Pro group call · Fri 3 Apr 2026 · 2 hr 1 min
Gut healing, tick prevention, redirected reactivity and CBD
This OhMyDog Pro call covered how to read a dog's gut health through poop changes during a diet shift, safe fasting and deworming practices, and a detailed breakdown of tick and flea prevention options and their trade offs. Sunny then worked through live cases of redirected reactivity between two dogs, a puppy mouthing behaviour linked to the owner's own anxiety, resource guarding in a young puppy, and noise fear, teaching a leash pressure and release technique. The back half of the call moved into how dogs and other animals sense human emotion and dreams, how to train yourself to read dog body language, and closed with a discussion on CBD, THC, diet and root causes of anxiety and depression in both dogs and their owners.
Key points (6)
- Mucus or occasional blood in a dog's poop after a diet change is usually the gut flushing out old infection and is not an emergency requiring steroids.
- When fasting or changing feeding schedules, only remove one meal or treat slot at a time so the dog can adapt without confusion or whining.
- Tick and flea prevention options like Bravecto, spot on, cypermethrin shampoo, Fipronil spray and natural remedies each have trade offs and should be chosen based on infestation level and area.
- Redirected reactivity, like one dog snapping at another when it cannot reach a trigger, comes from insecurity and poor socialisation and needs leash boundaries plus supervised exposure to fix.
- Dogs and other animals can sense their owner's anxiety, stress and even dreams, and calming your own mind is often the real fix for behaviour the dog is reacting to.
- Resource guarding starts in puppyhood and must be corrected early with clear, assertive boundaries rather than coddling, and root causes of human anxiety like sugar and unresolved conversations matter as much as tools like CBD.
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- Sunny, Tavisha, Sakshi, speaker_0, member, and others
Gut healing, tick prevention, redirected reactivity and CBD
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Transcript
Hindi written in English letters. The audio is the record.
Speaker 1
hai. Laga rakha hai. Ya let start. Ya okay. Toh abhi maine Dodo aur Paani ke na umm feed change kar diye toh they hain 60% on the meat. It's like either lean meat chicken breast ya organ meat, frozen meat. Aur uske alawa umm little bit of carbs like maine chaawal bahut kam kar diye.
Unhein pehle aadat thi itna bhar ke khaane ki chaawal aur daal. Ab woh daal chaawal itna hai, usmein dahi hai, usmein pumpkin puree, hai vegetables hain.
Ab problem hai na woh na sirf potty ek hi time kar rahe hain haan, to that's normal okay aur ek baar Dodo ke poop mein bahut saara makkhan nikla ek din hmm in the morning aur raat ko woh ekdam okay thi.
Toh is that because of the change of the food ya matlab jaise kai baar hota hai ki gut mein kuch infection phansa hua hai, hai na aur hum same unko agar khaana dete rehte hain, khaana dete rehte hain toh woh infection stuck rehta hai wahaan par.
Matlab khatam hota hai, potty ke saath thoda sa nikalta hai and then wahin par stuck rehta hai. Lekin jab hum diet change karte hain toh andar gut mein kaafi changes hote hain. Matlab wahaan ke jo good bacteria hote hain unko chance milta hai fight out karne ka, infection ko baahar nikaalne ka.
Toh kai baar aisa hoga ki agar aap unko treat de rahe ho, biscuit de rahe ho toh turant hi unki potty mein se mucus dikhne lag jaayega aapko aur agar generally aap healthy khaana dete ho unko ya generally unke khaane mein probiotic hai ya phir aise ye jo gut ko improve karta hai ya phir timing aapki achhi hai aur isko meal dene ke liye us se farak padta hai.
Toh gut aise release karta hai baahar unke infection ko poop, poop ke through. Toh ek time mucus mucus aana that is completely okay. Next time par aapko dekhna hoga ki improvement hai ki aur degrade ho raha hai maamla. Nahi, next time theek tha.
Matlab jaise future ke liye bhi dekhna hota hai toh poop bahut zyada information carry karti hai dog ke health ke baare mein. Toh kai baar jaise dog ko bukhaar aayega toh poop unko dast lagne lag jaayenge ya phir unko nausea aayega, unko vomiting hogi.
Toh unko samajh mein aaya ki dog ko bukhaar aa sakta hai, aane waala hai use jisko. Phir hum zyada care karte hain, unki zyada observe karte hain, unko zyada exercise nahi dete, zyada treats-wits bilkul band kar dete hain us samay par jab humein aisa dikhne, dikhne lag jaata hai.
Phir hum dekhte hain, unko observe karte hain ki kya iska health aur degrade ho raha hai ya phir improve, improve ho raha hai.
Us hisaab se phir hum, agar hum, agar hum observe nahi karenge toh humein pata nahi chalta ki dog ki degrade ho raha hai. Humein observe karna padta hai ki yaar poop mein gadbad hai toh ab thoda observation zyada rakhna padega humko ki woh improve ho raha hai ki kya ho raha hai.
So mucus aaya uske baad improvement aa gaya, that's good. Mucus ke baad blood aata hai thoda sa, that is also common hai dogs ke liye blood aana. Lekin human ko dekhna uske liye bahut bhaari pad jaata hai. Potty mein, potty mein, potty mein blood dekhna. So blood dogs ke liye it's like woh kabhi na kabhi aa sakta hai.
Lekin usmein worried hone ki zaroorat nahi rehti. Matlab it's like ekdam aap bahut zyada worried ho gaye. Aap seedha vet ke paas le gaye aur wahaan par usko steroid de diya gaya, right, common-common pro hai, treatment ka protocol hai jo wrong hai.
Okay treatment ka protocol wrong hai. Ab ye kyun follow kar rahe hain, mujhe idea nahi hai. Hai na lekin ye treatment ka protocol wrong hai. Steroid dena, steroid dena isliye wrong hai kyunki steroid gut ko kamzor karta hai aur poop mein blood aana pehla sign hai ki gut kamzor hai. So that's woh protocol wrong hua.
Is se kya hota hai dog aur down ho jaata hai, neeche chala jaata hai. Over a period time usko do din teen din mein aaraam milta hai. Uske baad gut mein pel kar blood aata hai phir bahut zyada. Toh logon ko lagta hai ki iski ye woh progress ho gaya. Woh progress nahi hua. Woh because of steroid aisa hua.
Ho sakta hai dog agle din hi theek ho jaata. Toh humein thoda dhairya se, thoda shaanti se aana hota hai agar poop mein blood bhi dikh raha hai humko. That's completely it's okay. Hai na woh jaldi heal ho jaate hain, lekin unko heal hone ka humein time dena padta hai.
So in general household hum dogs ko heal hone ka time nahi dete. Hum turant vet ke paas jaate hain, turanti aur wahaan par jo protocol follow hote hain woh kai baar woh symptoms ke upar hote hain aur treatment ke upar nahi hote, ki isko kya treatment chahiye.
For example agar dog ke gut mein aisa aa raha hai toh use complete fasting par bheja jaata hai taaki hum animal ko heal hone ka time dein. Usko hum antibiotics nahi thooste ya steroids nahi thooste hain.
Hai na so ye cheez aapko dhyaan rakhni hai kabhi bhi dog ke andar aisa issue hai toh ghabraana nahi hai aur vet ke paas nahi jaana kyunki hamaare paas cases aate hain jo vet ke paas, main saare vet ke nahi bolunga lekin vet ke paas jaane ke baad bigad gaye. Main jaldi se jaati nahi hoon vet ke paas.
But maine inke saath mein fasting try ki aur ye poori raat chakkar laga rahi thi tak-tak, tak-tak, tak-tak, tak-tak, tak-tak, tak-tak.
Ki mera khaana... Phir le ke jaati thi kitchen mein ki mera khaana bhool gayi hai, tu mera khaana bhool gayi hai. Woh poori raat ghoomti rahi, ghoomti rahi, ghoomti rahi. Haan haan aisa hota hai, aisa hota hai. Haan toh jaise aap fasting daala tha toh fasting kiya seedha two meal pe se fasting pe daal?
Nahi ek hi din jab ye makkhan nikla toh maine fasting karne ki koshish ki. Warna main aise kar rahi hoon, do meal ke baad na jo matlab morning ka meal hota hai use par beech mein sixteen hours ka gap de rahi hoon, raat aur morning ke beech ka. Toh ye bhi inke liye shift hai. Pehle gap nahi hote the.
Ya ya woh bhi like woh phir ek saath bahut saari cheezein ho jaati hai na toh dog adapt nahi kar paata. Hmm maine inki reast, treats band kar di hai. Kabhi kabhi bread khaati thi, bread band kar di. Ab inke liye ho gaya ki ye toh kuch deti nahi, khaana hi nahi deti. Nahi nahi, aisa kuch, aisa kuch nahi hai.
Aadat padi hui hoti hai craving ki, carbohydrate hai na? Kuch aisa cheez hai ki unko aadat padi hui ho, unko samay par dopamine milta hai. Woh dopamine kidhar hai? Hai na dopamine alag tareeqe se bhi provide kar sakte hain, like walk se provide kar sakte hain, play se provide kar sakte hain.
Unko dopamine ki craving ho rahi hai, not us cheez ki ki unko bhookh lagi hai. Unko dopamine craving hoti hai. So jaise agar-agar is dog ke saath hum reh rahe hain aur dog ko hum fasting par daal rahe hain, toh humein ye bhi dekhna hota hai ki woh apne habit ke anusaar behave karenge. Unko adapt karaana padta hai.
So do meal agar de rahe ho toh aap dono meal skip nahi kar sakte ho. Aap sirf ek meal skip kar sakte ho not two meals.
Sunny
Right, right, right. Jaise aap teen do meal dete ho aur ek snack dete hain, ek treat dete ho toh use treat woh kar sakte ho? Skip kar sakte ho. So aapke paas beech mein kuch nahi deti. Ya hai aur Saanpo ko bhi beech mein kuch bhi nahi. Main jaise aapko information de raha hoon.
Jaise agar aap teen cheezein dete ho toh aap sirf ek cheez hata sakte hain, do cheez nahi hata sakte. Toh agar teen cheez se mera matlab hai do meal aur ek snack, ek treat ya kuch bhi samajh lo is cheez ko aap, hai na? Alag alag time par de rahe ho toh aap sirf ek time wala hata sakte ho.
Agar aap breakfast aur dinner dete ho toh keval breakfast hata sakte ho. Dono cheez nahi hata sakte. Dog ke liye, uske liye bahut bahut saare dogs ke liye bahut overwhelming hota hai.
Par example jaise mere yahan par dogs one meal day khaate hain toh main inke liye poora din skip kar sakta hoon aur yeh ghoomenge idhar udhar nahi kyunki sirf ek hi meal khaate hain.
Kyunki agar yeh agar yeh do meal khaayenge aur main inhein dono meal skip kar diya toh inko dikkat hogi toh yeh whine karna start karenge. Okay. It's not ki inko bhookh lagi hai, inki woh inki habit completely confused out ho gaye. Do baar milta tha idhar bhi nahi mila, ab idhar bhi nahi mila.
Nahi toh agar ek baar chhoot gaya unko milega ab next time kab milta hai shaam ko hi milta hai.
Kyunki shaam ko hi milta hai so woh confuse nahi rehte okay aur um inki na deworming due hai toh woh maine us time pe ki nahi toh abhi kar deni chahiye dekhiye woh deworming prevention medicine nahi hai okay kyunki bahut strong medicine hai so itni strong medicine hamare teen mahine mein use karenge toh woh matlab by logic woh gut ko harm karega.
By logic matlab main saal mein ek hi baar karti hoon ya ya ya ya ya you can do that. Saal mein ek hi baar it's completely okay. Woh dog handle kar leta hai itna easily. Generally jo vet suggest karte hain aur teen mahine mein suggest karte hain toh woh uske woh woh main saath mein recommend nahi karta.
Maine kaha galat hai. Kyunki logic yeh sirf toh padhi padhayi woh hai like machine ki tarah language hai toh woh hum nahi kar sakte. Woh doctor doctor depend karta hai. Ah jo dog, dog ka feeding kaisa hota hai na?
Agar woh packed food ke upar hai toh unko zyada deworming lagti hai, agar woh agar woh gand zyada khaate hain toh unko zyada deworming lagti hai. Woh inki lifestyle ke upar hai. Agar aapka dog ghar par rehta hai, achha khaana khaata hai and then generally zameen se cheezein utha ke nahi khaata.
Unko deworming ki is tareeqe se zaroorat nahi lagti hai. So doctor to doctor, case to case depend karta hai. Toh that's ya achha ek saal.
Kabhi bhi do completely okay okay aur ek saal mein agar hum log tick ka tablet de rahe hain kyunki usually yeh neeche jahan jaati hai toh inke aas paas bahut dogs hote hain toh yeh ticks bahut le ke aate hain aur inko ek baar tick fever ho chuka hai toh once in a year so it is okay Bravecto de rahe ho na so once in, dekhiye kabhi bhi do.
Liver aur organs pe toh issue padega hi padega. Kabhi bhi do. Hai na? Hum kitni baar issue padha sakte hain apne dog ke upar us par depend karta hai. So for example aap saal mein ek baar de rahe ho liver aur kidney pe us samay issue padega, lekin dog jhel jaayega.
Dog jhel lekin lekin hum yeh nahi bol sakte ki asar nahi padega. Asar toh padega, lekin hum jo Bravecto use karte hain ya phir ticks ki use karte hain woh tick fever se bachaane ke liye nahi hoti hai.
Woh tick infestation bachaane ke liye hoti hai tick infestation uska maayna hai ki ticks bite nahi karega, tick bite karega, lekin tick phailega nahi. Toh logon ko lagta hai ki Bravecto aur hum yeh sab cheezein use karte hain toh tick fever nahi aayega. Aisa bilkul bhi nahi hai.
Aisa bilkul bhi nahi hai, kyunki Bravecto kaam karta hai. Jab tick bite karti hai uske baad, uske pehle nahi.
Tick fever aata hai tick ke bite se, usse pehle nahi, toh kaise bachaayega? Bravecto kaise bachaayega? Sirf Bravecto kaise bachaata hai?
Jo ticks aati hai woh chipak ke reh jaati hai, tick fever wali aur woh continuous bite karti hai aur continuous unke viruses andar jaate hain, toh immune system overwhelm ho jaata hai aur woh fight nahi kar paata. Is tareeqe se Bravecto bachaata hai.
Lekin aakhir mein kaam toh immune system, samajh mein aa raha hai maine kya bola tha? Like, like jaise tick, tick ne ek baar bite kiya.
Theek hai, andar pathogen ghus gaya lekin tick mar gayi Bravecto ke asar se ab aur pathogen nahi jaa sakte andar, ab aur ticks increase nahi ho sakti ticks increase nahi ho sakti aur tick ke pathogen nahi aate toh immune system pe kam load hai.
Okay, immune system pe kam load hai, toh immune system kya karega? Kaabil hoga khatam karne ki, relatively. Depend karta hai immune system. Ab suppose karo Bravecto humne ya phir koi bhi tick ki dawai nahi di hui hai, us par tick infestation ho raha hai.
Yaani ticks infestation matlab ticks badh rahi hai, kam nahi ho rahi. Okay, ticks badh rahi hai, ab ticks badh rahi hai. Multiple tick bites ho rahe hain, multiple tick bites ho rahe hain toh multiple jagah se pathogen jaa rahe hain andar.
Toh immune system ke upar load, aur immune system ke upar load zyada hai toh phir chances kya hai usse ladne ke, jeetne ke? Kam. Toh Bravecto chances badhaati hai. Lekin Bravecto aur bhi cheezein karti hai, isliye handle with care hai. Toh humein teen chaar, teen chaar treatments hamare haathon mein rakhna hota hai.
Kuch toh medicated hai aur kuch natural hai, cheezon ko lekar jisse hum ticks ko door door karte hain.
Pehla hai yeh bahut hi like main inke usse bataata hoon. Inke effects hain body ke upar bhi aur ticks ke upar bhi. Bravecto jaisi tablets, Bravecto hai, Simparica hai, NexGard hai. Yeh body pe bahut zyada impact karte hain lekin sabse zyada successful bhi yeh hain dogs ka doosra aata hai spot on.
Okay spot on, spot on aapko twenty se thirty days ki woh deta hai. Lekin uske baad bhi uska jo effect hota hai woh area to area depend karta hai aur brand to brand depend karta hai. Kyunki ismein bhi nakli cheezein aati hai. Matlab sirf human ke products hi nakli nahi aate hain, yeh bhi nakli aate hain.
Rabies toh poori nakli the. Rabies jaisi vaccine hi nakli hai toh hum baaki sab cheezein kya expect kar sakte hain? Baaki sab cheezein hum original soch rahe hain, toh yeh hamari naivety hai. Matlab hum bachhe is duniya mein hai na?
Toh hum yeh toh nakli toh har jagah bhi aate hain aur us par bhi depend karta hai aur bahut zyada ho raha hai dog ke products mein.
