahe. Phatke toh padte hain unko us jagah par. Kyunki jo knowledgeable log hain wahi maar rahe hain yaar.
Jo dog behaviorist knowled-knowledgeable hain wahi touch ko sabse pehle priority dete hain. Wahi sabse pehle, itne dog trainer se jinki cases aate hain hamare paas wo bolte hain ki isko sikhaya gaya tha chain se agar kuch galti kare toh chain se pitai kar do. Yeh common hai. It is not a one, ek case.
Yeh trainers mein common hai.
Most trainers mein. Chain se pitai. Agar dog idhar-udhar ja raha hai, yeh chain. Aur phir kya karenge? Usko off leash karke video bana ke dikhayenge. Dekho yeh off leash chal raha hai. Lekin wo wahan tak pahuncha kaise? Wo maar kha-kha ke. But yeh kya tareeka hai yaar? Yeh kaun sa tareeka hai off leash dikhana?
Off leash dikhane ka matlab kya hai city ke andar? Ego hai na yeh toh. Humne dog ko off leash karke chala diya. Kyun? City mein kyun off leash chala rahe ho? City mein 100, 200 cheezein, saikdon cheezein galti ho sakti hai. Dog kabhi bhi bidak sakta hai. Nahi bidak sakta? City, wahan se stressed bhaagte hue aa gaye.
Phir kya hoga? Aapne off leash kiya hua hai. Wo bhaag gaya. Wo kisi se takra gaya. Phir kya hoga? Are city mein kya off leash karna chahiye? Nahi, lekin hamare paas aayenge ki hamare dog ko off leash karna hai kyunki wo trainer se keh raha. Kya dimaag chal raha hai in sab cheezon.
So bahut kharab, bahut hi kharab professionalism mein bahut kharab ho raha hai dog ke cases mein.
Matlab aap, main apne emotions ko side mein rakhoon toh main toh depress ho jaaoon. Itna kharab- Haan, mujhe bhi aise hi lag raha tha ki matlab wo uske baad toh matlab I had to sit for a few minutes ki bhai yeh kya ho gaya hai isko.
Sakshi
But anyway, uh, jo ho gaya usko toh hum kuch nahi kar sakte. Lekin what steps I can take further ki- Ya. -yeh.
Sunny
Phir se hoga. So jaise, jaise hi phir se hoga us samay bura mat feel karna. Hai na? Dog, us samay bura feel mat karna. Dog ki leash oopar karna. Neeche baith jaaye toh. Hai na?
Us samay par leash oopar karna, usko oopar karna, uski aankhon mein dekhna, proud feel karna aur andar samajhna ki main tere saath kuch bura nahi hone doonga. That's it. Hai na? Just uski aankhon mein feel, dekhna aur feel karna. Wo dog samajh jaayega. Hai na? Wo feeling catch karte hain sabse pehle.
Wo feeling catch karte hain aur wo aapko dekhega, wo samajh jaayega achha main abhi safe hoon. Hai na? Mere ko wo nahi padna hai. Phir dobaara hoga, phir oopar karna toh uski association kya hogi isse? Khatam.
Sakshi
Khatam.
Sunny
Haan, it is not a, is it not, wo thought nahi hai ki wo us trauma mein gaya hua hai. Wo thought nahi hai. Wo kabhi bhi trigger ho sakta hai.
Sakshi
Haan.
Sunny
Do saal, teen saal, 10 saal ke baad bhi same cheez trigger ho sakti hai agar wo association badli nahi gayi toh. Aur jaise, haan, toh jaise hi wo, aisa nahi ki wo abhi hua. Ho sakta hai wo do saal pehle yeh case hua ho, jis-jisne ab isko andar trigger kar diya ho. Aur ho sakta hai do din pehle uske saath hua ho.
Toh hum iski kuch bhi nahi bata sakte ki uske saath aisa kab hua. Yaar dog nahi bol sakta na uske saath kab aisa hua. Bas uske saath aisa hua hai yeh hum bata sakte hain 100% ki uska naam liya gaya aur usko phatka pada.
That is sure that is 100%. Wo hua iske saath. Kab hua? We don't know. Lekin usko badalna yes we can change it. Okay. Wo kaise change karte hain? Dog ghabraata hai. Dog ko hum seedha karte hain. Usko shaant karte hain. Then usko eye contact dete hain aur wo feeling dete hain saath mein. Okay then wo change ho jaata hai.
Sakshi
Kyunki maine yeh observe kara abhi jaise jab hum log idhar aa rahe the Bangalore toh ghar dekhne ke liye toh even Misty ko bhi maine first time boarding mein rakha tha. Abhi tak friends ke saath rehti thi. Lekin us samay friends available nahi the toh boarding mein rakha aur jab main usko waapas.
I don't know maine yeh bataya ki nahi bataya. Haan toh kya chal raha hai bhai? Logon ko, logon ke andar itna ego bhara hua hai aur ki wo sabse pehle jo weak link dekhte hain na us par sabse pehle apna gussa kisi ka bhi ho sab nikal jaata hai.
It's, it's thoda sa weird also and I also feel sorry for those people.
Sunny
This is not, this is not weird. Yeh animal ka behavior hai toh humans ke andar animal nature aaya hua hai. Matlab animal prominent hai. Animal prominent hai. So hum insaan paida hote hain. Hum insaan banne ke liye mehnat karni padti hai. It's like hamara animal brain prominent ho jaata hai.
So animal, animal brain jo weak log hote hain uske oopar animal behavior hai na. Socho just think about it. Weak logon ke oopar apni power exert karna this is an animal behavior, not human, human behavior. Yeh ek animal behavior hai. So, so wo toh ek, yeh toh bahut common, common cheez hai.
Yeh toh parivaar, parivaar mein ho raha hai. Dog aur animals toh door ki cheez hai. Yeh toh parivaar, parivaar mein hua hua hai. Matlab parivaar ek doosre ke saath aisa kar rahe hain.
Bhale unko pata ho hi nahi pata ho. Agar parivaar mein koi ek weak banda hai na wo toh gaya. Agar koi wahan par compassionate hai jisko yeh samajh mein aa raha hai ki yaar usko confident karna hai wo toh gaya. Saare parivaar ki jitni bhi dikkatein hongi sabka blame uske oopar.
Yeh toh phir, ab phir animal milega toh phir toh aur achha hai na. Animal toh bol bhi nahi sakta, khada bhi nahi ho sakta. Toh phir uske oopar pitai aur yeh sab cheezein chalti hai. Wo toh ghar ghar mein ho raha hai yaar. That's the, wo toh issue hai. Hai na.
Insaan paida ho rahe hain, lekin insaan banne mein mehnat toh lagti hai. Yeah. Yes Vayu. Are tu mute hai Vayu.
Vaibhav
Sorry unmute nahi kiya main. Related to Barfi only. Ek question bhi tha aur ek mere understanding bhi batana tha.
Toh matlab how is Barfi like aap agar usko boarding mein rakhte ho toh wo aise happy-go-lucky hai ya phir thoda matlab unke liye thoda challenging dog hai ya aise well behaved shaant hai.
Sakshi
Toh maine toh aaj tak jab bhi Barfi ko rakha hai kisi bhi boarding mein toh one thing constantly touchwood because uska bhi samajhdaari hai ki maine hamesha yeh suna hai this is the most friendly German Shepherd we have ever met.
Uska aap kaan touch kar lo, pair touch kar lo, pet touch kar lo aise khelte-khelte obviously not trying wo, wo karte hue. Toh they have always said ki isko na touch sensitivity hai na you know doosron kutton ko aise unnecessary wo karta hai.
Toh I have always heard good things about him and I have felt very confident also and very happy about it as well ki haan matlab achhe se jitna dekhbhaal kar sakte the ya jitna socialize toh actually main nahi boloongi because he is not very well socialize with other dogs.
But haan matlab kabhi aisa nahi hua ki koi doosra dog aaya hai toh uske upar jump kar diya, lunge kar diya. Yeh sab nahi uske andar.
Sunny
Focus hota hai woh.
Sakshi
focus hota hai. break bhi ho jaata hai aur.
Sunny
doosre dogs ke saath kaisa hai?
Sakshi
woh aloof rehne ke. woh chhote dogs ke saath zaroor achhe se khelta hai. Maybe because kyunki hamesha se woh cats ke saath khela hai chhoti cats ke saath isliye. bade dogs ke saath toh thodi si doori banakar rakhta hai maine dekha hai.
Sunny
wahin uska phatka laga hai. bade dog ke saath hi usko phatka laga hai. matlab like woh bade dog ki taraf focus ho gaya ya kuch bhi focus hua aur peeche ne usko, peeche waale ne uski taraf badha ya phir growling hui. kisi bhi tareeke se activity hui then usko phatka laga. hai na usko phatka laga.
So woh same cat ke saath bhi focused hua and then phir aapne jaise hi uska naam liya na woh trigger ho gaya. lekin usko phatka laga hai.
Vaibhav
Yes and also one thing so maine Thane ka case dekha tha jahan par owner was good with dogs. Lekin unke jo workers the, abhi kya karte log? Unko kam paise mein workers chahiye toh kisi ko bhi wahan se bulaate hain. Unko toh kaam chahiye. Woh they are not dog lovers. Behavior unka bhi nahi pata. Woh sirf aate hain.
Unko pata hai dog ko khilaana hai, lena hai, isko idhar maarna hai. Toh jab owners nahi rehte aur CCTVs nahi rehte na yeh log kya observe karte hain? Woh bhi ek behavioral pattern observe karte hain ki pyaar se dog sunega nahi, khelte rahega. Jis dog ko ek phatka maar diya na woh traumatize hokar corner mein baithega.
Uska dekh ke doosra ho jaayega toh aise mera din achhe se kat jaayega. Mere liye kaam kam rahega. Toh woh log na maarna seekh jaate hain as a shortcut. Theek hai. Toh main ismein main saare stages mein bataana chahunga. Pehle kya hota hai jab agar yeh isne normally behave karna try kiya rahega doosre dog ke saath.
Okay. So peeche se hum jo peeche maarte hain toh dog pehle bend hokar peeche dekhta hai. Woh first stage rehti hai. Toh sirf abhi aadmi tall hai. Aadmi uske paas jaayega. Kya kar raha hai? Waapas wahi leash dikhayega, wahi danda dikhayega. Jo bhi haath mein paper hai. Tab dog uske paas aise dekhega.
Jo ab maaro aur maaro aise jab karta hai toh dog kaan peeche lekar neeche jaata hai anticipating ki same phatka jo peeche laga tha jab main peeche jhuka woh waapas upar se aayega toh woh low ho jaata hai uski height ki wajah se. Toh yeh behavior dekh ke aadmi bolega aise karega waapas mat karna. Woh chala jaata hai.
Next time same kyunki dekho pet kehta hai kya bolte hain pet asylum mein. Pet boarding mein unko nahi pata ki no bolunga toh kaun sa dog sunega. Right. Abhi humare ghar mein mere paas sirf Brownie hai. If I say no with an intensity, I know only Brownie is going to listen that no other dog.
Lekin boarding mein kya hota hai no bolunga kisko sunai dega? Toh dog ka naam le le ke us intensity se chillaate hain. So that must be the reason ki sirf Barfi ko hi chillaana tha. Sirf Barfi bol ke maara hoga. Woh neeche jhuka. Phir uske woh aadmi paas gaya. Usko dikha ke waapas bola waapas karega.
Example de raha hoon. I am not sure kya rahega. Maine dekhe hain aise cases. Toh aisa kiya. Woh neeche baitha kaan peeche gaya. Phir woh aadmi chala gaya wahan se. Toh jab aapne chillaaya, aapne usko flat ke baahar chillaaya while you were locking. Building mein maine bhi observe kiya.
Jab main Max ko correct karne ke liye building ke premises mein chillaata hoon, wahan par aawaaz chaaron taraf se ghoom kar aata hai. Uski intensity alag alag on the street woh aawaaz 10% rahega.
