Pro group call · Fri 17 Jul 2026 · 1 hr 39 min
A lift-bite incident, car anxiety, and reading dog body language
The call opened with member introductions, then moved into a detailed case study where Prafull described his dog Kulfi biting a neighbour in a lift, with Sunny coaching him on how to stay soft and non-confrontational with the society rather than getting triggered. This led into a teaching session on how enclosed spaces like lifts and cars remove a dog's flight and avoid options, leaving only fight or submission, and how handlers can manage seating, vision and movement to keep dogs calm. Members then raised individual cases including Pixie's comfort-seeking in the car, Barfi getting overwhelmed by houseguest energy, Max's fear of mutton shops, Chai's fasting pattern linked to fear, and Paino's humping behaviour, with Sunny explaining the underlying psychology for each.
Key points (6)
- When admitting a mistake to an angry society, staying soft and non-opposing resolves conflict faster than defending yourself.
- Enclosed spaces like lifts and cars remove a dog's flight and avoid options, so handlers must manage positioning and vision to prevent fight responses.
- A dog sitting on a person's lap in the car is usually comfort-seeking, not anxiety, if there is no whining or howling.
- Strong emotional energy in a household, like during a party, can be absorbed by a dog and create anticipatory anxiety even after the event ends.
- Fear has a physiology: it restricts blood flow to the gut, so a fearful dog's stomach issues are a mind problem, not just a digestive one.
- Humping is a general arousal or dopamine-seeking behaviour in dogs, not always tied to heat, sex, or dominance, and context determines its meaning.
- On the call
- Sunny, Anshul, Kashish, Prafull, Yashpal, Reena, Vayu, Saakshi, Paresh, Mayur, and others
Now in: Member introductions begin, including an animal communicator
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Transcript
Hindi written in English letters. The audio is the record.
Sunny
Start kar do introduction, jo naye log hain. Toh Puluska ji please aapse start karte hain. Main toh mujhe bhi pata lag gaya, aapne mere ko introduce kar diya. Bhai happy lag rahi ho, aapke baare mein jaanna chahenge. Please bataiye apne baare mein, two points mein.
Speaker 2
Yeah. Nahin maine toh join isliye kiya kyunki umm I have been associated with dogs for almost 15 years now as a like, pet. I had four pets, now I have two. One is 15 years old right now and one is two and a half years old. Aur baaki hai ki main baahar community dogs ko dekhbhaal karti hoon like feeding and all.
So this is been going on for almost seven years now. Also I am a telepathic animal communicator. So yeh bhi a practicing part hai mere liye for almost a year now.
So my whole life revolves with dogs actually. So I thought why not this? This is also a very important part of my journey, learning about the behavior of dogs.
Sunny
Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2
As a professional, I am a textile designer. That has nothing to do with dogs.
Sunny
That's cool hai.
Speaker 2
That's it.
Sunny
Yeah, so onboarding mein jab mujhe pata chala tha ki like animal communicator hai toh maine bola tha ki haan community mein animal communication ke baare mein kaafi baatein hoti hain and baat karte hain log ki woh sach hai ki nahin hai.
So we got one ki chalo dekhte hain, unse sochenge hum ki bhai kaise hota hai, kaise kaam hota hai? What is the science behind it? Isko figure out karenge. So that's, that's great and- Thank you.
Speaker 2
But the thing is that people don't believe unless when people come to me for missing dogs.
When I tell them the dog is there, go and find him and if they find that dog then I am believable. Otherwise no.
Sunny
See woh toh, woh toh obviously logon ko proof toh chahiye hota hai. We need proof, hai na? We need- Exactly. Kaise hoga? Aise toh. Toh proof toh proof zaroori hota hai and that's a good thing. Toh humne apne profession mein bhi ki humein bhi proof dena padta hai. Dog ke behavior ko.
In every profession it is like same only.
Speaker 2
Absolutely, agree.
Sunny
So this like which that's a good thing ki proof hum de sakte hain. So welcome to the community. Now second chalte hain Anshul. Anshul aap ho bhi? Bas de thoda introduction aapka. Camera agar aap on kar sakte ho.
Anshul
Yes, I was getting ready for the camera. So because I just woke up.
Sunny
Aawaaz bahut kam aa rahi hai. Aawaaz kuch bhi nahin aa rahi hai. Kuch bhi aawaaz nahin aa rahi hai.
Anshul
Is it better?
Sunny
No Anshul, tumhari aawaaz bilkul nahin aa rahi. Bilkul aawaaz nahin aa rahi. So I think thoda jagah change karo ya phir kuch change karo. Tab tak main Kashish Bhatia, Kashish ke paas jaata hoon. Hey Kashish. Where is Kashish Bhatia?
Kashish
Hi Sunny bhai, kaise ho?
Sunny
Arrey bhai bas mast hoon. Just video on karo. Zara apna introduction do. Community aapko jaanna chahti hai.
Kashish
Basically mere device se bahut door hoon main. Main kitchen mein hoon. Mera food prepare kar raha hoon toh uske hisaab se.
Sunny
Okay.
Kashish
So I won't be able to come on the video right now. But if I would want to introduce myself, I am a father to a four-year-old Lab. I am a dog food distributor itself. So mera ek small business hai dog food distribution ke liye. Aur I am also associated with an NGO. I help to rescue dogs, feed them.
And as I said earlier, I would always want to stay around dogs with wagging tails all the time. Mujhe unke saath hi, matlab I love all animals but dogs ki ek priority pehle hai. I don't know why dogs amuse me.
Sunny
We can understand.
Kashish
Yeah, this is, this is the whole viewpoint. That is why I am here. Thank you guys.
Sunny
Cool hai man, chill. Welcome to the community, Kashish.
Welcome to the community. Ab Anshul ji ki aawaaz I don't know waapas hum sun paayenge nahin.
Anshul
Is it better? Can you hear me?
Sunny
Yeah, we can. Puluska ji, kya aap mute kar paoge? Aapki taraf se aawaaz aa rahi hai bahut.
Speaker 2
Mere taraf se?
Sunny
Main mute kar deta hoon. Haan, abhi sahi hai. Yes, Anshul ji.
Anshul
Hello everyone, this is Anshul. I am currently living in Pune with one of my pet whose name is Pig. Eight years old, eight-year-old Lhasa. And- How are you? I am currently working with Allstate now. So actually this look is because of the night shift. So my job is like between like sometimes around 6:30 to 3:30.
So it's basically my sleeping time. So I am specially here just for the call and to meet everybody.
And currently I am working with Allstate as I told you. And I also have like four to five community dogs that I feed regularly. But like I have like seven to eight dogs that I feed on the interval. So like a day or two interval so they can like scavenge food and everything like that.
And I have been introduced to Sunny for like long back in 2018, 2019 when I got Pixie to understand how to better take care of her as a first-time dog parent. I always wanted to be a dog parent, but as my family didn't permit me.
So when I was doing my engineering, so one of my friend got her and as they are taking care of her the old way, so like they are just keeping her on a one place, giving her food once or twice a day and etc, etc, we all know about it.
So after one day I just told them that look guys, it's better that I will take care of her. So I start learning. Initially I also made the same mistake that everyone makes like give her the kibbles, everything. But as I have Have a better understanding.
So I changed the food, changed the behavior, my behavior, how to train her better. I'm still-- she's not still trained, but she still listens when it matters, so I'm happy with that. So I'm working on it.
Sunny
Yeah, yeah.
Training mein toh waise bhi yaar like main kami woh karta hoon ki humein like humara behavior agar dog ke saath regular basis par theek rehta hai ya humein understanding rehti hai ki dog ke saath kaise behave karna hai, toh woh automatically is kind of woh training chalti rehti hai, daily chalti rehti hai unki.
Ki unse kya expect hai.
Anshul
I'm just, I'm just telling that she's not like 100% trained.
Like if you tell her to sit, she'll not sit. But yeah, if I'll call her, she will come and she will not run away or anything like that.
Sunny
Yeah, that's just I'm telling you this thing ki we don't expect dog to behave like that. Hai na? Matlab I-I don't expect dog to behave, I don't want dogs to behave like that. Like a machine. Hai na ki humne baitha toh baith gaye, unki khud ki apni will nahi hai. Lekin jab matter karta hai, then they should listen.