Toh lekin humein pata hona chahiye ki kaise cheezon ko implement karna hai. So pehle Bravecto hua, Simparica hua, doosri spot on, teesri aati hai Cypermethrin ki shampoo. So Cypermethrin, Cypermethrin aur Ivermectin ke shampoo aate hain. Yeh toxic hote hain in nature. They are very toxic. They are neurotoxins.
Isliye work karte hain. Jitne bhi ticks ki cheezein neurotoxin hain, jo iski, jo iski tablets hai, woh neurotoxin hai. Woh dog ke neurons ko bhi asar karte hain, unko dumb banaate hain. Neurotoxic ka matlab kya hai neurons ko kill karna. Kam level par kill karte hain, kyunki neurons bante bhi rehte hain.
Toh dog, dog apne neurons bana bhi sakta hai, lekin woh ticks ko khatam kar deta hai. Ticks ke paas itne neurons nahi hote toh unko unko unke neurons maar deta hai.
Isse marti hai, brain dead hoti hai ticks. Unke neurons ko kill kar diya jaata hai, fire kar diya jaata hai. So spot on bhi wahi karti hai, neurons ko fire kar deti hai. Unke touch kiya, neurons electrified ho gaye aur sab phoot gaya andar, tick gayi. Ab brain hi nahi bacha.
Hai na uske baad spot on mein phir aata hai uh cypermethrin ivermectin ke shampoos. Ye bhi neurotoxic hote hain, lekin bahut kam poore shampoo mein one percent part ye chemical hota hai. Itna potent chemicals hote hain ye, so isko dhyan se lagana hota hai. Hai na toh hum kaise lagate hain? Humne spot on lagaya.
Do din ke baad cypermethrin aur is se wo de di usko. Toh dog ko 2 se 3 mahine ka cover mil jaata hai aur zyada, depend karta hai area to area.
But cypermethrin shampoo bahut strong hote hain aur usko apne hath se bhi theek se lagana hota hai, cover karke aur dog ko bhi properly nahlana hota hai. Like, it's you have to be take care of thing. So maine aapko Simparica ke baare mein bataya, tablets ke baare mein bataya.
Uske baad maine spot on ke baare mein bataya. Phir aapko uske shampoo ke baare mein bataya. Phir aata hai Fipronil ke sprays, okay jo hum dogs ke pairon par laga sakte hain. Lekin wo bhi harmful hai kyunki dog apne pair chaatte hain. Lekin hum pairon mein, pairon mein kyun lagate hain? Kyunki ticks wahan se chadhe na.
Toh bahut saari boarding yeh karti hain apne dog ke pairon par lagati hoon. Wahan se dogs ko gut mein issues hokar aate hain kyunki wo chaatte hain us cheez ko. Lekin humko pata hona chahiye kahan par kya hota hai. Toh Fipro, Fipronil body ke upar bhi lagate hain.
Wo bhi ek spray hai cypermethrin hai na waise hi Fipronil hai but cypermethrin ka jo shampoo hota hai wo kya hota hai wo handle karne mein mushkil hai because wo shampoo wo aise aise karega apne uske aankhon mein jaayega aur jo ye is jo ye spray hota hai ye relatively easier hai apply karne ke liye Fipronil, Fipronil.
Lekin again ye bhi toxic ye bhi toxic hai. Theek hai uske baad iske baad natural aate hain jaise Scooby Dub-Dub hai, diatomaceous earth hai ye sab natural wo hai uh these thing ways wo karne ke liye. Log ACV bolte hain. Ye sab cheezein depend karti hai area to area, work karega nahi karega.
So kahin par ye diatomaceous earth work karegi aur kahin par nahi work karegi. Jaise main yahan par cattle ke yahan par rehta hoon toh yahan par ye sab cheezein work nahi karegi. Ya ACV work nahi karegi. ACV toh yahan ke ticks gargle karke thook deti hai. So depend karta hai ki kaun se kaun se area mein ho.
Matlab cattle hai yahan par unke upar pesticide daal ke wo ticks hatai jaati hai. Toh aapko pata ho yahan yahan kitne strong ticks milenge. Is jagah ke upar. Toh kaafi strong ticks milti hai aur in sab cheezon se work nahi karta hai Scooby Dub-Dub.
Scooby Dub-Dub poore dog ko rub karna hota hai Scooby Dub-Dub se hai na aur wo tera dogs ke saath mere liye possible nahi hoga. Mere ko volunteers lagenge aap sab log agar unko nahlane lagoonga toh main. So wo hamare convenience pe bhi depend karta hai. Aur doosri baat Scooby Dub-Dub dog ki smell ko mask karte hain.
Dog ko kaise find karte hain? Dog ke smell se. So wo smell ko mask karte hain us cheez ko aur koi tareeqe se protect nahi kar sakte wo. Bas wo mask karte hain apne fragrance wali us cheez se poori tareeqe se aap nahlate ho unki skin pe wo ram jaata hai.
Isliye usko rakh ke rakhna padta hai aur wo mask karta hai dog ko, toh dog par ticks nahi chadh paate lekin zaroori nahi hai hamesha wo work karein. So depend karta hai dog par kitna infestation aaya hua hai us hisaab se hum treatment choose karte hain.
So sab dog ko Bravecto chahiye, nahi, sab dog ko Simparica chahiye, nahi, sab dog ko bath chahiye, medicated nahi. Wo dog to dog depend karta hai, area to area depend karta hai. Lekin vet ke paas generally ek hi formula hota hai Bravecto khila do, ya spot on laga do. So wo dangerous hai dogs ke liye.
Fipronil ka spray bahut dangerous hai dog ke paws par aur generally boarding centers wo daalte hain dog ke paws par. Taaki unki boarding par naam nahi aayegi ki inki boarding par wo hai like ticks hai sir aapke free roaming dogs hain aur open area hai toh aap kya karte ho?
Toh sabse abhi jaise cypermethrin ka istemal karte hain shampoo ka, lekin bahut time ho gaya istemal kiye hue cypermethrin ka. Toh abhi haal filhaal pe yahan par bahut saari bhedein gayi thi aur mujhe dog ke andar fleas dikhi.
Ek ekaad dog ke andar flea ka makkhi mili aur maine usko pakad ke maar diya. And ek dog ke andar ticks mili toh main regular basis pe check kar raha hoon unko ki unke ticks badh rahe hain kya? Toh unke abhi ticks nahi badh rahe hain toh main koi bhi cheez unpe implement nahi kar raha hoon.
Lekin agar mujhe jaise hi dikhne lage ki wo khujaal bahut zyada aa raha hai, jaise puppy bahut zyada khujaal rahi hai, toh humein ek spot on ka round sabke upar lagana padega yahan par.
So waise hum case by case abhi spot on ka round pichhle char se paanch mahine mein pehle kiya tha humne, so uske baad ab zaroorat padi yahan par. Toh is tareeqe se manage hota hai lagataar dekhne se. Aur yahan par koi aur dog nahi hai.
Lekin haan yahan par cattle ke ticks toh zaroor hai lekin tik nahi paate wo dog ke uske upar. Kyunki ticks toh ticks ticks ka jo psychology hai wo dhoop se darte hain.
Psychology matlab ticks, jo ticks hote hain wo dhoop se darte hain aur yahan par bahut tez dhoop hai abhi right now. Toh jab yahan par baadal aane start yahan par ek hi time bahut zyada ticks hote hain. Jab yahan par baadal aane start hote hain, baarish ka time hota hai.
Uske alawa yahan par ticks survive nahi kar paate because of the ya dhoop. Unko dhoop nahi chalti. Jaise kabhi hamare yahan par bahut zyada ghaas ug jaayegi aur hum usko katwayenge nahi, toh humein ticks dekhne ko bahut zyada milegi. Kyunki wo ticks kya hoti hai wo ghaas ke neeche jaakar chhup hai na is tareeqe se.
Speaker 1
Wo agar kahin par kabada pada hua hai toh wahan par chhupi rahengi aur jaise hi baadal aayenge wo wahan se nikal ke dogs ke andar ghus jaati hai. Toh unki psychology jab samajh mein humko toh hum easily manage kar paaye ki humein pata hai ki ab baadal aa rahe hain toh ticks baahar nikalenge.
So we have to take care ki hum unko cypermethrin se nahla de taaki wo cycle hi khatam ho jaaye aur tick ko har teen mahine mein.
Agar unko teen mahine tak khana nahi mile toh mar jaati hain. Matlab wo har teen mahine mein apna cycle change karti hai. Matlab apni apna like apni body change karti hai. They become something different. Har teen mahine mein unka cycle aata hai.
Agar use teen mahine ke antaraal mein unko blood nahi mila toh wo survive nahi kar paate. Toh humein teen mahine ka cycle break karna hota hai. Isliye vet bhi bolte hain ki teen mahine tak humein lagataar yeh dena hai. Wo cycle break karna hota hai. Phir ticks apne aap mar jaati hai.
So ye cheez humne yahan par implement kari toh ticks bina kisi chemical ke chemical ke khatam hona start ho gayi. Toh that's that's how we take care of here yahan par abhi paanch ek mahine ho gaye inko spot on diya hua. Lekin abhi right now kuchh bhedein aayi thi yahan par paanch sau chheh sau bhedein aayi thi.
Jaise hamare paas se nikli aur wo bahut ticks giraakar jaati hai.
Yahan ticks aur fleas unmein bahut zyada hota hai toh humein do teen dogs mein samajh mein aa raha hai baaki aur doosre dogs mein nahi. Toh ek do din aur dekhenge toh uske baad spot on lagayenge unke upar theek hai, aapne mujhe ek cheez notice karne ke liye kahi thi.
Agar aapko yaad ho toh Dodo maine aapko bataya tha ki Pino par snap karti hai jab koi aur dog dikhta hai lift mein saath khade toh woh Pino ki taraf snap karegi. Toh is baar maine notice kiya Pino ko charge nahi kar rahi thi. Pino bahut hi peeche khadi hui thi.
Baithi hui thi aur mere paas dogs ke liye neeche community dogs ke liye khaana tha. Woh usko aaraam se smell kar rahi thi. Suddenly gate open hua. Pino kuch nahi pata. Woh apna bindaas baithi hai. Saamne kutta dikhta hai aur Dodo reverse Pino ki taraf jaati hai. So ye is cheez ka kya matlab hai?
Agar Dodo balcony mein bhi hai toh Pino balcony mein nahi ja sakti.
Woh turn karti hai, use bolti hai nahi toh woh nahi jaati aur haan, woh redirect attack karti hai toh Dodo doosre dog ki taraf reactive hai, right? React karti hai doosre dog ki taraf haan, yeh dono hi karti hai. Ab slip leash par thoda kam karti hai. But Dodo trigger karta hai, Dodo pehle charge karta.
Kind of thing haan, matlab Pino ko karti hai. Yeh nahi mujhe samajh aata hai ki Dodo saamne doosre waale dog ki taraf pehle aage jaati hai. Pino toh karti rehti hai, lekin Dodo doosre dog ki taraf pehle aage jaati hai ji, j ya Pino nahi jaati nahi, woh baad mein jaayegi woh baad mein jaati hai.
Toh yahan par trigger kaun karta hai? Yahan par Dodo trigger karta hai. Okay so Dodo is the trigger. So jab, jab Dodo trigger hota hai aur woh doosre dog ko pakadne ki koshish karta hai aur woh doosre dog ko nahi pakad paata hai toh uske aas-paas jo bhi submissive hoga woh usko pakad lega.
It is not, it is not personal. Agar saamne takiya hota, bachpan se takiya pada hota toh takiye ko uthakar phaad deta haan ye dumbbell lekar bhaagti hai. Genuinely, genuinely ya dumbbells haan, toh woh inke andar woh pakad ke daboch ke neeche giraane ki instinct hoti hai.
Toh agar woh instincts trigger ho gayi aur agar iske paas yeh nahi aaya aur uske baad aap hue toh yeh aapko pakad legi. Matlab apne impulse ko control karegi poori tareeqe se lekin ek dog ka behavior bata raha hoon.
Isko kuch na kuch chahiye hoga woh release karne ke liye but agar ye akeli hoti hai Sunny, toh yeh aise darpok ki tarah chalti hai ki pack mentality hai, haan pack mentality hai. Matlab pack ke saath power aati hai.
Toh dog insecure hai, dog insecure hai aur dog pack ke saath confident ho jaata hai aur jab confident hota hai toh uske andar territorial behavior aata hai.
Lekin unki iski insecurity ki wajah se isko woh exposure nahi mila hota hai ki woh territorial behavior ko kaise control karein, kaise harness karein. Toh woh release karti hai kis pe? Aas-paas koi bhi par toh aas-paas kaun hota hai Pino, Pino pakad mein aati hai iske uski iske liye kya kar sakti hoon main?
Pino kaise bachaya jaaye jaise Pino ki taraf jaaye iski leash, isko leash se wahin par baithaana hai aur isko is mood mein nahi aane dena kyunki isse handle nahi hota.
Na isse handle nahi hota hai toh Dodo ke andar insecurity bhi hai jo reactivity mein nikalti hai jab woh territorial waale spectrum mein chali jaati hai na usko pata nahi hai jo territorial behavior ko kaise handle karna hai. Woh exposure se aata hai. Hai na woh play se aata hai, baaki dogs ke saath.
Usmein woh seekhte hain kaise territorial behavior ko play ke through release karna hai, channelize karna hai, tab us par seekhte hain.
So socializing ka bhi ek issue rehta hai yahan par toh yes right aise cases lete hain toh humein samajh mein aata hai ki iska socialize nahi hua hai. Matlab it's like socializing nahi hua hai isko kyunki, kyunki isko pata nahi hai kaise handle karna hai territorial. Tabhi woh seekh, tabhi woh seekhte hain, theek hai?
Tabhi woh cooperative, cooperative bante hain. Same like human bachhon ke saath bhi aisa hi hota hai. Matlab woh bachpan mein agar tum unko doosre humans ke saath khelne ka mauka nahi de rahe ho ya phir khelna nahi sikha rahe ho ya phir cooperate karna nahi sikha rahe ho play ke dauraan.
Jab chhote bachhe hote hain play ke dauraan toh bachha jab woh bada hota hai woh akele hi kaam karna pasand karta hai. Like me. So bachpan se, haan bachpan se socialize agar bachha bol raha hai ki usko akele rehna hai toh uski zyada sunne ki zaroorat nahi hai.
Humein socialize karaana hota hai unko taaki woh cooperate karna seekhein doosron ke saath na? Nahi toh phir woh akele hi kaam karne lagte hain. Akele woh help nahi maangte aur woh overcome nahi kar paate. Khud se insaan kar sakta hai lekin dog ke saath issue hota hai. Kyunki insaan overcome kar sakta hai.
Lekin bachpan se humein unko socialize karaana hota hai.
Insaano ke bachhon ko bhi aur dog ko bhi, taaki unke paas skill aaye kaise overcome karni hai different different cheez aur kaise cooperate karna hai, okay toh problem ye ho rahi hai na ki agar socializing ke liye yahan kisi ko bhi bolo ki apna dog thoda idhar le aao toh sab pehle hi nahi nahi nahi nahi aur door nahi nahi nahi nahi nahi.
Toh kisi ko apna dog leke hi nahi aana. Socializing classes mein gayi wahan par door door kutte chal rahe hain that's a-the, jo bhi socializing socializing classes hai aur ye sab cheezein woh training perspective hai aur behavior perspective, behavior perspective se nahi hai.
Isliye aap sab logon ki zaroorat hai matlab logon ko aap sabko bhi samajh.
Sunny
Aap log jitne bhi trainer se baat karoge aur aapke paas jo bhi itni information hai na aapko pata lag jaaye ki woh trainer kitna ignorant hai. Dog psychology se lekar matlab koi koi mel mein koi woh hi nahi hai uski strategy mein aur dog psychology mein. It's just machine ki tarah work kiye ja rahe hain.
Kiye ja rahe hain. So aap ye society se abhi nahi expect kar sakte. Aap log padhke nikaloge aur aap log jab bhi implement karne lagoge toh ek dedh saal mein hum expect kar sakte hain society mein ki ye awareness hai ki dog ko socialize karaana hota hai aur kaise soch socializ-socialize karaana hota hai.
Fighting is also okay. Fighting mein kharoch lagna is also okay. Dogs soft toys nahi hai. Matlab ye dog ke life ka culture hai. Chot lagna it's like unke shareer par kharoch aana.
Woh fight mein jaana is like their culture. Is their ritual to become adult on the culture, they start fighting. Lekin hum gharon mein apne dogs ko ghar mein band karke rakhte hain toh woh kabhi bhi adult nahi ho paate hain aur senior hone tak bhi puppyhood mein rehte hain. Isliye bahut se log hain.
Ye toh bada ho gaya lekin humara puppy hai abhi bhi woh puppy isliye tumne bada hone ka mauka nahi diya. Lekin dog ki internal woh poori nahi ho paati hai usse, jo ban sakta hai. Toh it's like ya toh kaafi common hai bhi society mein socialize nahi karaana hai na?