Building mein 100% ban jaata hai toh bahut intensity uske paas aata hai woh aawaaz aur usko woh associate karega ki woh peeche gaya. Pehle peeche jhuka rahega. Phir neeche baith kar kaan peeche karke aapke paas dekh raha hai.
Shayad aap bhi toh aisa nahi kar rahe ho. Toh yeh stages mein aisa maine observe kiya tha ki this can be the case one by one.
Sunny
Woh phatka toh hai hi. Matlab agar dog pain anticipate kar raha hai. pain anticipate kyun kar raha hai? Kahan se seekha? Haan kahin toh past experience hai. Hai na toh dog aise pain ko woh karta hai. Yaar tumhein ek cheez bataata hoon. Matlab yeh itna common ho gaya dog ko pain dena.
Mujhe naam nahi pata ek trainer ka, lekin woh bolta hai ki usko 28 saal ka experience hai. 28 saal ka experience hai us trainer ko. Mere ko abhi naam yaad nahi aa raha uska.
Toh uska ek video dekha toh usne kaha woh bolta hai, "Dekho main tumhein dikhaata hoon ki agar aapke paas German Shepherd hai aur aapko usko kaise usko biting kar raha hai toh usko aapko kaise control karna hai." Hai na.
Usne German Shepherd ke puppy ko bulaaya. Leta hua tha puppy leta hua. Usko puppy ko bulaaya aur puppy jaise hi aaya peeche se chappal utha kar munh par maar di. 28 saal ka experience waala dog trainer. 28 saal ka dog trainer. Instagram par iski reel thi. Humne isko report karaaya.
Is jo mujhe naam yaad nahi aa raha kaun tha woh. Lekin iski reel daali thi isne. Itni audacity. Us puppy ko apne paas bula ke peeche chappal rakhi hui aur chappal se usko jhaapad maara us puppy ko.
Sakshi
For no reason.
Sunny
Is tareeke se aap puppy ki biting chhudwa sakte hain.
Vaibhav
Other countries ya India se.
Sunny
Nahi nahi India.
Vaibhav
Yeh mummy waale chappal therapy apply kar rahe hain. Waise bhi training dete hain.
Sunny
28 years I don't know that 28 years of experience dog trainer aur woh is tareeke se, is tareeke se behave kar raha hai. Aur uske under jo dog trainer banenge unka kya hoga? Woh kaise behave karenge? So that's a jo trainers hain, hai na andar ki baat bataun.
Jo trainers hain, jo bolte hain hum positive reinforce karte hain, positive reinforce karte hain. Unke center mein jaate ho toh woh dog ko ulta patak dete hain. Jo pata nahi chalta kisi ko. Ulta seedha pakad ke neeche aise karte hain aur un dogs ke saath zyaada hota hai jo shaant hai.
Agar ek aggressive dog ho, aggressive dog ke toh cases hi nahi lete woh. aggressive dog ke toh cases hi nahi lete woh. Kyunki technique kaam kaise karegi uske upar patakne waali.
Toh uske cases hi nahi lete. Woh cases kya lete hain shaant waale dogs ke cases. Kya bhai humare paas aao board and train aur usko is tareeke se rakhte hain shaanti se. Toh bahut kharaab haalat hai.
Bahut hi kharaab haalat hai aur iska reason yahi hai dog bol nahi paata aur humare paas evidence nahi hai ki hum kya karein. Woh videos dete nahi hai. 24 into dog ki facility mein 24 into 7 videos ka feed hona chahiye. Yeh ek norm hona chahiye norm. Lekin jo hai nahi, jo hai nahi.
Toh hum jab bhi, hum jab bhi, jab bhi apni facility start karenge this will be there. Ki humara pehla rahega ki jitne bhi dogs wahan par reh rahe hain aur jitne bhi humans ke wahan par dogs reh rahe hain 24 into 7 woh dogs ko dekh sakein ki wahan par chal kya raha hai.
So yeh hona chahiye aur yeh isliye hona chahiye kyunki dogs apni gaatha nahi bata sakte.
Apni kahani nahi bata sakte. Obviously humko dekhna toh padega na ki kya chal raha hai unke saath aur sab, sab jagah par CCTV hota hai, lekin woh hume uska access nahi dete. Hai na CCTV agar aapki ek facility aapke paas CCTV hoga na, lekin aapko uski access nahi milegi.
No because of privacy reason we cannot give you the access. What kind of privacy? Kya chal kya raha hai wahan par jo tumhe privacy chahiye?
Sakshi
Dogs ko kyu privacy chahiye?
Sunny
What kind of privacy you are asking for ki hume privacy ke liye hum aapko yeh sab nahi de sakte. Kis tareeqe ki privacy ki baat kar raha hai. Aur yeh thodi toh apni competitor ko de raha hai. Jo wahan par apna boarding ka woh rakh rahe toh unhi ko toh de raha hai. Lekin nahi we cannot.
So agar you cannot which mean there is something wrong na. Kuch, kuch issue hai na toh phir kyu nahi de paa rahe. Toh yeh it's like abhi lekin hum kuch kar nahi sakte. Kyu? Every center is like that. Haan every boarding center, every training center is like that only.
Toh phir humare paas kya option bachta hai? Kuch bhi option nahi. We have to continue na iss cheez ke liye ki hume apne dog wahan par rakhne hi padega. But aisa nahi hai ki hamesha aisa rahega. We will change it. Hai na norm, yeh norm, yeh norm aayega.
Okay, ki sab jagah par aapko feed di jayegi 24 into 7 aur logon ko yahi bola jayega ki usi boarding center mein rakho jo 24 into 7 feed, feed mil rahi hai aapko. Phir dekho sab kaise catch up karte hain aur jo ekdum third class honge, second class boarding centers honge woh sab gayab ho jayenge.
Sakshi
Band ho jayenge.
Sunny
Haan, woh sab. Kyunki koi rakhega nahi. Sabko pata chal jayega. Agar yeh share nahi kar raha apna apni feed there is something wrong. So dimaag ke andar woh lekar aana hai logon ke andar. Lekin koi boarding center hai hi nahi abhi 24 into 7. Agar hum le bhi aaye toh unke paas option kya bachega?
Kahan se lekar matlab main bol du ki 24 into 7 aapko feed milni chahiye toh India mein kitne boarding hai?
Zero. Ab kahan rakhoge dog apna tum? Kahan rakhoge dog apna? Toh hum bol hi nahi sakte abhi jab tak iss, iss direction mein hum nahi jayein. Toh boarding centers toh zaroori hai.
Vaibhav
Also Sunny for example abhi as of now toh waise centers hain nahi jaise aapne bataya. But phir bhi samjho humko rakhna padta hai. Lekin hum choose karte hain phir yeh teen mein se apne ko better.
Toh what we are trying is ki hum log body ke dog ki body language ya phir jab woh wapas aata hai ya phir jab hum usko car se wapas drop karne ja rahe hain toh woh kaise react kar raha hai. Like wahan se darr ke door bhaagna chah raha hai ya he himself wants to go inside.
Toh woh can we at least as of now jab tak CCTV nahi hai trust on dog's body language if he is actually willing to go or not matlab uss par kitna rely kar sakte hain.
Sunny
Dekho ab jisko knowledge hogi na iss cheez ki woh kya karega jab tum wahan par pahunchne lagoge na dog ko nehla dega.
Okay, dog ko nehla dega toh dog thoda bubbly ho jayega, kind of thing. Hai na? Dog ko agar tumne nehla diya, usko tumne bath de di usse pehle aur ek walk de di usse pehle toh puraani sab cheezein dhul jayengi uski. Toh sirf ek yahi cheez nahi hai. Toh hum phir kya dekhein? Dog ki boarding ko kaun run kar raha hai?
Usko padhna start karo, human ko. Humans ko read karna start karo. Wahan par caretakers kaun hai? Woh kaise hain? Unko dekhna chaalu karo. Toh iss, yeh ek maximum tumhare paas ek woh data de sakta hai ki boarding kaisi hai. For example, hum kisi ek boarding mein gaye. Wahan par ek banda tha.
Usne Vimal kha rakhi thi aur uske chehre se lag raha tha ki kaamchor aadmi hai. Matlab chehre se pata chal jaata hai na tumko. Matlab pata chal jayega na ki yaar kitni compassion ki le.
Obviously galtiyan hoti hain, lekin phir bhi ek degree toh tumhe pata chal jayega na ki yaar yeh insaan kis tareeqe ka hai. Toh kaun usko run kar raha hai? Woh kitne time tak wahan par rehta hai aur uske caretaker kaise hain? Toh haan, toh iss tareeqe se tumhe pata chal sakta hai ki woh boarding kaisi hai.
Boarding kaisi hai. Toh yeh cheezein dog ki, dog ki body language aur yeh sab cheezein toh manipulate kar sakte hain. Jisko knowledge hai, woh manipulate kar sakta hai. Woh kaise bhi rahe, poora band hi rakha usko suppose kar le. Band hi rakha.
Lekin jab tum aane waale the, uss din usko walk par le gaye aur usko nehla diya. Achha saabun laga diya, achha shampoo laga diya. Ab woh mehak raha hai aur woh happy hai aur tum soch rahe ho ki iss ghar mein toh woh happy raha hai. Hai na? Iss boarding center mein toh happy raha, lekin not necessary, not necessary.
Toh maximum dekho be-best toh 24 into 7 feed hai jo abhi possible nahi hai. Second best kya hai? Kaun usko run kar raha hai? Kaun human usko run kar raha hai aur wahan ke caretakers kaise hain? So you check that thing aur phir uske baad facility kaisi hai. Toh iss level par bhi jaana. Pehle owner.
For example, agar hum Pet Ashram ki baat karein toh uske owners kaun hai? Uske owners ko hum jaante hain. Jaise Shweta hai, compassionate person hai. Nachiket hai, you know, it's like knowledgeable person hai. Aakash hai, knowledgeable person hai. Toh ek Shweta hai wahan par like uska compassion high hai.
So aur woh hamesha wahan par rehti hai. Toh we can expect good from them. You know ek achha, woh bhale hi 24 into 7 unki feed nahi ho, lekin we can expect ki haan caretaker uske achhe hain. So we can expect ki haan, yahan behtar ho sakta hai.
Lekin agar hum kahin par gaye aur humne dekha ki bhai jo uska this thing hai, jo uska owner hai, woh hi disciplined nahi hai, woh hi punctual nahi hai.
Hai na? Uski daadhi badi-badi ho rahi. Daadhi matlab it's like uneven sa grooming ho rahi hai uski aur jo uska caretaker hai, usne Vimal kha rakhi hai aur like ek gunda sa dikh raha hai. Kapde bikhre hue hain uss cheez ke. Toh that's a red signal.
That's a red signal ki zaroori nahi hai ki aapke dog ko yahan par best possible, bhale hi kitni achhi facility ho ki aapke dog ko yahan par best care milegi. Aur lekin agar human achha hai aur caretakers achhe hain toh zaroori nahi ki facility kaisi ho. Aapke dog ko best care mil sakti hai wahan par.
Toh yeh hume iss tareeqe se hume dekh, iss tareeqe se hume dekhna hota hai. Okay? Toh- aur yeh walkers ke saath bhi bahut ho raha hai.
Vaibhav
Woh toh day to day hai na kyunki parents toh ghar par work from home, work from office kar rahe hain aur kisi bhi walker ke haath mein de rahe hain. Walk ja, walker jaake bench par baithte hain. Koi-koi walker ka video aata hai ki maar rahe bhi hai.
Sunny
Haan, haan.
Vaibhav
Toh mere ek, matlab ek walker ne suggest kiya tha ki ek saamne ek walker tha.
Usne bola ki like ask them ki what is deworming? Dog ki vaccination. Like basic knowledge usse lena chaaho toh aapko woh answers bhi nahi de paayega. Toh jo ek compassionate walker hai ya phir jo hai uski ek usme ek calmness bhi dikhte hai. On top of that usko additional thoda basic knowledge bhi hota hai.