That's the, that's, that's the thing. Toh woh aapki ek line thi, woh kaafi achhi hai ki jab woh matter karta hai, tab woh listen, woh listen kar diya. Warna us cheez ke upar. Zaroori nahi hamesha 100%. Toh yahan par kisi ke bhi dog 100% nahi hai. It's like kisi ke bhi dog 100% nahi hai, including mine. Kind of thing.
Okay? So woh hone bhi, woh hone bhi nahi chahiye. Dogs apne beings hain, apne emotional beings hain woh aur unki apni khud ki will honi chahiye. Baith jao aur woh baith gaye. Ab yeh kya baat hui bhai?
Anshul
They are not a s- they are not a sh- it's not a show to perform.
Sunny
Haan, wahi na. Mujhe mere pitaji ki yaad mat dila do. Baith jao. So, haan, waise nahi hona hai main. Haan, so that's, that's the thing. And, um, uh, aap bhi raat se nahi soye ho, main bhi raat se nahi soya. Main kal 10:30 baje maine coding karna start kar diya aur aaj subah 10:30 baje coding karna band kar diya.
Anshul
Okay.
Sunny
I'm super high. Uh, ki wah! Kya, kya raat thi, kya din tha. Like coding, coding, coding. Uh, so yeah. So do hi mere jeevan mein do-teen hi cheezein hain jismein main bahut obsessed hoon. Coding is the thing and dogs is the second thing and self-learning is the my third thing.
So main isi, meri poori jeevan isi ke around ghoomta rehta hai aur iske alawa mujhe kuch bhi pata nahi rehta. Bahut se logon ko lagta hai ki main know duniya mein kya chal raha hai, mujhe kuch bhi pata nahi rehta and sirf mujhe inhie teen cheezon ke baare mein hi pata rehta hai.
Like how to self-learn kaise karna hai, self-evolve kaise hona hai, dogs kya hai and plus technology. And main inhie cheezon ke baare mein hi baat kar pata hoon okay. So that's, that's- So like you just, you design your own website and do everything by your own? Yeah, yeah, yeah.
I design my, design my-- kyunki like main kisi ko kyun doonga jab mujhe khud ko itna achha lagta hai?
Anshul
Yes, yes, yes. That's what I want to see.
Sunny
So I, I do-- main bahut saare faaltu ki cheezein bhi karta rehta hoon jo kisi ko matter nahi karti. Just I think my ADHD brain. Uh, it's like, uh, projects par projects, project to project, 100 unfinished projects kind of thing.
But over a period of time, I got to understand about this brain ki mera ADHD brain hai and I have to take care of it. Otherwise, otherwise main toh deviate hota rahoonga aur koi bhi cheezein fulfill nahi ho paayengi. So I limited myself to these things. Otherwise main full scattered ho jaata.
So that's, uh, yeah. So main khud ki coding karta hoon and then khud hi learn karta hoon and khud hi like logon ko consult bhi karta hoon technology and this thing kind of thing. So yeah, aaj ka welcome to the community, Anshul ji. And aap bhi engineer ho I think so.
Anshul
Yes. Unfortunately.
Sunny
Not unfortunately man. What are you talking about?
Anshul
Just joke, just kidding.
Sunny
So yeah, I think, uh, so engineers are great.
Anshul
Yeah.
Sunny
So yeah. So aaj ka call chaalu karte hain. Welcome to the community, uh, new members aur aapko bahut kuch learn- Meet her as well.
Anshul
She is here now.
Sunny
Okay. Kya naam hai iska?
Anshul
Pixie. Pixie. I- Pixie.
Sunny
Yeah, she's beautiful. Aaj chhote dog se aap.
Anshul
Just give me a second. Actually...
Haan, haan, ek minute, ek minute. So it's little better, I guess.
Sunny
Are kabhi kisi ko batayenge ADHD hone ki toh.
Anshul
Okay. Pixie, kya hua? Idhar aao.
Speaker 5
Hi maker.
Sunny
Okay.
Anshul
Yeah.
Sunny
Uh, Pixie. Yeah. Kaafi cute hai. Bachpan mein toh utha hona ki ghoomte honge toh.
Anshul
Nahi, woh abhi bhi aise hi ghoomti hai. She is like, woh thode der chalne ke baad bolti hai ki haan, aap god le sakte ho aap.
Sunny
So low, medium energy dog hai kind of thing, hai na?
Anshul
Yes, yes, yes.
Sunny
Low, medium energy dog hai. So- Yes. That's, that's great. And I think aaj ka session start karte hain aur aaj ka session thoda serious bhi ho sakta hai.
Prafull ji se sabse pehle start karenge jo incident hua and let's, uh, figure that out and jo bhi unki problem hai. Prafull ji, aap aana chaahoge? Baat karna chaahoge uske upar?
Prafull
Yeah, I'm here.
Sunny
Yeah, come on, yeah. Let's, let's talk about it. Kya chal raha hai matlab? Let's, let's start.
Prafull
Yeah, hi. Actually, this happened day before yesterday.
Sunny
Yeah.
Prafull
Toh hum mein-- actually I came back home after a long time. Uh, matlab 15, 20-- 15, 16 dinon ke baad I came back home.
Sunny
Okay, okay, okay.
Prafull
And, uh, toh and main aaya dopahar ke 3:00 baje something and 4:30 I took Kulfi out for a walk.
Sunny
Good man. Yeah.
Prafull
So once I took him out, baahar jaate samay toh kuch nahi hua.
He was okay, but I could see uske andar thoda sa nervous energy tha.
Sunny
Haan.
Prafull
Toh hum log thoda achha walk karke din waapas aa rahe the. Walk mein kuch nahi hua.
Sunny
Haan.
Prafull
It was all normal only. But then, uh, jab hum waapas aaye, yes, he was a little nervous. Mere body language se lag raha hoga ki main bhi nervous hoon. And, uh, haan, toh when we got inside, matlab before getting into the lift, I asked whether they are okay. Uh, the guy on the right, woh toh ekdam chill tha.
Usne bola, "Okay." Toh main usko dekh ke andar chala gaya and I didn't really notice the guy who was actually scared.
Sunny
Yeah, yeah, that's what you are.
Prafull
So yeah, whatever, uh, you said and I think others also. Basically the points which, which you mentioned, mujhe toh I agree to that. Aur, uh, jab main gaya andar toh he should have been on my right side.
It was really matlab main usse baatein karne mein ulajh gaya. Kabhi aisa nahi hota.
Never it happens because I was coming back he is my neighbor toh since I was coming back after a long time toh main usse haal-chaal pooch kar thoda work kar raha tha toh I slacked a little is time par Kulfi kya kar raha tha and how he was noticing him.
Woh mera dhyaan us time par nahi tha and it was just a split second thing aur main aur mera sirf haath itna gaya maine waapas le liya. Tab tak uska daant lag chuka tha. And luckily damage bahut zyaada hua nahi. Matlab yahan par use chot aayi aise do cuts hai.
Sunny
Okay.
Prafull
And.
Sunny
Apne liye zyaada nahi tha. Matlab hum dogs ke saath rehte hain toh it is not big for us like jab humein scratches lag jaate hain ya phir yeh lag jaate hain.
Lekin us bande ke liye wo zyada tha.
Prafull
Toh wo toh wo toh dar gaya tha bahut zyada. Phir uske baad video mein actually dikh raha hoga ki lift ka darwaza band ho gaya. Us time par mujhe nahi pata chala ki wo gaya nahi kata. Toh main Kulfi ko dekh raha tha aur aur uske baad he didn't do anything. Jo mera neighbor tha wo wahi hai.
Kulfi was okay toh mujhe laga shayad wo bach gaya aur wo nikal gaya aur maine rok liya. Toh by the time he went up aur main andar lekar aaya Kulfi ko toh wo mere floor par aa gaya tha batane ke liye ki aisa ho gaya hai. Then use andar lekar aaya.
Uska thoda sa matlab to be minimal first aid mere paas ho kar sakta tha wo kiya. Phir maine use bola then we went to a doctor.
Usko karaya treatment wagairah. I paid for it and everything he was okay. Aisa kuch nahi tha. But yahan par society mein halla mach gaya.
Sunny
Hundred percent.