Socialize nahi karaana sirf dogs ke saath nahi woh humans ko hi socialize nahi kara rahe hain. Toh dogs ka toh bahut hi ye cheez ko samajhna ki kitna zaroori hai dog ke liye aur kitna zaroori hai human bachhon ke liye ek doosre se socialize hona, really socialize hona it's not ki bas baithe hue hain.
Socialize kaise hona, socialize ko priority dena. Socialize hote kaise hain, cooperate kaise karte hain ye dog ko sikhana hota hai. Toh obviously aapke paas knowledge aayegi tab woh cheez ho payegi aur jitna puppyhood mein aayegi utna achha, jitna puppy usmein aayegi.
Kyunki bade hone ke baad then you need little bit expertise, woh behavior behavior padhne ka uska ki kaise expert kyunki harm zyada ho sakti hai us samay baju puppy mein harm itna zyada nahi ho sakta. Fight bhi fight hoti hai lekin harm nahi ho pata. Bade hone ke baad harm ho sakta hai.
Isliye thoda log mana hi karenge. Log mana karenge ya okay so yes Tavisha ji aapka sawal ji.
Tavisha
Uh uh uh Sunny mera sawal hai ki pehle toh Veeru beech beech mein thoda matlab ye ho raha hai, aggressive ho raha hai.
Matlab baithe hue hain aur haath pakad ke kaatne ko aa jata hai.
Sunny
Achha.
Tavisha
Toh iska aap mujhe bataiye solution ye abhi frequent ho raha hai. Pehle thoda kam ho jata tha. Pehle hafte mein ya mahine mein ek baar ho jata tha. Aajkal do teen din mein ek baar ho jata hai.
Sunny
Woh agar possible hai kya iska? Kyunki kayi baar aisa hota hai na ki jo humko aggressive bola jata hai toh kayi baar woh dog ke andar ek arousal hota hai ya phir ek excitement level ka aaya hua hota hai.
So agar kisi tareeke se humko video mil jayega toh main bahut clear cut aapko diagnose karke bata paunga ki actual mein issue kya hai. So kuch sawal, kuch sawal pooch sakte ho. Agar video nahi mil nahi mil pa raha abhi toh.
Toh jaise aap baithe hue hote ho toh uska jab woh aakar haath pakadta hai toh usmein pressure hota hai.
Like haath par impact karta hai.
Tavisha
Nahi.
Sunny
Bas halka sa haath lagata hai, munh lagata hai, apne daant lagata hai.
Tavisha
Aise, haan daant lagata hai, chhodta hi nahi matlab woh pakde hue rehta hai. Phir main hatati nahi hoon kyunki matlab abhi dekho itna knowledge nahi hai. Kya karna hai. Main wahan baithi rehti hoon aur khud ko calm karne ki koshish karti hoon. Main yeh sochti hoon ki mere andar kya chal raha hai.
Woh toh impact kar raha hai usko. Ab pata nahi hai ki kya kar raha hai toh mere andar kya chal raha hai. Ye pehle toh thoda matlab after few seconds mera thoda deep breath ke baad woh thoda thoda theek hone lag jata hai.
Sunny
So woh issue like jaise jab hamara mind mein aapka dog kya bol raha hai, hai na?
Jaise hamare aapke mind mein agar tension aayegi, kisi bhi cheez ki an-anxiety aayegi aur generally kab aati hai? Jab aap baithte ho.
Hai na like hum baithe is tareeke se aur kisi wajah se tension aa rahi hai, kisi tareeke se anxiety aa rahi hai aur woh dog ko feel ho gaya toh woh aapke paas mein aakar aapke haath ko pakad ke uski tareeke se aapko usse snap out karega. Jitna connection hai dog ke saath aapko snap out karega ki get out of this.
Matlab hum hum log usko samajh sakte hain ki isko kuch chahiye, usko ye chahiye, lekin woh aapko jaise humse koi aake bolta hai ki yaar main is tareeke se main pareshan ho raha hoon toh hamara pehla maqsad kya hota hai?
Hum jiski care karte hain woh agar humse aakar khul raha hai ki yaar mere jeevan mein ye chal raha hai aur main isse pareshan ho raha hoon toh hum kya karenge? Usko help karne ki koshish karenge. Hum uski help karenge aur pehla hamara step kya rahega usko help karne ka uske dimaag ko shaant karna.
Tabhi toh uska dimaag woh kar payega. Matlab hamari baat ko samajh payega. Agar woh hamara uska dimaag shaant hi nahi hai toh woh hamari baat ko kaise samajh payega? Toh hum kya chahte hain?
Matlab insaan kya chahta hai jab saamne wala koi khulta hai toh hum uske dimaag ko shaant karein aur uske usko ek solution provide karein. Is tareeke se hum help kar sakte hain. Dog aapke bina bole aapke feeling ko samajhta hai.
So jis tareeke se aap insaan ke saath open hote ho, dog ke saath aap continuously nahi chahte hue bhi twenty four into seven open ho. Matlab usse kuch chhupa nahi hai. Dog se sab dog se kuch chhupa nahi hai aur aap munh par smile lekar aa rahe ho.
Lekin aapke andar ek dimaag mein ek khayal chal raha hai na ek scene dikh raha hai woh chalta hai matlab dincharya mein abhi kaun kaun se kaam pending hain.
Tavisha
Woh sab matlab main sort out karti hoon.
Sunny
So agar woh dekhiye woh open hai. Aapke dimaag mein ek visual open hai dog us visual ko dekh pata. Okay dog us na na chahte hue bhi dog us visual ko dekh pata hai. Like isko telepathy bolte hain aur animal telepathy karte hain aur ye like so its aur deep mein nahi jayenge iske.
But jinke personal interest hai is cheez ki telepathy ke upar aap study kar sakte ho. How animals do this. So okay.
Toh woh usko telepathy bolte hain mental communication, hai na through visions, hai na through visions hum communicate kar rahe hote hain ek doosre, ek doosre ke saath aur ek doosre matlab is like dogs read kar raha hota hai.
Toh agar aapke dimaag mein koi mental image chal rahi hai, ek mental video chal raha hai kind of thing, aap present mein nahi ho matlab aap yahan par nahi ho, aapke dimaag mein aa raha, haay! Haay!
Ye bhi karna hai, woh bhi karna hai aur iske baad ye bhi karna hai, uske baad woh bhi woh bhi karna hai, toh ye aapke andar kya hona hai like anxiety build up karna start hoga aur ye dog ko bhi dikh raha hai.
Dog bolega yaar main akela baitha hua tha, meri akelapan ko kisne disturb kiya. Woh aapko dekhega, aah tu hai kya? Phir woh aapki taraf jayega. Kya toh arey nikal baahar, nikal baahar. Mere ko sone ka hai, hai na phir aapko nikalega ki it's like your vibration is too strong. Aapke...
Tavisha
Lekin kuch zyada hi strong nahi hai, matlab koi bhi kona pakad lo wahan pe woh jata hai haan, aapki, aapki vibration, haan aapki vibration strong hai.
Sunny
Dog ke deewaron ko bhi mehsoos hogi. Matlab it's like jab aap haan, jab aap tension ki usmein vibration mein jaate ho tension ya anxiety ki vibration mein jaate ho, aap bahut extreme mein jaate ho.
It's not normal level, matlab it's not ki woh middle mein rehta hai ki haan, main thoda sa tension hui ho, thodi si anxiety hui hai. Main overcome kar loongi. Nahi, aap-aapka spectrum high hai. Okay na aapka spectrum-aapka spectrum high, ab high ka matlab kya hai?
It's like jo hamara normal balance rehta hai usse high, hai na anxiety, tension sab log jaate hain aur hum sab-hum sab log jaate hain. Hum kitni der tak uske andar rehte hain aur kitni extreme mein rehte hain woh matter karta hai.
Toh hum kitne time-kitne time tak us zone mein reh rahe hain aur kitni extreme ke saath hum reh rahe hain. Toh ye ho sakta hai aap ek second ke liye ki aap bahut extreme pe gaye woh bhi impact maarta hai.
Aur jab hum aise impact aur jab hum ekdam extreme mein jaate hain na, toh hamari body mein emotions ke chemicals release hote hain jo aapko is state mein rakhta hai. Okay toh aapka dog is state aapko extreme mein jaane se pehle hi snap out kar deta hai. Otherwise aapki anxiety lambe time tak chalegi.
Aapki tension lambe time tak chalegi. Toh jab hum extreme level par jaate hain, ek big bucket of chemical release hote hain jisko cortisol bolte hain.
Hamare adrenal glands activate ho jaate hain, hai na? Adren-adrenal glands activate hote toh hamare andar acidity bahut zyada aayegi. Acidity ke issues aate hain humein, hai na?
Ya jalan ke issues aate hain, because adrenal glands, neend mushkil aati hai aur bahut jaldi lethargic bhi ho jaate hain vitamin C khaane ka man karta hai. Matlab like kuch-kuch juice kind of thing vitamin C, kyunki adrenal glands ko chahiye hota hai work karne ke liye.
So hamara aisa man karta hai kuch chatpata like kind of khaane-khaane ka, because adrenal glands maang rahe hote hain kuch cheez ko. Toh jab adrenal glands hamare activate hote hain na, toh woh bahut lambe time tak activate rehte hain, wahan par off switch nahi hai.
So agar aap ek extreme par gaye, same with dog, same with humans. Agar aap ek extreme mein gaye aur aapke adrenal glands tezi se chalne lag gaye, toh wapas laut ke aane mein aapko time lagega aur laut ke aana tabhi dependent hai jab aap aware ho ki aapke saath ye chal raha hai.
Toh actual mein ladkiyon ke saath, women ke saath ye sabse common hai. Unko pata nahi chalta ki unka adrenal gland over activate hai aur woh chronic activated rehta hai. Kuch time ke baad adrenal glands phuk jaata hai. Phuk jaata hai, uske baad ladkiyan numb ho jaati hain.
Matlab women ke andar woh numbness aa jaati hai. Woh bolenge mere ko kisi cheez se koi parwah hi nahi. Ab hai hi nahi adrenal glands kisi cheez ko overcome karne ke liye. Fear ke issues bahut zyada badh jaate hain because aapke paas power chali gayi. Adrenal glands power deti hai, so is cheez ke upar dhyaan rakhna.
Adrenal glands aur kis se activate hote hain? Black coffee se activate ho jaate hain toh humein woh sab cheezein bhi aapko coffee, chai completely band, sugar completely band karne ka hai.
Matlab woh nahi pee sakte agar adrenal glands aapke activate hai, toh aapka dog us high spectrum mein jaane se pehle aapko rok deta hai aur isliye badh gaya hai, kyunki aapka bhi kuch haal filhaal mein aapka badh chuka hoga.
Tension aur anxiety kind of thing. Okay so breathing meditation is very necessary for everyone.
Tavisha
Haan, woh toh mera chaalu hai. Kaafi...
Sunny
Aur bhi tools-aur bhi tools, aur bhi tools aapko implement karne honge. For example anxiety kab aati hai? Jab dimaag mein bahut saare task hote hain aur hum usko organize nahi kar paate, tab anxiety aati hai, hai na? Hamare paas kya hai? Hamare paas tools hone chahiye. Toh tools kya hone chahiye?
Aapke paas ek copy pen hona chahiye jismein aap saare task likh sako. Hamara brain-hamare brain ke paas RAM hoti hai. Random access memory, RAM samajhte ho computer mein jo RAM hoti hai hmm. Hai na, RAM hoti hai. RAM ka matlab kya hota hai? Aap ek time par memory mein kuch limited task hi hold karke rakh sakte ho.
Toh hamara brain chhah se saat real task hold karke rakh sakta hai.
Chhah se saat real task hold karke rakh sakta hai. Lekin aap general public ke dimaag mein dekhoge toh unke paas kitne task hote hain dimaag mein bahut saare, bahut batere hain aur ye anxiety daalta hai. Okay?
It's not ki aap aise ho because aapke paas tools nahi hai aur awareness nahi hai ki kab kya implement karna hai. So aapko ek journaling bahut zyada help karegi. Journaling sabke liye nahi hai, hai na lekin journaling aapko bahut help karegi. Journaling generally kin-kin logon ko bahut zyada help karti hai?
Jinke andar bahut zyada energy hai aur unke paas bahut saare ideas hain aur unka man karta hai in saare ideas ko main implement karoon. Lekin unke paas ek framework nahi hoti aur woh framework kya hai?
Copy pen uthao, ideas ko likho, unko categorize karo aur kaun se ideas ko pehle kar sakte ho, usko list down karo tab aapka dimaag shaant hoga, otherwise nahi hoga.
Kyunki aap-hum-hum ideas ko nahi break kar-rok sakte. Agar dimaag mein ideas aate hain, dimaag mein sab cheezein. Hamare brain-hamara brain din mein 50 se 60,000 thoughts sochta hai. 50 se 60,000 thoughts. So it's-it's bahut saara jo hamare awareness ke neeche se chala jaata hai.
Humein pata bhi nahi chalta but this many thoughts are going. Phir hum koi na koi thought ko pakad lete hain aur agar hum us thought ko likhte nahi hai, yaani thought matlab koi task pakad liya hamare dimaag mein yaar ye karna hai, ye hai toh ek vichaar hai na? Hai na?
Ab hum is vichaar ko pakadte nahi hain aur likhte nahi ki humein ye karna hai, toh ye vichaar continuous rehta hai. Arre humein karna hai, arre humein karna hai, whereas agar aap likhte rahoge ki haan ye maine likh liya toh phir repeat pe nahi chalta, repeat pe nahi chalta.
So that will help you.
Tavisha
So mere kitchen mein board hai jismein main likhti-likhti rehti hoon ki yeh-yeh-yeh, this is done, this is done, this is done.
Sunny
Haan.
Tavisha
Toh phir bhi usmein kaam add hote rehte hain.
Sunny
Haan.
Tavisha
Woh likhna bhool jaati hoon aur uske chakkar mein.
Sunny
Haan, likh lena zaroori hai. Copy pe le lo, copy pe le lo. Kyunki haan woh mitaoge isliye nahi, jab tak ye nahi honge, main bhool nahi jaaoon. Hai na board ka? So copy maine specially board lagaya hai kyunki ye mere saath hai issue. Aur journaling main karti hoon.
Lekin hafte mein ek baar hota hai woh matlab sab likh deti hoon aapko nahi dikh- aapko raat-raat ko sone se pehle lagega, subah uthne par lagega. Agar raat ko sone se pehle aapne nahi likha toh aapki neend achhi nahi hogi. Kyunki aap raat mein so gaye hoge, mujhe yeh karna hai, mujhe yeh karna hai.
Usko aap chhodoge nahi, toh dimaag shaant nahi hoga, dimaag peaceful nahi hoga. So journ- copy pen par likhna aapke humein dimaag mein ek bhi task hold karke nahi rakhna hai. Ab aap kuch bhi karo. Bas dimaag ek se-ek system bana lo. Mujhe koi bhi task hold karke nahi rakhna hai.
Bhale hi Telegram mein saved messages mein daal do. Do anything. Jo bhi aapka aap-aap tareeqa chahte ho. Copy pen par likh do jo aap roz likhte ho. Lekin aap dimaag mein ek bhi thought, ek bhi task hold karke nahi rakh sakte. Dimaag tab agar varna shaant nahi hoga.
Anxiety build up ho gayi main iska video bhi try karoongi bhejne ka.
Tavisha
Matlab koi mila nikaalne ke liye us time ke...
Sunny
ya aap ye dekh sakte ho, aap ye bhi dekh sakte ho ki jab bhi aap baithne lago generally tabhi aata hai toh aap aware ho jaao ki main again us mode mein toh nahi jaa rahi anxiety waale ya us tension waale mode mein toh nahi jaa rahi, hai na mujhe yahan par pressure toh feel nahi ho raha aur humein jab hum tension aur uh sign uh anxiety waale mode mein jaate hain toh humein yahan par aur yahan par tension feel hoti hai.
Matlab agar hum aware ho apne shareer ko lekar toh emotions save hote hain alag alag jagah par. Toh tension yahan-yahan par rehti hai aur yahan par jab tension rehti hai hamare kaanon ko sunna band ho jaata hai. Ek like humein bahut bhaareepan dikhta hai is jagah par.
Toh aapko samajh aayega arre main bahut zyada tensed hoon ya ye bahut zyada woh. Toh next time par aap prepare rahoge ki abhi tension mein kab ghus rahe hain, hai na anxiety mein uh anxiety tak hum pehle rok sakein.
Aapka dog bhi aake wahi kar raha hai, aapko pehle rok raha hai aur is extreme mein jaane se lekin aap baar baar jaa rahe ho is mode mein, hai na so dimaag mein kuch kaam chal raha hai jo atka hua hai. Okay dimaag mein kuch haan, dimaag mein aapka aapne kuch socha hua hai aur woh atka hua hai.