Jisko sirf woh ₹7000 chahiye. Waise toh koi bhi youngsters maine dekha hai 14, 15, 16 saal ke bachhe aake society ke baahar pooch rahe hain, "Aapko dog walking karana hai kya? ₹5000 mein karata hoon, ₹4000 mein." Toh lekin log de rahe hain.
Like maine dekha hai log dete hain kam paise rahe ya phir just get rid hone ke liye.
Sunny
Haan, nahi toh kai baar humko aise reverse psychology istemaal karni hoti hai. For example, hum bolenge, "Arre yaar yeh bahut masti karta hai toh kai baar do-teen phatke maarna, maar deta hoon. Do-teen phatke maarna theek hai kya?" Toh bolega, "Haan, do-teen phatke maaro." Samajh jaoge tum. Samjha tumhe?
Vaibhav
Yes.
Sunny
Haan, iss tareeqe se tum, tum saamne waale ko aise bata sakte ho ki tum uske upar cruel ho toh tu uski cru-cruelty saamne nazar aane lag jaayegi.
wo bhi, wo open ho jaayega. Are, lekin agar wo bole, "Are nahi sir, inko phatkaari nahi maarna chahiye. Aap iski training ka wo karo." Toh tumhe samjhega achha, achha, achha. Achha theek hai, theek hai, theek hai. Hai na? Toh that, haan that's how you can understand ki saamne waala insaan kaisa hai.
Vaibhav
Actual mein kya hai.
Sunny
Haan, actual mein kya hai. Toh agar tumhe dar lag raha hai ki wo kahi isko phatkaari toh nahi maare, toh tum bol do ki main, main phatkaari maarta hoon isko.
Vaibhav
Hmm.
Sunny
Samjha? Matlab toh wo bolne lag jaayega, "Haan, phatkaari maarna toh easy hai." Toh phir uske through wahan mat jaao. Uske through mat jaao. Tumhe samajh mein aa jaayega kaisa kya hai. Okay? Bhai it's like tum ye cheezein try kar sakte ho. Matlab life mein kisi bhi, kisi jaana kisi se cigarette peeta hai kya?
Are tu cigarette peeyega kya? Toh bolega, "Haan, cigarette kyon nahi peeyenge?" Toh tumhe samajh aaya cigarette peeta hai wo. Agar tumhe poocho toh tum cigarette peete ho? "Nahi, nahi cigarette toh nahi peete hain." Hai na? Lekin tum bologe, "Abe daaru, cigarette peeyega kya?
maza aayega." Saamne waala kya bolega? "Haan, haan chalenge, chalenge. Daaru peeyoonga." Toh tumhe samajh aaya cigarette peeta hai.
Vaibhav
Policy.
Sunny
Toh tum kuch bhi pata laga sakte ho saamne waale se. Kuch bhi pata laga sakte ho, lekin smartness ke saath. Aisa nahi ki hum jhooth nahi bol sakte, hum ye nahi bol sakte. Poori duniya jhooth bol rahi hai aur hum, hum Harishchandra bane baithe hain. Toh phir kya hoga aisi duniya mein? Abhi Satyug thodi chal raha hai.
Hai na? Toh jo yug nahi hai, us tareeqe se behave karoge toh phir kaise kaam, kaam chalega phir tumhara? Laati padegi.
Vaibhav
And wo previous topic par ek question tha. Jaise dog aur wo female bachhon ke baare mein bol rahe the. Toh recently I was watching Discovery Channel one second. So usmein lion ke pack ke baare mein I was studying. So lion ke pack mein aisa tha na ki ek lion tha aur bahut saare females the, females.
Lekin lion poore pack ki take care kar raha tha.
Females khaana wagairah laate wo sab.
Sunny
Haan.
Vaibhav
Toh abhi us case mein female ke liye wo uske jo cubs hai, wo uske bachhe hain. Wo usko bahut, wo bhi waise hi chhupa rahi thi iske andar bahut jagah pe aur wo bhi ferociously a-protect karte agar enemies se hona chaahe toh.
Sunny
Haan.
Vaibhav
Toh lekin maine aur on the other episode maine dekha ki jab lion mate karta hai wo usko, usko sirf apna lineage badhaana hai aage. Iske liye wo- Haan. ...uske hisaab se mate kar raha hai. Whereas jab maa wo ban rahi hai toh maa usko aisa motherhood, wo puppies ko sambhaal rahi hai cubs ko.
Sunny
Yeah.
Vaibhav
Lekin lion jab doosra koi lion aayega toh pehle wo us cubs ko maarega.
Sunny
Yeah.
Vaibhav
Aur then wo lion mentally uske liye ready ho jaati hai waapas mating ke liye. Tab tak wo nahi hoti hai.
Sunny
Yeah.
Vaibhav
Toh phir dogs mein bhi waisa hi equation hai. Kya ki male, male like male dog is there as a lineage badhaane ke liye.
Kyunki wo waisa hi hai ki door door se soongh lete hain kaun si female heat pe hai from kilometers.
Sunny
Yes yes.
Vaibhav
Aur wahan pe competition ke liye aa jaate hain. mate karte hain aur apne apne area mein mark karke chale jaate hain. Wo female phir akeli puppies ko bada kar rahi hai.
Sunny
Yes.
Vaibhav
Abhi us case mein inhone jo kaha aapne baraabar bola ki wo pack ka member ho sakta hai. Iske liye he was the only to mate when she was on heat. Wo competition se doosri area se nahi aa raha hai. That's why he was also there with them.
Sunny
Haan.
Vaibhav
Toh waisa hi logic ye bhi idhar hai like lion waala.
Sunny
Nahi wo lekin, wo lekin ye cats mein hota hai. Doosre genes ko maarna cats mein hota hai, birds mein hota hai, dogs mein nahi hota.
Vaibhav
Haan.
Sunny
Dogs, dogs nahi maarte. Matlab mother protect kar leti hai. Lekin agar suppose kar le puppy bade hone lag gaye toh kuch dogs matlab kuch dogs hai jo maar bhi dete hain. Not out of heat aur wo sab cheezon ke liye.
Vaibhav
Jhagde mein mar jaate hain.
Sunny
Matlab it's like ki tu kaun hai? Aur pakad ke raund diya usko. Khatam ho gaya puppy.
Vaibhav
Hmm.
Sunny
And it's not ki ki haan tu puppy jaayega toh ye heat par waapas aayegi and then phir hum mate karenge. Uske liye nahi hota. Wo lion mein hota hai. Wo birds mein hota hai. Bahut saari birds aisa karti hain. Bahut saari birds aisa karti hain ki wo nest mein jaati hai aur andon ko baahar phenk deti hain.
And then phir wo mate karne ke liye ready hoti hain us uske liye this, this thing. Lekin agar wahan par jaise bird ka naam bhool gaya main. Ek aise, aise bird hai matlab wo lifelong wo rehte hain, mate rehte hain. Lekin usmein suppose kar le male mar gaya. Hai na male. Ab usko protect karne ke liye koi nahi hai.
Toh doosra male aayega aur sabse pehle wo andon ko bhejega, baahar phenkega. Aur phir uske saath mate karega and then phir uske bachhe aayenge. Toh sab, sab jaanwaron ka alag alag psychology hai.
Alag alag psychology hai. Aur ye lion ke saath bhi hota hai. Agar doosra male aayega toh is male lion ko maarega and then phir us bachhon ko, bachhon ko maarega. You know then lekin sabka apna alag alag, dogs mein aisa nahi hai.
Vaibhav
And how close is wolf psychology to compared to a dog? Because usmein aise bolte hain ki for the lifetime they stay with one female only in the pack.
Sunny
Nahi, galat hai. Kisne bola?
Vaibhav
Nahi nahi galat hai na.
Sunny
Haan galat hai. Ek female ke saath nahi hota. Jo bhi female heat pe aati hai unke saath rehte hain wo. Ek female ke saath, nahi ek female ke saath nahi hota. Toh wolves toh multiple females ke saath mate karte hain. Dogs bhi multiple females ke saath mate karte hain.
Cats bhi multiple like lion bhi multiple females ke saath mate karte hain.
Vaibhav
Yes.
Sunny
Birds hain kuch kuch jo ek hi female ke saath mate karte hain. Sirf birds mein. Not in this, this animals.
Toh lion toh lion ki toh pride mein multiple females hoti hain.
Vaibhav
Yes, maximum females hain.
Sunny
Haan females hoti hain because like wo itna tez nahi bhaag sakta, itna wo nahi kar sakta toh lioness jaati hain. Aur lioness khaana lekar aati hai aur iske return mein jo male hota hai wo protection provide karta hai. Protection provide karta hai. That's, that's the only unka agreement.
Vaibhav
Sirf aapne Indian mein alag pattern hai na. They are individual on their own. Gujarat waale lions wo sab. Kyunki ye toh African lions hai jo pack mein rehte hain. India mein pack waala scene hi nahi hai. All are individual.
Sunny
Nahi yaar aisa nahi ho sakta. Aisa nahi ho sakta.
Vaibhav
Ek baar check karo na. Kyunki maine matlab dekha tha. Kyunki India mein pack ke liye waisa wo hai hi nahi geography jismein wo saare rehne se.
Sunny
Wo environment nahi hai toh wo alag baat hai.
Vaibhav
Environment ne usko shaayad waise tone kiya hai ki you be on your own like tigers.
Sunny
Tigers bol raha hai lion.
Vaibhav
Indian, Indian lion ke baare mein baat kar raha hoon. Indian lion toh pack mein nahi hai. Matlab South African hai waise. Indian ka thoda sa alag hai.
Sunny
Mere ko idea nahi hai yaar iske baare mein na.
Vaibhav
Haan ek baar Gujarat lion ka check karo.
Sunny
Haan ki kaise unki psychology rehti hai bilkul. But mujhe laga tha ki lion saari ki saari psychology same rehti hogi unki. Agar lion.
Vaibhav
Jo African hai, jo saare African hai wo aisa karte hain.
Sunny
Nahi but species toh wo hai na. Jaise breed hoti hai. Waise African ek breed hua, ek is tareeqe se breed hua. Lekin, lekin ek species toh same hai na. Lion species hai na. Hai na? Toh unki psychology same honi chahiye. Mere hisaab se matlab mere.
Vaibhav
Haan psychology ka toh hona chahiye. Lekin aisa na geography kaise tone karti hai like ek instinct ko ya phir aise. Kyunki African mein you will see savanna poora grassland hai. Plain ka plain. Poora aur yahan pe apne aap.
Sunny
Vahan par numbers bhi zyada honge na. Matlab vahan par, vahan par numbers, number bhi zyada honge aur Gujarat mein like hunting nahi hoti hogi. Unko khaana provide kiya jaata hoga. Pack ka formation is for survival.
Vaibhav
Hmm.
Sunny
Pack ka formation is for survival. Toh savanna mein survival pe unko pack depend karta hoga. Matlab pack, pack hai toh tum survive kar paa rahe ho. Agar pack nahi toh tum survive nahi kar paa rahe ho.
Lekin agar tumhe khaana aise free fokat mein mil raha hai, agar Gujarat mein khaana free fokat mein mil raha hai then what is the need of pack then? Pack mentality trigger nahi hogi aur pack mentality trigger nahi hogi toh woh log pack mein nahi rahenge. Pack mein nahi rahenge. Toh yeh ek reason ho sakta hai.
Toh geography obviously woh karti hai. Unke aaspaas ka scenario kaisa hai. Toh aaspaas ke scenario mein unko muft fokat ka cheezein mil rahi hai then pack ki zaroorat nahi hai us samay par.
Lekin agar unko muft mein fokat, ab jaise lion khud se hunt nahi kar paayega. Matlab it's like itne easily ab hunt nahi kar paata jitni lioness kar sakti hai. Woh tez bhaag sakti hai lion se. Bahut door tak bhaag sakti hai. Li-li-li-lioness.
Lekin woh zyada so agar yahan toh usko khaa-khaane ke liye chahiye na phir lioness. Aur lioness ko protection ke liye male chahiye. Lekin agar tum ek enclosed area mein ho, ek protective area mein ho toh phir dono ka agreement nahi hai na vahan par. Dono ka woh nahi hai na ki bhai hume saath rehne ka hai.
