Pro group call · Sun 19 Jul 2026 · 1 hr 20 min
Building Dog Confidence Through Skills, Water and Agility
Sunny Luthra led a discussion on how confidence is built through skill development rather than delusion, in both dogs and humans, using agility, swimming, and daily obstacle exposure as tools. Members shared personal stories of overcoming fear (claustrophobia, water phobia, mountaineering) and connected these to how owner anxiety transfers to dogs through energy and behavior. The call also covered puppy separation anxiety training, collar sensitivity, reading tail and body language during dog greetings, and redirecting reactive dogs using leash timing, plus a case study on resolving a lift-biting incident with a housing society.
Key points (6)
- Confidence in dogs and humans comes from developing real skills and overcoming challenges, not from being spoiled or carried, which creates delusion-based confidence.
- Agility, swimming, and daily obstacle exposure (jumping ledges, climbing pipes) build genuine confidence because they mimic the challenges dogs face naturally in the wild.
- Owner anxiety and energy transfer to dogs, so working on the human's fear and breathing (like Wim Hof breathing) can resolve a dog's separation anxiety or insecurity.
- Separation anxiety in puppies can be trained from a young age by gradually increasing alone-time in a closed room, always after adequate exercise.
- Collar sensitivity should be removed from puppyhood by calmly holding the collar through a puppy's panic response without showing frustration.
- Reading a dog's tail and body posture during greetings (soft wag versus stiff tail) tells you whether a dog is being friendly, assertive, or heading toward a fight.
- On the call
- Kashish, Sunny, Anshul, Yashika, Kunal, Ashita, Prafull, and 4 other voices
Building Dog Confidence Through Skills, Water and Agility
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Transcript
Hindi written in English letters. The audio is the record.
Kashish
This call now.
Speaker 2
And yes.
Sunny
Hello guys, let's go, let's start.
Kashish
Video on kar lo.
Speaker 2
Haan.
Sunny
Okay. Do logon ne kiya. Hello.
Speaker 2
Sorry Sunny, I am sort of in between work so I will be like walking and talking today.
Sunny
Yeah, sun liya main yahan baitha tha.
Speaker 2
All right.
Sunny
Okay cool hai. So aaj confidence ke baare mein baat karenge aur ek kaafi common problem hai dogs ke andar aur yeh kaafi behavioral issues ko bhi trigger karta hai agar dog ke andar confidence ka nahi hota. So kitne aap logon mein se kitne aapke dogs ko kitne aapko lagta hai ki unmein confidence aur aana chahiye?
Kin kin ke dogs mein confidence abhi kam dikhta hai, insecurity zyada dikhti hai. Okay. Praful. Okay. Cool hai, cool hai.
Speaker 2
Yep me, me dono.
Sunny
Okay, okay. So ek baat bataiye, for example jaise aapne kabhi apni life mein observe kiya hoga. So kabhi aisa observe kiya ki yaar mera pehle confidence kam tha, lekin ab confidence badh chuka hai. Kis kis ne observe kiya apne khud ke andar yeh? Shabash, shabash! Sabne kind of.
Speaker 2
Yes.
Sunny
Kaise? Kya kiya aisa?
Kashish
Jab agar, jab agar dogs ke saath mein agar gher mere dog ko koi doosre dogs community dogs gher lete hain so I stand still.
Matlab main panic nahi karta hoon. That is what I have seen difference in myself.
Sunny
My question, my question is ki kabhi aapne khud ke andar confidence ko increase hote huye matlab like observe kiya like pehle aap confident nahi the, lekin ab aap confident, not related to dogs, just your personal thing. like aap confident the.
Kashish
Dar ke aage jeet hai. Kuch aisa karein jisse which is, which is difficult and usko accomplish karne ke baad we feel confident about it.
Sunny
Yeah, good, good part. Yes, Parth.
Anshul
Same thing fears ko face karke matlab jismein bhi dar lag raha hai usmein main chala jaata hoon bas. Phir face kar deta hoon toh dar thoda kam ho jaata hai.
Sunny
Okay, fear ko face karte hain toh confidence aata hai. Chalo, chalo theek hai. Aur Anshul batao.
Anshul
It depends in which situation you are feeling under confident so work on it like if you are, if you do not have much knowledge about the subject so get work on it.
Aur agar aap kisi situation mein confident feel nahi kar rahe ho ki ek kayi baar surprise koi situation aa jaati hai toh woh phir aisa hai ki over the period of time aap us par thoda kaam karte ho toh ho jaata hai.
Sunny
Okay, okay. Cool hai, cool hai. Yes, Kashish.
Speaker 2
Yeah, I second with Anshul. So same you talk to people about the same thing and sometimes you don't even know like you can, you are capable to do it, right? So it happens the same with the dogs I believe. Aap us par kaam karte ho. Of course, aap situation ke accordingly act karte ho.
Baithte ho ek baar retrospect mein sochte ho kya hua and then yeah, you work better next time.
Sunny
Okay, cool hai. Yashika ji.
Yashika
Analyzing the situation and kahan humein, humne lack kiya hai and working on the things which we, where we think we lack.
Sunny
Haan matlab humne kuch, kuch experience.
Yashika
So overcome karke exactly.
Sunny
Yeah, yeah humne kuch experience kiya. Wahan par hum fearful the. Phir humne usko analyze kiya and then hum usmein confident ho gaye. Okay, that's the way. Okay Reena ji aap?
Speaker 6
Similar taking a plunge, repetitions and I also think ki mujhe confidence aata hai when I you know, listen to other people's experiences and I try to apply them on you know, in my life. Chahe woh dogs se related ho ya otherwise ho.
So sometimes you know that helps.
Sunny
Yeah matlab doosre logon se samajh mein aata hai ki kaise meri life ke situations mein woh solve kar sakte hain. You got the information kind of thing ki kaise change ho sakte hain, kaise ho sakta hai.
Speaker 6
Jab discussions karte ho, kuch karte ho toh usmein bhi ideas milta hai. I think when you hear yourself loud many a times ideas strike you to.
Sunny
Insights milte hain, insights milte hain. So that's a, that's a marvelous matlab humara human mind ka woh hai insights milna jo dogs ke paas nahi hai. And yeah Vayu.
Speaker 7
Yes Sunny. So basically after understanding thoda sa deeper about dogs toh patience badh gaya hai and confidence for example jaise ki abhi Max aur kisi ko lekar gaya samjho bahut saare dog gher lete pehle. So hum bhi thoda dar jaate the ya phir ek fear bahut aata tha ki aake kaat na le, kya ho sakta hai, kya nahi.
So we used to panic. But abhi itna samajhne ke baad I saw that I am also calm so Max is also calm. They are literally ignoring aur uske baad then again same your dog wala situation life mein bhi apply hota hai.
For example night mein when we go for feeding no toh pehle hum log darte the ki koi security aayega, koi society mein se aa jaayega, phir chadhenge, ye kya kar rahe ho, woh kya kar rahe ho. Toh abhi waise nahi lagta hai. Aaya toh aaya baat kar lenge, aage ka aage dekha jaayega.
In a calmer way jaisa aapne bola tha toh wahan par ek help hua hai. Yeah matlab kaafi hua.
Sunny
Again, yeah again matlab you got the information you get, you got the kahin kuch different way hai is cheez ko like experience karne ka ya phir is cheez ko perform karne ka ek different way hai. So hum, hum generally kya karte hain? Hum analyze karte hain.
See koi bhi situation hai jismein hum weak huye toh humne usko analyze kiya and then humne mentally ek naya image banaya.
Mentally kuch nayi, nayi movie banayi ki hum is tareeke se bhi behave kar sakte the. Okay? So insaan ke paas knowledge hai ki hum is tareeke se bhi behave kar sakte the aur woh kisi tareeke se confidence create karta hai. Dogs toh yeh nahi kar sakte. Dogs toh yeh nahi kar sakte.
So ek aur cheez hai insaan for example jab hum kisi cheez ko analyze karte hain aur hum yeh cheez, yeh cheez samajhte hain ki bhai is cheez ko humein kaise overcome karna hai. Woh actual mein kya hai? Woh ek skill hai. Hum mentally ek new skill seekh rahe hote hain by analyzing. Getting my point?
Jab hum koi bhi nayi skill seekhte hain humare andar confidence kaun kaise generate hota hai? Humara skill level. Vayu ne bola ki yaar bhai pehle hum aise behave karte the lekin ab uske paas kya skill hai? Patience ki ek skill hai. Uske paas logon ke saath calmness se baat karne ki ek skill hai.
Ye sab skills hai. So hum jaise-jaise skills learn, skills kaisi bhi ho, jaise-jaise hum skills learn karte rehte hain waise-waise humare andar confidence aur sirf skills learn karne se nahi skills ko perform karne se. Skills se hum skills samajh rahe hain ki hume skills aati hai. Wo ho sakta hai humare andar delusion.
Insaan ki baat karo abhi. Wo humare andar delusion bhi lekar aaye. Kyunki jab hum field mein pahunchte hain toh skill different work karti hai knowledge se. You know, field work different hota hai. So skills is the thing jo humare andar confidence build karta hai aur dogs ke saath ye match karta hai.
Dogs mein jab skills increase hoti hai unka confidence badhta hai, aage badhta hai. Not delusion wala confidence. Delusion wala dog mein confidence kaisa hota hai? Delusion wala confidence.
For example, agar hum dog ko uthate rehte hain, apne sar par chadhate rehte hain toh unke andar kaun sa confidence develop hota hai?
Delusion wala. Wo confidence mein bark karte hain lekin jaise hi unke saamne ek aisi situation aati hai jo challenging hoti hai wo bhaag khade hote hain. Aisa dekha hai na ki bhai tu, tu toh ghar par sher hai aur baahar ekdam tu bhaag ke khada ho jaata hai, kind of thing.
So dog ke andar jab hum skills develop karte hain unka confidence build hone lag jaata hai. Toh kaun batayega mujhe ki skills kya-kya develop kar sakte hain dog ke andar? Kaun batayega kaise skill develop kar sakte hain? Kya skill develop kar sakte hain jo dog ke andar confidence kar sakta hai? Yes, Mrinal.
Anshul
Impulse, impulse control.
Sunny
Impulse, impulse control se ek, ek wo hai, ek skill hai. Impulse apne ko control karna. Human mein bhi hai impulse control ka aur wo confidence lekar aata hai dono mein. Human mein bhi lekar aata hai aur dog mein bhi lekar aata hai impulse control aana.
Yaani hum impulse ke adheen nahi hai. Impulse humare haath mein, wo power. Okay? Kab hum usko release karna chahte hain. Dog ke saath bhi same hai. Very good point. Yes, Mrinal.
Speaker 6
Agility exercises.
Sunny
Usmein kya seekha? Usmein kya skill hai?
Speaker 6
Bhai agility exercises mein bhi kuch bhi uh, uske jaise uh, ramp par chadh rahe hain ya wo slope par chadh rahe hain toh uski confidence building thodi si hoti hai. Doing any challenging job basically. Jab wo achievement wali feeling deta hai na.
Koi bhi chahe wo tunnel se nikal raha hai ya phir wo slope par chal raha hai ya koi different terrain par chal raha hai. So I think that improves his aur naye atmosphere mein, naye usmein exposures hain.
Sunny
Yeah. So jaise ab agility ki baat hai. Agility bahut important cheez hai dog ke andar confidence build karne ki. Agility zaroori nahi hai ki hum agility ka poora course lein ya poora track lein.
Agility ka matlab kya hota hai? Pipes ke upar chadhna. Nature mein kya hota hai? Dog agility kaise karte hain? Terrains different hote hain. Lekin city mein gharon mein aapke dogs ke paas terrain different hai kya? Nahi, terrain different nahi hai. Wo daily basis par seedha-seedha, seedha-seedha chalte rehte hain.
So there is no challenge dog ke liye. Wo koi agility nahi hai. Lekin agar aap nature mein dekhoge toh nat-nature ke jo dogs hote hain they are more confident, dog to dog. Wo bahut zyada confident rehte hain aur wo inde matlab it's like independent survive kar sakte hain.
Lekin ghar ke dog koi bhi survive nahi kar sakta independent. Lekin baahar ke jo dogs hote hain wo independent survive kar sakte hain. Kyun? Because of their skills. So agility is a jaise hum clients aate hain aur unke dogs mein fear hota hai, insecurity hoti hai.
So agility jab hum unko recommend karte hain, unke andar confidence high hone lag jaata hai.
Kyun high hone lag jaata hai? Agility is a skill. Okay, kyun high hone lag jaata hai? Wo ek skill hai. Skill kis cheez ki? Iske upar chadhna kaise hai? Iske neeche utarna kaise hai? Yahan se jo challenge aaya hua hai, jo obstacle aaya uske upar kaise koodna hai.
Nature mein ye default milta hai lekin gharon ke dogs mein nahi milta. Kyunki nature mein ye default milta hai. For example, agar aap strays ko bhi dekhoge wo jo khaane ka wo like dustbin ka wo hota hai uske upar chadhte hain. Aisi bahut saari cheezein hoti hai unke paas.