Aap usko kar nahi pa rahe ho ya phir aap procrastinate kar rahe ho. Dono mein se ek cheez hai jo aapko anxiety de raha hai okay.
Tavisha
Main ismein dhyaan deti hoon mummy par.
Sunny
Bilkul aapko milega.
Tavisha
Doosra mera question tha ki uh kabhi maan lo jaise chicken shop band rehte hain ya waise hi agar band nahi bhi hain toh frozen chicken use kar sakte hain kya dene ke liye?
Sunny
Agar aap khud hi freeze kar rahe ho toh use kar sakte ho lekin baahar ka frozen nahi mangwa sakte.
Tavisha
Achha, jaise wo Licious.
Sunny
Wo Licious nahi mangwa sakte. Nahi, kyunki raw-raw meat bahut jaldi contaminated hota hai, bahut jaldi. Aap usko boil karoge toh sir contamination jaayega uska, lekin phir bhi hum contaminated meat kyun lekar aayega? Kharaab meat kyun lekar aayein? Bahut jaldi kharaab hota hai wo.
Toh khud hi agar freeze kar rahe ho toh wo best hai. Lekin agar kabhi band hai toh baaki cheezein de sakte ho like thoda paneer milaakar de sakte ho, oopar se coconut oil daal sakte ho, thoda egg de sakte ho.
Matlab unko protein, fat aur ye sab cheezein chahiye hoti hai na. Agar kuch nahi mil paa raha hai toh thoda anda daal diya uske andar, thoda paneer daal diya, thoda protein aur thoda coconut oil ya phir ghee daal diya toh unka ho jaayega, khaa lenge. Lekin kabhi-kabhi roz hamesha nahi okay. Okay? Yeah.
Okay, anyatha koi aur question guys?
Speaker 4
Sun yaar, I have noticed couple of times ki main bahut zyada deep sleep mein hota hoon. Shaayad dream bhi dekh raha hota hoon. Tab bhai sahab mere paas aata hai. Toh kya dream mein bhi anxious aur ye sab kuch pata chal ja raha hai? Wo aakar mere ko lick karega aur phir main ekdam uth jaata hoon.
Sunny
Yeah dream mein pata chal jaata hai. Toh aapke dream kya violent hote hain?
Speaker 4
Ab as such toh nahi, par I don't know.
Sunny
Yes toh jaise dream viol- jaise dream violent hote hain, matlab mere-mere cases mein hota hai toh mere dream-dream bahut violent hote hain, hote the. Toh the- dream violent hote hain aur ek aur aur bhi cases hain jismein uh human ke dream violent hote the.
Toh dog seedha uske munh par chala jaata tha aur lick kar lag jaata tha uthaane ke liye usko. Toh agar hum apne dreams mein phase hue hain aur wahaan se nahi wahaan se nikal nahi paa rahe toh humein external madad deta hai wo ki dude wo dream hai, hai na? Hum yahaan baahar hain. Tu-tu-tu dream mein hai.
Toh yeh kaafi mazedaar bhi hai actual mein. You know it's like main apna-apna batata hoon. Mere ko toh bahut help kiya.
Toh mere bahut violent dreams hua karte the and violent is like for me like very violent death for me, hai na in-in my dreams. Aur jab main apne dreams se uthta tha toh main poora geela hota tha. Like out of fear kind of thing. Hai na aur yeh kaafi lambe time tak chala.
Lekin jab mere paas do-dogs aaye, meri mentality change hone lagti thi. Toh ab kyunki mere ko jeene ki chaah bahut zyada ho gayi thi. Like wo dog ka pyaar hua na. Toh pehle toh mar gaya. Koi baat nahi, mar gaya yaar, waapis ho jaayega na aise karke. Toh toh aur kaafi vivid hota hai.
Mera mind bhi vivid hai, like imagination mein. Toh kaafi clear-clearly cheezein dikhti hain mind ke andar. And kaafi colorful the mere dreams toh violence ho raha aur dog mere ko aake utha raha. Ek baar pata chal gaya mujhe theek hai ab maine kaha mujhe marna toh nahi hai kyunki wo real death hoti hai.
Matlab like feel, it feel real. Na koi dream mein pata thodi chalta hai bhaiji, jo ki apan dream mein nahi hain. Us samay toh yahi bata dena yahi reality hai. Toh maine socha ki yaar ab kuch toh karna padega. Is cheez ka ki hamesha toh kar nahi sakte. Phir dog ka pyaar mila.
Meri mindset change hui, more joy aaya aur ek baar jab main marke utha usmein se, maine kaha shit yaar phir mar gaya. Lekin next time nahi marenge. Hai na? Ab yeh cheez, yeh cheez chalti, matlab mera ghabra ke uthne se mera jo bhi mar gaya tha na, toh change ho gaya.
Mera mindset change ho gaya ki yaar wo toh dream tha, main zinda hoon. Mere paas baby baitha hua hai. Wow! Kya amazing life hai kind of thing hone lag gaya hua hai, hai na toh like pehle aisa nahi tha.
Toh ab jab wo jab wo dream aane lag gaye aur Baby mere ko paas mein aane lag gaya toh mere ko samajh mein aane lag gaya ki yaar yeh dream hai. Main bhi dream mein hoon. Lekin main I was still in dream. Jab mujhe pata chal gaya ki main dream mein hoon. But I was still in dream.
Us, us, us, us samay par aur umm- ek thing aapko bata deta hoon like mera jo murder hota, jo dream hota hai toh us dream mein bahut saare khanjar ya phir is tareeqe se mere pe istemaal kiye jaate the. Hai na toh, toh hota, hota aisa tha ki main football khel raha hoon.
Ek dream batata hoon apna jo repeat par aata tha mujhe. Hai na? Toh main football khel raha hoon ya koi bhi game khel raha hoon. Football khelte-khelte maine kick maari aur goal ho gaya aur main chillaaya yeah, hai na, aur peeche dekha toh koi bhi nahi tha.
Lekin maine idhar se dekha toh poori ki poori bheed aa rahi thi. Meri taraf haath mein khanjar liye hue, hai na maine kaha yeh kya hua?
Maine toh badhiya kaam kiya tha. Mujhe laga tha log khush honge na aur yeh meri taraf, like meri psychology for approval. Mere andar bahut zyada need thi to be approved kind of thing ki logon se approval hona ya phir apne parents se approval hona.
Toh is tareeqe ki meri bahut deep need thi ya apne peers se approv- approval wo lena aur wo aisa hui thi ki bachpan se rejection se bade hue the, har cheez ke liye kind of. Toh ek deep need chaalu ho jaati hai subconscious mein ki bhai humein approval chahiye, humein approval chahiye.
Toh mere saare sapne bhi aise aa rahe the ki mujhe approval chahiye, chahiye hota tha lekin khanjar ghompa ja raha tha. Meri subconscious mujhe matlab like bata raha tha ki tere andar actual mein kya chal raha hai, hai na?
Toh mere andar mere actual mein kya chal raha tha ki main kuch achha karna chahta hoon lekin bura hota hai, hai na? Mere saath hi bura hota hai. Main kisi ka achha karne jaata hoon aur mere saath hi bura hota hai.
Toh mere andar yeh continuous loop chal raha tha aur bahut extreme loop mein tha. Toh mujhe is tareeqe ke sapne aate the toh short karta hoon is stories ko. Ab main lagataar aise khanjaron se mar raha tha.
Ab jab mujhe pata chalne lag gaya ki yeh mera hi dream hai aur main chalte phirte apne aap se baatein kar raha tha ki like yaar yeh mera hi dream hai toh main control kar sakta hoon. Jab main hosh mein tha, jab main jaaga hua tha. Main control kar sakta hoon na. Phir maine lucid dreaming padhi wo kaise kaam karti hai.
Lucid dreaming padhi and us cheez ko samjha ki lucid dreaming ko kaise practice karte hain. Toh lucid dreaming practicing karna start kara. Baby ka help liya.
Like uske touch se pata chalne lag gaya ki like main dream mein hoon toh ek baar meri taraf attack ho raha tha mere swapnon mein aur log meri taraf bhaag ke aa rahe the aur us samay main dara nahi. Mere sapne mein main ekdam khada tha.
Log meri taraf bhaag ke aa rahe the, bhaag ke aa rahe the aur mujhe slow motion mein unke chehre dikh rahe the aur bahut cruel chehre dikh rahe the.
Bahut violent chehre dikh rahe the. Mujhe lag raha tha ki wo mujhe completely maar denge, lekin ye mera hi dream tha. Us samay main jaan chuka tha, hai na? So jaise hi khanjar aaya ekdam slow motion pe aur mere pet pe jaane wala tha, maine aise chutki bajayi dream mein aur wo wahi ruk gaya.
So that was my lucid dream, hai na wo wahi ruk gaya. Maine kaha are us aadmi ne meri taraf dekha, maine uski taraf dekha aur main like wo ek koi smirk nahi hoti ki tu toh gaya aise kind of thing, hai na? Like ek insaan haan, toh maine doosri, doosri chutki bajayi. Doosri chutki bajayi, un sab ke hathiyar gayab ho gaye.
Maine kaha yaar ye toh bahut fun hai. In sab ke hathiyar gayab ho gaye. Maine teesri chutki bajayi, sabko dandiya ke kapde pehna diye. Jitne bhi, jitne bhi log the wahan par dandiya ke kapde pehna diye aur ek raat mein dandiya ka gaana laga diya.
Sab dance kar rahe the. So that was sab wo sapna aur in sapno mein jab hum andar dekhte hain toh dog ko mehsoos hota hai tumhare emotions ke baare mein, hai na ki tum andar se kya ke kya guzar rahe ho, tum andar se ho. Toh jab hum deep mein hote hain tab hum apne subconscious ke realm mein hote hain.
Hai na hamara subconscious, hamara subconscious realm hamare bachpan ke trauma, bachpan ke jo bhi usne organ, jo bhi information ko andar organize karke rakha hai, jo hamara conscious mind access nahi kar paata, hamara conscious mind access nahi kar paata jab hum deep sleep mein hote hain toh hamara conscious mind band hota hai.
Wo off hota hai, toh hum wo access kar paate hain aur wo subconscious mind humein dreams ke through batata hai, dikhata hai ki andar kya hai.
Batata nahi hai, dikhata hai. Usko koi matlab nahi hai kya batana hai, bas wo dikhata hai ki andar kya hai? Toh hum uske upar work kar sakte hain. Toh dogs madad karte hain. So bahut se I think, umm ya ek like ek aur ko sapne aate the. Mere saath aisa nahi hua, hai na.
Ek aur ko Trupti aur ek aur ko aise sapne aate the aur kaafi violent sapne aate the toh iska dog isko utha deta tha un sapno mein se toh dheere dheere iski aadat chhoot gayi wo sapne aane ki. Toh jab bhi wo sapna aata tha, isko utha diya jaata tha, utha hi deta tha isko ki jaag ja.
Toh phir jaagti thi aur phir soti thi. Toh is tareeqe se sapne break hue hain. Lekin still I find my mera wala zyada interesting is time se break aur I was like phir wo sapne mere ko pareshan, uske baad se mere ko sapno ne pareshan karna band kar diya.
Uske baad jab bhi in fact, in fact like mere abhi toh mera recent hai.
Speaker 1
Mujhe bhi aise sapne aate hain and I know like because I have been in therapy toh kyon aate hain. Toh uh main jab bhi uth ke dekhti hoon na, I wake up like this oh! My husband can hear it, sometimes he cannot. Wo apni deep sleep mein hota hai.
But I when I see kyunki meri side pe Pino soti hai toh Pino is always looking towards me, wo jaag chuki hoti hai already pehle.
Toh then mere ko aise main reality pe bahut quickly wapas aati hoon and when I sometimes get seizure, wo usko sense toh nahi kar paati but us duration mein mujhe sab aisa batate hain ki wo mere aas paas, aas paas, aas paas ghoomte rehte hain. So they know read energy very well.
Speaker 5
Ye humko feel ho jaata hai yaar.
Sunny
Hamare andar ke chemical change ho jaate hain, hamare kuch ki vibration change ho jaati hai, hum bahut heavy ho jaate hain.
Haan toh wo dog yeh sab cheez hai. Toh yeh toh bahut badi cheez hai. Dog toh chhoti-chhoti cheez samajh jaate hain. So they will understand, par unko pata nahi lagta ki bahut saare dog ko ye karna kya hota hai.
Jaise bahut se dog naturally jaakar touch kar lenge, lick kar lenge ya bahut se dog circle karne lag jaate hain ki kya karein hum yahan par, kya karein hum yahan par. Lekin dogs amazing tareeqe se madad karte hain yaar, amazing tareeqe se madad karte hain.
Hamesha ek yaar wo humko madad kar rahe hain aur zyadatar humein.
Hum jitna lagta hai ki hum unki madad karne ke liye utna hi ya usse bhi zyada lagta hai ki wo mental, jo hamare traas hai, jo hamare emotional, jo hum khud ko pareshan karte rehte hain in mental like habits ki wajah se ya phir hamare past ke experiences ki wajah se jo humne store karke rakhi hai, release nahi kiye the in emotions, toh hum apne khud ko pareshan karte rehte hain.
Usse aur kaun nikalega humko, ya toh hum khud nikalein apne aap ko, ab hum khud nikaal sakte apne aap ko toh hum already nikaal chuke hote hain na.
Toh matlab kisi ki toh help lagegi, bhale hi wo therapy ho ya phir dogs ho. So yeah toh that's, that's amazing thing jo dogs help karte hain. Dogs chalta hai aise.
Speaker 5
Yeah. Inka bhi main quest actually from last five years Pari ne kabhi aisa nahi kiya.
Sunny
But abhi Bhai Sahab ne teen chaar baar kiya aur abhi ye topic aaya toh I thought ki ho sakta hai. Bhai Sahab zyada linked hain. Bhai Sahab zyada linked hain aapse, matlab aapko feel bhi hota hoga. Like it's like more connection hai Bhai Sahab ke saath haan.
Hai na wo, wo ho sakta hai male to male connection bhi ho sakta hai, lekin zyada wo is like usme hai wo, brotherhood mein zyada hai wo, kind of thing. Hai na aapke saath? Toh ek us tareeqe se behtar hoga, brotherhood, brotherhood mein hai.
Haan, Pari companionship ki tarah aayi thi. Lekin Bhai Sahab mujhe violence wale toh dream na aaye but, but haan aapne sahi bola ki main fans gaya tha dream mein apne, toh usne aake mujhe baahar nikaal diya tha. Haan, kayi-kayi fans jaate hain.
Toh aise fansne wale phir like violent clear hone ke baad phir aisa nahi hai ki poora violence khatam ho jaata hai. Wo change hone lag jaate hain. Wo fansne mein aane lag jaate hain. Tum kuch phir find karne mein lag jaate ho, kyunki ek layer gayi. Phir uske baad doosri layer aati hai, phir teesri layer aati hai.
Is tareeqe ki layers aati hai. Ab tumne kitni layers daali hui hai, uske upar depend karega. But ye saari layers aapko jo narak ki yaatna deta hai us tareeqe ki layers hain wo. Insaan khud ko hi de raha hota hai un layers ke kaaran. So yaar dog help karte hain usme. Toh mere ko toh bahut help kar raha hai yaar.
Toh isliye mujhe toh aisa lagta hai ki meri toh soul ki duty hai logon ko ye baat batana ki tumko madad karega dog, dog ko samjhoge toh, bahut zyada madad karega.
Speaker 5
And not only dogs, I think cats bhi karti hain, kyunki mere nightmares toh unhone khatam kar hi diye the. But cats karti hain.
Yesterday I was having a dream, jahan pe I was stuck in a cave aur mujhe aise band hone ka bahut darr lagta hai kisi bhi jagah aise like band ho jaane ka, so I was feeling very claustrophobic aur wo struggle kar rahi thi.
Maine aur all of sudden she doesn't sleep with you and she was just just here aur mujhe uska breath toh feel ho raha tha yahan pe cheek pe. And ekdam se thoda sa dream khuli but I was still there and she started licking my cheek aur jaise hi neend khula mera toh oh God come on.
So I think ya cats bhi kehte hain.
Sunny
Cats bhi help karti hai, cow bahut zyada help karti hain.
Speaker 5
Haan.
Sunny
Lekin cow is tareeke se reh nahi paati. Cow bahut jaldi, bahut zyada connect hoti hain of all animals.
So cow ke aise cases hai ki agar ek ladki ke saath connected hai aur ladki kisi aur city mein aur woh beemar ho gayi toh woh cow mein se apne aap aansoo nikalne lag jaate hain toh uske parents ko pata chal jaata hai ki woh beemar hai. So that's, that's woh alag tareeke ka connection hota, unka deep connection hota hai.