So mujhe idea nahi hai. Main bas apne like jo understanding hai usse bol raha hoon. Toh mere ko exactly nahi pata but mere ko like mere sense se lag raha hai ki lion ki sabki psychology same hoti hai.
Aur obviously agar geography ya phir khaana re-readily available hai, easily available hai toh pack mentality trigger nahi hoti.
You know pack ki zaroorat nahi hoti phir unko.
Vaibhav
Haan.
Sunny
You know toh cool hai. Any more questions guys? Okay. So abhi jaise puppies ho rahe hain and almost kab hue the yeh? Pichhle mahine ke 10 taareekh ko hue the I think so. Hai na? Haan, pichhle mahine ke 10 taareekh ko, nahi yaar pichhle mahine 10 taareekh ko nahi hue the. Is 10 ko hue the. Nahi yaar.
Chaar taareekh ko hue the. Chaar taareekh ko hue the.
Vaibhav
Five ya four tha kuch toh.
Sunny
Chaar-paanch taareekh ko hue the.
Vaibhav
Maine dekha tha.
Sunny
Haan, chaar-paanch taareekh ko hue the. Toh abhi chaar-paanch taareekh ko hue the aur shuruat mein jab woh paida, jab woh paida hue the toh obviously unki aankhein-vaankhein kuch bhi nahi khuli hui thi. Toh unki nose hi completely khuli hui thi aur woh chal nahi paa rahe the. Woh reng rahe, reng rahe the.
10 dinon ke baad, 10 se 12 dinon ke baad unki aankhein halki-halki si khulna start hui.
Like, abhi kuch din do-teen din pehle unki jab maine aapko, aap sabko, teen-chaar, teen-chaar din ho gaye toh unki aankhein halki-halki khuli hui thi aur aankhein unki white thi. Matlab woh develop nahi, develop nahi hui thi us samay par.
Lekin halki-halki khuli hui thi aur unke pair abhi woh chalna start, tab bhi chalna start nahi ho rahe the. Lekin kal se unki aankhein zyada khuli hui hai aur woh apne pairon pe khade ho paa rahe hain. Hai na, is tareeke se apne pairon pe khade ho paa rahe hain kuch-kuch dogs. Kuch-kuch puppies.
Hai na, saare puppies nahi khade ho paa rahe hain, lekin kuch-kuch puppies khade ho paa rahe hain aur apne den se baahar nikalne ki koshish kar rahe hain. Ab yeh sab dekhkar unki maa bahut zyada chintit ho gayi ki abhi kya, kya karna hai. Toh maa jab chintit hui toh us, maa ne kya kara? Gaddha khodna chaalu kiya.
Woh maa gaddha khodna kyon chaalu kar rahi hai? Woh slant banana chaahti hai. Okay, matlab it's like ki unko baahar nikalne mein dikkat aaye.
Woh easily nahi nikal paaye. Toh maa kya kar rahi hai? Gaddha khodne ki koshish kar rahi hai. Lekin hum yahan par concrete mein, matlab jahan par hai woh concrete hai, toh vahan gaddha nahi khod sakti. Uske neeche maine gadda rakha hua hai, toh woh gadda khodegi.
Lekin woh jagah-jagah jaakar yahin aaspaas kabhi bathroom mein jaati, kabhi idhar jaati hai. Woh gaddha khodne ki koshish kar rahi hai. Kab start kara? Jab uske puppies ke crawling badh gaye. Woh jahan par maine unko rakha hua tha, woh usse baahar aana start ho gaye. So maa unki protection.
Ab maa unko kyon karna chaahti hai? Ki agar woh kahin aur gayi aur yeh baahar nikal gaye toh gaye. Uske instincts kya bolte hain? Agar yeh kahin baahar nikal gaye toh gaye. Toh maa kya karegi? Ek aisa gaddha khodna chaalu karegi jahan se yeh nikalne ki koshish karein aur fisal ke vaapas se vahin par hi aa jaayein.
So yeh nature mein humko dikhta bhi hai ki unhone gaddha khoda hua hota hai, surang khodi bhi hoti hai.
Kahin aisi jagah rakhi bhi hoti hai jahan se jo puppies hain woh crawl out nahi kar sakein. Woh baahar, baahar nahi nikal sakein. Aur woh kyon karti hain? Yeh dimaag nahi hai, yeh instincts hai. Lekin kitna beautiful hai. Matlab unke paas, yeh pehli baar maa bani, isko kaise pata hai?
Isko kaise pata hai yeh sab cheezein? Isko kisne sikhaaya? Matlab yeh knowledge kahan se aayi? Iske peeche raaz kya hai? So itna amazing, itna beautiful ki woh uski, aur kaise usko pata hai ki uske bachhon ko doodh peene ka time ho gaya ki woh daud ke vaapas aakar unke paas jaake baithti hai.
Usko kaise pata yeh saari ki saari cheezein? Toh dog, yeh dog se, yeh maa kaise connected hai apne puppies se ki puppies ki feeling ko samajh rahi hai, ki uske puppies ko kab kya chahiye. Uske puppies ko kab su-soo karna hai, kab potty karna hai, toh usko, usko chaat-chaat ke woh baahar nikalwaati hai.
Khud se potty nahi kar sakte puppies. Unko stimulate karna padta hai. Toh woh apni naak se unko lagaataar aise stimulate karti rehti hai doodh pilaane ke baad ki woh tum nikaalo. Toh yeh inko, inko kaise pata rehta hai?
So yeh bahut amazing cheez hai aur mera toh mind blown ho jaata hai ki samajhne mein ki isko pata kaise hai. Agar main insaan se compare karoon toh insaan toh kitna kamzor hai. Hai na? Instinctual perspective se kitna kamzor hai. Kyonki dogs ko yeh kaise pata hai? Evolutionary memory se pata hai.
Yaani inke, inke poorvajon ke, poorvajon ke, poorvajon ke jitni bhi memory hai, jitni bhi skills hai, unka access inke paas hai. Isliye inko pata hai. Unka access inke paas hai. Humans ke paas bhi woh access hoga na? Same cheez.
Jo hamaare poorvaj, poorvaj, poorvaj, unki jitni bhi skills hongi, woh sab hamaare genes mein hai. Lekin hum woh kyon nahi access kar paate ki yeh chhota sa being access kar paa raha hai.
Agar ek, ek, agar hum apne dimaag se sochein ki hum dimaag ke tareeke se hum inse kitne zyada advance hain, woh magnitude hi hum matlab paper pe rakh nahi sakte. Itna zyada antar hai hummein aur dogs mein. Hai na? Hamaare, hamaari intelligence aur dogs ki us cheez mein.
Lekin yeh kaise access kar sakte hain apni itni puraani skills ko? Apne poorvajon ki poori ki poori skills ko? And yeh kitna zyada difference hai?
Toh yeh kitne magical hai ki apne puppy ke cheezon ko yeh pehle hi p-pehchaan lete hain ki ab unko doodh ki zaroorat hai, ab mujhe gaddha karne ki zaroorat hai, ab mujhe den ki zaroorat hai, ab mujhe apne behavior ko change karne ki zaroorat hai for safety of my family.
Ye kitne humans kar paate hain? Ki for safety of my family I have to change myself. So ab ye jo maa hai, iska behavior sirf aur sirf puppies ke around change hua hai, aur kahin nahi. Puppies se agar ye thoda sa bhi door hoti hai, iska behavior waapas se purana type hota hai.
Lekin jab ye puppies ke paas hai, ye bahut fierce hai, doosre dogs ke liye. Ye completely change hai. Toh ye kaise inko samajh mein aata hai ki ab mujhe apna behavior change karne ki zaroorat hai kyunki mujhe apne puppies ko protect karna hai.
Kyunki jo pack hai, wo curious ho raha hai aur wo curious hoga toh mere puppies ke paas hoga. Mere puppies yelp karenge. Jab mere puppies yelp karenge toh inke andar predator instinct trigger ho sakti hai aur us instinct se inko hurt ho sakta hai. Ye toh mera explanation hai.
Like, ye toh mera explanation ki wo aisa kyun kar rahe hain.
Lekin wo, unko kaise pata hai poori ki poori cheez ki aisa hoga? Matlab aisa mujhe karna hai. Mujhe apne puppies ko bachaana hai. Mujhe apne puppies ko chhupaana hai. Unko kaise pata ye saari ki saari cheezein? So ye bahut magical hai.
Ye unko isliye, isliye aise pata kyunki past mein poorvaj, poorvaj, poorvaj, poorvaj kabhi aisa hua hai ki uske puppies ko m- unke puppies mar gaye because pack paas mein aa gaya tha. Because doosra dog paas mein aa gaya tha. Doosra animal paas mein aa gaya tha. Lekin wo pass kaise hui ye knowledge?
Usko instincts bolte hain. Okay na, so instincts hamare genes mein jaakar information ko laakar hamare decisions create kar sakti hai. Humein ek sahi raasta dikha sakti hai. Hai na? That's, toh that's a beautiful thing. Agar wo dogs kar sakte hain, wo humans bhi kar sakte hain.
Lekin humans isliye nahi kar paate because hum dono mein ek antar hai. Dogs aur hum mein. Hamara prefrontal cortex hai na, wo sirf hamare paas hai. Wo in animals ke paas nahi hai. Ye antar hai. Baaki sab cheezein same hai.
Lekin ye jo hamare aage ka brain hai, ye jo like prefrontal cortex, cortex bolte hain isko, ye dogs ke paas nahi hai. Ye baaki animals ke paas nahi hai. Isliye wo bahut zyada instinctual hai. Kabhi aapko aisa laga hoga ki agar aap intoxicated ho.
Intoxicated matlab aapne ya toh alcohol piya hua hai ya phir aapne kuch weed li hui hai, hai na? Ya phir marijuana liya hua hai, hai na? Kisi bhi tareeqe ka aapne apne aap ko intoxicate kiya. Usse kya hota hai? Hamare aage ka brain band ho jaata hai. Then you will get insights. Hai na?
Bahut saare baba ko bhi dekhe hain. Wo aankhein band kar lete hain.
Ve wo chillum foonkte hain aur wo sab cheezein. Usse hota kya hai? Ye band ho jaata hai. Prefrontal cortex band ho jaata hai. Hamara jisse, ye filter hai hamara life ko dekhne ka. Iske through life guzarti hai. Matlab hum iske through life ko dekhte hain.
Hamare decisions, hamare puraane trauma, fulaana dhikaana sab idhar hai. So jab hum iske, hamare beliefs sab idhar ki taraf hai. Hai na? Wo obviously hamare subconscious mind mein jaate hain. Lekin ye antar hai animals aur humans mein. Toh jab hamara ye deactivated hota hai na.
Wo deactivated hum by will bhi kar sakte hain aur by kisi substance se bhi kar sakte hain. Toh generally jab hum log substance se karte hain toh unka ek alternate behavior saamne aata hai. Bahut zyada aggressive ho jaate hain. Bahut zyada shaant ho jaate hain. Ek alternate behavior jo andar chhupa hua hota hai.
Hai na? Wo hamare, toh ye animals ke saath zyada dekhne ko milta hai kyunki unke paas ye hai hi nahi. Wo instinctual zyada hote hain kyunki unke paas ye hai hi nahi. Toh this, aur jab wo instinctual hote hain tab wo puraana data access kar sakte hain, jo unke parents ka hai, parents ke parents ka hai.
Wo poora evolutionary memory ko access kar sakte hain. So this is power. Toh you can also, we can also access that thing. Hai na? But wo access karke tum karoge ya wo that's a different thing. But we can also access them. Aur ye science bhi hai.
Jab like ab sense make karne lagi hai mere ko ye science ki jab log, wo suna hai aapne? Wo kaun sa drug hai jo South mein Ayahuasca kya bolte hain usko? Bhai ye pata hai kya tere ko? Ayahuasca.