Prafull
Ab wo society mein CCTV image video toh record kar liya tha and the building manager. Pata nahi yahan par kya mentality hai. Yeh mera pehli baar samna ho raha hai. Moved in here in February toh lot of anti pet live in the society so they all jumped on this occasion like vultures aur bas shuru ho gaya phir.
Aur wo video society ke group par daal diya. Jo chot aayi uska photo kheench ke daal diya and tab se wo chal hi raha hai, chal hi raha hai and kaafi kuch hua.
I ne aapko restrain kar ke rakha hai ki main zyada na bolun kuch toh main bas I am dealing with it at one thing at a time. Aaj meeting hai society ka toh I am going and I will speak jo bhi hai karna hai. Aur mere saath Kulfi ke saath first time hua hai. Matlab he is never bit anyone aise this is the first incident.
Sunny
Toh sahi dekho yahan par hai na. Yeh ek sensitive ho sakta hai maamla hai na society ke liye. Jaise aapne bola ki aapne apne aap ko restrain karke rakha hua hai toh iska matlab hai andar gussa bhar chuka hai.
Prafull
Are nahi gussa matlab waise wala gussa nahi ki main kuch wo karunga. Lekin I have to I am at fault. Kuch bhi bole because dog toh is under my supervision.
Usko pata nahi he doesn't know any better. I am the one toh galti toh meri hai toh wo toh hai hi aur maan maan bhi raha hoon main.
Sunny
Lekin wo dog dog ko bolenge.
Prafull
Sorry.
Sunny
Wo matlab dog ko bolenge. Yeh dog aisa hai, yeh dog aisa hai kind of thing pitbull aisa hai. Yahan par aise dog ko aise nahi rakhna chahiye. Inko muzzle par rakhna chahiye. Inko bahar nahi nikalna chahiye. Wo yeh cheezein bolenge aapko trigger karne ke liye.
Prafull
Yeah.
Sunny
Aap khud se toh trigger ho gaye nahi ki bhai main toh main toh galti maan li bhai hai na. Ab tu mujhe mujhe kya bologe? Lekin phir unka entertainment kya hoga? Unka entertainment kya hoga?
Toh entertainment ke liye wo like koi bhi insaan ho agar usko entertainment chahiye violence ke through toh wo dekhta hai saamne wale ko kis tareeke se trigger kar sake. Toh the society people will start triggering you figuring out ki aap kaise trigger hote ho.
Toh agar aap apne dog ki wajah se trigger ho gaye toh baat haath se nikal jayegi.
Prafull
Yeah.
Sunny
So toh humein yahan par kya sabse pehle aapne hum apni galti toh maanni hai lekin lekin phir phir bhi wo nahi maanenge ki aisa karna hai, aisa karna hai. Aisa kya ho raha hai. Toh hum saath mein yeh bhi add kar sakte hain ki dog ki tabiyat kharab thi. like dog ke pet mein wo tha. Dog ka ilaaj chal raha tha.
Dog ko bukhaar tha. anything like dog ko dog ko bukhaar tha. Dog bechara bahut pareshan tha. Usko injections lag rahe the. Usko yeh lag raha tha. Main vet ke paas se aaya tha. Kind of thing anything jo wo aapke upar dump kar rahe hain, aap unke upar dump kar do.
Hai na ki yeh tha, wo tha warna aisa nahi tha, aisa nahi tha, waisa nahi tha. Then you can galti toh maanni padegi sahi and saath ke saath wo dog ko bhi bolenge aur wahan par trigger nahi hona padega.
Agar aap trigger that it will go opposite like jo aap chahte ho. Lekin agar aap soft rahoge aur is cheez ko because it's not a big deal kind of thing. Agar hum apne poore usmein dekhein it's not a kind of big deal. Lekin us bande ke liye big deal tha. Humare liye big deal nahi hai wo.
Society ke liye big deal ho sakti hai because it's a big deal of entertainment unke liye. Toh society unko kya lena dena, un in sab cheezon se it will be a big deal for them.
Prafull
Log toh bahut kuch aur bhi bol rahe hain. Agar humara bachha hota toh kya hota? We were worker hai that's why you are shrugging it away and it's all okay like that.
Sunny
No, no, no we are not shrugging it away. I am I am deeply I am deeply sorry. Mera dog bimaar tha. Main khud wo tha aur yeh mujhse galti hogi. Aaj se pehle kabhi bhi aisa nahi hua hai. And this this kind ab main dhyan rakhenge ki agar koi andar hai, koi dara hua hai toh main andar nahi ghusun.
Main bahar hi rahoon. Main seedhiyon se chala jaunga. Agar bachhe honge toh bachhon ke saath mein kyon jaunga? Bachhe upar jayein, main seedhiyon se jaunga. Kind of thing toh hum bilkul bhi unke argue nahi karenge. Wo bolenge mera bachha hota.
Haan, haan sir agar aapka bachha hota, main jaata hi nahi, main lift mein jaata hi nahi. Matlab iska koi tod nahi. Phir wo bolega ki bachha hota toh phir aap kya bologe? Haan, bachha hota toh phir kya hota? Phir sabke dimaag mein kya tha? Sab log kya dekhte hain? Bachhe ko kat-te hue dekhte hain.
Prafull
Yeah.
Sunny
Unke aur jab wo apne dimaag mein bachhe ko kat-te hue dekhte toh unke andar kya develop hota? Violence develop hota aapke tarah. Bhale aisa hua nahi ho. Lekin wo already andar unke mind mein kya chal raha hota hai aisa ho chuka hai aur they will start behaving like that toh humein usko oppose nahi karna hota.
Agar humne oppose kiya toh unke dil mein reh gaya. Humein usko nikaalna hota ki haan sir agar bachha hota toh bahut dikkat ho jaati.
Isliye main jab bachhe hote hain toh lekar nahi jaata. Toh we have to navigate like kind of this thing hamesha unke saath mein unka entertainment ka part nahi banna. Agar humne unka unko oppose kiya hum entertainment ka part bante hain aur agar humne oppose nahi kiya toh yeh baat jaldi solve ho jayegi.
Humne jo bola ki haan bhai yeh aur dog ki tabiyat kharab thi kind of thing ab yeh bol sakte hain aur dog ki tabiyat dog ki tabiyat bhi kharab thi. Wo 15 din se aap nahi the toh wo anxious toh sahi tha hi physically nahi tha lekin mentally toh anxious ho raha tha na. mentally toh nervous ho raha tha na.
Toh jhooth toh nahi hai na. Baat toh sahi hai you know like mentally pareshan tha. Aap 15 din se wahan par nahi the toh nervous tha. Toh is tareeke se aap usko navigate kar sakte ho oppose karke nahi kisi bhi tareeke se.
Prafull
That's a good idea actually.
Sunny
Yeah matlab it's like wo simple easily nahi bolunga lekin simple ho jayega aapke liye.
Aap dil se woh soft ho jao, ho jaoge, shaant ho jaoge. Nahi toh it's like kind thing aapke andar aap wahan par jaoge na toh aap anxiety se pahunchoge and you will fumble in lots of. Woh hota hai hum sabke saath.
Matlab hum oppose karne ki nahi main aisa bolunga nahi main waisa bolunga nahi nahi main toh unke saath bolunga. Hai na mujhe toh apna dog ko rakhna hi hai. Mujhe toh yahan par rakhna hi hai. Lekin jo mistake hui mistake hui hai. Dog bhi healthy nahi tha aur maybe us samay healthy nahi tha aur mistake ho gayi.
Lekin this is a one time thing aur main responsible hoon. Main dog ko lekar jaata hoon, leash par rakhta hoon, usko baahar poop karata hoon, uska dhyaan rakhta hoon, usko proper box deta hoon taaki woh ek mannerful dog ban sake. Lekin ek dog hai, ek animal hai.
Galtiyan toh hoti hain, lekin hum unka oppose nahi karenge. Unka oppose nahi karenge.
Prafull
Sir inhone poocha bhi toh tha he did ask permission also ki main andar le jaaoon before entering that's a very big thing that holds in your you know favor.
Woh toh unfortunately ek jane ko permission de di doosre wale ne nahi bola na ki nahi I am not comfortable.
Sunny
See dekho hum bolenge ki humne permission toh humne safai de di. Again ab woh is safai ke oopar safai ke oopar bolenge permission maangi toh phir bhi kya hua tumhare dog se kat toh gaya na. Tumne uska dhyaan permission maangne se kya hota hai? Woh aisa bolenge toh unko aur mauka mil jaaye cheezon ko karne ka.