Woh physical tareeke se connect nahi hoti woh it's like woh deeply connect hoti hain. Kisi ne proton ki theory padhi hai? Like ek proton ko split kiya gaya, hai na, ek proton ko split kiya gaya aur isko ek ko is direction mein bheja aur ek ko us direction mein, us direction mein, us direction mein bheja.
Is direction mein jisko bheja tha, usmein koi bhi changes kar rahe the, is waale pe turant asar ho raha tha.
Is waale pe turant asar ho raha tha. Aur hum sab kya hai? Hum sab kaise bane hue hain? Na, we all are stardust, matlab stars woh hue aur unhone multiple elements banaye aur un elements se yeh shareer bana. Matlab prithvi pe jo bhi cheezein bani hai woh stardust hai. So hum sab stardust hai.
Stardust ka matlab again protons, toh proton ke hi hum aa gaye. So hum mein se ek, lekin hum bahut aise ho sakta hai hum bahut ek doosre se connected nahi ho, hai na, lekin animal woh connected ho jaata hai. Lekin hum internally connected hain.
Hum conscious level se connected nahi samjhenge doosre ko lekin agar hum kisi insaan ke saath conscious level se bhi-- conscious level ka matlab hai ki main usko apna maanta hoon, dilojaano se, kind of thing. Conscious level se connect hona kya kya kisko bolte hain? Ki main usko apna maanta hoon dilojaano se.
Toh saamne waale ke saath, saamne insaan ke saath bhi jo bhi cheezein ho rahi hai, you will start feeling that aur depend karta hai aap kitne aware ho apne feelings ko lekar but you will start understanding.
Jaise cow yeh nahi samajhti ki woh beemar hai. Cow just mehsoos kar rahi hai uska traas, uska woh, toh cow ki aankhon mein se aansoo nikalte hain. Usko yeh nahi pata ki woh beemar hai jo woh mehsoos kar rahi hai, woh mehsoos kar rahi hai. Lekin insaan mehsoos karke logic laga sakta hai, cow nahi laga sakti.
Cow sirf mehsoos tak hai. Samjhe kya iska matlab, like kya matlab hua? Jaise aapko kharaab mehsoos hua aap uske upar aap soch sakte ho ki mujhe bhookh lag rahi hai isliye mujhe kharaab mehsoos hua. Lekin aapko kharaab isliye bhi mehsoos ho sakta hai kyunki aapki partner pareshaan ho rahi hai. Itni awareness nahi hai.
So main mujhe kharaab lag raha hai, ho sakta hai mujhe bhookh lag rahi hai. Yeh bhookh lagna logic tha. Yeh dimaag se aaya. Cow itna nahi sochte. Cow, cow itna soch nahi sakte hain. Unke paas bas itna hi hai ki mujhe kharaab lag raha hai.
And they start crying, they start crying. So human ne pattern note kar liya ki jab bhi yeh roti hai woh is tareeke se roti hai. Uska matlab yeh hota hai ki woh beemar hai, ladki beemar hai aur hamesha aise hi hota tha. Unko pehle hi pata chal jaata ki ladki beemar hone waali hai ya ladki baahar rehti thi toh.
Toh cow is tareeke se matlab animal is tareeke se connect hota hai, deeply connect hote hain woh. Ya so amazing hai yaar animals ka complete system. Ya toh ya cow bhi bataati hai aur cats bhi cats bhi bataati hai aur like jagaati hai in sab cheezon ko, apne aap ko.
Depend karta hai ki aapka kitna connection ho pa raha hai aur dog kis tareeke se ya phir animal jo aas-paas hai uske paas kaisi understanding hai bataane ki, behave karne ki. Lekin saare animals humaare andar ke changes ko bataate hain.
Ya, bata suniye, sirf ek anbhigya ananb con dogs aur overall like- all.
Speaker 1
-animal psychology, to understand animal psychology. To begin with may be dogs. Which one should I go for?
Sunny
Yaar see dekho, matlab main, maine baaki jitne bhi animal ki psychology mein main cheez bata sakta hoon ki maine unko observe karke seekha hai, hai na? Ya mehsoos karke seekha hai. Toh-- aur dog psychology ki baat hai toh dog psychology mein maine Cesar's Way ki books padhi hain. Matlab Cesar Millan ki book padhi hai.
Unki saari teen chaar books hain, unki teen chaar books padhi. Kisi-kisi book, koi-koi book maine nahi padhi jismein woh... uh... personal ho rahe the ya phir kind of dog psychology se hat ke unki personal woh bata rahe the. Uh... something different bata rahe the like, Lessons from the Pack.
Woh sab woh nahi padhi maine. Cesar's Way padhi unki. Cesar's Way ek achha hua hai aur Doctor Bruce Fogle aur unka stuff padha. Doctor Bruce Fogle ka How Dogs' Mind Work. Woh ek bahut achhi hai, bahut achhi book hai.
And generally articles online padhta rehta hoon dog psychology ke aur documentaries bahut achhi aapko dekhne ko milegi wild dogs ke upar. Just observe karke dekhoge toh usse bahut kuch seekhne ko milta hai wild dogs ka.
Indian hi ek woh hai jinhone wild dogs ka ke upar documentary banayi hai aur kaafi achhi documentary banayi hai unhone wild dogs ke upar. So woh dekhkar kaafi kuch seekhne ko mila. Aur Cesar Millan ke jo videos hote hain wahaan se kaafi cheezein seekhne ko milti hai. Lekin aap aap dolphins ke baare mein seekh sakte ho.
Woh bhi ek animal psychology ke baare mein bataati hai. Hai na dolphins kaise work karti hai aur woh bhi kaafi connect hoti hai human, human ke saath.
So dolphins ko dekhoge, unko seekhoge, woh bhi kaafi interesting hai. Dolphin ke baare mein. Toh woh bhi general apan ko psychology samajhta hai. Animal ka psychology samajhta hai. Basic hai, ki kaise work karte hain yeh, inko kya- wahin se positive reinforcement ki technique aayi from dolphins.
Kyunki ek, ek dog ko, ek dog ko aap maaroge toh ho sakta hai woh aapke woh sun le, kind of thing. Sun leta hai na kayi baar ek dog. Like aap dog ko kuch kuch karoge toh woh aansoo su-su seham ke baith jaaye. Lekin dolphin ke saath hum aisa karenge toh waapas humaare paas woh kabhi paas nahi aayegi.
Toh wahaan se positive reinforcement ki technique aayi from dolphins ki woh sirf positive reinforcement se hi seekhti hai aur koi method kaam nahi karta. Kyunki human toh try karega hi sahi na jaldi se jaldi kismein impact aa jaaye.
Hunter se impact aa raha hai toh hunter try karega. Maan le yeh toh humaari buddhi hai hi sahi na logon ki, jaldi se jaldi agar hunter se aa jaaye toh hunter try karenge hum. Isliye toh society ek doosre par gussa karti hai. Unko lagta hai gusse se jaldi aa jaata hai. Tabhi karenge na.
Agar unko lagega ki pyaar se jaldi aa jaayega toh woh pyaar se karenge. Lekin unko lagta hai ki pyaar se kaam nahi hota. Toh woh kya karenge? Gusse se karenge. Toh iske upar bhi kara hi hoga. Dolphin ke upar. Dolphin ne mana kar diya ki bhai main itni sunti hai sir, woh maani nahi.
Toh phir logon ko lag raha hai jab yeh sun hi nahi rahi aisi toh phir kya karein? Positive reinforcement, unhone positive reinforcement kiya. Ab kitna time lage lage. Toh wahaan se positive reinforcement ki technique dogs ke upar aayi. Toh that's interesting hai dolphin ki kaam.
Woh aap dekh sakte hain mujhse sunne dogs akele kyon sote hain?
Tavisha
Matlab yeh abhi abhi akele sona usne shuru kar diya.
Ab sota hai ki nahi wo mujhe nahi pata. Main...
Sunny
nahi, akela wo preference rehta hai, kyonki sleep ek bahut hi important part hai life ka. So agar wo sleep mein agar koi aur so raha hai, koi aur hil raha hai toh usko dikkat hogi. Hai na wo dog ko toh dikkat hogi.
Tavisha
Wo hamare saath hai, jin uhhh ek hi room mein rehte hain, lekin sabka alag alag place bana hua hai.
Sunny
Haan.
Tavisha
Toh phir bhi wo aajkal us room mein nahi sota. Wo doosri jagah chala jaata hai sone ke liye.
Sunny
Garmi ka bhi asar reh sakta hai, hai na? Climate ka bhi asar reh sakta hai. Dog ki age ka bhi asar reh sakta hai. Hai na dog more ye bhi chahta hoga ki wo thak gaya, wo aaram se soye. Uski thakaan ke upar bhi depend karta hai ki agar wo wahan soyega toh ho sakta hai usko disturbance ho.
Hai na? Toh wo ye sab cheezein dekhta hai ki wo usko aisi abhi right now uski condition kaisi hai. Uski condition aisi hai ki wo bahut zyada thaka hua hai aur wahan par garmi lag rahi hai. Toh sabse badhiya jagah kaun si hai sone ki aur wo jaakar chala jaayega wahan sone ke liye.
Wo ye nahi sochega ki andar us room mein main ye sota tha ya idhar wo sota tha. Ye sab nahi, uska simple hai. Thaka hua hoon, sone ka hai, gehri neend chahiye, yahan thandi hawa aa rahi hai, so jaate hain. Wo so jaayega wahan par. Okay?
Tavisha
Okay. Aisa hai kya?
Sunny
Haan, interesting hai, bahut simple hai. Dogs ka kaam bahut simple hai. Mujhe toh kayi baar lagta hai ki maine kuch zyada in sab observe kar kar ke mere khud ka jeevan hi aisa ho gaya. Mujhe past hi yaad nahi aata hai.
Mere ko past yaad nahi aata hai ya mere mind mein past mein jaane ka capability mujhe push karna padta hai ki past se cheez uthakar lekar aa. Dog ke saath present mein reh, reh kar, reh reh kar.
Toh bahut saari cheezein aisa lagta hai ki maine apni life mein implement kar di unko dekh, unko dekh dekh kar. Kisi se gussa hote toh ek se...
Speaker 1
sahab se bahut khush honge ki you're living in the present.
Tavisha
Abhi matlab main itne dog ke saath reh ke past bhool gaye ho. Mera toh abhi abhi hai, lekin main uske pehle hi past bhool gayi thi. Past ke main apna childhood role bhi bhool gayi thi. Toh main...
Sunny
aapke saath past ka issue nahi hai na. Aapke saath past ka issue nahi hai. Aapke saath future ka issue hai. Apni train future mein rehti hai. Toh kisi ke past mein, kisi ki future mein, kisi ki dono mein. Apan ne future ki train pakdi hui hai. Past chhod diya toh kya hua.
But achha hai, future achha hai, past se toh better hai. Future mein kyonki possibilities hai, past mein haan.
Tavisha
Aur phir bhi mujhe kabhi na kabhi lagta hai ki bore hota hai toh kahin na kahin kujna saalu gardan laaye ya thoda paav kha lega ya phir kuch aur toh uske liye haddi haddi haddi laake rakh sakte ho.
Sunny
Kuch haddi agar koi bore ho raha hai toh usko jaakar utha liya ya phir koi aisa toy laake rakh diya. Safe uske liye jisko wo kha le jisko like jaakar utha le. Zyada toys nahi, sirf ek hi toy aur ek hi haddi chahiye taaki agar koi kabhi bore ho toh uske saath wo time spend kar le.
Haddi ke liye gharwale mana kar rahe hain.
Tavisha
Wo bol rahe hain matlab jaanwar ki haddi aa jaayegi, dikhegi toh. Sahi sahi baat hai wo jaanwar ki haddi toh hoti hai lekin hum koi achha silicone ka toy dekh sakte hain uske liye.
Sunny
Yaar kuch... wo hai, laaye hain, ek-ek karke dete hain lekin wo sab tod ke usko baaki cheezein chahiye.
Tavisha
Jaise abhi hum logon ne kapde nikaale toh use hanger chahiye ya wo kapda chahiye toh usse do hanger rakh diye hain, usko wo de diye toh bada khush ho jaata hai.
Sunny
Haan, sahi baat hai wo hanger kya lakdi ke steel, uske metal ke hain?
Tavisha
Metal ke hain aur ek lakdi ka hai toh dono mein se jo pasand aayega wo le lega. Thodi der ke baad phir se usko nayi cheez chahiye.
Sunny
Aur usko ek ek ek ek lakdi bhi milti hai chew karne ki. Shayad coffee bone bolte hain unko lekin zyada agar hard dog bite nahi karta hai toh unko de sakte hain. Sab dogs ko nahi de sakte hain wo.
Coffee wood ki lakdi hoti hai toh agar wo light chewer hai jaise aapka dog light chewer ho itna high itna tagdi tareeqe se chew nahi karega toh aap usko wo de sakte ho wo lakdi wala de sakte ho taaki wo splinter.
Tavisha
Kong.
Sunny
Coffee wood hai Kong. Kong toh phir hamesha humein unko kuch bhar ke dena hota hai.
Kuch andar kuch bhar ke diya ho toh wo hamesha possible nahi ho pata hai Kong se. Toh lakdi possible ho pati jisse wo thoda mind uska relax ho sake. Agar haddi nahi mil paa rahe toh. Sanya mein toh baahar se tree ki branch jo hoti hai chhoti wo tod ke le aake de deta hoon wo chew karte hai.
Sakshi
Badiya usko ye dhyaan dena hota hai ki daanto par, kayi baar lakdi daant mein phans sakti hai.
Sunny
Hai na? So wahan par issue ho sakta hai daant mein phans gayi andar, wo splinter hai.
Sakshi
Polish usse kar sakte ho aap.
Tavisha
Yakies bhi hai, Yakies bhi hai.
Sunny
Bahut se dog ko Yakies bilkul pasand nahi aata hai. Yaki Yaki Yaki de sakte hain yaani yak ka wo de sakte ho chew.
Tavisha
Usse mere dogs ka pet kharab ho jaata hai. Wo bahut garam rehte hain.
Sunny
Like wo har ek dog ko pasand nahi aata.
Sakshi
I used to do it jungle is like paani ki bottle mein paani bhar ke usko freeze kar deti thi.
Sunny
Haan. Good wo kaam karega, wo kaam karega. Ye try kar lo paani ki bottle mein. Arre mute par ho, kitne bolte hain sunaayi nahi dega sorry.
Tavisha
Maine ek chhota sa laaya hai plastic ka usmein barf bhar ke na jaise chot lag gayi toh usko sek bhi sakte hain, kha bhi sakte hain. Aaram matlab maine sab kiye jugaad. Aap sirf naam bolo. Baahar se lakdi nahi laayi hoon utna baaki hai.
Ye ghar ke poore plant se jaakar dekhta hai kaun si lakdi main kis liye le sakta hoon.
Sunny
So bottle dekho wo hoti hai na jaise Pepsi ki bottle hoti hai jo upar se upar wavy hui hai aur beech mein se aisi hui hui hai, hai na?
Aur then neeche se, neeche se, neeche se moti hai. Toh alag alag texture rahega toh dog zyada uspe interest dikhayega. Agar waise hi aapne bottle nahi di hai toh. Toh upar se moti hoti, beech mein chhoti and phir moti hoti toh double texture rehta hai.
Upar bhi aur ismein agar barf, barf bhari bhari padi hai toh wo daba nahi paata. Lekin usko sensation hote hain thande usko. Toh uska lekin agar use agar plain bottle hai toh usko maza nahi aayega. Plain bottle.
Sakshi
Ek wo bhi bahut achha tareeqa hota hai ki aap ek chhota tauliya lo, usko geela kar lo, uske andar treats bhar do aur usko freeze kar do. Toh wo soft chew bhi hota hai aur wo soothing bhi hoti hai usse gums mein aur chew bhi constantly soft chew uske liye toh achha rehta hai wo.
Sunny
Wo bhi. What about crazy chewers jo matlab gum se blood nikaal lenge lekin chew karna nahi karenge.
Inko kya doon main? Kyunki inke liye toys leke aao toh har toy chhod ke jo itna bakwaas cheez hogi woh pakadte hain buff bones aati hai badi badi. Buff bones woh woh inko denge toh chew agar bahut tagde chewer hain toh unko woh chalti hai.
Buff bones chalti hai jaise main Barfi ko woh Canine India ka woh jo real hide hota hai beef wala, woh deti hoon.
Tavisha
India it is right?
Sunny
Main buff bones deta hoon.
Tavisha
Sorry!
Sunny
Bolo na Parij ji. Main bhi buff bones deta hoon toh woh aaram se enjoy karte hain. Buff bones enjoy karte hain kaafi. Lekin sab gharon mein de sakte hain na buff bones.
Woh toh woh toh issue hai. Mere dogs peeche se aas paas se utha laate hain itni badi badi bones. Ek baar toh bhains, bhains ka pair le aaye the. Poora bhains ka pair, haddi nahi pair. Ghar ke andar mere bistar ke paas pada hua tha woh pair. Main utha arre maine kaha arre phir usko uthaya baahar rakh ke aaya.