Speaker 3
Ayahuasca.
Sunny
Psychedelic jitni bhi psychedelic, haan, psychedelic hai. Jitni bhi psychedelic this substance hai. Wo kya karta hai? Ye band kar dete hain. Hai na? Ye band kar dete hain. Hamare andar nervous system ki activities increase kar dete hain. Nervous system ki activities increase karne ka matlab kya hua?
Hamare andar electricity aa rahi hai. Electricity aane ka matlab kya hua? We can go deep and we can get deeper data outside. Hai na? Toh humein lagta hai ki haan, humein kuch apna passion mil gaya. Kuch wo mil gaya. Wo tumhein passion nahi mila. Tumhare poorvajon ka access mila tumhein.
Tumhare genes jo karte aaye hain wo tumhein passion lagta hai ki you like ye hum, hamare genes karte hain na, humein dikhta cheezein. Ok. Lekin hamare mein aur animals mein ye antar hai bas, ye cortex ka. Toh ye cortex hamare liye shraap bhi ho sakta hai aur hamare liye ek vardaan bhi ho sakta hai.
So we have to understand. Baaki sab cheezein same hai. Only this cortex is different aur isne itna antar kar diya hamari life mein aur life mein.
Speaker 3
So ye cortex human babies mein matlab like babies hote hain tab toh ye develop nahi hua hoga na. This is why zyada instinctual rehte hain.
Sunny
Yes, saat saal tak. Saat saal tak wo instinctual rehte hain. Matlab saat saal tak develop hona start ho jaata hai. Uske baad kya hota hai? Society ki programming chaaloo hoti hai. Usse pehle subconscious mind completely ek absorption mode mein rehta hai. Saat saal ke baad filter aata hai. Getting my point?
Saat saal ke filter ka matlab senapati ab saamne khade ho gaye. Wo decide karenge kaun si information andar jaayegi, kaun si information andar nahi jaayegi. Kaun si information uska behavior set karegi, kaun sa uska behavior set nahi karegi.
Lekin zero to saat saal tak koi filter nahi hai. Isliye bahut saare religious text mein likha hua hai humein zero se saat saal mein ek bachha la ke do. Hum tumhein bataayenge ki wo kaise mard banta hai. Uske peeche scientific raaz hai. Zero se saat saal tak frontal cortex develop nahi hota hai.
Ok zero se saat saal ke baad hota hai. So agar this human ko pata hai agar unke bachhe aane waale hain toh wo apne bachhon ko genius create kar sakta hai. Genius. You understand what ek genius ke kya-kya belief hote hain? You understand that thing?
Toh ki genius ke kya-kya belief hote hain aur wo belief apne bachhe ke andar inflict karne lag jaao. Hai na? Us cheez ko samajh kar. Toh aapka bachha zero se saat saal ke baad ek genius banna start ho jaayega.
Toh jis cheez ko, jin logon ko ye cheezein pata hai wo apne bachhon ko matlab it's like on the will genius create kar sakte hain.
Hai na? Sabke matlab sabke brain ki-- sabke paas ek brain hai, sabke paas ek mind hai, sabke paas wo powerful mind hai. Lekin by birth sabke alag-alag mind ki activities hoti hai. Matlab har ek bachche ki jo mind hota hai uske andar alag tareeke se electricity flow hoti rehti hai.
Kisi ke andar zyada, kisi ke andar kam. Lekin tum kabhi bhi electricity ko badha sakte ho, increase kar sakte ho. Koi bachcha zyada electricity ke saath paida hota hai toh tumhe lagega ki yaar ye toh already bahut achha dimaag hai iska. Mera mere ghar toh genius paida hua hai.
Lekin har ek bachcha genius banne ki capability ke saath paida hota hai. Har ek bachcha genius-- amazing nahi hai? Every bachcha genius banne ki capability se paida hota hai. Agar wo genius nahi bana hai toh usme uski galti nahi hai. Uski society ki galti hai. Uske environment ki galti hai.
Uski galti nahi hai kyunki wo potential ke saath paida hua tha.
Koi bachche ko wo poten-- kisi ke andar potential by birth zyada hoti hai. Kisi ke andar potential by birth kam hoti hai. Matlab potential matlab by birth electricity kam hoti hai. Lekin wo electricity increase ho sakti hai. Yaani wo us potential tak pahunch sakta hai. Toh that's kitna amazing hai ye.
So it's like lekin ye pata nahi hai na. Ye cheezein pata nahi hai toh iska fayda kaise uthayenge? Is science, science ka fayda-- ye science nahi hai. Ye science hai. Matlab koi, koi spiritual talk nahi hai. This is science ki hamara mind kaise kaam karta hai. Toh yeh antar hai humans mein aur dogs mein.
Toh zero se saat saal humans animals hote hain aur maximum humans usi mein zone mein hai abhi tak, bade hone ke baad bhi. Us animal zone mein hi hai. So yeh prefrontal cortex humko human banata hai. Prefrontal cortex.
Toh uska take care karna bahut zyada zaroori hai aur prefrontal cortex ko hum turn off kar sakte hain by meditation, by breathing.
Okay? Hum usko turn off kar sakte hain apne will se. We can turn it off apne will se. Toh jitne logon ko depression, anxiety aur ye sab cheezein aayi hui hai, it is because of prefrontal cortex unke haath mein nahi hai. Wo nikal chuka hai. And now it is too much noisy there.
Wo lagataar baat kijiye zara, baat kijiye zara, baat kijiye zara on repeat. Phir jab lagataar hum baat karte rehte hain on repeat, wo subconscious mind mein chala jaata hai and then wo hamari habit ho jaati hai. You know, lekin ye hamare haath toh-- bahut se log kya karte hain?
Daaru peete hain, substance weed lete hain, marijuana lete hain ya phir koi bhi cheez lete hain. That is because wo apne mind ko calm down karna chaah rahe hain. Apne prefrontal cortex ko band karna chaah rahe hain taaki unko euphoria feel ho, euphoria feel ho.
Lekin tum meditation se bhi kar sakte ho, tum breathing se bhi kar sakte ho wo cheez ko. You know, so that's amazing cheez jo human ke paas hai aur hum isko granted le lete hain.
Granted le lete hain. Isliye logon ko lagta hai ki jaise hum human decision lete hain, waise hi dogs decision lete hain, animal decision lete hain. Jis tareeke se human life ko dekhta hai, usi tareeke se animals life ko dekhte hain, rishte ko dekhte hain, cheezon ko dekhte hain.
Aisa nahi hai ki aap aisa isliye soch rahe ho because aap apne aap ko, apni kaabiliyat ko granted le rahe ho, granted le rahe ho. Toh granted nahi hai. Ek gift hai from nature to humans. Prefrontal cortex. Okay? Wo ek gift hai. Toh ye antar hota hai dogs ke instincts mein.
Agar aap band kar dete ho apne is cheez ko then you can access your instincts. Okay? You can-- ek example deta hoon aapko. Life mein kabhi koi dikkat ho rahi hogi and aur cheezein figure out karni hogi aapko. Breathing karo, meditation karo aur apne andar ek sawaal poocho jo bhi tumhe solution chahiye us cheez ka.
For example tumne pooch liya ki main paise kaise kamaun?
Agar tumne sawaal pooch liya ki main paise kaise kamaun toh tumhe jawaab milega ki bhai kuch bhi kar lo. Matlab agar aap-aap-agar aapka question exact nahi hai toh. Phir uske-uske multiple answer ho sakte hain. Toh hum kitna exact sawaal poochte hain wo bahut zyada matter karta hai.
Toh aapko exact precise sawaal poochna padta hai apne aap se ki main yeh kaam karta hoon, main is tareeke ki service dena chahta hoon. Hai na? And usse main value dena chahta hoon aur usse main paisa kamaana chahta hoon. How to do this? Mere paas kya-kya options hai? Aur main itna paisa kamaana chahta hoon month ka.
Toh mere paas kya-kya options hai us cheez ka. Then-then tum baithoge, tum shaant ho gaye and then apne prefrontal cortex ko turn off karoge. Turn off kaise karoge? Meditation mein baithe ho, breathing kar rahe ho. Hai na? Kisi-kisi logon ka wo jaldi shaant ho jaata hai aur kisi-kisi logon mein wo time lagta hai.
So utna time hum dete nahi hai. Hum paanch minute, kisi mein aadha ghanta lag jaata hai, ek ghanta lag jaata hai.
Agar tumhare paas practice nahi ho, tumhe habit aayi hui hai ya phir tumhara khaana-peena bahut kharaab hai, raat ko sahi se sote nahi ho. Khaana-peena is like agar tum processed food le rahe ho, refined oil le rahe ho. Abhi tum dekhoge har ek ghar mein refined oil hai. Har ek ghar mein refined oil hai.
Refined oil isko shaant hone nahi dega. Ye active rahega prefrontal cortex. Toh refined oil wo cheez ab har ghar mein, toh kitni dikkat aayegi shaant karne mein is cheez ko. Hai na? Har ghar mein sugar chalti hai, chai chalti hai ya kisi aur tareeke se biscuits chalte hain.
Agar tum vegan bhi ho toh biscuits chal rahe hain. Anything kuch bhi sugar ka cheez chal rahi hai, koi chips chal rahe hain, chips khaa rahe ho, usme sugar hai. Har cheez mein sugar hai. Toh tum-- usme refined oil bhi hai. Phir tum ye sab cheezein khaate ho aur tum bolte ho ki hum shaant hone ki koshish karein.
Shaant nahi ho sakta phir. Kyunki andar tabaahi machi hui hai body ke andar toh dimaag kaise shaant hoga?
Okay? So humein khaane-peene ka dhyaan dena hota hai. Hum apne-- tab jaake mind shaant hone lagta hai. Then you can ask any question and you will get the answer. Toh agar tum in-- tum subconscious mind ki agar cheez dekho, subconscious mind ki agar tum study karoge na, it is the most powerful computer in the world.
Saare computers ko agar hum duniya mein jitne bhi electric computer hain, jitne bhi computers hain unko mila lein aur unki computing taakat ko milayein aur hamare ek bande ki subconscious power ko milayein toh bhi uska match nahi hai. Toh hum sabke paas itne powerful computers hain. Computers ka matlab kya?
Jo kisi problem ka solution de sakte hain. But hum us-- hamare paas uska access nahi hai. Humein pata nahi usko access kaise karna hai. Aur access hum kaise karte hain? Prefrontal cortex ko off karke. Aur prefrontal cortex ko hum off kaise karte hain?
Apni body ka, dimaag ka dhyaan rakh ke. Hai na? Kuch practices karke. Toh jitne spiritual gurus hain wo ye sab cheezein sikhaate hain. Hai na? How to turn-- kyunki aapke paas power hai dekhiye na. Aapke paas aisa computer aa gaya jo kisi ka bhi solution provide kar sakta hai. Then you have to just implement it. Okay?
Toh aapke paas toh taakat aa gayi na. So spirituality ye cheezein bhi sikhaati hai. How to close this thing using different kriyas. Science bhi cheezein sikhaati hai. Pehle nahi sikha paa sakti thi.
Lekin science ab from scientific perspective is field mein aa gayi hai aur wo bhi ye cheezein sikhaati hai ki how to do this, how to turn off your prefrontal cortex and how to access your subconscious mind. Okay? Which is a good topic, good field to pursue matlab apne aap ko samajhne ke liye.
Ki aap ye cheezein padhaai kar sakte ho, apne aap ko behtar samajh sakte ho and phir agar aap apne aap ko behtar samajhoge toh behtar tareeke se operate karoge.
behtar tareeqe se operate karoge toh kya hoga? behtar life. Okay? So yahan se start hoti hai behtar life. aur spirituality mein bolte hain na khud ko samjho. Science bhi ab wahi bolti hai khud ko samjho. ki agar aap khud ko samjhoge toh aap apni body ka dhyan rakh paoge aur apne mind ka dhyan rakh paoge.
Plus you will get the solution. You will, you can access the subconscious mind jo computer hai and then you can do things jo aap karna chahte ho life mein. aapke paas ek path milega. Okay? That's it.