Kabhi idhar koodte hain, kabhi udhar koodte hain. So that's why unka confidence ghar ke dog, dog se zyada hota hai. You know, zyada hota hai. So by matlab aise on an average. It's not ki har ek se zyada hoga.
On an average baahar street dogs mein aapko is tareeqe se insecurity aur nervousness nahi milegi jaise gharon ke dogs mein milti hai.
Indies hi le lo, Indies hi le lo. Matlab Indies jaise jo baahar hume streets mein mil rahe hain unke andar hume aisi insecurity nahi milti jaisi Indies ke andar hume gharon ke andar milti hai. So that is kyunki wo skills ki kami hai. Skills ki issue hai jo wahan par hai. Dog skillful nahi ho, ho paa raha hai.
So agility jo Reena ji ne bataya it's a, it's a very like uh, ek, ek training ka, ek behavior modification ka ek important part hai. Aur agility ka yeh matlab nahi hota ki hum agility ke track par jaayein. Day to day life mein hum kaise agility dog ki life mein lekar aa sakte hain.
Koi doli dikhi, koi bench dikhi, us par kooda do. Koi pipes dikhe uske upar uske saath chadh jaao. So it's like ki you have to. Wo phir aise-aise karke chalega. So this will develop confidence in that guy. Toh is tareeqe se hum confidence develop karte hain.
Agility daily basis par ho sakta hai saari cheezein. Koi bhi aapko doli dikhi, koi bhi aapko itni si heights par dikhi, usko chadha do, usko kooda do aur aap bhi kood jaao uske saath. So wo daily basis par unke andar ek skill develop karta hai ki wo jump kar sakte hain. Wo wahan se utar sakte hain.
Wo is obstacle ko clear kar sakte hain. And this feeling ki obstacle ko clear karna aur jab wo clear karte hain, abhi humne kya dis-discuss kiya tha this thing, obstacles ko clearance. Toh jab wo obstacle clear karte hain wo confidence develop karta hai unke andar. Okay? Yes, Anshul.
Anshul
Yes, Sunny you already covered all most of the things so like as Mrinal ji said like agility and giving them a different situations so they get familiar with the situation so they understand like if and first thing like calm yourself first.
So like if like any new dog comes to your dog interrupted the walk or anything so first calm yourself down Give them like something like it's good, it's not something that's very foreign to them. So they get familiar to the situation because sometimes this happened with me sometimes when I was in a different city.
So there's one ground near my home. So I generally put her on off the leash and she's running like anything. Sometimes what happened? Like some big dogs came and they were like not attacking them, but they're just playing in a friendly way. Not- Okay. Not do-not stray dogs, but domesticate-domesticated dogs.
So they come, they like jump on her. So she got very uncomfortable with that.
But now as the time is passing so she is getting very comfortable with new dogs as well. She generally bark or something like that, but now she's like getting much calmer in a way.
Sunny
Yeah, yeah. So yeah, matlab it's like ki jitna hum dog ko exposure dete hain aur ek controlled exposure dete hain, ek safe exposure dete hain. Lekin wo exposure aisa hona chahiye jo dog ko challenge kare. Lekin wo exposure aisa bhi nahi hona chahiye jo dog ko tod de.
Toh humein us tareeqe se usko challenge design karna hota hai. Slowly, slowly, dheere-dheere, dheere-dheere, dheere-dheere karke. So jo insecure dogs hote hain, unke liye koi training nahi lagti. Unke liye confidence building ki exercises lagti hai.
So aapko agar aap kisi trainer ke paas jaoge ya fir aap market mein cheez dekhoge toh wahan par bola jayega ki board and train bola jayega ya fir dog ko train karne ke liye bola jayega.
Lekin uski asliyat ki asliyat kya hai? Dog ko new skills sikhana aur challenges mein daalna jisko wo overcome kar sake. Okay, jisko wo over-jisko wo overcome kar sake. So kisi ne apne dog ke andar aise confidence build hote hue dekha hai.
Jab usne kuch like apply figure out kar sakte ho ki kaise confidence build hone laga. Bhale hi wo walk se ho, kaise bhi nahi tha.
Kashish
Yes.
Sunny
Kaise?
Kashish
Sunny bhai basically jab puppy tha mera Bosco toh firecrackers se bahut darta tha wo. Right?
So what I-what I did is ki kabhi bhi phatake jale kahin par zor se bombs and everything rockets and jo bhi chalta hai ya fir shaadiyon, shaadiyon ke jo DJs wagairah bajte hain toh at that time I started playing with that with my dog.
Matlab fetch karwa raha hoon ya fir usko rope pull karwa raha hoon. So I started distracting him. Ab usme darr nahi hai. Ab wo saamne jaata hai. Firecrackers jalte hain toh he is-he is confident enough to approach them people burning firecrackers. Shaadi ke DJs wagairah hai toh usme ja raha hai.
Matlab now he is confident ki ab usko darr nahi lagta hai. Badhiya ho gaya toh. So that is what I assume.
Sunny
Ya kaise ab dekho kaise badhiya hua. Ek association change hui ki like wo lekin saare dogs ke saath aisa work nahi karta. Bahut se dogs bahut zyada panic mein aa jaate hain. Bahut saare dogs khelna band kar dete hain. Bahut saare dogs, ye bahut se logon ne try bhi kiya hoga.
Jab wo dog khel raha hai, jab wo dog darr raha hai toh hum khilane ki koshish karte hain toh ye sab par work nahi karta. Lekin jis par agar work kar gaya toh that's very good thing. Toh bahut jaldi- Distraction, sorry, sorry to cut you off.
Kashish
Distraction jo hai. Haan.
Sunny
It's not distraction. Your dog is has a high play drive. So agar uski, haan your dog has a high play drive. So play drive agar high hai aapke dog ke andar so aap uska fayda utha sakte ho. Lekin sab dog ke andar play drive itni high nahi rehti.
Kisi dog ke andar food drive high rehti hai toh food drive ko fear trigger down kar deta hai, khatam kar deta hai. So usme work nahi karti. Ye saari ki saari-saari ki saari saari cheezein. So har ek dog par work nahi karega.
Kyunki jaise kai baar hum aise sunte hain ki yaar ye humare dog ke upar work kari toh humein aisa lag sakta hai ki sab par aisa work kar sakta hai. But ye completely dog to dog depend karta hai. Okay?
Play drive jo Kashish ne bhi baat batayi wo mostly un dogs ke upar jo-jis approach se inhone follow kiya wo approach work karegi.
Lekin ye unhi dog par work karegi jiske andar play drive hai aur fear ka level itna nahi hai. Hai na? Aur ye bachpan se kar rahe hain toh that's the plus point, plus point. Kyunki bahut se log shuru baad mein jaakar karte hain. Lekin agar hum bachpan se puppy time par karne jaate hain, puppy kya zyada trust karta hai.
Jaise-jaise wo bada hone lag jaata hai aur hum galtiyan karte hain toh unka trust khatam hone lag jaata hai. Toh agar hum puppyhood mein karte hain toh bahut zyada chances hote hain ye sab cheezein overcome karne ke. Okay?
Kashish
Sunny bhai ek cheez aur poochhni thi. Jaise ki abhi-abhi ke time mein wo brain-brain calming drops aate hain, homeopathic medicines aati hai. So like how good are they or they like we shouldn't use those kisi ko prefer bhi nahi karna.
Sunny
Main vet ke paas gaya. Usne mujhe homeopathic ki medicine di.
Maine kaha, "Sir, ye work kaise karta hai?" Usne kaha, "Ye mat poochh bas." So that's like kind of so abhi thoda gray area, abhi gray area hai and I am studying-studying this kyunki generally like jitna padha hai like alcohol ka content hota hai and wahi tatva hota hai jo body mein wo issue create kar raha hota hai.
So wahi thoda unko diya jaata hai. So exactly mujhe poori knowledge nahi ki how it works. Main vet ke paas gaya. Vet se maine poochha.
Unhone saaf mana kar diya, "Mujhse mat poochh." Toh maine kaha, "Theek hai, main khud hi padhta hoon." Toh right now kitna work karta hai, kitna wo karta hai, mujhe uski exactly wo nahi hai. Kyunki homeopathy hi kaafi usme katghare mein rehti hai. Hai na? Fir uski dawai kitni katghare mein hai?
So jab tak understanding nahi aayegi homeopathy work kaise karti hai, tab tak hum kuch apna dimaag laga hi nahi sakte. So I am studying it and I will get back to you, okay, on this. Okay?
Kashish
Got it. Thank you. Come on.
Sunny
Yes, Kunal. Yes, toh ek incident hai.
Kunal
Main isko Rishikesh lekar gaya tha apne doggy ko. Theek hai? Toh wahan par, wahan notice kiya maine ki kaise iska bahut jaldi matlab ye log seekhte hain aur confidence mein iska buildup hua.
Toh wahan par ek nadi thi, toh nadi ke kinare isne kabhi usse pehle swim nahi kiya tha ya gaya nahi tha aise, experience nahi kiya tha. Hai na? Aur ye abhi us waqt tha ek dedh-dedh do saal ka, dedh saal ki something ka. Theek hai? Toh hum lekar gaye usko aur kinare par tha.
Toh humne notice kiya ki ye nahi ja raha hai, nahi ja raha hai. Toh fir main neeche utra usme aur halka-halka nudge-nudge-nudge kiya aur fir wo aaya.
Speaker 9
Pehle thoda sa aisa kar raha tha. Then aa gaya aur mujhe bas fir jaise hi wo aaya then I allowed ki theek hai waapas chala jaao apne waapas se. Fir dheere aaya, fir dheere aaya.
Fir wo trust build hua aur wo dheere dheere confidence build hua toh wo mere paas long leash thi toh matlab maine saat aath baar kiya hoga ye aur shayad dasveen baar mein wo long leash se mast aisa tair ke aaya toh wo bahut achha tha.
Toh wo bahut jaldi usne seekha tha.
Sunny
Yeah, so wo completely uski association thi aur aapne dheere dheere uske step build kare. Usko neeche lekar gaye and sabse badi baat thi ki aap khud pehle neeche utre right?
Speaker 9
Haan matlab usko push nahi kiya. Matlab maine main ek baar hum matlab maine socha matlab ki mujhe pata tha ki main peeche se push karoonga toh wo aise karega. Toh wo- kuch nahi karna hota. Toh mujhe pata tha ki aage jaakar usko dikhana padega ki safe hai, safe hai aa jaao.
Sunny
Khud jaana, khud jaana hota hai. So actually bahut saare client jab humare paas aate hain aur ye bolte hain ki Sunny bhai humara dog paani se darta hai, ye karta hai, wo swimming nahi karta toh main unse poochhta hoon swimming karane jab le gaye the, aap paani mein utre the kya? Toh bolte hain nahi.
Maine kaha jab aap khud hi nahi utre toh apne dog se kaise expect kar sakte hain ki pehli baar wo utrein.
and plus log ek aur galti karte hain peeche se push karna. peeche se push nahi karte. toh aap peeche se push nahi karenge toh phir dog kaise samjhega neeche jaane se. hum uske chest se usko lift karte hain aur generally puppyhood mein hota hai.
agar aapko paani mein nahi bhi jaana hai toh main aapko explain karta hoon kaise puppies ke andar se fear completely bachpan se hi hata dete hain paani ka. hum puppies ko unke chest se apna haath aise lekar jaate hain puppy yahan par hota hai poora ka poora. dikh raha hai kisi ko? kaise puppy hota hai?
puppy ko aise hum haath par aise rakhte hain aur aise haath se dheere se paani ke andar chhodte hain aur neeche se haath hata lete hain. dheere se, dheere se, dheere se. kiske aawaaz aa rahi hai? Kunal tere ko mute kar de ek minute. haan yeah. So, so jo puppy hota hai aur ye bachpan se humein karna hota hai.
bachpan se jab hum is tareeqe se karte hain ki humne puppy ko aise uthaya aur seedha paani mein jaakar rakha simple sa aur haath neeche nikaal liya puppy aise tairega aur waapas aapke paas aa jaayega.
jaise hi wo waapas humare paas aayega, hum usko phir pyaar se uthaate hain, phir same cheez karte hain aur same, same aisi tareeqe se rakh dete hain. over a period time kya hota hai na uska tezi se... wo pehli baar kya aayega? aise karke aayega, dar ke aayega. doosri baar phir aise aayega.
teesri baar dheere dheere aayega. chauthi baar dheere dheere aayega aur paanchvein baar aur dheere aayega. bas that's it aapka job khatam ho gaya. ab puppy phir khud decide karta hai andar jaane ka.
So yahan par jitne bhi dogs hai sab Indies hain aur Indies toh famous hai paani mein nahi jaane ke, paani ke, paani ke dar se. lekin yahan par saare Indies sab paani mein jaate hain kyunki unke saath sabke saath ye same cheez ki gayi hai.
naye dogs ke saath puppies ke saath jab bhi koi puppy aata hai, kind of unka baptism hota hai.