Phir baahar sab chomp kar rahe uska.
Tavisha
Bhains bhains ek din rabbit aur yeh sab toh bahut hi aam ho gaya hai.
Sunny
Like rabbit ka munh pada hua hai sirf mere ko dekh raha hai aise se main keh raha hoon bhai kya hai inko chhod ke baahar rakh ke aaya tha main toh so that's kaafi ho gaya, normal ho gaya abhi toh yahan par yeh sab cheezein.
But haan dog laate hain aise unko pasand hai bones bones par bahut chomp karna. Toh humein deni deni padti hai. Phir hum woh nahi de sakte. Bones kya hota hai different different texture ki hoti hai toh agar woh same rahega toh unko maza nahi aata.
Lekin uske upar jo joints hote hain usko chomp karne mein unko maza aata hai. Toh humein hum woh bottle mein bhi de sakte hain. Like paani bhara, freeze kiya aur unko de diya. Lekin bottle mein different texture hone chahiye jaise Pepsi aur unki hoti hai. Toh badhiya chomp kar ruko. Achha unko maza aata hai. Good idea.
Achha dekh.
Speaker 1
Okay. Sunny ji, ek baat bahut hi normal question. Aapne bola ki observe karo jitna observe kar sakte ho. Aajkal wahi ho raha hai. Main pigeons ball hote hain har ke har, har cheez ko observe karne ki koshish karti hoon. But when it comes, comes to dogs. Bahut baar na aisa na confusing ho jaata hai.
Sunny
Des hai?
Speaker 1
Yeh yeh anxious hai ki yeh nervous hai? Yeh wala abhi stiff hai kya yeh attack mode mein jaayega. Matlab aadhe samajh aa jaate hain, aadhe nahi aate hain.
Is it okay matlab kar karke, kar karke practice makes a man perfect hundred, hundred percent matlab agar aap field mein jaaoge toh aapko aadhe bhi abhi samajh mein nahi aayenge.
Sunny
It's like hai na haan, hai na matlab it's like time lagta hai in cheez ko samajhne ke liye aur over a period of time aap jab understand karne lag jaate ho, jab feel karne lag jaate ho, information aati hai aapke paas, hai na?
Toh aap sawaal poochhne se pehle feel karna start karoge aur us feel se aap logic banaoge ki aapko us dog ko... woh tabhi possible hai na jab aap apne dimaag ka tension hataoge, apne dimaag ki anxiety hataoge. Aap phir figure out kaise karaoge, ki yeh meri hai ki uski hai?
Toh actual mein hota kaise hai, dog ko diagnose karna hota hai, jab hum dog ka tasveer dekhte hain ya phir hum dog ko dekhte hain toh kai baar aapne shayad dekha hoga, poochh... so... dekha hoga ki main dog ka chehra mangwaata hoon. Like uski aankhein, aankhein dekhni hoti hai humein. So aankhein is the main output.
Baaki shareer bhi hota hai, lekin aankhein is the main thing. Yeh poora part uska, uska snout poora ka poora part jismein aap dekh kar bata sakte ho ki yeh dog kya hai, poore uski, uski chhodkar. Woh aap kaise bata, kaise bata paate ho?
Aap uske upar focus karte ho, apna complete focus lekar jaate ho aur aapke paas habit aa chuki hai, skill aa chuki hai apne mind ko shaant karne ki. Shaant karne ka matlab, shaant karne ka matlab hai mere jeevan mein abhi bas yahi astitva mein hai aur kuch bhi nahi kind of think.
Hai na toh us samay sirf aapke dimaag mein wahi rehta hai. Toh jab aapke dimaag mein aap uske chehre ko dekhoge toh andar ek spark aayega.
Usko feeling bolte hain. Okay. Woh feeling kis cheez ki hogi? Woh dog ki mimic hogi. Dog ki mimic hogi. Kaise mimic hogi? Aap uski aankhon mein dekh rahe ho hai na aur us par poora focus kar rahe ho. Aapka chehra uski tarah ho jaayega. Matlab woh emotions ko copy karega.
Jiski taraf hum dekhte hain, jisko hum observe karte hain, hum woh copy karte hain. Humara subconscious mind, okay, humara subconscious mind usko copy karta hai. Aur subconscious mind kyon copy kar raha hai? Kyunki humara conscious mind shaant hai.
Jab conscious mind shaant hota hai toh andar penetrate kar sakti hai cheezein, andar jaa sakti hai cheezein aur subconscious mind humare emotions lekar aata hai. Toh jaise hi subconscious ke mind, mind ke paas woh visual jaata hai, humare andar woh emotion aata hai.
Woh spark aapko samajh mein aayega ki aapko kya mehsoos hua. Aapko sadness feel hui, aapko depression feel hua, aapko frustration feel hua, aapko anxiety feel hui.
Yeh bahut deep ki baat hai. Matlab you start developing this, this thing. Aise main karta hoon, okay yeh meri, mera hai ki main dekhta hoon, apne dimaag ko shaant karta hoon, poora focus wahan par lekar jaata hoon. Mere andar ek spark aata hai and then woh spark ke upar analysis hoti hai ki this is the thing.
Yeh feeling aa rahi hai, yeh dog ki feeling hai and then phir hum cross question karte hain human se us cheez ko verify karne ke liye. Lekin humare paas ek starting point hota hai. This is the starting point jahan se hum start karna chaahte hain.
Phir jab aap reverse engineer karte ho, us par baat karte ho toh aapki bahut saari jo baatein hoti hai woh human ke bataaye bina hi aap unko bata dete ho jo trust build karta hai ki dog aisa karta hoga. Dog aisa karta hai. Woh bolega ki isko kaise pata, isko kaise pata?
Lekin aap us anxiety ke through jaa rahe ho kyunki anxiety wale dog kaise behave karte hain, insecure wale dog kaise behave karte hain.
Phir jab saamne wala aapko feedback deta hai yeh tab aapka confidence build hota hai and then phir ek solution aata hai. Then you provide the solution, okay? Lekin starting point is important jab mind shaant karna hota hai aapko.
So yeh skill aap kahin par bhi laga sakte ho actual mein sirf dog ke saath nahi, you can understand any being, okay na? Ya you can understand your relationship also your relationship...
Speaker 1
matlab woh easy hai, easy hai dog se zyaada.
Sunny
Hai na? So woh easy hai. Unke munh par itne fur nahi hote hain. Mera bhi ek observation hai.
Speaker 4
Is this...
Sunny
haan? Bolo na. Mera yeh observation hai Sunny ki sensitive dog for example Pree.
Speaker 4
Toh jaise hi hum pooja karne ke liye agarbatti nikaalte hain usko us fragrance se pehle se usko pata chal jaata hai aur woh apni jagah change kar leti hai.
Toh jab maine observe karna start kiya tab mujhe pata chala ki jaise hi woh open ho rahi hai toh ek fragrance aa rahi hai aur sabse pehle isko pata chal jaata hai.
Sunny
Ya ya that's, that's pretty common dog ke liye. Toh dog kya ghabrata hai us samay kya woh karta hai? Bas apni jagah change kar leta hai.
Speaker 4
Jagah change kar leti hai Pree. Usko yeh saari cheezein pasand nahi hai. Bhai sahab aaram se use koi tension nahi hai. Use sirf khaana chahiye. Aur Pree phir chali jaati hai. Woh bahut sensitive hai. Ab main jaise jaise aur samajh raha hoon aap sab- ghanti bhi, ghanti bhi bajaate ho kya?
Sunny
Ghanti bhi bajaate-ghanti bhi bajaate ho kya us like kind of thing. Pooja ke time?
Speaker 4
Nahi ghanti nahi. Nahi, nahi sirf dhoop batti.
Sunny
Sirf fragrance- toh usko woh fragrance se lek- karne se pehle fragrance bahut zyada hai.
Fragrance bahut zyada hai. Uske overstimulated hai woh fragrance se. Woh already sensitive hai toh usko overstimulation ho jaata hai us fragrance se. Nose toh uski tez hai hi sahi na. Matlab agar aap Pree aur usko dekhoge na toh aapko zyada tikone dikhegi Pree. Matlab it's like more towards nose, hai na?
Woh more towards bhai sahab se zyada.
Speaker 4
Yeah.
Sunny
Toh bhai sahab thoda phaile hue hain. Matlab woh bhai sahab tension zyada le sakte hain. Lekin Pree is like more focused, more like towards the nose. Woh jaayegi.
Speaker 4
Right.
Sunny
So ya usko fark padega.
Speaker 4
Right.
Sunny
Usko fark padega kisi bhi usse. So ho sakta hai agarbatti ki brand change kar lo. Zyada chemicals ho sakte hain. Hai na? Check out karo kisi aur- nahi, it's not only about agarbatti.
Speaker 4
Main koi talcum laga raha hoon, koi cream laga raha hoon ya ghar mein kuch bhi ho raha hai toh usse sabse pehle samajh aa jaata hai.
Speaker 1
Yes.
Perfume umm both my dog start sneezing, aur unko woh bhi nahi pasand hai haan ha my my husband put on pant umm shorts change karke usne pants pehan liye toh they know ki walk ka time hai ya ya warna yeh aadmi boxers mein hi ghoomta hai haan, ya hota hai beech mein ghar ke kapde, baahar ke kapde bhi utaarta hai achha, smell-smell ka ulta bhi hota hai haan woh jaise woh shave kara ke aate hain toh kaafi woh aati hai na like woh phitkari aur woh sab cheezein lagaate hain baahar.
Bahut saari cheezein lagaayi jaati hai kind of thing agar baahar jaate hain karaane toh woh smell ki wajah se bhi hota hai shaving cream nahi nahi shaving cream kichaij dog hai umm she is amazing, has a personality kyunki kaafi alcohol type ki use smell aati hai, spirit type ki use smell aati hai.
Woh unke liye bahut zyada hai, overstimulation ho jaata hai unko. Uski wajah se woh is tareeqe se karne lag jaate hain lekin kya naachta hai maine kaha are aaj tak mere liye nahi kiya aise-aise kabhi woh naachna nahi hai, woh overstimulation hai. Naachna nahi, woh humein naachna aisa dikhta hai.
Lekin woh overstimulation aap bhi spa kar-kar aao shayad kuch cheez samajh mein aayega like proper hair spa, body spa sab lekar aao.
Sunny
Inki, iski society ki thi. Woh aaj bhi dhoondh rahi hai mujhe, kidhar gaya? So bahut maza aaya tha mere ko us dog ke saath. So ya matlab woh tension woh woh bite karna tabhi start kiya jab woh like insecurity mein tension mix hui. Otherwise nahi hota sorry Sakshi.
Speaker 1
This is related somewhere it's like Dodo ko kisi bhi tareeqe ki noise se problem hoti hai.
Sunny
Haan.
Speaker 1
Matlab pataakhe wagairah. Uske baad se jab bhi koi there's a thud or there's a bang, woh daregi, abhi lately kya hua hai na ki recliner ko agar aap close karte ho, aawaaz aati hai wahin so rahi hai, toh yeh tab bhi aise hoti hai. Toh is it insecurity or is it abhi association ho gaya hai?
Sunny
Nahi, woh toh sensitive hai aawaaz ko lekar. Dekhiye aawaaz se har ek being ko dikkat hoti hai. Sudden, sudden aawaaz se, sudden voice se. Chaunkna bolte hain usko han. So bhale hi har ek being do type of fear ke saath paida hote hain. Fear of falling, pehla fear hai, and fear of sound.
Hum sab jitne bhi prithvi par upjaati hai, hai na? Jinke paas mind hai thoda aisa hai, woh do tareeqe ke fear se paida hote hain: fear of falling aur fear of sound. Toh falling ka fear hota hai unke andar, yeh natural hai. Woh dog ke andar bhi hota hai aur humare andar bhi hota hai aur fear of sound.
Hum har koi bhi aage peeche se chillaayega hum hum usko darna nahi bolte, usko chaunkna bolte hain. Hum chaunk jaayenge. So woh dog chaunk raha ekdam ki are yeh kya hai woh aur chaunkna agar rapidly ho jaata hai, woh fear mein convert ho jaata hai.
Jaise bomb phoota, woh chaunki, sambhaal hi nahi paa rahi thi ki idhar se ek aur phoot gaya. Okay na. Toh ab ab uske idhar chaunki, phir idhar chaunki. Woh badhta jaata hai uska panic ka, lekin us tareeqe se badhega tun, tun, tun, tun, aise, aise upar karke. Toh unko time lagta hai waapas se back jaane.
Insaan ko time lagta hai waise hi back nahi kyunki yeh back nahi jaa paa rahi abhi.
Speaker 1
Kal raat mein so so ikka baar late jaati hai toh baarah baje ke kareeb my husband dekhta hai toh woh neeche gayi. Baadal garje aur waapas isko phir uske baad us gate par jaana hi nahi. Ab mujhe kahin aur lekar chalo kyunki association is ki wahaan par kuch phatta hai, kuch aawaaz aati hai.
Toh yeh bahut dikkat ho jaati hai. Toh iske liye- nahi yeh dikkat nahi hai.
Sunny
Yeh dikkat nahi hai. Matlab actually this is very good opportunity woh bond create karne ka.
Toh during woh bond hi leke jaati hoon ki tu jaayegi toh yahin jaayegi yes, yes. Lekin more from a compassion perspective haan. Hai na? More from a compassion perspective, more from a that perspective ki apan ko jaana hai yahaan par lekin main teri tere darr ko samajh rahi hoon, us perspective se.
Toh us perspective se humko woh wahaan par lekar jaana hota hai. Toh dog yeh samajh paata hai ki mere ko samajh rahi hai aur woh hum par zyada bharosa kar paata hai, trust kar paata hai. So do mode hote hain in sab cheezon mein. Ek toh dictatorship waala mode hai aur ek leadership waala mode hai.
Toh insaan ismein jump karta rehta hai. Lekin dog ko samajh mein aata hai ki right now yeh is mode mein abhi hai na. Us samay bond create nahi hota. Jab hum leadership waale mode mein rehte hain. Leadership waale mode ka matlab hai guide karna.
Hai na hum guide karne waale mode mein hote hain, tab zyada behtar tareeqe se relationship banta hai dog ke saath, deep relationship banta hai unke saath.
Speaker 1
And it's all through all through the energy you are carrying with it right?
Sunny
Ya leash. Leash and your this thing. Kyunki hum unse tej bhaag nahi sakte. Hai na? So agar doosra dog hota toh bina leash ke jaata isko, isko lekar bina pack kahin aur ja raha hota aur usme se nikalta woh. Agar ye bhaagti toh isko pin down kar diya jaata, baithaya jaata.
Toh isko baar baar door bhaagne se baithaya jaata. Isko pin down kar diya jaata. Wahan se door nahi bhagaya jaata. Agar pack ko wahan se nikalna hi nikalna hai aur ant mein pack isko peeche chhod jaata. Is tareeke se pack kaam karta hai. Isko pack peeche, isko overcome karna hi padta agar unke saath jaana hai toh.
Toh pack ise challenge karta hai ki saath rehna hai tere ko. Hum tere ko security provide karte hain. Hum tere ko food provide karte hain. But you have to overcome this thing. Ek message deta hai usko, hai na ek message deta hai.
So woh woh message ek push hota hai, woh ek push hota hai aur hum ye kaise mimic kar sakte hain? Hum leash lekar ja sakte hain. Hum lambi leash lekar ja sakte hain. Hum chhoti leash par ye cheez mimic kar sakte hain. Chhoti-chhoti leash par kaise?
Chhoti si leash ke saath agar hum leash lekar jaate hain toh pin down hai woh chhote leash par mimic hota hai. Chhoti leash par yaani pin down ka matlab kya hota hai zameen par patakna nahi. Pin down ka matlab hota hai ek jagah par rukna.
Dog ke paas leash nahi hai toh dog kaise karega us cheez ko karne ke liye usko zameen par patkega. Usko baitha kar thodi rakh sakta hai doosra dog bina leash ke na lekin woh toh idhar udhar hoti rahegi toh usko bhi dete hain neeche ki this is the thing. Ye hum tujhse expect kar rahe hain ki tu yahan par shaant ho.
Hum woh kaise kar sakte hain chhoti leash par, badi leash se kaise kar sakte hain. Hum aage ja sakte hain usko chhodkar hum aage ja sakte hain taaki woh kahin bhaagegi bhi nahi aur humare paas woh bhi rahega.
Toh in aise method se hum mimicry kar sakte hain. Cheezon ko lekar bahut saare cases bhi hum dekhte hain ki jismein dog darwaaze se darne lag jaata hai. Apne isme bhi hai, group mein bhi hai.
Jo darwaaze se darta hai toh usko ek tezi se aana hota hai aur darwaaze ko cross kar dena aur bina kuch soch samjhe bina kuch baat kiye woh agar rukta bhi hai toh dheere dheere kheench kheench kar usko. Yeh bhi ek method, toh dog to dog par depend karta hai.