Vaibhav
nahin, puppies pehle din se hi doodh start karte hain peena toh woh potty kitne din baad start karte hain? aur agar potty karte hain toh woh kaise form mein rehti hai exactly? kyunki only milk piye the na.
Sunny
haan, ekdum dast matlab liquid hoti hai, ekdum dast hoti hai. Liquid hoti hai.
Vaibhav
aur next day se start karte hain ya same day?
Sunny
aur same day se woh start kar deti hai unko nikalna.
andar nahin rakhne deti kuch bhi. lagataar susu aur lagataar potty unka nikalta rehta hai. peete hi.
Vaibhav
abhi, abhi jahan par woh rehti hai, if you are not intervening toh phir samjho mitti waale jagah par kahin rahegi toh wahin potty karegi, wahin susu karegi. matlab jahan par rahegi. woh khud hi side kaisa hai? woh manage kaise hota hai?
Sunny
woh wahin par susu potty karegi aur wahin par susu potty kar-kar-karte hain aur usko chaat leti hai. pehle chaatna start kar deti hai. jaise hi yoon karti rehti hai na toh usko chaatna start kar deti hai aur har thode time mein woh agar badboo badh rahi hai toh panje maar ke baahar nikalegi mitti ko, baahar nikalegi.
Vaibhav
Okay, okay.
Sunny
woh saaf rakhegi aur den ko saaf rakhti hai. So aaj main den ko saaf, aaj jaise aaj poori safai karai wahan par. ab main unka gadda poora uthaunga. usko poore paani se dhounga and dhoop mein sukhaenge usko and then uske tab tak doosra gadda rakhenge aur phir uske baad change karenge usko.
toh wahi phir humein karna padega yeh saari ki saari cheez.
Vaibhav
hmm, hmm, hmm.
Sunny
haan, lekin woh khud hi poora dhyan rakhti hai. achhi maa ek hoti hai. woh generally saari maa aisi karengi. woh poora clean karti hain unko. susu bhi pee jaati hai aur potty bhi khaa jaati hai. kuch bhi wahan nahin rehne deti hai woh.
Vaibhav
Okay. And abhi jo yeh competitive nature hai puppies ka jaise ki reaching out to the milk early or like fighting for this nipple. toh woh abhi se shuru dikhai de raha hai ya phir abhi start hona hai? Like kaisa hai? pehle din se hi start hota hai kya?
Sunny
unka ek hi maqsad hota hai doodh tak pahunchna. koi competition ki bhavna nahin hoti. lekin hota kya hai generally dogs ke andar bahut saare puppies ho jaate hain tab wahan par dikkat hone lag jaati hai. lekin yahan par sirf chaar hi puppies hain and eight nipples hain.
Vaibhav
Right.
Sunny
hai na? toh aur aakhiri ke jo nipples hote hain usmein sabse zyada doodh rehta hai.
toh generally jo bade-bade- Towards the end. Towards the end. toh jo, jo, jo bade-bade, jo taqatwar jo shuruat mein puppies aa jaate hain woh un par qabza karne lag jaate hain uske upar.
Vaibhav
Okay.
Sunny
haan, toh lekin yahan par easily available hai toh aisa kuch competition woh, unke dimaag mein competition nahin hai. unke dimaag mein bas doodh peene ka hai.
Vaibhav
hmm, hmm.
Sunny
ab uske beech mein tum aaoge toh tum usko competition bol sakte ho. lekin woh focused hai. mere ko doodh chahiye. There is no competition ismein falana dhikana. mere ko toh doodh chahiye. toh usey woh simple us taraf badhte rehte hain. ab uske beech mein kuch hurdle aayegi toh woh unko paar karni.
Vaibhav
hmm.
Sunny
Human usko ek compe-competition ki tarah dekh sakta hai ki bhai competition, woh, woh compete kar rahe, nahin, lekin woh doodh ki taraf ja rahe hain. doodh ki taraf ja rahe hain. aur kisi usko unka koi nazar nahin hai. koi aur hai yahan par nahin hai.
Vaibhav
hmm, hmm. Focused.
Sunny
So hyper focused log bhi woh aise hote hain. humein lagega ki woh doosron se compete kar rahe hain.
woh doosron se compete nahin kar rahe. They are just doosre unke adange mein aa rahe hain. matlab unke, unke raaste mein aa rahe hain. toh woh usko overcome karke ja rahe hain. lekin woh unse compete karne nahin aa rahe. woh apni goal ki taraf ja rahe hain.
toh agar tum compete karoge toh tumhari growth depend karti hai jisse tum compete kar rahe ho. Getting my point?
Vaibhav
Benchmark uske hisaab se hi set hota hai.
Sunny
haan, tumhara bench- Apni capabilities full on baahar nahin aayegi phir. nahin, tumhara benchmark uske according set hoga. yaani tumhari life uske according set hogi. yaani tum life uske according jee rahe. toh tum jeet bhi jaoge toh bhi woh jeet gaya.
Vaibhav
And also yeh jo number of...
Sunny
Yeah, matlab it's like isliye sab jagah compe-competition ko mana kiya jaata hai. matlab khaaskar spirituality mein competition ko ma-mana kiya jaata hai.
aur ab phir motivational waale aur inspiration waale log bhi aaye toh woh bhi yahi bolte hain ki khud se compete karo. tabhi tumhari, tabhi tumhari growth hai. lekin society kya sikhaati hai? ekdum opposite, ekdum opposite, ekdum opposite. bilkul fail hai yaar yeh society. bilkul khatam.
aur bachhon ko, bachhon ko tabaah kar diya yaar. matlab kya soch hai yaar matlab ki ek doosre se compete karo. matlab kya hai yaar yeh? dharm padhte ja rahe ho, padhte ja rahe ho lekin samajh kyun nahin rahe ho yaar? tum kya, kya bolna chaah raha hai dharm tumhara? But toh ab jo hai so hai.
lekin competition khud ke saath hota hai. Science bhi ab wahi bolti hai. Spirituality bhi ab wahi bolti hai ki khud ke saath compete karo tabhi tum apna potential dikha sakte ho aur woh infinite potential hai. jab tak maroge nahin tab tak infinite, kabhi koi level par pahunch nahin paoge.
apne potential tum kabhi bhi nahin dikha paoge.
kyunki apna full potential tum kabhi bhi nahin dikha sakte. kyunki jaise tum full potential par aaoge, woh tumhara full potential aage nikal jaayega. You cannot grasp that.
Vaibhav
abhi regarding potential na so I listen to podcast of special forces people jo bhi like Monks and Warriors karke ek achha channel hai. If a normal human being also refers that aur achhe-achhe like unke agar aap dekhoge special forces ke toh unke jo capabilities woh baat karte hain, unhone jo-jo kiya hai.
woh toh hum imagine hi nahin kar sakte ki human is capable of doing that. Like real stories, real life. toh wahan se bhi yahi point aapne jo bola na ki potential kabhi bhi aap meet nahin kar paoge. toh maine wahan par ek observe kiya like everyone is doing like bahut next level ka cheez.
And also one question yeh jo female ke jo eight nipples bole woh, woh set, woh hamesha eight hi rehta hai sabko.
matlab woh fix hai na?
Sunny
haan, woh toh fix hai. nahin, woh physiology, nahin physiology toh same hai. woh toh same rehti hai unki.
Vaibhav
toh puppies agar zyada ho gaye toh phir woh waala scene aayega ki ek puppy ko nahin milega. So samjho 10 puppy ho gaye toh phir?
Sunny
toh dikkat hoti hai na phir.
Vaibhav
haan.
Sunny
haan, kyunki sab log aakhir mein- haan, woh waala maine scene dekha tha.
Vaibhav
toh iske liye maine woh refer kiya mujhe. main bhool gaya tha ki apne chaar puppy hai. toh maine jab videos dekhi thi toh samjho eight poora pack hai. ek ghus raha hai, doosre ko hataane dekh raha hai. phir woh doosra usko waise. phir us context mein maine poocha tha.
Sunny
woh wahan par resource ki kami hai aur jahan bhi resource ki kami hoti hai, wahan par dimaag hoarding ka hota hai.
Vaibhav
hmm.
Sunny
cheezon ko acquire karne ka hota hai. hai na? aur yeh, yeh tumhe matlab day to day life mein humans ke saath dikhega.
Vaibhav
Train mein.
Sunny
Haan, train mein, kahin par bhi tumhe dikhe.
Vaibhav
Train mein.
Sunny
Haan, train mein. Jo bhi survival ke usmein, jo bhi, jo bhi human survival ke zone mein hai, jo bhi human survival ke zone mein hai, wo completely khud ke baare mein hi selfish hai. Matlab wo, wo doosron ko wo nahi karega. Help nahi karega. Hai na?
Toh khaaskar humein uhhh cheezein jaise lower class hai, lower middle class hai, tumhe ye cheezein bahut zyada dikhengi uske andar. Aur jaise-jaise oopar badhta jaayega tumhe cheezein kam hote hue dikhne lag jaayengi.
Vaibhav
Hmm, hmm.
Sunny
Matlab obviously wo toh har jagah tumhe har tarah ke log hain hi sahi. Lekin basically ye resource se related hai. Jo resource related hai poora acquire karna poora wo karna. Toh suppose kar le kisi koi aadmi bahut ameer hai, bahut zyada ameer hai lekin wo insecure hai. Hai na? Wo insecure hai.
Wo toh bhi cheezon ko hoard karne lag jaayega.
Hai na? Toh ye survival zone ka behavior hai. survival zone ka. Agar aap abundance ke us zone mein rehte ho toh aap ye sab cheezein nahi karte ho. Lekin agar aap survival ke zone mein ho toh aapka behavior change ho jaata hai. Toh aapka behavior change ho jaata hai.
Toh it is because ki wo insaan ek survival ke zone mein hai. Wo insaan bhale hi kitna bhi ameer hone do lekin uske andar abhi bhi insecurity hai may be kisi aur ko lekar jo paisa kama raha ho aur zyada. Hmm, hai na? Kisi aur hamare level se hum dekhenge toh are bhai uske baad toh crore 100-100, 200-200 crore hai.
Phir wo is tareeqe se kyon behave kar raha hai? Kyunki bhai hum usko 100-100, 200 crore mein dekh rahe hain. Ho sakta hai wo ek hazaar crore wala banda dekh raha ho. Hai ki nahi? Ab wo hazaar crore wala banda dekh raha toh uske andar kya aayegi? Insecurity aayegi na. Hai na? Hoarding behavior aayega.
Kyon hoarding behavior aayega? Because wo survival ke zone mein chala gaya.
Toh survival is like tum kisse apne aap ko dekh rahe ho, kya kar rahe ho? Agar usmein aaya hua hai wo animals ke saath toh ye animal behavior hi hai, animal nature hi hai. Toh agar puppies hue hain aur nipples kam hai, doodh kam hai toh wo kya karenge? Unka toh goal ek hi rahega mere ko toh jaana hai.
Aur toh agar wo powerful hai toh wo apne panje se aise kheenchte hain wo, wo hata dete hain. okay? yeah, wo hata, wo aise hata dete hain. Toh puppies ke andar tumhe nishaan bhi dikhenge chhote-chhote puppies ke andar scratches ke.
Kyunki wo ek doosre ko apne naakhoon karaatein hain aur unko aise karte hain aur phir aage jaakar wo karte hain. Toh unke munh se wo chhoot jaata hai. Jab wo pee rahe hote hain toh wo chhoot jaata hai aur wo phir wo chale jaate hain us jagah par.
Toh jitna ek strong puppy hota hai wo aur strong hota jaata hai aur jitna kamzor ek puppy hota hai wo aur kamzor hota jaata hai because of this.
Toh that's wo that toh animal ka wo hai, duniya hai unki. okay?
Vaibhav
Aur jab birth hua tha toh pehle toh nose activator rehta hai aur 15 days baad right 15 days baad aankh start hoti hai. nose bhi simultaneously ears bhi simultaneously start ho gaye na.