So main unko aise, inko aise uthaata hoon, puppies ko aise uthaata hoon aur paani mein se aise daalta hoon unko aur phir wo ghoom... sab every dog is, isse go undergo hua hai. sirf ek dog, ek dog nahi hua. sirf ek dog aur uska naam hai Tony aur Tony abhi bhi nahi jaata paani mein. sirf ek dog nahi hua. okay?
baaki saare ke saare dogs hue hain. sirf ek dog nahi hua aur wo nahi jaata. baaki jitne bhi dogs hai yahan par sab Indies hai aur sab khushi khushi jaate hain. paani se koi inko lena dena nahi hai. toh ye humein bachpan se hi karna hota hai puppies ke saath.
aur jitna jaise puppies bade hote jaate hain unka dar kisi bhi cheez se increase hone lag jaata hai. paani ka fear ek bahut hi important tool hai. agar aap bada dog bhi lekar aate ho na aur uske andar insecurity hoti hai toh usko swimming ke session par jab aap lekar jaaoge uske dar kam hone lag jaayenge.
Not just sirf paani ki taraf dar nahi, uski life ke dar kam hone lag jaayenge. getting the point? sirf paani ke dar khatam nahi hote uske ki bhai paani se ab nahi darega. wo aisa nahi hota. wo confidence develop kar leta hai paani se.
so paani ka dar jab humare paas insecure case aate hain toh hum ye poochhte hain paani se darta hai kya? ya swimming, swimming se darta hai kya? toh agar swimming se darta hai that is a good thing. That is a good thing. Why it is, it is a good thing?
humare paas option hai, opportunity hai us cheez ko revert karne ki, us cheez mein confidence lekar aane ke liye. aur wo kaise karte hain jaise Kunal ne kiya bade dog ke saath. bade dog ke saath kaise karte hain? hum pehle utarte hain. chhote dog ke saath kaise karte hain? puppy ke saath kaise karte hain?
haath mein aise pakad ke. bade dog ke saath kaise karte hain? hum pehle utarte hain aur hum usko lekar jaate hain aur is tareeqe se ek insecure dog ke andar confidence build hota hai.
wo apni life mein bhi confidence hone lag jaata, confident hone lag jaata hai. agar paani ka dar hai toh it is a good thing. So kabhi aapke paas insecurity ke cases aaye, kabhi aapke fearful ke cases aaye so this thing humne Prafull ji ko bhi shaayad ye bataaya tha ki usko swimming ka session do I think so.
humne unko bhi bataaya tha ki usko, usko aur baaki logon ko Reena ji ko bhi bataaya tha ki swimming ka session se improve hoga, lekin ek professional tareeqe se jaise Kunal ne diya, ek understanding ke base se. Professional nahi nahi phir bhi ek understanding ke base hai ki kaise usko lead karna hai. okay?
So that's a very good thing. agar swimming nahi aati hai dog ko aur swimming se wo darta hai toh dog mein confidence build ho sakta hai. It's a good thing. okay? Yes, Paresh ji.
Speaker 9
Sir, puraane time mein jab wo stairs pe a-stay top jo terrace hoti hai jahan pe usually water tank hota hai toh wo stairs pe gaps hota hai beech mein grill waale.
Sunny
haan.
Speaker 9
toh uske oopar Pari nahi jaati thi initially. toh mere ko bahut usmein time laga. lekin phir uske baad usko overcome kar liya tha. lekin bhai sahab ke saath recently jab wo chhota tha tabhi start kiya toh bahut jaldi overcome kar paaya main. kyunki wo neeche unko dekhta hai ki right?
Sunny
Yeah, that is very... ye bhi ek common thing hai ki humare matlab itne cases toh nahi aaye. lekin shuruwaat mein interesting case aaya tha jismein wo seedhi nahi chadhta tha. toh jab hum uske ghar pe gaye, wo seedhi is tareeqe ki thi. jaaliyon, jaaliyon waali. tab humein samajh gaya ki yaar ye yahan par gadbad hai.
lekin hum usko dheere, dheere, dheere karke oopar lekar gaye. waapas neeche lekar aaye. phir oopar lekar gaye. phir neeche lekar aaye. teen chaar baar mein wo ekdam wo ho gaya. shuruwaat mein bahut dheere se chadh raha tha.
phir dheere dheere chadh raha tha. phir aur dheere chadh raha tha. phir wo shaanti se chadh raha tha. lekin dog itni jaldi wo ho jaata hai and wo bhi confidence ki exercise hai. hai na? toh jahan dog ka dar humein dikh jaaye, wo ek opportunity hai. ye samajh ke chalna. wo ghabraane ki zaroorat nahi hai.
wo bura feel karne ki zaroorat nahi hai. wo ek opportunity hai. phir uske baad humein strategy create karni hoti hai ki yahan par ab confidence kaise lekar aa sakte hain. Same with ourselves. matlab it's like same with.
agar aapko kabhi apne andar dar dikh jaaye, ek fear dikh jaaye kisi bhi cheez ko lekar, wo ek opportunity hoti hai apne andar confidence build karne ka. aur confidence build sirf aapka jaise for example, Yashika ji ne likha abhi. Yashika ji ke main aa raha hoon aapke oopar bhi.
ki I myself have water phobia, so how do I handle Tin Tin? toh for example, kisi mein water phobia hai.
mere mein bhi tha. Okay, water phobia. mere mein bhi tha. So, agar kisi mein water phobia hai toh uske paas ek opportunity hai. sabse pehli baat toh humein pata nahi chalta ki humare dar kidhar hai. hai na?
jab humein pata chal jaaye ki humare-humara dar kya hai, wo ek golden opportunity hoti hai humare andar confidence develop karne ki.
For example, agar Yashika ji apna jo iska dar hai water ko lekar agar wo hata dein, wo overcome kar lein toh aapko ye lagta hai ki inka sirf confidence water ko lekar hoga ya life mein bhi ye more confident ho jaayegi? matlab obvious hi baat hai. Wa-- life mein bhi more...
toh lekin ye life mein more confident kaise ho jaayenge? matlab uska kya lena-dena hai? jo dog ke saath bhi hota hai aur wo insaan ke saath bhi hota hai. toh uske saath lena-dena kya hota hai? toh iske saath lena-dena main samjhaata hoon kya hota hai.
jab hum kisi cheez se darte hain, fearful aate hain, humare body ke andar cortisol release hote hain.
Stress ke hormone release hote hain. Hamare brain ke paas, mind ke paas agar ab-ability hai utna cortisol ke hormone ko jhelne ki toh hum usko overcome kar lete hain. So, ab deep mein jaake socho. Fear kya release karta hai? Cortisol. Samajh mein aaya? Fear kya release karta hai? Cortisol.
Water ka fear kya release karega? Cortisol. Stage pe jaane ka fear kya release karega? Cortisol. Apne boss se baat karne ka kya release karega? Cortisol. Fear hai toh. Okay? Apne-apne boyfriend se, apne relationship mein agar humein hard talk karni hai toh woh kya release karega? Cortisol.
Agar hamara brain ek jagah par usko overcome karna seekh jaata hai toh woh kya seekhta hai? Har jagah pe jo us level ka cortisol release kar raha hai usko woh overcome kar leta hai.
Toh ek complete chain break ho jaati hai hamare life ki. So, jab bhi like chain ka mera matlab hai jaise hum jis cheez se fearful karte hain ya phir hamare life mein kuch fear hai toh hamara behavior us fear ke according hota hai. Aap yeh sab cheez samajh sakte ho na?
Agar hum kisi cheez se fear kar rahe hain toh hamare actions us fear ke according honge. Yaani hum us fear se door rahenge. Bhale hi us fear se agar humne overcome kiya toh hamari growth ho sakti hai. Lekin hum kya choose karenge? Usse doo-usse door rehna, usse door rehna. Hamare actions kaise rahenge?
Usse door rehne ke. Hamare actions hamari life create karte hain. Yes or no? Hamari life create karte hain na hamare actions? So, agar hamare fear hamare actions create kar rahe hain aur hamare actions hamari life create kar rahe hain toh jab hum woh fear ko todte hain toh kya hota hai? Humein nayi life milti hai.
Different life milti hai.
And woh kayi baar aur fearful ho sakti hai kyunki da-hum, hum toh comfortable ho chuke hain apni existing life se. Toh isliye insaan fear ko break karne se bhi darta hai. fear se toh darta hai hi sahi, fear ko break karne se bhi darta hai kyunki life badal jaati hai. Okay. Yes, Yashika ji.
Yashika
Haan Sunny, mera yahi hai ki main khud paani mein nahi ja paati toh mujhe yahi lagta hai ki main Tin Tin ko kaise leke jaaun. Because main matlab yeh hai ki thoda-bohot paani hai toh, toh phir bhi main handle kar sakti hoon. But if like going in the pool and swimming with the dog, woh mere se nahi hota.
Main khud paanch.
Sunny
Swimming nahi. Yeah, swimming. haan. Swimming nahi kar, swimming nahi karni hoti hai humko. Generally like chaar foot ka jo pool hota hai ya teen foot ka, saadhe chaar foot ka toh aap wahaan par practice kar sakte ho dog ke saath. Usse bade mein nahi jaana. Okay?
Toh usse bade mein nahi jaana kyunki hum dog ko sambhaal rahe hote hain.
Aur agar humein already phobia aur already hum ghabra gaye toh phir dikkat ho jaayegi.
Yashika
Hmm.
Sunny
So, bade pool mein nahi jaana, bade pool mein nahi jaana hota aur bade pool mein bhi aage ki taraf chhoti space hoti hai, neeche jaake aur zyada hota hai.
Yashika
Haan, hmm.
Sunny
Toh aise-aise khelna hota hai, not aise-aise. Hai na? Jaise us, us level pe humein idhar se udhar karna hota hai toh aap phir handle kar sakte ho. Lekin of-of course, agar aap apne is fear pe kaam karoge toh it will really help you in your life. That, that is my.
Yashika
Sunny, maine do baar swimming karne ki koshish kari. I went. Main pa, jo baby waala pool hota hai, usmein mere haath pair yoon padna shuru ho jaate hain. Yeah, dekho.
Sunny
toh everybody is making fun.
Yashika
Yeah, see the, see toh, toh aapko fears, aapko paani se ke fear se ya woh fun jo mana rahe hain usse dar lagta hai?
Sunny
Matlab kind of. Ma'am dono hai.
Yashika
Mujhe matlab na main paani ke andar jaise hi ghusti hoon na, main aankhein nahi kholti.
Main dar ke maare aur matlab agar main kar bhi loongi toh aise hota hai. Toh mujhse hota hi nahi hai. Maine bohot try kiya because mera yeh tha, pehle toh yeh bhi tha itna ki main munh pe shower ka paani padta tha toh main bilkul ghabra jaati thi. Toh utna extreme nahi hai abhi. Maine kaafi us pe overcome kar liya.
But yes, I can't swim. Matlab main paani ke andar.
Sunny
We are same.
Yashika
Hmm.
Sunny
Yeah, we are, we are same in this. Toh mere saath bhi aise hi hota tha. Agar mere munh pe paani, ghutan se humein dikkat ho sakti hai bohot zyada.
Yashika
Hmm, hmm. Agar chaddar oopar aa gayi toh kaise karke uth sakte, uth sakte hain hum?
Sunny
Toh this is, this is com, so, yeh ghutan rehti hai and this is, uh, related to our emotions.
Yashika
Hmm.
Sunny
Expression of, of our emotions. So, it is not ki aapka fear se, aapko ghutan se dikkat hai, ghutan se. Matlab main apni life mein jo seekha, I don't know you but main apni life se jo seekha, mujhe paani se problem nahi thi.
Mujhe ghutan se problem thi. Kabhi aap aise soch sakte ho kisi gufa mein phans gaye ho, ekdam compressed ho gayi saari ki saari cheezein, ekdam pipe mein phans gaye ho kahin par.
Yashika
Haan.
Sunny
So, like it will be very, very matlab yeh aapke liye ek issue ho sakta hai. Like panic attack aa sakta hai agar aap kabhi is tareeke se... So, main, main aapko, main aapko story batata hoon sabko hi ki mera panic, actually mujhe bohot panic attack aata tha. Uh, is, uh, main raat mein dar-dar ke uth jaata tha.
This thing, claustrophobic kind of thing. Mujhe hamesha lagta tha ki mera dam ghut raha hai aur mere scene, mere dimaag mein scene aate the ki main gufa mein kahin par phans gaya. Aur kayi baar mujhe aisi news mil jaati thi ki ek insaan gufa mein jaate hain gufa ko explore karne mein. Ki toh kaise log hain yaar?
Kyun karte hain aisa kaam? Hai na? It's like ki gufa mein ja rahe hain aur wahaan par phans gaye hain and then all this thing. Toh it is very difficult for me to imagine all this thing.
Aur yeh cheez yahaan par aane ke baad khatam hui, jab main yahaan par shift hua. Is jagah par tab tak khatam nahi hui thi. So ek baar kya hua tha? Main akela tha. Matlab akela hi generally poore time yahaan par akela rahoon. Trapti toh abhi kuch time pehle aayi hai.