Par aapke paas ye saari skills hogi toh aap implement karke dekh sakte ho.
Jab ek baar aap kisi bhi dog ke upar implement karte ho toh sirf aap us dog ke upar implement nahi, waise jitne bhi dog hai unke upar implement kar sakte ho sabke upar aur sabke upar zyada jaldi work karega aapke dog se zyada kyunki aapke dog ke saath aapke emotions aate hain.
Doosre dog ke saath aap complete logical rehte ho.
Koi emotions nahi, koi emotions nahi aate hain. Toh yahan par jitni aapko pareshani ho rahi hai usse 10x kam pareshani hogi doosre dog ke saath. Okay so hum log ek jagah ruk jaate hain jab tak yeh nahi chalti hum log wahin ruke hain. Yeh phir nahi chalegi. Yeh toh baith jaayegi, nahi chalegi.
Toh main aage par mujhe kheenchna padta hai. Is dragging all right aur dragging ka ek tareeka hota hai. Aur dragging ka dragging ka tareeka kaise hota hai ki hum drag nahi karte, hum guide karte hain. Lekin usme kaisa hota hai ki hum leash gale par rakhi hai na? Iski total upar kar diya. Leash tight hai.
Tight karte karte hum kheenchenge nahi, lekin hum apne haath ko ekdum aakhir ke point par le jaayenge. Lekin leash tight rehni chahiye. Okay. Hum ab aakhir ke ab usse bahut door ho gaye.
Poori leash humare haath mein. Ab hum halka sa aage kheenchenge. Jitni humne pressure diye hain tight se, hum thoda sa aage kheenchenge. Bas thoda sa aage kheench kar poori tarah usko kheenchenge nahi. Bas thoda sa aage pressure denge.
Jitna humne pressure diya hai usse thoda sa aage pressure denge aur hum observe karenge ki uska ek paw zara sa bhi uth raha hai kya? Okay woh zara sa bhi aage aa rahi hai kya? Agar woh zara sa aage nahi aa rahi toh hum halka sa aur pressure denge aur phir wait karenge ki woh thoda sa aur aage woh aage aa rahi hai kya?
Lekin jaise hi humein ek point mil gaya ki itne pressure par dog ne apna aage wala paw aage badhaya. Humein yeh figure out karna hota hai. Kitne pressure par, uske liye time lagta hai shuruwat mein. Kitne pressure par dog ne apna ek pair aage badhaya.
Jaise hi utne pressure par dog ne apna ek pair aage badhaya, hum poora pressure release kar dete hain.
Zero. Woh leash jo tense thi woh completely relax ho jaati hai. Ab ye kya signal de raha hai dog ko, clear communication. What you want jab bhi pressure feel ho, ek kadam aage badha. Ek kadam aage badha. Toh aap phir se yeh karte ho. Ab aapko yeh dekhna hai ki use utna hi pressure lag raha hai, usse kam lag raha hai.
Most of the cases mein usse kam pressure lagta hai. Haan, uske baad chal leti hai. Ek baar chal padi toh phir chal jaati hai. Ek baar chal padi toh chal padti hai. Lekin yeh clear communication ismein aap drag nahi karte ho. Ismein aap clearly communicate karte ho. Toh uske baad kya hota hai na jab.
Jab dog ke mind mein set ho jaata hai. Aage agar mera human is tareeke se mujhe aage pressure de raha hai toh mujhe uske saath jaana hai. Woh darna band kar deta hai. Jahan par bhi darta hai, aap same cheez karte ho.
Woh turant aapke paas aakar khada ho jaayega aur aapko follow karke nikal jaayega wahan se. Lekin hum usko lekin agar hum drag karenge toh possible nahi hai. Lekin agar hum is tareeke se communicate karenge. Yeh antar hai dictatorship mein aur leadership mein.
Dragging is dictatorship aur guide karna yeh leadership hai. So basically is is end of the leash se yahan poora tight hai aur aap jahan jaana hai uski taraf aage badh rahe ho lekin us par pressure lekar aage badh rahe ho.
Loose nahi, kyunki agar aapne loose aage badhe dog wahan se hila woh position change ho jaayegi aur ho sakta hai dog nikal bhi jaaye usme se. Okay, toh aapko completely tight karke aage badhna hai, lekin woh tight. Just itna pressure ho ki woh peeche nahi ja sake.
Hum aage ki try nahi kar rahe hain, bas woh peeche nahi ja sake. Jahan par baithi hai wahan par baithi rahe. Itne pressure se humko aage badhana hai. Ek baar hum apne extreme point par pahunch gaye leash ko lekar toh kitna bhi ho sakta hai. Poore leash ke end mein bhi ho sakta hai aur pehle bhi ho sakta hai.
Bas aapko dog ko room dena hai na. Beech ka room dena hai. Usko samjhega nahi. Tum kya chahte ho? Aapko room dena hai toh room jab woh usko room milta hai aur woh dekhti hai ki mere ko saamne ki taraf se pressure aa raha hai. Yaani mujhe saamne ki taraf bheja ja raha hai.
Agar main peeche hatti hoon toh mujhe pressure feel ho raha hai toh main kahin aur jaaun toh ye pressure release hoga kya? Uske dimaag mein contemplation chaalu hota hai. Okay, ye pressure and reward waali technique hai ki agar main kahin aur ja rahi hoon toh ye pressure release ho raha hai kya?
Toh jaise hi ek kadam usne aage badhaya aur suppose karo aapne pressure release nahi kiya.
ya aapki timing totally off hai jo dragging mein hota hai ya nahi. Aapki title aapki toh toh dog aur confuse ho jaati hai. Main idhar gayi, pressure nahi gaya, idhar gayi, pressure nahi gaya, idhar gayi, pressure nahi gaya, idhar gayi, pressure nahi gaya toh woh seekhti nahi us jagah se nikalna.
Aapko hamesha phir same technique karni hogi. Kaun si dragging wali okay, toh hamesha uski zaroorat padegi aapko. Lekin agar aap yeh practice karoge, ismein shuruat mein zyada time lagta hai, lekin yeh long term mein set ho jaata hai.
Maamla phir dog ke saath, phir woh seekh jaata hai ki agar dog mujhe agar human mujhe idhar pull kar raha hai toh mujhe idhar jaana hai, udhar pull kar raha hai toh udhar jaana hai. Over a period time yeh aapke saath trust aur respect ka bahut amazing build karne lag jaata hai. Phir woh dog darna band kar deta hai.
Usko jab bhi kuch comfort chahiye toh seedha aapke side mein aakar khada ho jaata hai okay.
Cool hai okay-okay, thank you ya. That is guys aaj ke liye. Itne hi questions the. Yes nahi mere abhi chal raha hai.
So boundaries are important thing. And boundaries log create nahi karte hain kyunki boundaries ko cruelty ki tarah dekha jaata hai. Lekin boundaries cruelty nahi hai, boundary guidance hai, hai na? Ki kaise communicate karna ho kya expected hai unse.
Toh yahan par boundaries ki zaroorat thi ya nahi toh doosre dog ke paas nahi ja sakta. Abhi main chahe-- agar maine usko ek raw piece diya, raw chicken kha rahi hai woh aur haddi ki aawaaz aa rahi hai, toh bade dogs aayenge na uske paas. Ab main usse kya bolun? Nahi beta bachhi hai usko khaane de. Woh kya sunegi meri?
Woh nahi, nahi sunegi, nahi sunegi meri. Toh unko seedha bataana padta hai ki tum iske paas nahi ja sakte. With strictness, with assertiveness. Ki no, you can not, you can not go. Toh tab jaakar woh sab woh sam-samajhte hain. Lekin gharon mein yeh nahi hota isliye resource guarding ki sabse zyada dikkat hai.
Puppyhood se start hota hai. So yeh jo Millie puppy aayi thi, yeh shuruat se resource guarding ki signs de rahi thi. Uh bones ki taraf agar isko haddi de di toh yeh growl karna start kar deti thi. Growl karna. So pehle din se humne iski usko sikhaana chaalu kar diya ki agar main aaunga tujhe haddi chhodni hai.
Toh uh isko haddi di and isne haddi jhap karke pakdi. Pehli baat hai. Jaise isne haddi jhap karke pakdi, mera haath neeche gaya aur isey gardan par is tareeke se touch hua. Like bite ki tarah. Hai na? So puppy hai lekin adult ki tarah behave kar rahi hai puppy hai lekin adult ki tarah behave kar rahi hai.
Yaani resource guard kar rahi hai. Teen mahine ki hai, dhai mahine ki hai aur yeh resource guard kar rahi hai. Aage chalkar kya hoga? So jab woh adult puppy hai hamare paas yaani uska mind adult hai, adult ki tarah behave kar raha hai woh.
Toh humein usko ek adult ki tarah dekhna padta hai, koochi baby poochie baby ki tarah nahi. Samjha? Saamne dog ke upar depend karta hai. Toh ek adult puppy hai. Toh hum kya karenge? Neeche haath lekar gaya aur maine uske gardan par touch kiya. Like a bite.
Toh iske munh se yelp nikli kyunki isko expected nahi tha ki bite ho jaayegi. Toh us samay bite, us samay bite hui aur isne turant chhod diya uske baad se jab bhi yeh khaati hai aur main apna haath aise neeche rakhta hoon like this thing, hai na, like aise nahi thehra, yeh munh se poora drop kar deti hai.
Jo bhi cheez iske munh mein ho. So ek baari mein is cheez ko samajh mein aa gaya. But woh like woh clear communication tha. Kya na? Ki agar-- aur isne doosre dogs ke saath bhi band kar diya. Nahi toh iski bahut pitaayi hoti. Iski bahut pitaayi hoti.
Toh usne doosre dog ke saath bhi band kar diya aur mere saath bhi band kar diya.
Lekin pehli baar mein. Lekin iske andar resource guarding kya hai? Woh bachpan se dikhne lag jaata hai. Ekdam nahi aata. Resource guarding ka jo issue hai, woh ekdam nahi aata. Woh bachpan se hai. Matlab jab aap ghar par lekar aaoge, aapko dikhne lag jaayega ki yeh objects ki taraf zyada hai, zyada drive hai iska.
Food ki taraf zyada drive hai iska, cheezon ko hoard karke rakhne mein zyada drive hai. Kuch bhi cheez neeche girti hai, usko uthaakar le aati hai aur apne paas rakh kar faadne lag jaati hai. Toh iska hoarding ka drive zyada hai iska aur aise dogs, uh-uh-uh, reactive ho jaate hain.
Toh humein bachpan se hi bataana hota hai lekin human miss kar dete hain isko humans miss kar dete hain but is there certain factor jiske kaaran yeh develop hota hai?
Sakshi
Bachpan se?
Sunny
No. No, yeh nature hai. This is survival.
Sakshi
Survival instinct. Hoon.
Sunny
Humans ke andar bhi hai. Humans hoard karte hain na.
Sakshi
Haan. Jaise sabse lesser score kar rahe hain matlab jitni ladaaiyan hoti hai zameeno ke liye aur in sab cheezon ke liye woh kya hai? Hmm.
Sunny
Resource guarding. Ya resource guarding. Woh hi survival ka woh hai, woh hai. It's like, it's not koi learned behavior. Yeh hamare survival ke instincts hain. We start hoarding. Jitne hum survival mein rehte hain, start hoarding things.
Cheezein let go karne mein dikkat aati hai aur kharaab ho gayi hai cheezein, lekin padi rahengi. Hai na? Pade-pade rahenge. Matlab sab kuch kharaab ho raha ki bhaiya yeh toh isko nikal jaana chahiye. Lekin kya pata kabhi kaam aa jaaye. Meri saamaan hai, mere plastic ke dabbe hain.
Har cheez mein jaan phoonk dete hain. Koi achhi cheez mein jaan phoonko. Matlab logon, bolo ko achhi cheez mein jaan phoonko. Achhe apne kaam, karm mein jaan phoonko. Yeh kya plastic ke dabbe mein jaan phoonki hui hai. Matlab jaan di hui hai ki mera plastic ka dabba yeh kahin nahi ja sakta. What the hell yaar!
Get over it so yeh survival hai. Usse samajh mein aata hai ki saamne wala stress mein hai aur stress mein aane ke baad uski habit ho gayi hai is tareeke se cope karne ki hmm. Matlab yeh human ki baat kar raha hoon. Human ki baat kar raha hoon actually mein. Human ki baat raha hoon, animals ki nahi.
Toh animals ke andar yeh survival ka rehta hai aur yeh baahar nahi nikalte. Yeh seekh sakte hain ki is tareeke se survival ke instincts nahi karne hain. Release. Yeh we seekh sakte hain ki yahan par yeh allowed nahi hai, hoarding. Yahan par guarding allowed nahi hai, okay? Toh woh kahin aur cheezein karte hain.
Baahar se cheezein uthaakar lekar aayenge hmm.
us tareeke se release cheezein, lekin wo rehte survival mein. Unka survival hi rehta hai dogs ka. Koi mode nahi hai doosra. Wo relaxation mein rehte hain, lekin survival mode aate hain unke life mein. Toh relaxation mode and survival mode. Is tareeke ke mode aate rehte hain unke andar. Wo overcome nahi hota hai.
Ye unke inbuilt hai survival. Is par wo jee paate hain, survive kar paate hain.
Sakshi
Got it. Mera next question thoda Barfi se related tha. Abhi mujhe diagnosed hai anxiety depression and along with multiple other things. Toh err apparently Barfi is also picking it up err now for like six months or so. Main dekh rahi hoon ki uski anxiety kaafi badhti jaa rahi hai.
Sunny
Yeah. Toh when I consulted the nutritionist, toh Mansi se Mansi ka recommendation ye tha ki main usko ek Niramaya Vijaya Tailam hota hai.
CBD ka? S CBD.
Sakshi
Hmm. It is 1500 mg, kaafi strong bhi laga mujhe. Toh usne bola ki three-four drops se shuru karo aur ye karo wo karo. Hmm. Ab meri thodi si usko lete kyunki meri apni koi research toh hai nahi. Very honestly maine kuch nahi kara hai is se related. Hmm.
Sunny
Toh main usko lekar confused hoon ki whether I should start it.
Sakshi
And usmein bhi ek thoda sa financial factor bhi hai, because it's a it's quite pricey, like it's...
Sunny
Y-y overpriced, overpriced ninety-five hundred or something it is for 15 ml. Ya CBD wala banana easy hai bahut. CBD wala banana ya CBD wala banana bahut easy hai. Bas uske beej procure karna aapko government se lene padte hain. But jo margin hai it's like 98, 99% hai.
So market matlab market mein jo price chal rahi hai that is very overpriced.
I get this. That is veryyy overpriced. Hai na us cheez ke liye kyunki banana bahut aasaan hai bas beej procure karna mushkil hai iske andar. You know beej government se, government se milte hain.
Lekin jo CBD oil ka jo dog ke upar diya hua hai ki hum dog ko de sakte hain lekin dog agar aapse pick kar raha hai toh dog se zyaada humko zaroorat hai actual mein CBD oil ki. Zyaada, like, aur mujhe lagta nahi hai CBD oil is tareeke se work karta hai.
Mean hum apne mind ko zaroor hamare mind ko zaroor calm down kar sakta hai, dog ke mind ko bhi zaroor calm down kar sakta hai. Lekin jo real issue hai, like hamara mind kyun itna vislipt ho raha hai, usko nahi help kar sakta.
Wo bas itni help kar sakta hai ki tumhara dimaag shaant hai toh tum solution figure out kar sako.
itna help kar sakta hai so aap volume turn down karna ya wall aapka, aapka volume kyunki maine bhi ek baar ye CBD ka kuch medicine tha wo maine liya tha. But uske baad se almost for twenty-four hours main ekdam aisi numb ho gayi thi ki mujhe sirf neend aa rahi hai aur main CBD nahi tha wo. Oh.
Wo CBD nahi tha, wo CBD ke saath THC bhi tha. Aur ho sakta hai duplicate bhi ho sakta hai. It's not like this. So CBD, CBD neend nahi lekar aata hai. Okay. CBD ke saath agar THC hota hai wo neend lekar aata hai. Numbness hota hai. THC.
THC is like psychoactive apna substance, jo weed mein hota hai, gaanje mein hota hai. Right, right. THC and CBD usmein hota hai aur like wo aap oil mein milta hai.
Lekin India mein I don't know shayad India mein THC wala mil raha hai. Toh wo agar aap zyaada le loge toh aapko bahut neend aayegi. Toh aapko wo dosage apne hisaab se dekhni hoti hai humko. I took a half tablet aur usse mera poora day aisa nikla hai. Sar dukhaaya hai maine. Haan tablet, it was a tablet.