Sunny
21 days ke baad ear chaalu ho jaata hai. Abhi ear unke band hai.
Vaibhav
Abhi ear band hai.
Sunny
Haan, abhi ear band hai. Toh band hai matlab completely kuch bhi wo closed hai aise. skin poori judi hui hai unki wahan par. Wo khule nahi hain abhi.
Vaibhav
Abhi aankh start ho rahi hai aapne bola na.
Sunny
Haan, aankh start, aankh start teen-chaar din pehle start hui thi. Halka-halka se kholna start hue the. Aaj toh aisi khuli hai toh maine unko apne saamne rakha tha aise karke. Saare ko main roz jaata hoon. Jab se unki aankhein khuli hui hai, main roz jaata hoon. Unko uthaata hoon aur apne saamne rakhta hoon.
like taaki wo mujhe eye contact de sakein ki main hoon yahan par.
Ye bond create karta hai.
Vaibhav
Yes.
Sunny
Okay? Ye bond create karta hai. So humne ek study padhi thi batakhon ki, doosre animals ki bhi, batakhon ki. Toh batakh ne jaise hi apni aankhein kholi uske saamne jo tha wo uski maa ban gaya. Batakh, batakh ke uske dimaag mein. Toh sirf batakh ke saath nahi hota, ye animals ke saath hota hai.
Toh main jaata hoon aur main unko dekhta hoon. Bas aise baith jaata hoon saamne unko lekar. Wo pyaar deta hoon. Hai na? Bahut pyaar deta hoon unko. Toh ek-ek karke abhi jaise subah gaya tha. Abhi main waapas jaaunga. Phir shaam ko jaaunga. But this is my thing ki main unke paas jaata hoon. Unko utha ke dekhta hoon.
Apne paas aankhon ke saamne rakhta hoon, pyaar deta hoon aur waapas se neeche aa jaata hoon. So that's what I am doing right now unke saath.
Sakshi
Also touch bahut important hota hai na unke liye jab ye develop hote hain tab.
Sunny
Unka, unka touch jaise nose, nose chaalu hota hai na waise hi sab unke touch bhi unka wo rehta hai ki wo touch se figure out karte rehte hain. Toh shuruwaat mein touch sirf unke munh par hota hai aur kahin par bhi nahi. Tum agar us samay poonchh bhi kaat doge toh unko pata nahi chalega.
Sakshi
Hmm, right.
Sunny
Wahan sensations hi nahi hai. Only sirf this face, inka face figure out kar sakta hai ki jagah thandi hai, garam hai aur poora body nahi, sirf face poora ka poora. Toh wo sirf active, phir dheere-dheere unki poore shareer mein sensation chaalu hote hain. So touch bahut zaroori hota hai us samay par.
Toh, toh main isko saamne rakhta hoon aur unko bahut pyaar karta hoon. Bahut pyaar karta hoon. Toh like do-teen minute ke liye saare puppies ke saath. Toh ye bond bachpan se create karna chaalu karta hai. bond bachpan se create...
Sakshi
Paws aur finger pads wagairah mein bhi nahi hota hai sensation?
Sunny
Nahi, shuruwaat mein nahi hota. Shuruwaat mein kahin sensation, sensations nahi hota. Toh dheere-dheere badhta hai inka sensations. Toh ab ye mujhe kitna din nahi hai, main thodi aur study kar loonga. Hai na? Kyunki it's like ki kitne din mein inka skin ka... Pehle toh mujhe nose, eyes, ears hi pata tha.
Par phir main kaha ye toh skin bhi toh touch bhi toh ek sensation hai. Hai na? skin kya feel karta hai, wo sab cheezein kya feel karta hai, wo bhi toh sensation hai. Toh phir mere ko samajh mein aaya ki bachpan mein toh inka poonchh bhi tum kaat doge toh inko dard nahi hota. Inko pata nahi chalta.
Toh us samay sensation aur phir mere ko pata chala ki inko temperature sirf munh se hi pata chalta hai is jagah se hi ki kya garam hai, kya sahi hai, kya poori body se nahi. So I will study more about it ki unke paws ka kya rehta hai, kis tareeqe se unke sensations aate hain.
Lekin dheere-dheere develop hote hain unke sensations. Lekin speed se exponential speed se generate hota hai, exponential speed se generate hota hai.
So abhi toh maza aa raha hai. Matlab puppies ke saath hoon and dekhenge bade hote hue mere saath kaise behave kar rahe hain. Kyunki maine aisa kabhi kisi ke, kisi puppy ke saath nahi kiya jaisa main inke saath kar raha hoon abhi.
Kyunki nayi learning hai meri ki aankhein kholte hi kaun dikhta hai inko wo matter karta hai. Aankhein kholte hi kaun inko smell kar raha hai wo matter karta hai. Inko kaun touch kar raha hai wo matter karta hai. Ye mujhe pehle nahi pata tha. So this is first time main inke saath aisa kar raha hoon.
So I will see kaise bade hote hain, kya hota hai inke saath.
Vaibhav
Sensation se ye bhi aap bataana ki like kaun se din se matlab kaun se age se start ho raha hai. Because mujhe wo kyon click hua? Kyunki Doberman mein hum log crop karte hain na like tail toh wo- Ek minute, ek minute, ek minute. Wo toh bol lag gaya.
Sakshi
Just a follow-up question to this Vaibhav. Why our Doberman ke ear and tail are cropped?
Vaibhav
Wo that is just aesthetics. In order for- ae! Doberman bred, was bred for protection aur tail se unke bas uske peeche aur ek reason tha. For example, how do you judge dogs? what, what he is feeling by his tail? Saare video mein wahi kar rahe hain tail dekh rahe arousal hai, happy hai kya hai?
Toh when you are using a dog like Rottweiler and Doberman for protection toh they did not want the other person to know ki what the dog is actually feeling. But for example agar chhoti si poonchh hai toh poora usko analyze karne nahi aayega.
Aur chhote se isse wo bhi agar usne analyze nahi kiya toh obviously dog toh apna-apna kaam karega hi lekin human ko anticipate karne bhi nahi aayega. Aur wo looks ke liye bhi tha. Sochiye aap dekhoge neeche jo kaan hai wo Doberman itna ferocious nahi lagta hai.
Toh they wanted that like jo by default jaise ki by default oopar rehte hain right toh humein wo alert lagte hain.
Dekhne mein bhi achha lagta hai. Toh phir unhone Doberman ke bhi waise start karne ke liye lekin Doberman ke broad rehte hain floppy sloppy jo bhi bolte hain wo neeche girte hain na like Labrador broad rehte hain.
Toh what they started doing is seedha kiya toh aise dikh raha tha na toh unhone unko cut karna start kiya aur aise kiya toh side se kaat dete hain. Wahan par wo ek sponge jaisa lagate hain aise oopar iske andar ghusa ke they added tape over here.
Phir wo jo unka like growth ki jo age hoti hai toh unke ja ke jo muscle jo bhi hai toh waise hi bade ho jaate hain toh wo fixed rehta hai.
You will see Doberman long tail as well jo humans ko wo sab pain unko nahi dena hai na they keep Doberman you will see that Rottweiler, Rottweiler ke body ke saath long tail jhaadi hai. Iske abhi sab log long tail waale rakhte hain.
Lekin jab Rottweiler India mein initially introduce hue the foreign se toh sab hi kaat rahe the unke tail.
Sunny
Wo fashion.
Sakshi
But isn't that animal cruelty?
Sunny
Nahi, wo dekho wo toh jaise jaise shuruat mein na matlab jo Vayu ne bola hai kaafi cheezein sahi baat hai ismein aur wo shuruat mein it's like ki protection aur in sab cheezon ke liye istemaal hota tha ki dog ko more fierce dikhana hai. Uske liye taaki guarding achhi ho sake. Hai na more more fierce batana hai.
Lekin iske peeche right now toh fashion ka wo ban gaya right now.
Vaibhav
Haan fashion hi ban gaya looks, looks.
Sunny
Lekin iske iske fierce hi ek kaaran nahi hai bas. Ye jo jitne bhi dogs hai na jaise Boxer hue, Doberman hue yaar aur ye high muscular dogs hain. Inke andar muscles bahut zyada hai. Matlab it's like hai na aur ye jab move karte hain bahut tezi se move kar sakte move karte hain.
Lekin inki jo poonchh hoti hai wo itni strength nahi hoti poonchh ke andar. Toh in breeds ke andar poonchh break ho jaati hai inke movement se.
Sakshi
Oh God!
Sunny
Haan, haan toh that's why inka poonchh kaatna zaroori ho gaya tha. Inki poonchh break ho jaati hai. Wo itni tez move hote hain ki poonchh break ho jaati hai.
Aur jaise aap jaise suppose karo Mudhol Hound hai aur ye sabhi unki poonchh itni lambi hoti hai ki agar wo jaise aroused ho gaye aur wo kisi par growl kar rahe hain toh apni poonchh neeche laakar aise hilaate hain. Hai na aise hilaate hain. Lekin unki poonchh neeche zameen se takraati hai.
Neeche zameen se, neeche zameen se takraati hai toh wo, wo bhi toot jaati hai. Wo bhi toot jaati hai. So humein ye sab cheezein bhi dekhna hota hai ki like like unke unka-unka unka body kya hai, unka kya hai. Toh Boxers bahut tez move hote hain toh inki poonchh kaatne lag gaye.
Because poonchh break hone lagti thi unki. Tootne lag gayi thi.
Doberman ke saath ye hone lag gaya. Lekin ab jaakar ye fashion ki wajah se unko understanding nahi hai. Ab jaake wo fashion ka wo ban gaya. Ab Doberman hai. Agar uske kaan aise floppy hote hain toh wo Doberman fierce nahi lagta. Bhondu type dikhta hai.
Matlab matlab ek guard, guarding perspective se aapko bata raha hoon baat cheezon ko. Main ye nahi bol raha ki unke kaan ko crop karna chahiye lekin uski appearance change ho jaati hai. Uski appearance change. Toh appearance fierce karne ke liye kaan ki cropping karte hain. Hai na?
Aur wo bachpan mein hi karte hain toh unko dard nahi hota us cheez ke liye. Hai na? it's like bahut-bahut shuruat mein karte hain toh. Toh ab ye toh person to person depend karta hai ki kis tareeqe ka dog aap lena chahte ho.
Lekin agar aap shuruat mein karte ho jaise bachpan paida hote hi inka kar dete hain vets ke paas le jaakar toh inko pata hi nahi chalta.
Inko dard nahi hoga inki poonchh nahi hai. Poonchh kat gayi inki. Inko wo cheez feel, wo feel nahi hoga. Ab as a human perspective humko dard ho sakta hai is cheez ko lekar. Jaise aapko ho raha hai. Hai na lekin human perspective.
Sakshi
Haan matlab my mind still cannot comprehend ki matlab aapko kyon kisi ko aise fierce dikhana hai specially aaj ke environment mein toh.
Sunny
Aaj ke environment. Wo toh maine bola na.
Sakshi
Haan.
Sunny
Haan toh aaj ke jaise aap pehle ke environment mein isliye kiya jaata tha aur poonchh ko kaata jaata hai unhi ki safety ke liye. Lekin log unki safety ke liye nahi kar rahe.
Sakshi
Hmm.
Sunny
Log fashion ke liye kar rahe hain. Unko pata nahi hai. Lekin actual mein unki safety ki wajah se start hua tha ye sab cheez. Unki safety ke liye.
Vaibhav
Matlab like see if you are understanding this dog waala behavior what I have understood is in order to deal with dogs, Indies are a mixture of like too many dogs, theek hai. So usmein jaise sir ne-sir ne bola ki usmein instincts rehte hain German Shepherd ke wo bite karne waala hai wo sab rahega.
Toh in order to understand more better you need to understand jo main main at least breed hai unki history kahan se evolve hue, kaise bane, kisko mix karke bane, kyon bane? Just like Pitbull bahut interesting hai.