Toh jab main akela tha yahaan par aur bohot toofaan, main tent mein rehta tha. Toh mera ek tent tha aur maine cliff par woh tent lagaya hua tha. Main teen se chaar saal tent mein raha hoon. So main-maine-maine tent lagaya hua tha aur wahaan us din bohot toofaan tha.
Gajab ka toofaan tha aur mera pehla toofaan ka experience tha yahaan par. Chhota tent tha aur woh toofaan itna zyada bhayankar tha ki jo idhar waali jo tent ki deewar thi, woh mere munh par aa chuki thi. Munh par takra rahi thi. Toh tent poora fold ho chuka tha.
So ek claustrophobic aur uske oopar tent fold ho gaya aur ab main baahar nahi ja sakta kyunki baahar toofaan hai, bhayankar baarish aa rahi hai.
Bhayankar it's like kind of thing. So mujhe panic attack aa gaya us samay par. Lekin mere paas koi option nahi tha. Na mere paas koi tha. Mere ko us din us samay panic attack aa gaya aur meri poori body thar thar kaanp rahi aur mujhe rona aa raha bhayankar tareeke se.
Toh bohot-bohot thar thar kaanp rahi, thar thar kaanp rahi aur maine ek minute, ek thodi der mein socha zyada se zyada kya ho jaayega? Mar hi jaaunga, mar hi jaaunga. Hai na? Toh it's like aur koi option toh hai nahi mere paas. Sona toh yahin padega. Toh jab maine aisa socha, main aadha ghante tak hansta raha.
Woh dar khatam ho gaya mera aur main aadhe ghante tak meri woh poori yahaan par aayi hui thi aur main hans hi ja raha tha ki yaar main kyun faaltu mein dar raha tha in sab cheezon se.
So mujhe nahi pata woh cheez kaise khatam hogi but woh face karne se jab maine accept kar liya ki this is the thing mujhe accept karna hi hai.
Yeh jo hawa aa rahi hai, yeh jo toofan aa raha hai, uske baad main kabhi nahi dara. Kisi bhi toofan se nahi dara aur kisi bhi is tareeke se cheezein nahi dara. Kahin phansne se nahi dara. Mujhe sapne band ho gaye. Ye jo claustrophobic darane wale sapne aate the, ye sab cheezein band ho gayi.
Aur phir ye main baad mein jab study kar raha tha ki ye kyon aate hain? Ye emotions ke suppression se aate hain. Emotions ke suppression se hum, hum itne ghut chuke hote hain ki kuch bhi ghutan ka humse bardasht nahi hota hai. Getting my point main kya bol raha hoon?
Jab hum apne emotions ko suppress karte rehte hain out of anything kisi bhi wajah se. Hai na? Koi reason ka wo nahi hai. Bhale hi family aisi ho, bhale hi koi bhi aisa ho, tumhare kuch bhi aisa ho.
Lekin emotions ko agar tum suppress karne lag jaate ho aur bahut lambe time se karte rehte ho toh tum actually kar kya rahe ho?
Toh apne aap ko daba rahe ho. Apne aap ko ghot rahe ho. Bolte hain na Hindi mein like ghutan ho rahi hai kind of thing. Wo ghutan tabhi hoti hai jab hum apne emotions ko express nahi karte. So reason, mera reason claustrophobic ke is cheez ka yeh tha ki main apne emotions ko express nahi karta tha. Hai na?
Out of some reason main express nahi karta tha. So jab study kari then I started expressing things. Usse aur difficulties ho gayi but main claustrophobic se bahar nikal gaya. Hai na? In ghutan ke dar se bahar, bahar nikal gaya. Toh yes Yashika ji, jab aap work karoge iske upar wo confidence apne dog ke upar bhi hoga.
So agar aap apne dog ko confident banana chahte ho toh khud ka confidence bhi matter karta hai kyonki wo vibrations, wo cheez unko bhi impact karti hai. So hum, hum aisa kai-kai baar sochenge ki hum day to day life mein confident hain but wo jo fear hai wo hai toh andar hi na.
That dog can feel. Hai na? Okay. So khud ke upar kaam karna bhi ek skill hai. Khud ke upar bhi kaam karna ek skill hai aur wo aap dog ke andar bhi confidence build kar sakte ho jab aap khud ko confident karte ho. Okay? So khud ko confident karne ka matlab kya dog ke perspective se pack confident ho raha hai.
Jab pack confident ho raha hai toh dog ko kya feel hoga? Uska ek pack confidence wala hai. Uske pack mein confidence hai. Toh dog kya mehsoos karega? Confidence. So jab hum aise severe cases par jaate hain, wahan par hum sirf dog ke upar kaam nahi karte, wahan hum human ke upar bhi kaam karte hain.
Toh hum human, human ke fears ko samajhte hain aur phir strategy create karte hain human ke fear ke upar ki aap kaise aap is fear ko overcome kar sakte ho. So jab human us fear ko overcome karta hai, for example yaar hum ek case par gaye the, wo mera pehla case tha.
Super duper anxiety ka case tha. Wahan par hum gaye, hum anxiety, us samay main naya tha. Mujhe itna idea nahi tha. Matlab itna experience nahi tha aur main start hi kar raha tha. Mere, jo meri padhai thi wo yeh thi ki haan bhai human ki energy se fark padta hai lekin practical knowledge nahi thi us cheez ki.
Toh jab hum, hum wahan par gaye, ek super duper anxious case mila aur main uske upar work kar raha hoon us dog ke upar aur jo expectation thi meri us dog ke liye utni expect, changes ki, wo fulfill nahi ho rahi thi.
So ab mere ko samajh nahi aa raha yaar kya jo bhi cheezein hum kar rahe hain, sahi kar rahe hain lekin workout nahi kar raha. Ho sakta hai hamare mein galti hai.
Phir ek din jab main wapas gaya toh maine just dog ko chhod ke human ko observe kiya and jab maine yeh dekha ki human jis tareeke se baat karti hai, wo bahut rapidly baat karti hai. Tab mere ko itna knowledge nahi tha. Wo bahut rapidly baat karti hai aur uski aankhein idhar-udhar jaati hai.
Then I understood this is anxiety. Hum tezi se baat kar rahe the. She is like, she is like kind of thing. Ye hoga, phir ye hoga, phir aise hoga, phir aise hoga kind of thing. Toh this is anxiety. Then humne dog ko chhod ke uski anxiety par work kiya. Usko, phir usne humein kya feedback diya?
Humne usko breathing ke baare mein bataya. Wim Hof ki breathing maine aap logon ko bataya hai kya kisi ko Wim Hof ki breathing? So Wim Hof ki breathing anxiety and depression par work karti hai. So I practiced a lot of time this thing Wim Hof. Bahut lambe time tak maine practice kari.
Abhi practice nahi kar raha hoon but I think three-four years main consistent tha is breathing ko lekar. Humne wo breathing usko batai Wim Hof ki breathing hai. Jinhone nahi dekha please dekhiyega. Wim Hof ki breathing Tibet ke fire breathing par based hai but with a scientific perspective.
Tibet ki jo fire breathing hai wo, wo spiritual perspective hai. So main us perspective mein nahi jaane, jaane ke liye bol raha hoon aapko. Wo scientific perspective hai. So agar aapko dog ke upar confidence build karna hota hai toh humein human ko bhi dekhna hota hai.
So we gave this thing, anxiety wali ye Wim Hof ki breathing aur hafte bhar, do hafte baad jab unhone humko report back kiya toh unhone pata hai kya report back kiya? Jab main Wim Hof ki breathing karti hoon toh mera dog ghar par akele reh leta hai aur jab main nahi karti hoon toh wo akele nahi rehta hai.
Yeh kya, yeh kya, yeh kya gadbad hua bhai ki matlab jab tum Wim Hof ki breathing kar rahe ho toh tum kya ho? Tum shaant ho, tum more calm ho aur woh dog ki taraf jaata hai aur dog us din reh paata hai. Toh agar tum nahi ho aur toh dog nahi reh paata hai.
Toh unhone continue rakhi is cheez ko aur dog ke andar huge separation anxiety thi. Sofe se lekar har cheez woh phaad chuka tha. Lekin wo separation anxiety khatam ho gayi. Haan dog ke upar humne kaam kiya hi sahi lekin woh work nahi, work nahi kar raha tha jab tak human ke upar kaam karna start nahi kiya.
So kai baar clients mein aapko dono taraf work karna padega aur iski understanding abhi market mein nahi hai. Matlab hum kab, jab bhi, kabhi hum aap logon ke liye kahin ho sakta hai ki nayi cheez thi. Yaar apne dog ko theek karne ke liye mujhe apne upar work karna padega.
It's kind of thing kya, kya, kya iska logic hai? Kya iska logic hai? Toh but it works kyonki dog ko aapki energy se fark padta hai. Dog aapki energy ko absorb karte hain. Dog aapko imitate karte hain. Dog imitate karte hain sabko pata hai na. Dog ek doosre ko imitate karte hain, ek doosre ki nakal karte hain.
Animals ek doosre ki nakal karte hain. Toh dogs hamari bhi nakal karte hain. Hamari kis cheez ki nakal karenge? Hamari physiology, hamari chemistry, un sab cheezon ki nakal karenge. Toh dog ke andar bhi wo jaata hai. Toh dog agar insecure hai you have to work on yourself also.
So kai baar aapke clients aayenge jismein fearful dog dikhega toh aapko human ko bhi dekhna hoga. Kya human tense hai? Kya human, not from a judgment perspective but from a solution perspective. Humein yahan par solve karna hai. Is pack ko confident banana hai. Okay?
So pack confident sirf dog ko skill sikhaane se nahi hota. Most of cases mein sirf dog ko skill sikhaane se hoga. Lekin kuch aise cases aayenge aapke paas jismein human ko, par bhi work karna padta hai. Okay and then wahan par bond bhi achha create hota hai unke saath, human ki life bhi change ho jaati hai.
obvious baat hai na. Kisi ko pata hai matlab aap log, aap log is cheez ko understand karte hain na ki agar hamare andar confidence change hua toh hamari life change ho jayegi. This is like common, yeah so for example hamare andar itna confidence hai. Abhi hamari life aisi ja rahi hai.
Agar hamare andar ek percent confidence change ho gaya, sirf one percent, only one percent. Kuch time ke baad kya hoga? This is huge difference na. Woh ek percent kahan deviate karke lekar jayega? It's a huge difference.
So khud ke upar kaam karna what it's like woh khud ke liye toh achha hai hi sahi lekin woh dog ke liye bhi achha hai. Toh yes Ashita ji aapke haath pade. Bahut lamba baat bol di maine.
Ashita
So aapne jo abhi tent ki baat kari mere ko phir mera yaad aaya ki how did I overcome my fear also. So mere ko mera third expedition tha Friendship Peak ka.
Toh wahan par bahut saari stories bolte rehte hain ki yahan par iski death hui thi, wahan par waisa hua tha. Saari stories toh bahut hain. Toh ek koi person bahut tej bhaagta ja raha tha. Maine poocha, "Yeh kahan kiske peeche bhaag rahe ho?" Toh bole, "Nahi pichhle saal koi person mar gaya tha wahan par.
Toh uski body abhi tak nahi mili hai. Uski bottle mila hai, ice axe mila hai. Kuch-kuch cheezein mili hain, lekin uski body nahi mili hai abhi tak." Toh usko woh dhoondh rahe hain. Aur bachpan se mere dimaag mein mere ko bhooton se bahut zyada darr lagta tha.
And matlab main movie bhi dekh loongi lekin mere ko baad mein expedition karne ke baad usse mere ko bahut darr lagta tha. Na raat bhar nahi so paati thi. Toh main bachpan mein bhi agar kabhi movie woh bhi dekhna hai toh main Papa ko bolti thi ki, "Papa aap mere saath mein baitho ki mere ko dekhna hai." Okay.
Toh mera background tha ki mere ko bhooton se bahut zyada darr tha. Phir yeh us time maine yeh baat suni ki haan aisa-aisa hua tha is jagah mein aisa.
Aur phir us time first time aisa tha ki main solo tent mein so rahi hoon. Meri koi buddy nahi. Sab ladke the toh woh alag-alag tent mein, main akeli ismein thi. Toh ab raat mein sote-sote ekdum se meri neend khuli.
Mera jo tent ka zip hai wahan par mujhe ek ladka aise hi dikh raha hai aur mere ko dekh hi ja raha hai, ghoorte hue. Aur uski poori body frozen hai, melted hai aur waise jaise matlab jaise koi yahan par aa gaya hai mere tent ke andar. Mujhe waisa dikha.
Maine ekdum se aankh band kari aur maine Hanuman Chalisa padhi aur phir maine socha ki agar is point par main darne lag gayi toh meri mountaineering journey poori khatam. Iske baad- Yeah. Main trek nahi kar sakti. Kabhi kuch nahi aa sakti.
Sunny
Kabhi nahi ho gayi.
Ashita
Main aa hi nahi sakti. Main tent ke baahar hi step out nahi kar sakti hoon. Toh maine kaha zara kuch nahi hoga. Bas chupchaap tent mein baithe raho. Agar hua toh bhi kya karega? Maarega ya kuch bhi karega matlab mar jaaongi maximum, mar hi jaaongi main. Aur kuch nahi hone wala mere saath mein.