Toh simple humein kya karna hota hai unka entertainment agar humein nahi banna hai kisi bhi logon ka agar humein entertainment nahi banna hai, unko oppose karna band karo lekin apni baat rakh do. Unko oppose karna, unko oppose karna band karna hota hai.
For example agar woh bolenge ki bhai lift mein nahi jaana chahiye toh hum bolenge haan sir lift mein nahi jaana. Agar koi aur hoga toh hum lift mein nahi jaayenge. Ek hafte baad jaana chaalu kar do doosron ke saath. Lekin hum kya bolenge? Haan hum nahi jaayenge.
Kyun, kyun hum bol rahe hain aisa usko oppose nahi karne ka hai. Jitna main usko oppose karunga, main uska entertainment ka part ban raha hoon aur usse milega kya? Mere dimaag ko tension aur problem solve hogi kya? Nahi problem solve nahi hogi. Toh hum directly usko bol denge. Haan sahi baat hai.
Koi bhi kuch bhi bole arey dog kharaab hai. Arey bahut hi kharaab hai. Main isko theek kara kara ke pareshaan ho gaya. Hum unko oppose karenge nahi. Humein dil mein pata hum kitna pyaar karte hain usse. Lekin hum unke saath kyun khele? Hum apne dog ke saath khelenge.
Lekin lekin galti ho gayi yahan par yeh cheez jo insaan is tareeqe se behave kar raha hai. Yaani hum agar hum is tareeqe se behave kar rahe hain, hum kya behave kar rahe hain us situation ko solve karne ke liye. Lekin woh situation solve tab tak nahi ho sakti jab tak humein reality mein pata nahi hai ki hua kya.
reality mein humse galti hui that is there humse galti hui dog se nahi humse galti hui that is there hum already maan hum already maan chuke hain.
Now second step hai humein yeh problem solve karni hai. Toh yeh problem tabhi solve hogi jab first step clear hoti hai toh bahut se log kya karte hain na sirf direct problem solve karne par chale jaate hain first step ko clear kare bina.
first step mein kya hai humare dil mein humein aa chuka hai ki galti humse ho chuki hai. Yeh humko soft kar deta hai. Yeh humko humble kar deta hai. Now knowledge lagti hai oppose nahi karne ki psychology ki. Ya oppose kara toh bhai entertainment bane aur oppose nahi kara toh situation jaldi se solve ho.
Toh oppose nahi karne ka matlab kya woh bolenge lift mein nahi jaana lift mein tumhara cancel kar denge. Agar lift mein koi hoga main nahi karoonga simple si baat hai. Bachha hoga arey nahi nahi bachhon ke saath toh main jaata hi nahi.
Main toh seedhiyon se chal deta hoon toh kahin par bhi kisi bhi tareeqe se oppose nahi. Then you will solve this problem and it will be a good learning jo aapko aage chalkar kaam aayegi.
Matlab new new skill na ek nayi skill hai na ki how to how to this how to do this thing. Log oppose kar rahe hain. Mere dog ko gaaliyan de rahe hain, mere ko gaaliyan de rahe hain aur mere andar cheezein develop ho rahi hai. Mere andar anxiety aa rahi hai.
Mere andar insecurity aa rahi hai and then I have to clear it out. It will change it will change your life.
Prafull
Sunny bhai best the best solution hai Kulfi ko le jao leash free wahi settle kar lega.
Sunny
Yeh dekho yeh ek aur entertainment hai. Har din ka entertainment de raha hai woh aapko.
Prafull
On the flip side kaafi logon ne they reach out to me also after it after all this happened and he said are you okay is Kulfi okay?
Bahut zyada ho gaya group pay and all that out of sympathy and kaafi logon ne group pay bhi bola ki ki we have seen him around in the society and he is the one of the most careful guys with and he is never letting his dog free.
Toh it is visible. Lekin kuch log jo hain jinko maza aata hai usme toh they were kuch zyada hi kar rahe the. So anyway it's all part and parcel.
Sunny
Unka entertainment ka part nahi banna aur ho sakta hai humse galti ho jaaye ki hum unke entertainment ban jaayein. Hum like out of our habit. Are you understanding? Matlab Praful ji samajh rahe ho na ki humari bhi toh habit humari khud ki bhi toh habit hai na. Agar humein kuch bolta hai toh bhai tune bola kaise?
Apni bhi toh waise hi habit hai na. Matlab kind lekin woh habit hai. Woh change ho sakti hai. Us habit se zaroori nahi aapko hamesha solution milega. Yahan par toh bilkul nahi milega. Yeh aur hafte chal sakta hai aur aapke dimaag ko traas de sakta hai kind of thing.
Lekin agar aap isko fun ki tareeqe kyunki aapne apna karm kar diya. Karm for example, jis bande ke saath hua aapne usse maafi maang li, aapne uska upchaar kara diya.
Ho sakta hai like kind of jo bhi cheez aap kar sakte the aapne jaan boojh ke toh kiya nahi. Aapne apna, aapne apna Karm, Karm kar diya. Ab humein yahan par soft hokar is cheez ko solve karna hai. Not by anxiety, not insecurity but pan ki tarah, pan ki tarah.
Prafull
Ek aur funny thing is ki jo kata na woh mujhe usne baad mein phone kiya khud hi sab hone ke baad ki thank you sir yeh woh. Aapse humein aur kuch nahi chahiye, itna hi kaafi hai. But then aapke society wale humein bol rahe the neeche jo security manager wagairah hai ki aap case kar do, hum aapke saath hain.
Aise waise mujhe uksa rahe the karne. And- Entertain, entertain kiya. And he said that ki humein is sab mein kuch nahi chahiye. Humara dekhbhaal ho gaya. Galti sabse hoti hai, koi baat nahi and he left.
Sunny
Haan.
Prafull
Ab iske baad yahan par aag lagi hui hai inka alag se toh anyway I will deal with it tonight. Let's see what happens. I'm ready.
Sunny
Not deal again kiya na not deal. again puraani habit baahar hai. I will have fun. I will have fun tonight. I will be truthful and I will be humble and main situation ko softly nipta loonga. Not deal.
Prafull
Yeah.
Sunny
That I will deal with it. Aisa mat jaao yaar, aise mat jaao. So it will be fun agar aap softness ki tarah jaoge. Hai na? Woh fun, woh aapke liye fun rahega. Agar aap softness ki tarah se nahi jaoge woh aapke liye anxiety aur anger lekar aayega aane wale dinon mein kind of thing. That's how it is it will be.
Prafull
Yeah.
Sunny
Toh badhiya softly jaao aur kyunki aap softly jaate nahi ho.
Anger is your default kind of thing. This thing main I will deal with this your default thing. But vo default hai but it is not permanent kind of thing. So it is in your head. Try something new maza aayega, fun aayega.
Prafull
Yes.
Sunny
Toh humein bhi, unke liye entertainment nahi hoga. Lekin aapki kahani sunke hum sab logon ke liye kaafi fun hoga ki kaise hua, kya hoga? We will wait for it.
Prafull
Yeah I am sure. We will discuss it on Sunday's call I think.
Sunny
Hundred percent, okay hundred percent. Toh yaad rakhna we will ask ki bhai kya hua, kaisa behave kiya apan ne.
Prafull
In fact actually Sunday I have signed up for a trek monsoon trek with Kulfi. Toh Pune ke paas hi hai actually Lonavala ke paas hai. Toh haan toh I am just going there. It's a short trek.
Toh ek thoda sa mindset bhi change ho jaayega. Thoda break ho jaayega.
Sunny
Yeah, yeah, yeah you will have fun, you will have fun. Aur yeh Saturday ke yeh aaj ke performance ke baad raat ke performance aur improve ho jaayega. Agar achha perform kiya aapne toh aaj. It's a performance, yeah it's a performance kind of thing. Humara mental performance hota hai.
Matlab meri life mein bahut baar aisi cheezein hui hain because I was my default was ki I will deal with it like kind of thing. Hai na? But over a period time I understood ki yaar this I will deal with it hamesha work nahi karta hai aur jitni baar bhi maine isko perform kiya hai, yeh mere upar hi anger lekar aata hai.