American Bulldog lekar kisi aur dog ko mix, Terrier ko mix karke Terrier ki kuchh features, phir American Bulldog ka jo pakad ke rehna hai uske muscle. Then why it is named as Pitbull? Wo uske pehle open mein fights karte the. Phir they fight started fighting.
Pehle wo bull par jaake us dog ko bull ko baandhte the toh bulldog. Then wo ban ho gaya. Uske baad unhone dog ko pits mein underground karke ek doosre se jhagdaana start kiya jo ki Doberman mein kabhi ho jaata. Toh wo sab wajah se pit mein toh Pitbull naam ho gaya. Lekin people are just getting them home.
Unko achha laga and people are liking breeds in the form they watch it.
Doberman ke bade kaan aur chhoti poonchh ke saath ek personality dekha hai iske liye unko wahi ghar par chahiye. Toh laane ke baad samajh rahe hain abhi toh katvaana padega iske liye wo kar rahe.
They won't like a Doberman aapko abhi dekho koi bhi Doberman ki seedhi nahi rakhega Rottweiler ki rakhega kyonki usko wo suit nahi ho raha hai. Toh like jab aap breed waala understand karoge na it is very interesting.
Sunny
Ye project lete hain na jismein apan matlab apan bataate hain ki Pitbull kahan se bana aur ye cheez kahan se.
Vaibhav
Yes.
Sunny
Hai na toh usmein saare dog ki breeds rakhte hain aur uski history ka nikaalte hain ki bane kahan se, kahan se aaye. Ye saari ki saari cheezein. Toh ye project-project lete hain aur isko banaate hain jismein apan koi bhi.
Vaibhav
Interesting Doberman was literally looking ekdam simple, plain, very normal looking like an Indie. Aur aadmi ka hi naam tha usko dog toh naam mila wo. Lekin usne baaki ke doosre-doosre ke saath karke us final form mein laaya.
Ab if you see with German Shepherd na German Shepherd pehle Alsatian se seedhe chahiye jo World War mein use hue lekin they baad mein wo jo show ban gaya show ke liye toh unhone specific way mein breed kar wo deformity laayi. Yeh wala jo posture hai isi wajah se unko hip dysplasia.
Sakshi
Hip dysplasia hota hai.
Vaibhav
Bahut zyada ho raha hai toh.
Sakshi
And now recently ek nine mein in fact I think last week hi padh rahi thi there is also King Shepherd. Toh wo 1990s mein hi famous hua hai. It's exactly German Shepherd. Lekin uski breeding kya karwayi hai ki uska posture and jo structure hai wo thoda broad hai. They are more calm.
Jaise German Shepherds ko break de-deke aapko stimulate karta rehna padta hai. King Shepherds ko you just have to give two hours of work and that's it.
So they have made this King Shepherd more family friendly jisko German Shepherd chahiye lekin aggressive nahi chahiye thoda control mein chahiye us type ke liye.
The good thing about this breed is ki inke saath wo saare jo genetics problem aa rahe the German Shepherds ke saath usko kaafi hadd tak eliminate kar diya gaya hai. Toh King Shepherds mein around 60 to 65% King Shepherds jo hai usme aapko hip dysplasia mil hi nahi raha hai. Wo genes hi nahi hai.
Vaibhav
Yaar dekh ye.
Sakshi
Kaafi interesting hai.
Vaibhav
Kaafi interesting hai na. Sir aap toh matlab apan ye breeds ka poori ki poori list bana sakte hain aur ye bata sakte hain kaun si breed mix karke kya cheez bani. Achha project rahega. Kyunki sir sabse main thing na Beagle ke saath ho raha hai. Usko toy dog samajh ke uske actual mein potential kya the, kya use kiya.
Aur I have a very good video jahan par na bahut saare dogs the everyone was like Beagle ke hi color. Pehle wo height mein thode bade hua karte the. With generation wo thoda chhota-chhota hote gaya hai toh unka potential bahut alag tha.
like 100-100 ke pack mein bhi unko rakha gaya hai jangal mein hunting ke liye wo sab. Lekin log usko toy dog karke laa rahe hain aur uska wahi sabse zyada behavioral issues ho raha hai. Phir like biting and all.
Sakshi
Jaise Shar Pei ek bahut aisi breed hai jiske saath bahut hi zyada khilwaad ho gaya hai.
Vaibhav
Kiske saath?
Sakshi
Shar Pei karke ek breed hai.
Vaibhav
Haan, wo toh bilkul wrinkle se wrinkle de rahe hain. Bahut hi dikkat hai usme toh. Wo toh breed nahi hona chahiye hai mere khayal se.
Sakshi
Haan, actual mein nahi hona. Even Pugs wagairah bhi mujhe toh lagta hai ki you should not breed Pug.
Vaibhav
Pugs bhi nahi hona chahiye breed. so bahut zyada dikkat hai un sab cheezon mein bhi. Unko bhi bahut zyada dikkat hai. dogs toh dogs hai.
Main dekhta hoon puppies agar doodh nahi pee rahe toh main aapko puppies dikhata hoon. Okay. Phir uske baad band kar dein.
Sakshi
Kaafi interesting tha wo King Shepherd wala bhi dekha maine. and those dogs are like seriously very hairy. Toh matlab unko dekh ke na saamne wale ki aisi-taisi ho jaaye type.
Vaibhav
If you get for any of us referring to something very new or we think ki others should know toh aap direct group par daal do link ki I do this it was very interesting. Toh jisko bhi dekhna hai wo dekh lega. Lekin obvious knowledge toh badhega hi usse.
Sakshi
Right.
Vaibhav
Mat kar. Ye, ye dono, ye dono female hai. Dono female hai.
Abhi do aur lekar aata. Ye chalne lag gaye.
Sakshi
Kya naam hai inke? Naam rakh diya aapne?
Vaibhav
Nahi inki personality par rakhenge. Chal aage chal, aage badh. Chalo-chalo. Mat kar.
Sakshi
puppies wala time mein bahut fun hota hai lekin.
Vaibhav
But it is challenging bhi bahut hai sir.
Sakshi
Yaar I think challenging toh hai. dogs ke saath in general aapke saath bahut. Main mujhe yaad hai toh this is all happening when I obviously had no idea. Mujhe bas ye pata tha.
Vaibhav
Ye biggest, ye dono bade. Ye dono bade.
Sakshi
Ye black and white wala.
Vaibhav
Ye black wali female hai aur ye male hai. Toh teen female hai aur ek male hai.
Ye male sabse bada hai. second par ye hai. Dekho inki aankhein khul chuki hain. Theek hai na? Inki aankhein khul chuki hain, naakhoon aa chuke hain aur isko doodh peene ka hai abhi. Chalo. Aur iske andar ye jo neeche dikh rahi hai kya? Iske andar maternal instinct aa rahe hain. Ye female hai.
Ye iski maa nahi hai, lekin female hai. Okay. Ye curious ho rahi hai inke liye bahut zyada. Paas mein aakar baith jaati hai inke. Toh bhagaati hai phir doosri.
Sakshi
Toh when we bought Murphy home tab main usko sabse pehle vet ke paas lekar gayi thi aur mujhe obviously nahi pata tha cheezein. Toh main unke paas lekar gayi hoon aur pooch rahi hoon kya-kya, kaisa-kaisa karna hai. Aur mere paas mein ek aunty aakar baithti hai with her whole family.
Toh uncle hai, aunty hai, unke do bachhe hain. Inke paas ek Labrador hai, unke paas ek Great Dane hai aur ek unke paas Indie hai. Aur main unse normally baat kar rahi hoon.
Wo bolti hai, "Bhai bachhe toh phir bhi bade ho jaate hain, kutte toh kabhi bade nahi hote." Okay aunty my first day as a dog mom and he was scaring the shit out of me, but it's okay.
Vaibhav
Nahi but achha hai na dogs, dogs bade nahi hote. this kind of thing. Haan, ye toh best hai. dogs bade nahi hote hain. Matlab isse toh badhiya.
Sakshi
Constantly sikha sakte ho cheezein.
Vaibhav
Haan matlab constantly tumhe wo bachhe wala pyaar hamesha milta rahega jab tak wo rahenge. Toh that's the amazing thing na. dogs ke liye toh amazing hai. Hamesha bachhe rehte hain wo. Toh matlab it's like wo bade ho jaate hain matlab wo different ho jaayenge. Unka behavior different hota rehta hai.
Lekin phir bhi pyaar toh bachhe jaisa rehta hai unka.
cool hai doston aaj ke liye I think. Sir ek-ek karna bas jab thode din baad ya phir one-two mahine ke baad aap bas ek baar ye bataana like differentiate karke ki jab bachhe paida hue until they open their eyes kaisa exactly behave tha.
Phir baad mein aankh open hone ke baad exactly kya nayi cheez add hui aur phir bhi aap bataana kyunki abhi toh aawaaz aa rahi nahi hai baahar se doosre dogs ke, iske-uske. Toh wo bhi jab toh uske baad specifically kya change aaya. Wo ek baar we have never seen this stage na.
Haan toh, toh main toh lagataar observe kar hi raha hoon. Toh unke toh har uska hisaab de sakta hoon ki kya chal raha hai unke. Wo wale camera. Kya bol rahe hain? Aapke wo jo camera hai usme video bhi lena like hours-hours ke.
Sakshi
Haan, haan.
Vaibhav
Ye wahi wo, wo like mera pehla experience hai toh mere ko yaad wo nahi rehta is kind of thing.
Ek baar mera experience ho jaata toh mere ko samajh mein aata ki are video lene ki hai cheez hai. So I will, I will start, I will start taking more videos of them. share karta hoon unke aur videos. Okay. Yes, yes sure.
Sakshi
Cool hai guys. Aaj ke liye itna hi. Aaj ke, aaj ke liye itna hi. Okay. Tata. Bye, bye. Bye. Thank you. Thank you.
More calls on behavioural
Sat 26 Sep 2026
1 hr 44 min
Canine mind basics, breed traits and bringing a dog home in India
Two Pro program members, Paresh and Reena, led their first practice sessions for the group, with Sunny Luthra facilitating and giving feedback. Paresh explained how to read a dog through three layers, the animal, the breed, and the individual personality, while Reena covered the practical, financial, and emotional commitments of bringing a dog home in India. The long Q&A that followed used real cases (pacing after walks, tail biting, nipping at legs, a bored Labrador) to show how to gather data before concluding on a dog's behaviour, and closed with an extended, unresolved group debate on ethical breeding versus adoption. Sunny also outlined plans to build member web pages using clips from these evaluation sessions.
12 chapters · 9 member questions · puppy care, adoption, training, behavioural
Sun 2 Aug 2026
1 hr 16 min
The behaviorist lens: instincts, personality and trigger stacking
Sunny Luthra gave batch one and two members a revision overview of Modules 1 and 2, covering the behaviorist lens's four layers (animal, species, breed, personality), how dogs perceive reality mainly through touch and smell before sight and sound, and how associative based thinking is driven by emotional intensity and repetition. He explained how unmet breed instincts and unstable environments cause fear, anxiety, aggression and reactivity, and answered member questions on breaking instincts, walking nervous dogs, and handling trigger stacking on walks. The call closed with logistics on exam slots and community resources for the Pro certification.
12 chapters · 6 member questions · behavioural, training, structure, body language
Sun 14 Jun 2026
1 hr 20 min
Breaking up dog fights, calm hands, and the business of dog care
Sunny opens by unpacking a leash accident and what dogs actually learn when we chase them and then pull back, leading into a longer lesson on why corrections must come from psychology rather than physical force. He shares detailed stories of breaking up dog fights, including a Pitbull incident, to teach the loose-hand technique and the idea of making a dog surrender its animal instincts. The back half of the call covers the play ritual as a way to give dogs an off switch, announces the upcoming Pro midterm exam, and explores business opportunities (boarding, walking, behaviorist work) built on dog psychology knowledge, before members troubleshoot real socialising and territorial-fighting problems with their own dogs.
12 chapters · 10 member questions · training, aggression, behavioural, psychology