No, that wo, wo usmein bahut saare chemicals hote hain, like agar aapko purity ke liye jaana hai toh humein sirf oil ke through jaana hota hai. Tablet ki taraf nahi. CBD oil ya THC oil agar aapko psychoactive element chahiye toh CBD plus THC jisse thoda calm down ho kyunki CBD ke saath hi hone laga tha.
I still have it. Ye ye pada Depression, depression, epilepsy, anxiety, THC is needed. Okay, sirf CBD ka nahi hota, THC is needed.
Aur wo tum oil se le sakte ho, smoke se bhi le sakte ho. But the point is doctor says ki aapke dimaag ko habba mein nahi rehna hai, usko shaant hona hai. There are two, dekho, jo jo CBD hota hai uske saath agar THC nahi hoga toh wo psychoactive element nahi milte hain.
Lekin THC bhi do tareeke ke hote hain, Indica aur Sativa. Right. Agar aap Sativa lete ho, Sativa wali strain ka THC lete ho toh aapke andar creativity increase hoti hai. Yaani more this thing. Aapko nahi chahiye dono ko you need more this thing.
Agar aapke dimaag mein epilepsy aati hai ya phir anxiety aati hai, you don't need Sativa, you need Indica strain.
India mein nahi milta hai aise, India mein aise nahi milta hai but main aapko information de raha hoon ok ki Indica wale strain jab loge wo aapko thoda sulaenge, aapko shaant karenge, thoda numb karte hain, ok thoda numb karte hain.
Aur agar aap creativity creativity wale loge toh wo aapko dimaag mein more creativity laate hain lekin phir bhi, phir bhi jo root hai wahaan par jaana zaroori hai. Because aapke root mein kahaan dikkat hai? Root ka matlab hai is there any fear in you? Wo fear kahaan se aa raha hai? You have to face this.
Ladkiyon ko dikkat aati hai apna fear face karne mein. Matlab har kisi ko dikkat aati hai. Lekin mere experience mein main dekh raha hoon ki ladkiyon ko zyaada dikkat aati hai apne fear ko karne.
Maybe, I don't know because society ka jo upbringing hai ya phir jo ladkiyon ka nature hota hai more umm this thing, nurturing nurturing wala hota hai, hai na, ya phir thoda thoda soft hum usko handle nahi karein aur wo rahe toh theek hai.
Toh wo aapka jo nature hota hai aapko masculine energy lagti hai bahut saare bahut baar fear ko handle karne.
Male ke saath aisa nahi hota hai. Male ke saath toh male yahaan par upper hand mein hote hain apne fear, isliye aapko dikhega ki male zyaada progress karte hain. This is the reason male zyaada risk-taking hote hain by biology.
Sakshi if you feel okay even like whenever you can get in touch with me I can give you some tools. I have worked with them on myself. Toh I had epilepsy. It's been 18 years now. Toh mera aisa roller, toh main do saal ki thi. Jaise aapka dog second floor se neeche gira hai, main gir gayi thi.
Aur mera yeh part mein there is a huge big scar aaj bhi, ye poora phat gaya tha. The point hai ki mera sir nahi phata. Wo blood saara andar reh gaya.
Toh I have to be on medicines taaki phir se clots na bane. Tripti knows about this. Aur yeh woh scar hai toh jab bhi woh throughout baat chal rahi hoti hai dimaag ki, toh mujhe poori time yahan aisa, aisa, aisa, aisa, har jagah feel hota hai ek ek cheez. Twitches feel hote hain.
I have been like, there was a time I was bed ridden, and umm, uh, so I had bahut ganda depression and anxiety. Aur I can help you out there. Kyunki time ke baad jaise, jaise aap therapist se bhi hatoge na, it will kick back very hard. So the only person who can help you is you yourself.
Yoga and meditation pehle mujhe lagta tha kuch nahi hoga.
But I never had to take a headache pill. I take headache pill. I used to take headache pill every day not that one month.
Speaker 1
Never I had even a twitch in my body for that one month. Toh main poora world se ekdam kat gayi thi. Only yoga aur meditation so bahut kuch ho sakta hai. Abhi umm even umm Paresh ji asked me for a few tips so I gave him kyunki woh start kar rahe hain.
Kyunki aap ekdam se major start karoge meditation, toh aapko bonkers kar dega ki yeh maine kya kiya apne baare mein. Toh if if you need because it's it's kind of emotional for everybody, toh I'm there, I can help you.
Sakshi
You can act. Main thoda sa, haan, I will reach out to you pakka.
Sunny
Okay. So waise jo anxiety and depression ke baare mein baat hoti hai ya phir epilepsy ke baare mein baat hoti hai na, toh yeh diet se bhi bahut zyada, matlab physical trauma toh hai hi sahi, lekin diet, so generally log, hum hum therapy ke paas jaate hain, hum different cheezein koshish karni, koshish karte hain.
Bahut high-fi words bhi aate hain hamare paas ki hum yeh karein, woh karein. Bhale hi main breathing ke baare mein bolun ya Wim Hof ke breathing ke baare, lekin kai baar jo kaaran hota hai hamari diet mein bhi hota hai. Hai na? So hum kis tareeke ki diet kha rahe hain. Sabse badi culprit hoti hai, hidden sugars.
Sugar, haan.
Sakshi
Haan. So aap bologe na yaar, hum toh, hum toh sugar khaate hi nahi hain.
Sunny
Kai baar aisa hota hai mere saath ki main logon ko bolta hoon sugar. 'Nahi, hum toh sugar khaate hi nahi.' Maine kaha, 'Chai?' 'Chai peete hain.' Maine kaha, 'Biscuit?' 'Chai ke saath do biscuit ho jaate hain.' Maine kaha, 'Abhi toh bol rahe ho tum sugar nahi khaate.'
'Bas itna hi toh khaate hain.' Maine kaha yaar, what the hell. Kyun ho tum, like parde kyun daalte ho? Hai na is cheez ke upar? Agar khaate ho toh khaate ho. Yeh bol do na nahi chhod paayenge. Toh humein apni diet ke upar sabse zyada aur khaaskar epilepsy, depression, anxiety waale cases mein sugar allowed nahi hoti.
Sugar induce karti hai sab cheezein. Okay na? Aur sugar kis-kis mein hoti hai? Hamari chai coffee mein toh hoti hai, jo hum biscuit khaate hain, jismein sugar-free biscuit hai, usmein bhi sugar hai. Jitne bhi packed food hain, eighty percent se zyada usmein sugar hai. Eighty percent zyada packed.
Toh humein yeh sab cheez chhodni padti hai agar hum really apne health ke upar kaam karna chahte hain. Otherwise hum CBD lenge, THC lenge. It's like woh upar ki malham hai. Aapko thoda sa help kar sakta hai, hai na, taaki aapka dimaag shaant ho aur aap decide kar sako ki aapko kya chahiye.
Otherwise upar se lep lagaoge aur andar ki root ko, yoga, meditation is also lep.
Sirf aapko woh tool provide kare, aapka dimaag shaant ho taaki aap root cause ke upar baat kar sako. Aur sabse zyada log ghabraate hain hard talks karne mein. So don't run away from those. Hard talks karna. Hai na? So life mein agar hard talk karne se aap run kar rahe ho, zindagi depression aur anxiety mein jaayegi.
Depression ka matlab kya hota hai? Humne apne emotions ko suppress kiya. Kyun suppress kiya? Aur kab tak suppress karte rahoge exactly. Haan, toh kabhi toh chhodna hi padega. Jitna jaldi utna achha. Jitna late utna mushkil. Hai na? Matlab like, main simple sa apne life mein formula rakhta hoon.
Like mujhe koi fear dikha apne andar, mere jeevan ka phir wahi priority rehta hai ki mujhe is fear ko overcome karna hai. Mujhe agar kisi se, mujhe pehle meetings se bahut zyada darr lagta tha.
Main IT mein tha aur mujhe meetings se bahut zyada darr lagta tha. But when jab, when when I started all this self-development waala cheez apne upar implement karna, aur jab maine learn kiya ki yaar mujhe apne mann ki kharaab cheezein dhoondhni hain aur unko bhasm karna hai, matlab unko khatam karne ka hai mere ko.
Hai na? Toh mujhe dikhti gayi cheezein, cheezein. Ab mujhe meeting, meeting, kisi bhi cheez se darr lagta hai? Ek time bahut zyada darr lagta tha. Like, toh hamari life mein jin cheezon se humein darr lagta tha, aap kuch time ke baad sochoge yaar kya faaltu mein darte the?
Humne kitne opportunities kho di us cheez ke liye. Hai na? Phir sochenge le le le. Opportunity toh khoi khoi, ab tu uske liye ro bhi raha hai. Double nuksaan. Hai na? Toh aaj tum rona hi band kar doge. Ki kho gayi, kho gayi. Umm next waali nahi khoenge. Next waale par hum work karenge.
Toh hard talks karni padegi khud ke saath bhi aur apne relationship mein. Mostly relationship ke issues hote hain jo hamari age hai.
Most most issues wahi par hai apne. So humein wahan par hard talk karne ki zaroorat hai. Uska parda dene ki zaroorat nahi hai, kyunki yeh hamari life hai aur hamare life ke abhi bahut saare saal baaki hain. Humne jaise saal bita diye, bita diye. Ab aage ke saal waise nahi bitaayenge.
Yeh promise toh khud se karna padega, nahi toh aage saal waise hi beetenge aur dawaiyan badhti jaayegi hamari. Woh humein nahi karna, woh humein nahi karna, humein change karna hai apni life ko. Woh tabhi possible hai jab aap decide karoge change ka. Achha gyaan. Very good Sunny. Chalo that's it aaj ke liye.
Arre ab aur sawaal the Sakshi ji, sorry, sorry, sorry, sorry. Maine doosri jagah galat, nahi nahi, it's okay.
Sakshi
Aapka waala hai yeh, poochhiye. So ek toh medicine hai umm matlab ek toh orally consume karne ke liye bola hai.
There is second one jo unhone bola hai ki umm hips and joints pe lagaane ke liye. Gandha Clay Balm karke hai ek. It's a pain medication.
Sunny
Upar se laakar, that also contains CBD, haan.
Sakshi
Woh bhi CBD hai uska massage karne ke liye just to relieve the pain.
Sunny
Nahi, marketing poora ka gimmick hai yaar. Aur kuch bhi nahi hai. But it's like, umm it's like hamara motive kya hai? Uski jis cheez achhi ho like hip joints aur uske yeh sab cheezein achhe ho, andar like, pain management hai. Nahi, dog ka pain tolerance actual mein bahut zyada hota hai.
Matlab, toh maine bhi aise toh usko, jaise main uska spine umm kabhi aise check karoon, toh uska jahan pe poonchh umm shuru hota hai, wahan pe woh definitely twitch karta hai.
Haan.
Sakshi
Baaki main usko in general aise thoda har doosre teesre din aise thoda sa idhar pressure diya, udhar pressure diya, dekhti rehti hoon. And I, I try to notice his reaction kya rehta hai. Toh there is only one point jahan pe woh twitch karta hai. Baaki thoda sa sa concern dikhata hai.
But aise mujhe kabhi laga nahi ki usko, ki woh active pain mein hai. Nahi, woh active pain mein nahi hoga.
Sunny
Aur kayi baar kya hota hai jaise dog jo fast move karte hain, toh thoda chiropractic adjustment lagta hai unko spine par. Matlab khud bhi, haan khud, vaisa nahi ki andar kuch chot lagi ho, kuch woh laga hua hai, woh khud bhi kar lete hain.
Lekin apne andar haath rakhkar is tareeke se karenge toh body unki aisi rahegi ki aapko kayi baar pop sunayi dega uske andar se. Okay toh aisa nahi hai usko wahan par chot lag rahi hai aur yeh sab ho raha hai.
And CBD ki is tarah ki zaroorat nahi hai usko ki like shaant hone ke liye woh CBD khaye ya phir woh cheez ke, dog ko more exercise ki zaroorat hoti hai.
Matlab jo aise dog, aise dogs hote hain aur human jo unke saath reh raha hai, unko more outing ki zaroorat hoti hai. Matlab you, you need to go out more. Baahar nikalna. Bhale dog ke saath niklo, lekin lamba niklo.
Nature ko dekhte-dekhte ya kuch karte hue, and jo andar cheezein rakhi hui hai, us par soch kar chalo ki kaam karna hai, baat karni hai. Andar hi just diffuse nahi karni kyunki aap, aap baat nahi kar rahe ho.
Matlab it's like, hai na, kyunki main bhi go through hua hoon na in sab cheezon se, matlab depression se go through hua hoon na. Woh mera kaaran yahi tha depression ki main, main shutdown ho gaya tha, baat karna band kar diya tha.
Jo mujhe, jo mujhe karni chahiye thi aur woh shutdown isliye nahi hua tha ki yaar kuch sunte nahi. Main dar gaya tha. Mere ko baat karne mein ya phir uske baad jo ladayi hoti hai un sab cheezon ko handle karne mein mere ko idea nahi tha.
Toh hum phir kya karte hain hum escape dhoondhte hain, lekin woh escape nahi hai, woh delusion hai escape ka. You have to talk. You have to go through all the ladayi. Hai na? Aur us ladayi mein jab...
main trick batata hoon, us ladayi mein jab hum apna aapa khote hain, hum aapa khoyenge kyunki abhi aapko aadat nahi hai. You will get angry, you will get frustrated, you will cry. All this thing will happen. This is normal lekin phir bhi humein hard talk karni hai.
Toh jab hum apna aapa kho dete hain, uske baad hum meditate karte hain aur hum yeh same cheez waapas se run kar sakte hain aur dekh sakte hain ki humne kab aapa khoya. So next time par we will be better. Teesre time par we will become more better.
Ek time aisa aayega ki hum apne conversation, hum conversation kar paayenge bina apna aapa khoye aur apni baat rakh paayenge. So that, that is the moment aapka depression chala jaayega.
Okay depression is suppression of our emotions. Okay so jo bhi insaan depression bolta hai, main bolta hoon, aap bolte ho, yeh bolte hain, woh apne emotions ko suppress kar rahe hain. Okay suppress kar rahe hain. Aur suppression ka kaaran dar bhi hota hai aur suppression ka kaaran, kaaran humari image bhi hoti hai.
Humne apne dimaag mein ek nice girl, nice boy ki image banayi hui hai, jisse humein bahut zyada pyaar ho jaata hai aur hum sochte hain ki yeh nahi bigadna chahiye kyunki main toh ek acchi ladki hoon mujhe is tareeke se baat nahi karni chahiye kyunki main toh ek accha ladka hoon.
So isko people pleasing bolte hain aur humein pata nahi hota hai ki we are people pleasing. So get over it, get over this people pleasing waali thing and start putting on your ki aap kya chahte ho? Shuruwaat mein thokar lagegi. Doosri baar mein thokar lagegi. Teesri baar mein aapke paas bahut data hoga.
Lekin analyze karna, observe karna zaroori hai.
Aur yeh tab hoga jab aap apne aap ko apne aap se door karoge hai na woh hota hai meditation mein. Aur door se apni harkat ko dekhte hue yaar yeh kya kiya tune? Isko aise bhi toh bol sakta tha. Hai na? Toh kya? Toh next time, next time par dhyan rakhunga bhai. Hai na? Woh painful hota hai.
Ho sakta hai aap ro bhi sahi meditation mein dobaara. But kya aapke paas data aayega phir aap us par informed decision le sakte ho. Practice kar sakte ho meditation par. Like meditation practice kar sakte hain. Apne brain ko habit daal sakte hain ki how to behave aur woh real life mein phir waise behave karta hai.
It is amazing technique. Sirf meditation deta hai aur kuch nahi deta. Koi nahi de sakta aisa aisa skill apne ko. Yeah cool hai? Aur sawaal?
Sakshi
Thank you for a good question.
Thank you for good thing.
Sunny
Okay.
Sakshi
Maine miss kar diya. I will probably ask it in group.
Sunny
Okay.
Sakshi
Main miss kar diya tha.
Sunny
Theek hai.
Sakshi
Was related to video.
Sunny
Okay. Toh group pe pooch lena haan ji. Theek hai. Okay. That's it guys aur baahar jayiye aur khaane par dhyan rakhiye aur meetha bilkul bhi mat khaiye. Dimaag mein anxiety aati hai toh likh lijiye aur depression aata hai toh kisi ko kuch bata dijiye. Hai na? Lekin us zone mein mat rahiye.
Dog ko bhi bata dijiye ki bhai mere saath aisa ho gaya hai.
Uske saamne maatha peet lijiye. But andar mat rakhiye cheezon ko. Hai na? Aapka mind jitna shaant hoga, utni aapke paas solution find karne ki ability hogi. Warna nahi hogi. Theek hai. Baaki hum log toh hain hi sahi yahan par.
Sakshi
Main toh definitely connect karoongi.
Sunny
Yes bilkul ek doosre se connect kijiye aur ek doosre ki madad kijiye. Yes yeah take care. Bye bye.
Sakshi
Bye. Thank you. Bye.
Sunny
Have a great day. Bye.
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