Mujhe solutions nahi milte aur main iske adheen hoon. Adheen ka mera matlab hai ki I am slave of this habit. Main isko rok nahi paata hoon, this habit ko.
Toh when I understood this thing ki arey yaar main toh is habit ke slave hoon aur yeh habit mujhse bahut aise aise kaam karva rahi hai jisse mere solutions bigad rahe hain.
Toh then I started this thing ki yaar kuch different way ho sakta hai. Toh different way hai and it's a better way and it's a fun way. Vo zyaada fun hai, vo zyaada light hai, zyaada soft hai. Usmein humara ego bhi chala jaata hai ki haan this is more fun. Hai na?
In logon se inko, inko tackle karna but with softness, with softness. With agree, agree hokar apni point rakhna then it will be fun, it will be fun.
Prafull
Yeah.
Sunny
Yeah. All the best.
Prafull
Yeah bharpoor hai I know.
Sunny
Usko kuch nahi pada. Vo, vo sahi hai. So, so aap sab logon ne video dekha vo jo humne vo kiya. Usmein behavior ke lessons hain bahut zyaada.
Prafull
Yeah.
Sunny
Hai na? Haan, usmein behavior ke lessons hain. Matlab Praful ji ke liye toh personal ho gaya. Hai na? Vo jab bhi vo dekhenge unke andar vo like thoda sa anger aa sakta hai.
Vo sab aata hai. Unki learning kam hogi us video ko video dekhkar. Kyunki there is emotions behind it. But baaki sab log, ab baaki sab log vahan par bahut zyaada lessons hain behavior ke. Hai na? Behavior ke lessons kya hai? Dog kis tareeqe se anxiety mein lift ke andar ghusta hai.
Vo hum sab miss kar sakte hain kyunki bahut subtle hota hai. Lekin agar aap Kulfi ko dekhoge us video ke andar uska munh aur uski poonch, uska poora body posture kaisa tha?
Prafull
Neeche.
Sunny
Hai na? Vo ek confidence mein nahi tha. Vo ekdam neeche is tareeqe se ja raha tha. Toh vo ek anxiety ke tareeqe se vo usne andar ghusa. Doosra uska behavior dekha us insaan ke saamne kaisa focused jab vo saamne aaya aur focused se pehle tongue baahar yaani uncomfortable behavior.
Kitne saare behavior humein learn hone ko mile vahan par.
Matlab vo ek unfortunate incident tha. Lekin ab jo ho gaya unfortunate incident tha, lekin behavior ki learning thi. Matlab main yeh bol raha hoon ki vahan se aap positive things le sakte ho. Hai na? Like this kind of positive things le sakte ho ki vahan se hum dog ke baare mein kya-kya cheezein seekh sakte hain.
Toh dog lift ke andar ghusne se pehle baahar baithna chahiye. Agar aap aise aap sab log professionally yahan par yeh cheez learn kar rahe ho toh aapke baad bahut saare clients aayenge aur clients ko yeh sab pata nahi hota hai ki dog ko lift ke andar kaise lekar jaana hota hai. But it is a big thing.
It is a very important thing. Kyunki lift kya hoti hai? Chhoti si hoti hai aur dog ek enclosed area mein aata hai aur jab dog ek enclosed area mein aata hai toh uska fight or avoid jo triggers hote hain, dog ke triggers hote hain fight, flight, avoid, submission.
Lift ke andar aane ke baad uski kaun si tri-kaun si cheezein gaayab ho jaayegi? Flight. Vo kahin bhaag sakta hai kya? Vo kahin bhaag nahi sakta. Avoid. Vo avoid kar sakta hai kya? Vo avoid nahi kar sakta. Vo do cheez kar sakta hai fight or surrender.
Donon mein bahut beech, donon ke beech mein do steps hoti hain fight, flight, avoid, submission. Lekin flight gaayab ho gayi aur avoid gaayab ho gaya. Bacha kya? Do cheez bachi fight aur surrender. Ab dog ismein se kya choose kar sakta hai? Agar dog ek anxious hai, insecure hai toh vah kya choose karega?
Vah flight choose nahi kar sakta. Vah kya choose karega? Fight. Vah fight choose karega. okay. Ek dog happy go lucky hai, shaant hai. Vah kya choose karega? Surrender. Vah jaakar lift mein jaakar baith jaayega.
Yashpal
Neeche apna munh rakh lega.
Sunny
Is tareeqe se baith jaayega. Lekin agar dog ke andar toh bahut saare clients aayenge. Unke dogs mein insecurity hogi aur aapne bahut saare videos bhi dekhe honge ki dog lift mein aane ke baad attack karna chaalu kar dete hain. and that is the reason kyunki dog ke andar ka flight gaayab ho jaata hai.
Vah flight nahi kar sakta aur fight trigger ho jaata hai. Toh hum yahan par kaise manage kar sakte hain? Yahan par hum kaise like sure kar sakte hain ki aise incident kisi ke saath nahi hoga. Vo aapne video dekha. Hum kaise sure kar sakte hain?
Poore-poore jab hum andar ghuste hain toh hum dekhte hain log kahan par khade hain. Agar log left mein khade hue hain, right mein khade hue hain toh beech mein nahi jaayenge. Hum left vaale ko kya bolenge haath se please come here. okay apne haath se kaise karenge unko ki idhar ki taraf aao unko aur vah aa jaayenge.
Aapke haath mein dog rahega toh. Hai na. Aur nahi aayenge toh jaane ki zaroorat nahi hai. Lekin beech mein khade hone ki zaroorat nahi hai. Agar dog insecure hai, anxious hai bite hoga. chances ho sakte hain. Toh hum kya karenge?
Sab logon ko side mein karenge aur hum left mein jaayenge aur dog ka munh udhar ki taraf rakhenge. Logon ki taraf nahi, logon ki taraf nahi. this way hum dog ko kya sikhaate hain avoid karna. Hum usko sikha rahe hain avoid karna. Vah khud se choose nahi kar sakta. Hum kya bol rahe hain uske logon se door raho.
Is tareeqe se hum usko avoid karna bol rahe hain. Hum usse surrender ki baat nahi kar rahe. Ho sakta hai vah insecure ho, anxious ho. insecure dog, anxious dog jaldi surrender nahi karte. Toh hum unse kya maang sakte hain avoid karna. Toh avoid kaise karein, kaise karvaayenge?
Unko right side mein khade karke ya ekdam apne peeche.
toh hum dog ko sikhate hain ki bhai tumhe yahan par avoid karna hai. Tumhe yahan par surrender karna hai. Tumhe yahan par fight aur flight nahi karni. okay toh jitna enclosed place hota hai wahan par misbehavior ke ya phir is tareeke ke behavior ke chances increase ho jaate hain.
car ke andar bhi aap bahut saare cases woh dekhoge ki car ke andar jaate hi dog bahut zyada territorial ho jaata hai aur bahut zyada bahar bark karne lag jaata hai doosre-doosre-doosre dogs ko. Woh doosre dogs ko bark karne kyon lag jaata hai? again woh ek enclosed area mein aa gaya hai.
enclosed area mein aate hi dog ki insecurity increase ho sakti hai, anxiety increase ho sakti hai. Jab anxiety aur insecurity increase hoti hai toh dog kya karta hai? Panje maarta hai, bark karta hai, aaspaas ki movement se aur zyada trigger ho jaata hai. Toh yahan par hum kaise solve karte hain?
car ke andar hum kaise solve karenge aise dogs ko kaun batayega?
agar jaise main lift ke andar hoon aapko ki lift ke andar hum kaise karte hain? car ke andar hum kaise solve karte hain usko Yashpal.
Yashpal
Pehle toh shaanti mein chadhayenge. Shaant karke baithayenge. then chadhayenge. then usko ek side par baitha kar usko baandh denge. harness ke through seat belt laga denge.
more agar zyada insecure hai toh hum wahan par woh window shades laga sakte hain aur aap jo beech wala jo area hota hai, jo front seat aur back seat hota hai wahan par aap kuch place kar sakte ho taaki dog aage na aaye.
Sunny
Very good. Aur hum aisa kyon kar rahe hain? Kya rok rahe hain hum aisa karne se?
Yashpal
Uska movement rok rahe hain taaki woh anxious na ho. sorry.
Sunny
Haan theek hai. Pervez ji se poochta hai yaar main koi baat nahi, koi baat nahi saare answer tu hi dete.