Toh maine bola theek hai jo hoga apni deep breathing kari maine.
Matlab normal jo breathing wagairah karte hain breath ke upar focus kiya. Aaraam se so gayi. Subah tak main aaraam se matlab bahut achhi neend aayi mere ko uske baad mein. Subah roti aa gayi ekdum fresh. Toh I was like itni chhoti thing thi. Main bachpan se pata nahi kyon darr rahi thi bhooton se.
Kuch saamne aayega dekhi jaayegi. But aise mann mein soch-soch ke darne se khud ka hi nuksaan ho raha tha. Toh- Yes, yes. Koi bhi thing hai jo maine fear ko overcome kiya khud ka. Ab mujhe nahi darr lagta. Ab toh main kitni baar ho gaya ki solo tents mein rehti hoon. Kuch bhi nahi pata.
Aawaaz bhi lagti hai, chalne ki bhi aawaaz aayi. Ghaas khaane ki aawaaz aati hai. Kuch bhi hoti hai. Matlab ab mujhe darr hi nahi lagta. Matlab woh bhoot wala thought hi nahi aata ki arre bhoot hoga yahan par. Toh bahut saare stories hote hain. Ignore matlab entertainment ke liye sunte hain bas story.
Sunny
Toh uske baad life change hui like kind of different.
Ashita
Uske baad maine phir mera basic mountaineering course bhi kiya. Next year advance bhi karne wali hoon aur bahut saare expeditions gayi. Toh fear toh mere ko lagta hi nahi hai matlab ab. Jaise course- Okay. Ke pehle bhi mere ko tha ki ya toh meri dead body ghar jaayegi ya toh mera certificate jaayega ghar.
Mere ko karna toh hai.
Sunny
Extreme.
Ashita
Haan, but ab mujhe marne se bilkul bhi darr nahi lagta hai ki ab theek hai hoga toh hoga. But jo apan extreme mein apan jo passion hai usko hum kar toh sakte hain bas.
Sunny
Dead body jaayegi ya mera certificate jaayega.
Ashita
Seriously yahi tha mere dimaag mein bas ki mera certificate mere ko milna chahiye. Chaahe main mar jaaoon ya kuch bhi ho jaaoon. Mere jee jaan laga dena mere ko iske liye.
Sunny
Haan wahi hai matlab yahan toh mar jaayenge toh mujhe yahin rehna hai. Matlab kind of thing wahi hum accept kar liya humne ki bhai ab toh yeh karna hi hai jeevan ka.
That's wahan se overcome, overcome hona chaalu hai. Acceptance woh log bolte bina acceptance kind of thing us samay samajh nahi aati jab tak apan is journey mein nahi jaate ki haan apan ko accept karne ka hai. Is situation mein nahi padte ki acceptance ke alawa aur koi chaara hi nahi hai.
Ashita
Haan.
Sunny
Yeah, that's a great, great story man, great story. Thanks for sharing.
Ashita
Yeah toh aur doosra yeh jo training ka tha matlab fear overcome jo Jackie ne aapko maine pehle uski video bhi bheji thi. Woh itna bhayanak darti thi. Aapne uska video ka woh bhi diya tha feedback wala. Ab yesterday hum log usko matlab mera bhai bhi tha toh hum teeno ko walk par lekar gaye the.
Toh Gabbar, Simba matlab Simba aur Jackie dono mere saath the aur Pranav ke saath mere bhai ke saath mein Gabbar chal rahi thi. Toh Gabbar apna aaraam se chal rahi hai. Jo bhi usko karna hai kar rahi hai. Jackie aur Simba dono ekdum aise saath-saath mein ja rahe hain.
Itni aaraam se ja rahe hain aur na koi agar traffic mein bhi koi matlab koi bike se pass ho rahi hai toh gaadi aa rahi hai. Halka sa woh darr rahi hai lekin Simba ke saath-saath, saath-saath woh chalte ja rahe hain. Bola chalo thoda sa jogging kar de apan.
Toh Pranav akela uske saath mein jog aaraam se kar liya Gabbar aaraam se aur phir Jackie bhi jog karne lagi. Main itni khush hui thi matlab main usko dauda rahi hoon aur Jackie bhi daud rahi hai. Poori colony mein daud rahi hai. Lekin jaise hi hamara gate saamne aa raha hai woh bol rahi hai ki nahi chalo chalo.
Main usko bolne lagi chal, chal, chal. Simba ko bahut achha lagta hai running karna. Toh main boli nahi chal Simba. Toh dono ke dono ja rahe hain aur itna mast bhaage. Mere ko itna achha laga dono ko dekh ke aur dono haath mein li thi toh main obviously record nahi kar paayi woh.
But bahut achha laga mere ko ki matlab itna- Behavior change, behavior change hue unke. Haan.
Sunny
Bahut confidence dikhne laga. Bahut toh obviously yaar woh jab bhi hum aise dogs ko apne dekhte hain ki pehle fearful tha aur kisi bhi tareeqe se more confidence dikha dete hain kisi situation par.
So bahut achha laga. Yeah that's a, that's a good thing, good thing.
Ashita
Yeah but abhi bhi darti hai. Bahut darti hai abhi bhi. But theek hai thoda time lagega bahut, bahut zyada darti hai.
Sunny
Haan kayi dogs mein jaise sensitivity woh lifelong chalti rehti hai. Humein seekhna hota hai ki usko manage kaise karna hai.
Ashita
Haan.
Sunny
Hai na usko darte hain aur unko confidence jaise yahan par bhi hai sensitive, do sensitive extra sensitive dogs hai so woh darr jaate hain aur unko humein, humein, toh humein dekhna hota hai ki ab unko kaise humein shaant karna hai, kaise comfort karna hai. Ab main yeh nahi bolunga ki woh kabhi nahi darenge.
Ashita
Haan.
Sunny
Main bas yeh bolunga jab bhi darenge humein pata hai ki comfort kaise karna hai tujhe, shaant kaise karna tujhe. Toh lifelong chalta hai sensory dog ke saath fear. Okay.
Ashita
Sorry kuch bol rahe the aap?
Sunny
Life long chalta hai. Bas humein samajh mein aa jaata hai ki kya kaise behave karna hai taaki woh shaant reh jaaye.
Ashita
Haan Jackie ka maine notice kiya hai ki maybe she is also trying to overcome her fear. Maybe I don't know. I may be wrong because pehle woh jaise Gabbar, Simba teeno ko main bahar chhodti hoon toh Gabbar, Simba andar aa jaate hain. Jackie bahar hi rehti hai aur sab cheez observe karti rehti hai.
Pehle toh koi agar patta bhi hila ya hawa chali ekdum se toh woh darr ke ekdum sabse pehle andar ghus jaati thi bahar. Ab woh baith jaati hai, dekhti hai. Darti bhi hai toh bhi thoda peeche aati hai lekin phir bhi observe karti rehti hai. Dekhti rehti hai ki kya chal raha hai, kya chal raha tha.
Main usko, main matlab ab usko bolna padta hai chalo andar, chalo andar, chalo andar toh phir woh aati hai. Toh aaraam se observe karna. Darr bhi rahi hai toh thoda peeche aakar ruk jaayegi. Dekhti rahegi, dekhti rahegi aur phir uske baad mein phir aaraam se matlab woh thodi calm hui hai abhi pehle se.
Sunny
Yes badlaav, badlaav dikh rahe hain. Badlaav continuous, consistent rakhoge toh badlaav aate rahenge uske andar. Lekin it's a good changes ki woh observe kar rahi hai.
observation chaalu hona it's a big thing dog ke andar otherwise continuously woh aise hi rehte hain. observation- pehle toh bahut hi zyada ho raha tha.
Ashita
Ab hai lekin comparatively bahut kam hai pehle se.
Sunny
Haan humein aise dekhna hota hai hamesha ki pehle jo behavior tha abhi improvement hai kya? Haan improvement hai toh continue. it's not ki humein, humein yeh nahi dekhna hota ki completely improve ho gaya kya? Nahi improvement hai let's continue, improvement hai let's continue.
okay good thing yaar thank you for sharing all this things. yeah cool hai. yeah yes Mayank.
Speaker 7
Hello yes Sunny so swimming waale perspective par mera ek point tha.
Sunny
Haan bol.
Speaker 7
So like pehle main mujhe bhi swimming se darr lagta tha.
so then maine later on thoda daring karke wagairah seekh liya.
then calculated risk lekar main kaafi explore karne laga toh that made me feel more independent and I have also observed ki more of jo bhi apna trips ka jo enjoyment ka jo main factor hai even if you go to a farmhouse you always want a swimming pool even if you go to Andaman-Nicobar whatever it is aapko Maldives jaana hai wahan par bhi paani ka factor hai.
Log samundar mein jaate hain so everything is mostly related to water aur maine yeh bhi ek reel dekha tha jahan par Indians ko zyada swimming nahi aa rahi hai toh woh bas boat mein baithe hain and other foreigners are like deep diving, scuba diving woh sab kar rahe hain and they are happy.
so fun factor is related to knowing swimming toh usse confidence bhi un logon ka badh raha tha. Toh same way I applied it on myself toh maine seekh li baad mein and again I thought the same way with my dog.
Toh abhi wahan par maine ek cheez observe ki Max pehle aisa tha ki samjho beech mein agar wire bhi hai laptop ki toh us wire ke upar se bhi woh koodta nahi tha.
Woh darta tha. Bahut, bahut- bahut se dogs hai, bahut se dogs, bahut se gharon, gharon ke dogs mein yeh simple si cheez nahi hai.
Sunny
Unko chhoti si cheez overcome karna nahi aati. yeah man continue.
Speaker 7
And then I, I bought Brownie toh aapne dekha hai Brownie kaise hai. so then apne sessions ke baad na I saw ki woh Brownie ko observe kar raha hai aur usko observe kar kar ke usmein daring thoda zyada badh gayi. Toh yeh jo basic ghar waale skills hai na ismein yeh aur better ho gaya.
Toh phir uske baad maine dono ko swimming ke liye introduce kiya thoda dheere-dheere. Toh uske baad maine yeh bhi observe kiya ki swimming ka hum log bolte hain ki swimming se confidence aata hai aur additionally ek point aisa hai ki samjho dog ka jo bhi anxiety, fear hai woh visionary thing ke liye.
Lekin usko vision mein jo bhi dikh raha hai ya phir kaan ko jo bhi sunayi de raha hai ya phir jo bhi smell ho raha hai, yeh teen points par uska hai.
Lekin paani ka specific aisa hai ki woh confidence kyun badha raha hai? Maine observe kiya ki unko pata nahi hai ki yeh brown water ke beneath kya hai.
Sunny
Haan.
Speaker 7
Toh woh usko aur ek uncertainty deta hai ki I am visually toh mujhe dikh raha hai paani mein toh darr raha hoon. Iske neeche kya hai woh toh bilkul nahi pata. Toh Max na pair daalne se bhi pehle darta tha.
Toh jab Brownie ko maine stones phenk phenk ke thoda sa daring sikhaya toh usko dekh ke abhi Max bhi jaane lag gaya aur maine bhi thoda usko push kiya khud ke saath. Jaise aapne bola you yourself have to go. Toh abhi usko samajh gaya.
Maine observe kiya ki main jaa raha hoon Aishwarya bahar ruk rahi hai toh Max khud nahi aata tha andar. Toh maine Aishwarya ko bola uski poori family chali jaayegi dono bina toh unke paas itna option nahi bachega toh they will start trusting aur phir woh bhi thoda-thoda aage aane lag gaya.
Toh aise karke abhi uske saare outings mein na you must have seen ki woh samundar mein bhi abhi humare peeche bhaagta hai. Pehle toh woh waves ko darr ke peeche bhaag jaata tha.
Abhi woh kaafi andar aata hai. So that was one point ki they are just not sure ki paani ke beneath kya hai, paani kitna deep hai. Toh sensitive dog ko woh aur unsure bana ke woh aur darte hain. Aur uske upar agar ek baar unhone understand kar liya ki iske matlab ismein itna darne jaisa kuch hai nahi.
Toh that is also a thing ki abhi jo bhi usko visionary yeh lagte the, threats lagte the ya phir unsure tha woh, us par abhi woh kaafi confident ho gaya.
Toh nowadays abhi Max toh literally aise samjho hall se bhaag ke aaya toh sofa par do pair laga ke chauthe pair, third, fourth pair laga ke aise cross, jaise hum log deewaar par dogs usually karte hain na, toh yeh sab cheezein bhi abhi woh karne laga hai.
Abhi us din toh surprisingly sofa ke ek side se aise brownie chadh gaya aise directly upar, bahut badi height hai. Max toh usse better way mein bahut aise aasaani se chadh gaya as if he is been doing it from years.
Toh hum log ko thoda astonished the dekh ke. But aapne jaise bola ki main hai ki graph upar badh raha hai kya? Confidence badh raha hai kya? Yes, there are many things which we still need to work on him. But woh confidence ke hisaab se swimming has helped a lot.