Yashpal
correct.
Sunny
Ya Pervez ji.
Yashpal
Yehi tha bas uska movement. Wo jo idhar-udhar, idhar-udhar ho raha hai usko ek jagah lekar baithna hai aur shaant bas.
Sunny
movement kyon rok rahe hain kaun batayega? Aap nahi Pervez ji. movement kyon rok rahe hain hum? dog ka movement kyon rok rahe hain? Idhar-udhar jo ho raha hai.
Reena
anxiety, anxiety na create ho na pacing se anxiety badh jaati hai.
Sunny
Reena ji haath raise karna tha. Omanya haath raise karke reh gayi.
Reena
sorry.
Speaker 9
Koi baat nahi.
Sunny
Haan so haan so dekho yeh poore ka poora pipeline dekho dog ke saath kaise kaam kar raha hai. so agar dog jab dog pace karna chaalu hota hai, dog ke andar anxiety build hona start ho jaati hai. dog jab anxious hota hai toh dog pace karna chaalu karta hai. two way channel hai.
Agar dog pace kar raha hai, idhar-udhar ja raha hai. Kab-kab pace hota hai? suppose aap ghar par ho aur aapne koi khaana liya, khaane ki thaali li. Hai na. Ab dog aapke peeche aana start kar raha hai.
Idhar ja raha hai, udhar ja raha hai, idhar ja raha hai. Agar usne yeh movement kara idhar-udhar, idhar-udhar dog ke dimaag mein anxiety aana chaalu ho jaati hai.
Ab woh anxiety uske behavior ko shape karegi aur anxiety ke baad woh whine kar sakta hai, woh howl kar sakta hai, woh cheezon ko scratch kar sakta hai, bark kar sakta hai but out of anxiety aisa ho raha hai. so jab hum uske movement ko rok dete hain toh hum kya rok rahe hain?
anxiety mein jaane ka jo chance hota hai usko hum tune down kar rahe hain. okay that's why movement ko rokna zaroori hota hai. okay car ke andar hum isliye uske movement ko rok rahe hain. yes Reena ji.
Reena
Sunny Chai jo hai jab jaata hai matlab apne aap jaata hai tab toh theek hai nahi toh kayi baar toh usko excite karke lekar jaana padta hai kyonki nahi toh gaadi mein hi chadhne ko taiyaar hota.
but when she gets into the car he is calm but once he is inside the car he becomes absolutely territorial. Agar pehle se baithe hue driver tab toh theek hai.
Sunny
Haan.
Reena
otherwise ek baar wo andar hai phir uske baad bahar se koi andar nahi aa sakta. Matlab mere aur my husband ke alawa aur koi car ke andar nahi ghus sakta. Koi car ke paas bhi aayega toh he will snap.
Sunny
Yeah, yeah.
Reena
Toh uske andar wo excitement, anxiety nahi hai. Wo territorialness ideally suddenly bahut zyada aa jaati hai and I have no idea ki usko kaise curtail karoon.
Sunny
Use de wo jaise dekhiye ki dog jaise abhi koi baitha hua hai, koi driver baitha hua hai. Hai na aur dog apna Chai andar gaya toh uske baad wo shaant ho jaata hai. correct aap aisa bol rahe hain aur uske baad agar koi insaan gaadi ki taraf badhta hai toh phir Chai kaise behave karta hai?
Reena
Haan tab snap karta hai. Tab car ke paas nahi aane deta kisi ko.
Chaahe wahi driver agar bahar nikal ke dobaara andar aane lagega he will not let him.
Sunny
He will not. Toh uske dimaag mein bas ek association yeh bani hui hai ki andar jo baithe hue hain woh safe hai. Bahar se jo aa rahe hain woh unsafe hai. Woh aisa nahi dekhta ki yehi wahi driver hai jo andar baitha hua tha. Dog ko yeh samajh mein nahi aata.
Reena
Par hum log aate hain, par hum log aate hain humare liye nahi. Matlab jo hum pack wale hain main, mere husband ya mere son, daughter aayenge unke liye nahi but rest ghar ke hi chaahe even maid bhi hogi toh bhi I can't take chances. Jo ghar aane wali hongi.
Sunny
Aapki jo sight hai woh dog ke liye bahut zyada familiar hai. Aapki sight matlab aap jo ghar ke jo members hain unki sight aur unki smell dog ke liye bahut zyada familiar hai.
Aap jis tareeke se kapde pehente ho, jis tareeke se dikhte ho woh bahut, aap jaisa agar koi aur insaan bhi aa jaayega na like look wise toh dog uski taraf shaant rahega phir uski smell trigger hogi phir bolega arey yeh kaun?
toh that unko sight se matter karta hai. Car ke andar sight se zyada matter karta hai kyonki wahan smell nahi aa rahi hoti hai. Toh aap logon ki sight matter karti hai. Aap kaise dikhte ho woh dog ke dimaag mein kaafi deeply gaya hua hai.
Toh isliye jab aap log aaoge toh woh is tareeke se, lekin yehi same case agar ek dog excited rehta aur woh excitement ke baad territorial jaata toh usko sight nahi dikhti. Chai sirf territorial hai, woh andar excited nahi hota. Yeh antar hai. Jab dog excited ho jaate hain toh unko dikhna band ho jaata hai.
Dikhna aise nahi ki woh blind ho jaate hain. Unko figure out hona band ho jaata hai ki kaun-kaun hai. Jab woh shaant rehte hain aur excited nahi hai toh unko samajh mein aata hai ki haan this sight is familiar to me, this image is familiar to me.
Toh woh different behave karte hain. Woh familiarity aur unfamiliarity ka antar hai plus Chai territorial toh hai hi se. Toh territorial toh rahega hi se toh jab bhi aapko dog ko wahan rakhna hai usko aisi jagah leash karna hoga taaki is darwaaze se woh is darwaaze tak nahi pahunch sake.
okay beech mein thodi tight leash karna hota hai toh hum kaise rakhte hain? Dog ek jagah par left wale darwaaze par bandha hua rehta hai aur phir hum idhar ka darwaaza kholte hain taaki woh apne aggression ko dikha sake. Woh lagaataar bark karta rehta hai, karta rehta hai lekin hum completely usko ignore kar dein.
Thodi der ke baad woh shaant hona padega. Jab hum completely ignore kar dete hain usko lekin darwaaza khol ke rakhte hain lekin woh humari taraf nahi aa paata. Toh dog shaant hona start hota hai.
Lekin again Chai toh aapko pata hai woh territorial uska high hai toh koi unfamiliar hai toh usko bite kar sakta hai agar woh gaadi mein-gaadi mein jaaye.
Toh aise cases mein hum muzzle bhi use karte hain. Jaise for example trainer hai. Jaise suppose Parth hai. Parth wahan par aaya. Parth ke saath hum is cheez ko kaise train kar sakte hain? Aapke saath nahi kyunki Parth ko bark karega. Parth ko bite karne ki koshish karega.
Toh Parth jab aayega toh chahe muzzle rahe aur chahe gaadi ke andar rahega, bandha hua rahega, Parth bahar jaayega, darwaja kholega aur jaakar andar baith jaayega bina usko ignore kiye hue. Phir darwaja kholega, phir bahar aa jaayega and he repeat. Phir bahar aa jaayega, phir repeat.
Toh dog ko lagega ki yeh jo log yahan par aa rahe hain iska matlab yeh nahi hai ki mujhse kuch claim karne aa rahe hain ya mujhe harm karne aa rahe hain. Lekin uske liye safety lagegi Parth ke liye. Woh chahe bandha hua aur chahe par muzzle.
Toh chahe is tareeke se tune down hona start ho usko samajh mein aayega oh this is okay, oh this is okay jab hum continuous basis par is cheez ko repeat karte hain.
okay lekin aap nahi koi like different-different person jo professionally ko pata ho actual mein ho kya raha hai, karna kya hai. Ab aise bologe bhai koi aur aakar baith jaaye uske bas ki baat nahi hai. Ki chahe bark karega aur baith jaayega. Aisa nahi ho paayega.
Reena
Nahi woh usko leash par main baandhti nahi hoon andar and he doesn't pace either. Wahan par woh jaakar andar baith jaata hai. Bilkul shuru-shuru mein hota tha toh jab boarding le jaate the toh kaanp raha hota tha aur you could see that he is not settling.
Ab woh gaadi mein jaata hai, baith jaata hai it's not that aaram se aur agar by chance agar sirf main aur driver hai toh driver ko bhi pehle darr lagta tha toh I used to sit and uski leash matlab mere haath mein hoti hai short leash. I make him sit taaki woh aage tak na pahunch paaye.
so usko main baandhti nahi hoon but I hold the leash in my hand. I think humne usko leash mein baandha nahi hai.
Haan humne baandha nahi hai toh I am not very sure of that how he will take it.
Sunny
Perfect. Leash ka baandhna kya hai ki jo movement hai usko restrict karte hain.
Reena
Movement restrict.
Sunny
Haath mein pakad ke bhi kar sakte ho. okay.
Reena
Theek thank you.
Sunny
So okay so bahut saare questions, bahut saare discussion hue hain toh abhi jo naye members hain Puluska ji. yeah so like right now aap like aap-aap naye ho yahan par and jo hum abhi baatein kar rahe hain toh ho sakta hai ki usmein kuch-kuch terms ho jo right now aapke liye nayi ho.
Toh main aapke-aapke feedback lena chahunga ki right now aapko kaise understanding aa rahi hai like is poore cheez se you are able to understand ki hum kya like hum kis direction mein ja rahe hain dog ke baare mein kis tareeke se. Jo terms hum karein woh aapke liye clear hai. Aap mute par ho.
Reena
Yes almost clear. I mean I can understand now what is the, what the discussion is.
Sunny
Sense make kar raha hai jo hum baat kar rahe hain.
Reena
Yes.
Sunny
Because it is, it is not training ke baare mein nahi hai completely dog ke behavior ke baare mein is na.
Reena
Absolutely yes, yes.
Sunny
Yeah okay. Baaki log? Anshul.
Anshul
All good, all good.
Sunny
Okay, okay and where is Kashish? Kashish.
Vayu
All good, all good, all good.
Sunny
Cool hai, cool hai man. so yeah feedback dete rehna. okay. okay yes Mayur.
Vayu
Yes so sir regarding the car thing maine bhi experience kiya tha initially. Toh Reena ma'am aap usko agar rakhte ho toh kaun se side par rakhte ho like gaadi ke left side par rakhte ho ya car ke right side par hamesha rakhte ho window par?
Reena
Aise koi rule nahi hai but generally left side agar driver ke saath toh kam hi hota hai. usually he goes with me and my husband. but tab toh hum bother nahi karte left and right side par. Toh wherever I am sitting toh doosri side aisa koi rule nahi hai left and right.
Agar driver hota toh yes definitely main uske immediate peeche nahi chadhanti. Main agar saamne dekhte hue chadhanti hoon. Main pehle khud chadhti hoon phir usko chadhanti hoon toh phir woh left side par agar driver right side par hai aage toh main peeche left side par usko rakhti hoon.
Vayu
Aapke case mein like unknown person is a driver so humne kya try kiya tha ki I and my wife always drive the car toh hum log usko mere peeche rakhte the aur woh jo oopar grab handle hota hai na usko thoda chhod ke wahan par baandhte hain. Kyunki agar move kiya bhi toh bahut limited rahega. Aage bhi nahi ja paayega.
It is always notice ki humare car ke darwaje hamesha road ke left side par hi rehte hain.
Hamesha left se hi hum log chadhte toh wahan se hi obvious hai ki koi bhi aayega wahin se aayega. Koi bhi jaayega wahin se jaayega. Toh woh agle wala seat jo co-driver ka hai, uske peeche wala hum new person ke liye rakhte hain toh dog will never stay at the left side.
Toh waisa maine try kiya tha and it worked ki koi bhi meri mummy aayi samjho bahut din baad toh left se hi chadhi toh woh distance hai. Agar snap karna bhi chahe toh hoga nahi. Mummy wahin se utar jaayegi. Road is always to the left side.
Toh woh ek try kiya tha and uske baad jo Parth ne bhi bola black shades wala kyunki along with the facing thing anxiety mein vision bhi bahut trigger karta hai. Samjho agar dog right par dog hai chalo uski restrict kar di movement.
Lekin vision bhi toh hai usko kaanch mein se bhi woh dog dikh raha hai toh usko fark nahi padta ki usko baandhein toh phir bhi woh lunge kare ja raha hai.
Pair maar raha hai kyunki right side left side toh vision help kiya humne toh phir abhi permanently woh shades laga diye toh usse bhi fark pad raha hai aur car ride ke pehle bhi thoda sa usko walk, susu woh sab bhi karaate hain jiske wajah se thoda sa aur calm down ho jaata hai.
Haan, jaise last session mein bhi discussion hua tha kuch session pehle ki directly ghar se laakar excitement mein aise oopar mein chadhana bahut log woh karte hain ki happily chalo ghoomne jaane toh dog aise hi usi state mein rehta hai bahut time tak.
Toh uske pehle hi thoda sa like sit, stay aapke bolne par chadhna chahiye. Bolne par hi utarna chahiye. Utarne ke time par bhi bahut observe kiya gaya hai ki dog ko pata hai jab bhi gaadi rukti hai, kahin ghoomne jaaye ya phir jaise mere case mein dog always know ki car nikli matlab Aray Hills par jaana hai.
Toh they are always car ka darwaja kab khule aur directly jump kar de.
Toh abhi main unko pehle main beech mein ruk ke ki ruk phir woh sit karenge then down phir main darwaja band karoonga. Phir woh mere saath turn maaregi. Toh yeh chhote-chhote steps hai. Yeh dog ko rokega like bahut saari cheezon se and is behavior ka aur ek main plus one dena chahta hoon.
Jahan par maine observe kiya tha ki mere ghar mein agar friends aa rahe hain ya phir mere jo house help the, unke oopar pehle Brownie bahut attack karti thi toh main kya karta tha unko Aishwarya ko bolta tha ki let her come at 8 AM main Brownie ko bahar lekar jaaoonga. Woh pehle se ghar mein rehti thi maujood.
Jab Brownie bahar se aayegi na toh uska behavior alag tha. Mere friends bhi aate the toh main Max ko neeche walk par unke saath lekar jaaoonga. Friends ko bolta tha ki tum ghar mein pehle enter karo.
Maine drastically change dekha hai ki friends entering the house pehle sitting on the sofa then dogs entering peeche se mere bhi peeche se versus I letting the dogs enter the house first and then mehmaan.
Vah toh door se unka phir vah territorial behavior start hota tha. Toh yeh maine practically observe kiya.
Sunny
Yes. Toh yeh jo technique hai kind of thing jab khaaskar un dogs, vah dogs jo guest ke upar attack karte hain, maids ke upar attack karte hain ya phir koi bhi naya insaan aata hai, unke upar attack karte hain toh uske upar bahut zabardast work karti hai.
Jab hum dog ko baahar le jaate hain, guest pehle andar aa jaata hai aur phir dog ko lekar aate hain toh dog completely different behave karta hai aur bahut se clients ke liye yeh ek magic ki tarah rehta tha. Arrey mera dog change kaise ho gaya? Mera dog yeh kaise ho gaya?
So that's vah ek underlying principle hai unka kind of thing ki agar koi insaan andar hai, vah already us jagah ko claim kar chuka hai.
Yeh unke dimaag mein aa jaata hai. Ab mujhe us cheez ko claim karne ki zaroorat nahi hai. Lekin bahut se dogs jinke andar territorial behavior bahut zyada hota hai aur unke humans mein assertiveness kam hoti hai, vahaan par yeh work nahi karta. Okay.
Vayu ke saath isliye work karta hai ki Vayu ke andar assertiveness zyada hai aur vah follow through karta hai. Lekin sab jagah par yeh strategy kaam nahi karti hai. Getting a point kyon kaam nahi karti hai?
Kyunki aap guest toh aa rahe ho yahaan par lekin jo human dog ko lekar aa raha hai usmein toh agar aap apne clients ko yeh strategy doge aur aap unki energy ko nahi dekh rahe ho, yeh work nahi karegi. Samajh mein aaya? Yeh work nahi karegi. Toh humein assertiveness ke baare mein pehle pata na hota.
Ab Vayu by default matlab uska nature hai ki vah thoda assertive ki taraf hai toh uske saath yeh work ho jaayega.