And jaise aapne bola woh, aapne jo bola na cheezon par chadh jaao. Toh abhi recently humare yahan par bade-bade pipes rakhe the. Toh main khud us par chadh gaya tha. Maine pehle brownie ko chadhaya, chalaya like chhah, chhah, saat pipes the bade-bade. Toh Max bhi chala mere saath, aaraam se utra.
Toh yeh daily beech mein agar samjho kuch lakdi aati hai toh main aise U-turn nahi maarta ya phir left nahi maarta hoon. Main uske upar lekar jaata hoon, usko jump bolta hoon toh woh jump karta hai.
Toh yeh chhoti-chhoti cheezein daily life mein jahan par bhi chance mile wahan par kara hai na, toh isse dog mein for sure confidence aa raha hai. Aur kids ka bhi same hai. Unse agar hum skating sikhaayein na toh by default unka body language ya phir body balance hai na, woh chalte-chalte better ho jaate hain.
Woh sab jagah thess khaake girte nahi hain jab woh skating seekh lete hain ya cycling. Toh same hai dog mein bhi hai. Swimming aur yeh baaki ke agility course, course nahi bol raha hoon, matlab baaki ki cheezein karaayein toh baaki kya matlab life mein in general bhi unka confidence badh raha hai.
Yeh maine khud observe kiya abhi recently.
Sunny
Yes, absolutely. Toh yeh, yeh hum, humein sab kya yeh insights deta hai. Kyunki this is very, dekho dogs mein insecurity kitni common hai. Aap isi group mein dekh rahe ho kitni insecurity common hai. So it is pretty very common. Lekin logon ko pata nahi hai karna kya hai.
Toh jitne bhi insights hai na yeh kaam aate hain. Matlab aap logon ko bata sakte ho aur yeh logon ko bata ke aap kya kar sakte ho, unke dogs ki life improve kar sakte ho aur unki improve kar sakte ho. And these all things work karti hai. Lekin dog to dog work karti hai.
So aap jo yahan par information le rahe ho, yahan par knowledge le rahe ho toh aap yahan par dog ko samajh rahe ho.
Lekin uske saath-saath aap strategies bhi samajh rahe ho. So hamare mind kaise kaam karne lag jaayega ki dog ko samjhega aur uske baad strategy choose karke unko bata dega. So this way you will be able to help many dogs. Yes, Kashish.
Speaker 7
I will just keep it very quick. Mujhe do cheez thi. First one, jo apna depress-- separation anxiety ka baat hua tha pehle. So mere pup, mere puppy ko jab wo chhota tha, I started training him, 45 days ka hua tab se I started training him. Maine uska puppy phase dekha hi nahi.
So basically ye jo separation anxiety hai, isko overcome, isko overcome karne ke liye let's say usko maine ek din band kamre mein rakha. I kept him for five minutes. Main, wo raha. Main andar aaya. Maine usko treat diya. Maine usko good boy bolkar appreciate kiya.
Aur main gradually ye five ko 10, 10 ko 15, 15 ko hours mein lekar gaya.
Toh ye I just want to know ki ye, ye cheez sahi hai ya galat hai. Galat hai toh hum baad mein discuss karenge.
Sunny
Ekdam sahi hai aur is par maine blog post bhi kiya hua hai. Maine videos bhi banaye hue hain aur courses banaye same concept par. Ki dog, aur yahi concept hum separation anxiety wale dogs par bhi run karte hain. Sirf puppies ke upar bhi nahi. Gradually increase karna, gradually increase karna.
But after giving exercise, enough exercise.
Speaker 7
Okay, okay.
Sunny
So this is exactly, exactly the same strategy jo hum recommend karte hain, jo aapne implement kari. But after the exercise, not before that.
Speaker 7
Okay, okay. The second thing is I will keep it again very short. Mera dog meri har command maanta hai wo, theek hai. Let's say kabhi nahi maana hai. Agar zyada log hai, distraction hai, kuch bhi hai aur wahi same command main second time usko snap karta hoon, chutki bajata hoon toh wo sun leta hai.
Sunny
Haan, sun leta hai.
Speaker 7
Toh main, iska mujhe difference matlab kyon, kya reason hai, iska reasoning de sakte ho?
Sunny
Wo dog ek time par ek hi jagah par focus kar sakta hai. Ek time par ek hi jagah par focus kar sakta hai. Agar ghar mein bahut saari cheezein ho rahi hain toh uska mental stimulation badha hua hai.
So usko focus karna, aapne kabhi apne andar nahi dekha ki apna agar mental stimula-- agar hum focused nahi hain kisi par toh hum samajh nahi paate log kya bol rahe hain. It's like agar main yahaan par baat kar raha hoon aapse aur aap yahaan par focused nahi ho toh aap mujhe samajh paaoge kya?
Aap mujhe samajh nahi paaoge. Dog ke saath same cheez hoti hai. Jab aapne chutki bajayi toh usne kya, aapne uska focus aapki taraf liya. Wo aapko aisa disrespect nahi kar raha tha. Wo focused hi nahi tha. Toh kai baar hum dog ko kaise focus lagate hain? "Ae!" aise karke wo hamari taraf focus lekar aate hain.
Ya usko hum touch karte hain ya jo aapne suna hoga, hai na, is tareeqe se hum, is tareeqe se hum bolte hain.
Wo hum kar kya rahe hain? Uska focus apne upar lekar aane par. Aur jab hamare upar focus aata hai tab hum bolte hain, "sit", usse pehle nahi. So ye humein kya insight deta hai? Jab dog focused nahi hai, commands nahi dene ka. Okay, ye bad habit unke andar, wo commands ko ignore karna start kar dete hain.
Commands matlab unse jo bhi aap cheez unse communicate karna chahte ho. Hai na, wo communicate nahi kar, aap us samay communicate nahi kar sakte. Dog focused hona bahut zyada zaroori hai. For example, yahaan par dogs hain.
Hum baahar jaate hain, hum off leash rehte hain aur dogs yahaan par bahut door-door chale jaate hain jab hum walk par jaate hain. Agar mujhe unko waapas bulaana hai toh aur kahin main waapas ja raha hoon toh main unko aawaaz deta hoon.
Aawaaz kam karne ke liye nahi, ek tez aawaaz deta hoon jo, kahin na kahin par "pup" karke aise aawaaz deta hoon taaki unka attention main apni taraf, unka focus main apni taraf lekar aa sakoon.
Jaise hi unka focus meri taraf aata hai, main opposite direction mein ya toh bhaagne lag jaata hoon ya phir tez chalne lag jaata hoon. Wo ek signal kya deta hai? Pack ke leader ne unko attention apni taraf li aur ab pack ka leader kya communicate kar raha hai?
Ki pack udhar ja raha hai, opposite direction mein ja raha hai. Lekin bina focus liye main kar sakta tha kya? Bina focus liye hum ye nahi kar sakte. So ghar mein bhi ye same exact, ghar ke liye bhi hai na. Wo dog kahin aur hai toh hum uska focus apne upar lekar aayenge and then phir usko command denge.
Wo disrespect nahi kar raha. Aapki baat nahi sunenge kyunki baaki sab, toh log kya sochte hain, "Dekho baaki sab log hain toh hamari baat nahi maan raha." Aisa nahi hai. Wo baaki sab log hain toh wo distracted zyada hai. Hai na distracted zyada hai. Toh isliye hum usko focus apni focus apni taraf lekar aaye.
Speaker 9
Thanks, thanks.
Sunny
Cool hai man. Yes, Paresh ji aapke haath pe hand raise hai. Ki pair purana wala hai? Abhi wala hai kya?
Speaker 9
So this I have recently figured out. Bhai sahab baahar lekar main ja raha hoon kyunki abhi pehli baarish hai usne experience kar liya. Toh-- Oh. ...Mitti jab geeli hai toh wo mitti pe nahi jaayega.
Sunny
Nahi jaayega. Pair rakh leta hai, aise aise karega potty nahi karega.
Speaker 9
Aur maine aapki technique apnayi. Wo slip leash lagayi. Aisa kiya ki wo peeche na jaaye. Jaise hi aage aaya toh maine pyaar kiya. Abhi dheere dheere thoda normal ho raha hai. Lekin main hamesha susu potty mitti pe hi karwaata hoon. Road pe nahi karwaata hoon right? Lekin wo mitti pe ab susu nahi kar raha.
Ab mitti poori geeli hai toh road pe aake hi susu kar raha hai.
Sunny
Yeah, uske paws bahut zyada sensitive hain. So ek baar ek kisi matlab humne bahut time pehle kisi ne like hum jab ja rahe the yahaan se matlab hum kabhi driving karte hue jaate hain yahaan se aur baarish ho rahi hoti hai. So saare dogs road pe so rahe hote hain. Hai na?
Aur log bolte hain are yaar ye dogs road pe kyon so rahe hain? Are yaar ye dog road pe kyon so rahe hain? Are road sookha hai yaar isliye road, road pe so rahe hain. Wo side mein nahi, nahi so rahe. Toh baarish hote hi dogs yahaan par aa jaate hain. Unko geele se dikkat aati hai. Unko geelepan se problem aati hai.
So jaise hi wo agar kisi dog ka paw sensitive hai toh usko aur zyada dikkat aati hai. Hai na? Toh jiske andar thodi si khaaskar kin dogs ko sabse zyada dikkat aati hai?
Jo thode se unsure rehte hain. Cheezon ko lekar jinka pair baar baar aise upar ho jaata hai ya phir wo thode se unsure rehte hain ya phir wo thode se un, unmein thode se anxiety ho sakti hai. Unko in sab cheezon mein dikkat aati hai ki are yaar ye pair, ye kya cheez hai? Hai na?
Wo is tareeqe se karne, karne lag jaayenge. Lekin over a period time ye solve ho jaati hai. Lekin ek funny bhi dikh sakti hai aapko. Unka poora face change ho jaata hai.
Speaker 9
Haan.
Sunny
Aisa lagta hai ki kya disgusted cheez pe maine pair rakh diya apna. Bhale gobar pe rakh denge wo chalega unko lekin us zameen, geeli zameen pe wo nahi chalta unko. So that's the, ye kaafi common hai aur khaaskar ye sensitive dog ke paws uski body mein sabse zyada sensitive hote hain. Dog ke paws.
Speaker 9
Just imagine na bhai sahab gali ke baahar ja raha hai.
Har jagah ko off hai bhai sahab ka. Bhai sahab bahar hai, bhai sahab bahar hai. Aur jis din baarish ho gayi bhai sahab khud hi pair nahi rakh raha. Toh bada ajeeb sa.
Sunny
Also wahi, wahi uske paws kaafi sensitive hain, kaafi sensitive hain paws. Toh sensitive paws ke kaaran hota hai aur ye kaafi natural hota hai. Lekin dogs overcome kar lete hain agar hum lagataar unko dete hain aur koi option nahi dete. Jaise tent mein humare paas koi option nahi tha toh humein karna pada na.
Aashika ji ko bhi karna pada. Saamne aadmi khada hota bhai. Hai na? Toh agar koi aur option nahi dete toh wo kar lete hain aur wo accept kar lete hain. Chalo bhai ab disgusted cheez pe rakhna hi hai pair. Chal hi rakh, rakh hi lete hain toh chal dete hain wo. Cool hai. Cool hai man. Yes, yeah Aashika ji.
Yashika
Mera ek behavior se related question hai.
Sunny
Haan.
Yashika
So abhi main teen din ke liye bahar gayi hui thi aur main Tendin ko saath mein lekar gayi thi and two of my friends were there.
Maine unhein bol diya tha ki bilkul ignore, no touch, no eye contact and all jab wo tumhare paas hai. Maine haath bhi nahi lagaane diya.
Sunny
Haan.
Yashika
Ye teen din touchwood bahut achhe se raha. No snapping and all. But ek cheez ne poore usmein bahut weird ki. Jaise raat mein hum log baithe hue the and we were all lying down aur ye sudden hi aaya.
Sunny
Haan.
Yashika
Khelte-khelte aur oopar meri friend ke oopar aise chadh gaya aur kar raha tha. Toh mujhe ye samajh mein nahi aaya ki what was he trying to do?
Sunny
Yaar wo dekho dogs, dekho dogs do time pe aise zabardast growl kar sakte hain. Ya toh wo kisi ko aise dekh rahe hain.
Yashika
Hmm.
Sunny
Okay? Ya wo kisi ko aise dekh rahe hain.
Yashika
Hmm.
Sunny
Toh aapke time pe wo dog ho sakta hai wo is tareeqe se dekh raha ho.
Yashika
Haan, wo oopar hi matlab hum logon ke oopar hi wo khade hokar yoon kar raha tha.
Ab wo toh thankfully chhota hai. Hmm.
Sunny
Ab jaise aapki friend hai. Ab aapki friend ko hai na no touch, no talk toh jaise hi oopar chadha wo, wo thoda dar toh gayi hongi.
Yashika
Hmm.
Sunny
Hai na? Unke andar thodi, thodi tharthar toh kaamp gayi hongi.
Yashika
Yes.
Sunny
Toh ek territorial dog oopar chadha hua hai. Neeche koi tharthar kaamp raha hai toh wo kya karega? Uska natural behavior kya hai? Wo growl karega. Hai na? So wo uska natural behavior tha ki wo growl karta hai wahan par. Toh wahan par humein bas uska collar pakad ke usko hata dena tha wahan se. Kaise hataya aapne?
Kaise hataya?
Yashika
Wahi maine isko pakad ke distract hi kiya kyunki ye snap kar deta nahi toh. Ye pehle ek baar kar chuka hai.
Sunny
Haan.
Yashika
Maine ise distract karke hi maine ise hataya wahan se. Phir maine neeche bitha diya ise. Aur phir maine leash pe hi pakde raha jab tak ye thodi der normal nahi hua.
Sunny
Yes, yes, yes. Wo aise, aise karna hota hai. So generally dekho jab, jab chhote dogs ya in sab tareeqe ke cases aate hain humare paas jo snap karte hain toh as a professional hum kai baar apna haath de dete hain like snapping ke liye.
Main sabke liye nahi bolta but hum uska collar pakadte hain aur dog snap karna chaalu kar deta hai.
Yashika
Hmm.
Sunny
Hai na? Haath is tareeqe se. Lekin hum collar is tareeqe se, like sabke liye nahi bol raha, jismein apni strategy bata raha hoon, hum kaise karte hain.
Yashika
Haan.
Sunny
Bhale wo chhota dog ho ya phir bada dog ho. So hum collar ko uski jawline pe aise pakadte hain. Usko choke karne ke liye nahi. Toh usse kya tha? See ab wo, wo kaat paata hai kya? Wo aise kaat nahi paata. So multiple try, try karta hai aur humara haath calmly wahan rehta hai.
Toh dog ko samajh mein aa jaata hai ki agar ye mujhe collar pe haath lagayega toh main snap nahi kar sakta. But wo ek is tareeqe ki usko lagna, otherwise dog nahi samajhta. Wo hamesha touch collar sensitive rahega hi. Aur maine iski ebook bhi likhi thi. Meri ebook mein bhi hai ye.
Uh, jismein maine ye bataya hai ki bachpan se hi collar sensitivity kaise hataani hoti hai.
Agar hum bachpan, kyunki koi bhi dog collar sensitivity develop kar sakta hai.
Yashika
Haan.
Sunny
Isko collar sensitivity bolte hain. In collar sensitivity ka matlab gardan pe haath lagaana is a big deal for dogs. Okay, it's a big deal. Hum collar lagakar unko wo kar dete hain, desensitize kar dete hain. Lekin it is a very big deal for them.
Jab unke, unke gardan pe is tareeqe se haath, haath lagta hai, kuchh bhi lagta hai. Lekin agar aap apna haath bhi laga rahe ho toh wo kya karega? Usko pressure zyaada feel hoga. Apni gardan par aur dog by default jahan gardan par pressure feel hota hai aur wo territorial hai toh snap karta hai.
Wo snap karta hai toh hum bachpan se puppies sabse zyaada snap kaun karta hai? Puppies, puppies snap karte hain. Unko bilkul bhi idea toh jitni bhi puppies ki concern waise main puppies consultation kam hi leta hoon lekin jitni puppies ki consultation ye usmein one of the activity hai.
Jab hum wo bahut uttejit ho raha hai, bahut aroused ho raha hai aur jab wo bahut aroused hota hai tab main jaakar uska collar pakad leta hoon.
Okay wo collar isliye pakadta hoon taaki uska snapping behavior aaye snap karne ke liye taaki usko us samay samajh mein aa jaaye ki wo snap nahi kar sakta aur ye collar sensitivity bilkul khatam.
Toh kabhi aapke paas puppies ki consultation aaye usko wo laakar humein uske uske collar ko pakadna hota hai taaki wo human par kabhi bhi snap nahi karein. Toh humein collar ko hi pakadna hota hai. And then puppy kya karta hai? Are hatna, are hatna jaise like bachhe karte hain. Wo is tareeqe se behave karta hai.
Are hatna, are hatna aur is tareeqe se kaatta hai. Lekin hum apne haath ko chhodte nahi shaanti se. Toh ye unke andar collar sensitivity ko khatam kar deta hai. Zero kar deta hai. Wo phir collar sensitive nahi hote. Kyunki hum, hum aggressive nahi hai. Hum frustrated nahi hai.
Hum just calmly usko humne is tareeqe se pakda hua hai. Wo poora usne apna behavior kar chuka. Poora panic mein ja chuka. Poora kar chuka. Lekin humari taraf se frustration nahi gayi. Humari taraf se anger nahi gaya toh wo samajh jaata hai this hand is equal to safety.
Iska matlab yeh nahi hai toh dog ke andar collar sensitivity khatam ho jaati hai. Bachpan se karte ho wo bahut. Meri ebook hai Five Skills of a Rockstar Puppy kind of fancy name again toh kuchh toh hai. Rockstar Puppy paanch skills hai aur paanch skills mein collar sensitivity mentioned hai uske andar.
I will I think maine resources mein shaayad share nahi kari toh main share kar doonga. Go through it. Wo ek good read hai. Matlab chhoti si hai lekin aapko kaafi cheezein samajh mein aayega kaise puppies ke saath humein wo karna hota hai taaki usko unko ek achhi life mile.
Okay different, different cheezein hum cover kar sakte hain.
Yes, Prafull ji last question guys okay uske baad aap logon ki exercise hogi.
Yashika
Mujhe yahi case ke liye poochhna tha ki unka dog matlab teen din tak normal rehne ke baad last day par usne kyun aise kiya? Like bed ke oopar jump karke unke oopar matlab kya reason se wo aaya hoga?
Sunny
Jaise hoga kya Yashika ji like jab jis samay par ye kiya toh us samay kuchh excitement ho raha tha ya dog playful kar raha tha ya phir aap hans rahe the. Ekdam hansi chaalu hui aur aap lete hue the.
Yashika
Khel, khel raha tha ye. Hum log khel rahe the aur khelne ke baad ye thak gaya tha aur ekdam phir oopar aaya.
Sunny
Okay, so toh khelte-khelte oopar aa gaya tha.
Yashika
Haan.
Sunny
Wo arousal wo khelna. Wo khelte-khelte oopar pahunch gaya. It's just excitement ka wo tha Aashika ji. So excitement excitement ka tha aur aisi opportunity ho gayi ki wo wahan par wo leti hui thi.
hai na? aisi opportunity usko pehle nahi aisi opportunity ho gayi toh like woh uske upar chadh gaya. It's not ki jaanboojhke woh unke upar chadha. woh bas khelte-khelte wahan pahunch gaya. jaise bachche khelte-khelte.
Yashika
He felt that she is also scared that's why he growled.
Sunny
nahi, woh toh unka behavior rehta hi rehta hai. agar woh kisi upar chadh gaye aur woh like thoda sa yoon hue kyunki woh dari hongi. hai na? thoda sa yoon hue aur woh bola hil mat okay aise hil mat. bas usne ye bola. usne unko bola ki hilo mat. aisa nahi ki kya kar rahi hai? kyun kar rahi?
bas ek hi dialogue tha hilo mat.
Yashika
Sunny ek cheez aur in case agar main wahan par nahi hoti just asking toh aisi situation mein kya hona karna chahiye?
Sunny
ab ekdam, ekdam uth sakte ho. nahi ruko. agar direct see agar, agar baithe rahe aur aapko lag raha hai ki ab main dar rahi hoon, main dar rahi hoon, dar rahi toh bite ho jayega.
woh pakad lega toh ekdam dog agar upar aa gaya toh poora aise hil sakte ho. dog ko imbalance kar sakte ho. okay dog imbalance ho jayega toh woh hat jaaye, woh hat jayega. so kuchh bhi- meri case mein toh ye kaat dega ye toh 100%. nahi toh, toh like jaise abhi agar aap nahi the toh ya toh woh still ho jaati.
agar still possible, still possible nahi hai toh ekdam hil, hil ke usko hata dete. tez hata jab dog imbalance ho raha hai na woh kuchh nahi kar sakta.
Yashika
Okay.
Sunny
woh apne aap ko balance karne lagega. woh ye karega. is tareeqe se karega. apne aap ko balance karega aur phir aapki taraf aayega. toh itne mein hum kuchh cheez le sakte hain protect karne ke liye aur cheez ke liye lekin woh okay yes, Prafull ji.
Prafull
do sawaal hai. ek toh today we went for a trek.
Sunny
haan, bola tha aapne.
Prafull
Yeah, toh it was a really good experience. us par socialization wagairah bhi hua. toh I had one question about jo sensitive dogs hote hain nervous, sensitive dogs jaise Kulfi bhi waise hi hai.
toh if there are people running around aas-paas and say there is noise ya you know there is some sort of commotion toh he gets riled up usse.
Sunny
Yeah, yeah.
Prafull
toh ise kam karne ka ya phir ise handle karne ka what is the right approach? How do we start?
Sunny
Yeah, so the first thing is ki as such dogs ko excitement se issue hota hai excitement se. so bachche bhaagenge dikkat hoga, tez gaadi chalegi dikkat hoga, tez gaadi bike aawaaz karti hui jaayegi toh, toh, toh dikkat hoga.
so aise mein again humein like jab slip leash ka istemaal karna hota hai ya phir koi bhi leash ka istemaal karna hota hai dog ke saath aur dog short leash par rehta hai toh dog jaise hi riled up hota hai use ghumaakar humein waapas se apne side mein baithana hota hai. this is the only step.
jab bhi woh riled up hota hai, hum usko ghuma kar apne paas waapas baithate hain. woh phir riled up hota hai. phir usko ghuma kar waapas apne paas baitha dete hain. toh aise hum continuous basis par karte rehte hain toh uske baad usko in sab simple hai. unko in sab cheezon se asar karna band ho jaata hai.
zero ho jaata hai. it's not koi complex cheez hai. humein lagaataar yahi cheez karni hoti hai. bas repetition zyaada hota hai. yahi complex cheez hai iske andar. is cheez ke repetitions zyaada karne hote hain humko. so aap kisi bhi dog ko improve kar sakte ho.
bhale hi woh fearful dog ho, anxious dog ho, territorial dog ho.
agar woh kisi bhi cheez se riled up ho raha hai usko baar-baar ghuma ke humare paas lekar, isliye maine aapko shuruwaat mein bhi bataya tha ki skills seekhna dog ko aage ghuma kar waapas apne peeche lekar aakar baithana. maine kitni baar calls mein is cheez ke baare mein baat kari hai.
ye bahut saare issues ko khatam kar deta hai. toh dog ko kya sikhaata hai? Stimulant aaya, tu riled up hua, usko block kiya gaya aur tere ko waapas baithaya gaya. Animal apni energy waste nahi karti. Okay, ye unka nature hota hai. woh apni energy ko waste nahi karte.
jab unko samajh mein aata hai ki ye possible nahi hai toh woh karna hi band kar dete hain. lekin unko kab samajh mein aata hai ki possible nahi hai? Repetitions. So ismein ek hi cheez complex hai aur woh hai repetition. hai na? woh hai repetition. So humein lagaataar karna hota hai.
agar humne ek baar bhi chhod dete hain hum toh thodi progress slow ho jaati hai.
lekin repetition woh karta hai. lekin karna yahi same cheez hota hai. toh sim-bahut simple hota hai. lekin repetition ek complex thing hai iske andar, complex cheez hai.
Prafull
Kulfi ke case mein actually it goes from zero to eight ya ten kaafi quickly. woh threshold aur he is a pretty powerful guy toh use ghuma ke laana, this I will, a...
Sunny
See, main, main, main batata hoon is cheez ko kaise, kaise karte hain. So woh powerful... humein uski power ko direct challenge nahi karna hota. uski power ko use karna hota hai.
Prafull
Very correct.
Sunny
jo power, haan, jo powerful dogs hote hain na woh ekdam flight maarte hain. aise maarta hai, aise sab karke aise, aise, aise flight maarte hain. jab woh aise flight maarte hain na toh hum, hum uske saath ghoom jaate hain. hum seedha isko peeche nahi kheenchte.
jaise dog aage flight maar raha hai toh hum haath aise jaata hai humara.
lekin humari timing off hoti hai. The reason is timing off. hai na? Because woh abhi instinct develop nahi hui hai aapke Praful ji. woh instinct, woh instinct kyunki abhi kya hota hai na, abhi yahan se soch jaati hai aur uske baad haath move hota hai. woh slow hai. Dog ke perspective se. kyun?
kyunki dog instinctual hote hain. Instincts are faster than thoughts.
Prafull
Yeah.
Sunny
Okay. Yeah instincts ke reaction faster. jaise koi ball aa rahi hai, aapne aise pakad liya. woh thought tha ya reaction ya fa-woh instincts the humare. hai na? These are instinct, these are reflexes. hai na? So woh thought se pehle. agar main soch rahi hoon ball aa rahi hai aur pakad, itne mein toh nikal gayi ball.
woh instincts hote hain, woh instincts hote hain humare. So instincts abhi develop nahi hui. usmein agar humari instinct develop, dog ke saath instinct develop hoti hai humari aur tab humari timing uski timing se match hone lag jaati hai.
agar zero se eight woh turant ja raha hai toh. So isliye aapko time lagega uske saath, practice lagegi. lekin woh, woh problem kidhar hai? Timing off hai. Timing kyun off hai? abhi instinct develop nahi hui. abhi yahan se soch ke ho raha hai ki ye aage ja raha hai, ye react kar raha hai, ab main aise ja raha hoon.
hota kya hai? Over a period time ye automatic ho jaata hai. toh dog yoon jaata hai aur apna haath yoon jaata hai turant. nahi toh abhi kya hai? Dog yoon chala gaya aur uske baad tension aayi and then uske baad haath yoon gaya. Correct? aise hota hai. So over a period time ye change ho jayega.
abhi change nahi hoga, lekin over a period, isliye bola repetition, repetition. matlab ho sakta hai Kulfi ke saath hum aayein, matlab jiske paas ye skill develop ho chuki hai instinct, toh usko kam repetition lagegi.
jiski skill develop nahi hui hai ye, usko zyaada repetition lagegi kyunki abhi woh pehle khud ki skill bana raha hai.
Phir uske baad wo transfer hoti hai dog ke andar. Aap phir perfect hote ho. Lekin is par time lagta hai. Zero se eight hai na Kulfi ka. Zero se four jaata toh that's a different, tab timing thoda kam zaroorat hoti. Lekin zero se eight, zero se ten timing perfection ki tay-wo lagti hai phir wahan par.
Toh wo dheere-dheere develop hoti hai phir wo. Practice se dheere-dheere nahi bolunga, practice se develop hoti hai.
Prafull
Sunny I remember aapne kaha tha is par ek video bhi hai jo aapne, aap ne banayi hui hai, right? How to redirect.
Sunny
Haan yaar, banayi bhi toh maine bahut saari video, share nahi kari hai maine.
Prafull
Bataya tha ek baar ki matlab jo muzzle ye hai chehra usko aage se you just redirect it so that he automatically body follows. You...
Sunny
Yeah.
Prafull
The person ko change kar.
Sunny
Waapis check kar lunga. Ek slow, ek wo bhi hai kya bolte hain, jismein dog react nahi kar raha, lekin main slowly bata raha hoon ki haath se kaise move karna hota hai.
Wahi cheez aap tezi se bhi kar sakte ho. Toh main slowly wala bhi share kar deta hoon aapko ki slowly kaise hum, main slowly sikha raha hoon uske andar. Jaise dog aage ja raha hai toh humein haath kaise move hona chahiye. So this leash ki skill humein practice karni hoti hai dog ke saath.
So aapki aaj ki exercise bhi rahegi sab logon ki aur wo exercise ye rahegi confidence building ki exercise rahegi apne dog ke saath aur aapko kuch aisa karna hoga, kahin aisa usko chadhana hoga ya phir aisa kuch obstacle, um, clear karana hoga jo dog ne nahi kiya hai.
Okay, kuch figure out karna hoga ki bhale usko mitti ke upar chadhayo ya phir usko koi doli, doli kudayo, lekin kisi cheez ke upar usko obstacles ko overcome karana hoga aapko. So you have to do this ki aap wo do karo. Agar isko video record kar sakte ho that will be great.
Lekin agar nahi bhi kar sakte ho toh phir bhi aapko humein batana padega ki actual mein kya kiya aapne aur kya uska behavior tha, kaise uske changes the. Okay? Cool hai guys aaj ke liye?
Prafull
Just one sorry, sorry Sunny, before we sign off. Ek toh I will answer society mein kya hua after this question.
Sunny
Are yaar haan, chalo cool hai.
Prafull
I am happy that people are concerned. Um, ek aur observation tha during the socialization that happened today. Um, agar koi jaise we ensure that leash par koi pressure na ho jab do dogs mil rahe hain wagairah.
Sunny
Haan.
Prafull
Kayi baar aisa hua, do-teen baar aisa hua jaise, um, ek German Shepherd tha, um, thi rather she came directly at Kulfi. Aise.
Sunny
Okay. Haan, samajh mein aaya.
Prafull
Aise. So Kulfi just turned aise ki usko, he was not interested.
Sunny
No, no, no, no.
Prafull
But then he didn't move utna, utna he didn't move, he was there only. So she came around, sniffed him, then chehre ke paas aayi and then turned around and went back.
Sunny
Yes, it is not about ki Kulfi ko interest nahi tha. Kulfi ne, is-ise kehte hain top behavior of a dog, socializing skill. Ye, ye this is, wo female assertive thi. Okay, wo female dog assertive thi. Wo iske munh par aayi aur boli hello, directly aakar. Okay na? Aur agar ye ek bhi galti karega, wahan fight ho sakti hai.
Agar isne hello ka reply disrespect se kiya toh fight ho sakti hai. Isne kaise reply kiya? Respect se. Respect kaise gaya?
Ye seedha aur idhar khada ho gaya. Idhar khada hone ka matlab kya hai? Hello, I mean no harm. Getting a point? Hello, I mean no harm. Isne us dog se bola. Phir usne usko smell kiya. Achha you mean no harm, let me check. Hai na? Agar maine yahan check kari toh you mean no harm toh Kulfi ne Kulfi ekdam freeze.
Yes, I mean no harm. Phir aage gaya, soonga you mean no harm toh Kulfi ne kaha yes, I mean no harm. Theek hai, jaati hoon. Toh chala chali gayi wo. So that was the communication. So Kulfi ne apna ground stand kiya. Lekin ek achhe bachhe ki tarah behave kiya. Main apna ground stand karta hoon. Kulfi ki poonch kaisi thi?
Kulfi ki poonch kaisi thi poonch? Poonch was aise-aise kar raha tha.
Prafull
Us time par it was still lekin haan upar tha.
Not completely upar lekin it was not taut. Ekdam aise kadak nahi tha. Dheere aise easy jaise flow hi hota hai na waise hi tha.
Sunny
That's a friendly gesture. Wo friendly wo tha uska ki I mean no harm. Hai na? But I am standing my ground. Uska matlab ye tha. Okay. Agar poonch neeche chali chali jaati I mean no harm please go away. Uska matlab ye tha.
Okay lekin poonch agar beech mein hai aur halke si aur agar poonch seedha hai aur wo seedha khada hai aur wo tense kar tense tense kari hui hai ki I mean no harm but I challenge you. Wo is tareeqe se hai. Let's have a challenge. Wo is tareeqe se hai. Toh that's a poora sideways I mean no harm.
Phir poonch ka body ka structure kya hai? Wo usmein context add karta hai.
So Kulfi ki poonch jab humne poochhi toh humein samajh mein aaya ki uski tense nahi thi. Uski halki-halki hil rahi thi. Yaani I mean no harm. I am a friend. Okay but I am standing like I am standing my ground in a soft way. Agar wahi tense hoti I am standing my ground. Wo aise bolta.
Kulfi ne kaise bola I am standing my ground. Agar wo tense hoti I am standing my ground. Wo aise hota toh fight ho sakti. Hai na? So tu mere saamne aise badtameezi baat kar raha hai toh fight ho sakti thi. Hai na? So dogs ki communication is tareeqe se hai. But amazing tha wo. Wo assertive female thi.
Assertive female thi. So assertive female soft like wo soft hoti hai. Matlab it's like unka jo energy hoti hai wo soft hoti hai.
But they can kaafi assertive like jab aap ek male assertive aur ek female assertive mein wo cheezein dekhoge toh male jo assertive hote hain unke andar tension zyaada badh sakti hai. Unke andar tension zyaada aa sakti hai. Lekin ek female assertive soft side hoti hai. Lekin wo hoti hai assertive mein. Hai na?
Wo soft side se nikalti hai. Ek male assertive ho sakta hai wo tension ki tarah. Main iske baare mein aur baat karunga. Female aur male ke andar kya-kya antar hota hai. Aaj nahi lekin phir-phir baat karunga aap logon se is cheez ke baare mein. Okay aur detail mein explain karunga is cheez ke liye.
So I think aaj ke liye itna hi guys. That's it aaj ke liye. So aap sab logon ki like wo poochhna baaki hai. Main aa raha hoon Prafull ji uske upar. Wo poochhna baaki hai. So aap sab logon ki exercise yaad rakhna dog ke saath. Kahin par aisi cheez karani hai jo unke andar confidence build kar sake.
Bhale hi aap usko swimming kara sakte ho ya phir kahin obstacle clear kara sakte ho.
Kuch bhi aisi cheez usko overcome karani hai humko. Theek hai. Yes Praful ji. Praful ji ki kahani sunte hain.
Prafull
Toh meeting jab bulayi thi toh surprisingly the entire committee was pretty open to hear my side of the story. Toh sabse pehle maine jo aapka diya hua woh tha woh phenk diya. Bola ki uski tabiyat bhi thodi gadbad thi.
Toh uska I said it in a way where maine bola ki meri taraf se yeh hai ki he was not well aur woh pehle he was on the edge. But then this cannot be used as an excuse. Toh maine apni taraf hi brownie point le liya.
Sunny
Very good, very good.
Prafull
Yeah and then I just narrated the entire incident and I told them aisa aisa.
Woh they were acknowledging the fact ki unhone bhi video dekha kai baar. So they saw that I took permission. Then I went inside. I also admitted ki I didn't see the worker. Maine sirf mere neighbor ko dekha aur woh khush tha toh main ghus gaya andar. Aur maine uski taraf dhyan nahi diya.
Toh I should have matlab woh maan liya maine. Meri galti thi.
Sunny
Very good.
Prafull
Yeah so again they were happy ki okay. They just said ki matlab we should just be very careful. We have to peacefully coexist. Aap dhyan do. Agar koi already andar hai toh lift mein mat jao.
Sunny
Yes, yes.
Prafull
Haan toh maine, maine sirf haan, haan, haan bola. Actually it is true. Iske baad se main ja nahi raha hoon. Aur agar koi aa bhi raha hai toh main pehle hi bol raha hoon ki there is a dog. If you are comfortable only then you come otherwise you can take the next lift.
Toh- correct hai. Theek hai woh ho gaya and then they said ki okay we will just society ke jo existing rules hai usmein thoda aur add karke basically to sensitize people. Toh I put my point also ki hum pet owners ko toh sensitize kar hi rahe hain.
Lekin kids and parents should also be sensitized ki how to behave around dogs. Ki woh kai baar kood jaate hain lift mein. Bina soche samjhe ghus jaate hain daudte hue aake. Toh isse, isse dogs can also get riled up. Toh usse sirf yeh hoga. Toh you can add such points also.
They were accepting of that also and ho gaya aur yeh maamla bhi band gaya.
Sunny
Very good. Very good, very good. So there other kuch alag-alag raasta bhi tha. I will deal with it wala raasta nahi tha yeh.
Prafull
Yeah.
Sunny
Man maza aaya, maza aaya. Joy aaya na? Fun aaya na? Aise deal karne mein.
Prafull
Bilkul, bilkul, bilkul.
Sunny
Cool hai man. Thanks man.
Prafull
Yeah.
Sunny
Nice.
Prafull
Thank you, thank you.
Sunny
Okay guys that's it aaj ke liye. Please exercise kijiye and exercise dijiye apne dog ko and wapas milte hain aur group mein video share kijiye and let's connect again. Okay.
Prafull
Thank you.
Sunny
Bye-bye.
Prafull
Thank you.
Sunny
Good night. Bye-bye. Good night. Bye.
Prafull
Thank you. Bye-bye-bye.
Sunny
Yeah man bye.
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The behaviorist lens: instincts, personality and trigger stacking
Sunny Luthra gave batch one and two members a revision overview of Modules 1 and 2, covering the behaviorist lens's four layers (animal, species, breed, personality), how dogs perceive reality mainly through touch and smell before sight and sound, and how associative based thinking is driven by emotional intensity and repetition. He explained how unmet breed instincts and unstable environments cause fear, anxiety, aggression and reactivity, and answered member questions on breaking instincts, walking nervous dogs, and handling trigger stacking on walks. The call closed with logistics on exam slots and community resources for the Pro certification.
12 chapters · 6 member questions · behavioural, training, structure, body language
Fri 3 Apr 2026
2 hr 1 min
Gut healing, tick prevention, redirected reactivity and CBD
This OhMyDog Pro call covered how to read a dog's gut health through poop changes during a diet shift, safe fasting and deworming practices, and a detailed breakdown of tick and flea prevention options and their trade offs. Sunny then worked through live cases of redirected reactivity between two dogs, a puppy mouthing behaviour linked to the owner's own anxiety, resource guarding in a young puppy, and noise fear, teaching a leash pressure and release technique. The back half of the call moved into how dogs and other animals sense human emotion and dreams, how to train yourself to read dog body language, and closed with a discussion on CBD, THC, diet and root causes of anxiety and depression in both dogs and their owners.
12 chapters · 13 member questions · digestive health, gut health, parasites, tick flea