Lekin uske dimaag mein yeh kya aayega ki this strategy works. This strategy why it works? Because of Vayu. Vah bhi ek variable hai us strategy ko work karne ke liye. So hamesha jab bhi hum strategy dein, human ki energy jisko hum vah de rahe hain, vah uski energy kya hai, uske saath yeh kaise work karega?
Toh human assertive hona zaroori hai. Agar dog territorial hai otherwise dog takeover karne lag jaate hain. Okay aur claiming unka ek nature hai. Claiming unka ek behavior hai. Toh agar vah unka nature hai, unke nature ke according behave kar rahe hain toh phir hum dog ko kaise vah karenge?
Like kaise hum unko kaise galat samajh sakte hain?
So jab bhi aap see aap sab professionals ke course mein ho and jab aap professional ke course mein ho toh main yehi sochunga ki aapke clients honge aur jab aapke clients honge toh aapke paas aise cases aayenge aur jab aapke cases aayenge hamesha pehli priority human ki oorja hai.
Uske baad strategy hai. Okay so yeh strategy humko deni hai, lekin human ki oorja ko increase karke. Uske baad humko yeh bataana hai ki aapko assertiveness kyon hona zaroori hai aur aap assertiveness kaise achieve kar sakte ho.
For example kal ke video mein humne kaise bataaya ki body seedhi karke aap assertiveness project kar sakte ho zyada. Lekin body seedhi hi sirf assertiveness project nahi karti. Aapke emotional bhi emotions bhi assertiveness project karte hain. Lekin body ek variable hai.
Okay, so hum is tareeqe se unko, unko guide karte hain. Toh strategy hamesha work nahi karti. Bahut zyada depend karta hai kiske upar? Kaun use kar raha hai us strategy ko. Toh hamaari strategy unke according honi chahiye poori ki poori. Yes, next.
Toh Vayu ji yeh bahut hi achhi vah hai aur isne kaafi achhe results diye hain jo aapne implement kiya hua hai.
dogs ko baahar bithaana, dogs ko phir andar lekar jaana, guest aaye toh baahar lekar aana aur yeh brownie ke saath kyunki brownie se bhi mila hua hoon toh uske andar territorial behavior zyada hai. Even in Max, Max se bhi mila hua hoon toh uske saath bhi achha work karega kyunki main tujhe bhi jaanta hoon.
That's why yeh achha work karega, okay. Because of your assertive energy, not because of solely because of a strategy. Because of your assertive energy, okay.
Vayu
So that I mean, Kalina ma'am ko yeh directly bola kyunki as she is learning dog behavior so abhi ab tak ka portion toh unko pata hai. Lekin obviously if it is client so I will obviously explain them ki agar aap hi dare-dare chal rahe ho, aapka leash hamesha tight hai, peeche hai positioning everything, everything.
So then this comes after matlab jo bhi aapka khud par work hua hai confidence aur is par so then this is the next step aisa.
Sunny
Aur, aur jab bhi hum clients ko aise bolte hain ki agar aap, aap dare-dare chal rahe ho toh hum is tareeqe ki language use nahi karte. Hai na? Clients se hum baat karte samay yeh bolte hain ki agar hum dare-dare chalte hain. Hai na? Kya bolte hain hum? Aap nahi, tum nahi, hum. So hum kabhi bhi pinpoint nahi karte.
Main tum logon ke saath jo professionals honge vahaan pinpoint kar sakta hoon, lekin clients ke saath hum vaise aise nahi kar sakte, okay. Toh hum clients ko bolenge ki agar, agar hum dar-dar ke chalte hain toh dog us tareeqe se behave nahi kar paata jis tareeqe se hum unse expect karte hain.
So then they know, okay achha. Phir hum unko bolte hain ki agar aap dare-dare chaloge toh unhein kya hai? Unka dimaag band ho jaayega. Okay. Humein unka dimaag open karna hai. Toh dimaag open ke liye agree hona zaroori hai. Agree hona zaroori hai aur agree hone ke liye like hum tu nahi bol sakte.
Like aap aise ho, yeh aise ho, vo aise nahi bol sakte. Hum bol sakte hain. Hum darte hain. So main jab bhi main client se meeting karta hoon ya clients ke paas kabhi hum consultation lete hain, hum-- main vahaan par hamesha hum use karta hoon. Hum ki like agar main dara hua hoga toh mera dog kaise samjhega?
Aise bolta hoon. Toh aise nahi bolta ki tum dare hue honge toh tumhara dog kaise hoga? No, is language mein nahi. Hum dare hue honge ya phir main dara hua hoga. Yehi do cheez use karte hain. Toh unko, hum chahte hain ki vo relate karein.
Relate, relate karne se vo samjhenge aur relate karne se vo zyada achhi tareeqe se, hum direct unko nahi samjha rahe. Hum just ek, ek story de rahe hain jisse vo relate kar pa rahe hain aur vo seekh pa rahe hain usse indirectly, okay.
So that's aapko, aapki efficiency increase ho jaayegi baat karne ki aur case solve karne ki. Yes, Sanchul ji-- Vayu are you done? Yeah, cool man.
Good. Thanks for this insight, this thing.
Vayu
Thank you.
Sunny
Yes, Anshul.
Anshul
So, so I have like same question but in Pixie's case it's opposite situation. So like she is quite anxious or insecure dog. So whenever she is getting into the vehicle so vo hamesha paas mein hi baithegi. Agar main gaadi mein hoon toh vo mere hamesha lap par baithegi. Agar koi aur hai toh vo uske lap par hi baithegi.
She generally does not move much. Thoda bahut move karegi. Agar ek, agar bahut lambi drive hai jaise agar hum teen-chaar ghante ki drive hai toh thoda bahut vo thoda window par jaayegi aur phir she sit down quietly and then just rest there.
So uske saath agar kaam karna hai toh kaise hum usko karenge ki uski anxiousness kam ho jaaye. Kyunki whenever she is going anywhere in a moving vehicle or like anything so she got anxious.
So she needs somebody to be with her.
Sunny
Matlab woh whine karti hai, howl karti hai.
Anshul
Nahi, nahi, nahi, nahi kuch bhi nahi karti. Na whine karti hai, na howl karti hai, kuch bhi nahi karti. But she will sit with somebody like she needs somebody, it's fine.
Sunny
It's completely matlab agar suppose kar lo woh andar howl kar rahi hai, kar rahi hai, pareshaani.
Anshul
Nahi, nahi.
Sunny
No, that's completely, that's completely okay. Human ki compare, see dekhiye car is a big deal for dogs. Hai na? Jitni humein woh simple lagti hai car dog ke liye toh woh bhai alag hi, alag hi woh cheez hai. So they need something us samay par. Hai na?
Toh bohot saare trainers aap dekhte hain ki haan dog ko car ke andar crate mein rakhna hota hai taaki woh safe feel kare. Same concept. Crate kya that give that, that, that safe waala, safe waala zone.
Hai na? Aapke saath jab woh aayega toh aapki godi mein baith raha hai toh usko kya mil raha hai? Woh safe waala zone mil raha hai. Toh dog bas safe zone chahta hai aur anxiety aur in sab mein bhi na hum dog ko safe zone hi de rahe hote hain. Humara aur koi maqsad nahi hota.
Jaise anxiety mein usko safe zone kaise de rahe? Bhai tu idhar-udhar bhaaga toh teri anxiety badhegi toh tujhe kuch bhi safe zone nahi lagega. Toh hum uski sabse pehle anxiety kaise rokenge? Usko ek jagah par baandh kar. Ki bhai teri, tu teri anxiety khatam ho toh taaki tujhe safe zone lag sake.
Phir woh wahan par baithta hai, hum uske, uske movement ko completely restrict kar dete hain. Beech mein kuch rakh dete hain, side mein kuch rakh dete hain, aage kuch rakh dete hain taaki woh ek hi jagah par rahe. Toh is tareeqe se hum unki anxiety uski, us place ko safe zone banate hain.
Lekin aapke dog ne safe zone already banaya hua hai aur godi mein aakar ban, godi mein aakar banaya aur usme woh shaanti hai. So that's a, that's a good, woh anxiety nahi hai.
Anxiety nahi hai.
Anshul
It is a normal behavior. She is just finding the comfort zone.
Sunny
Comfort. Woh bas comfort find kar rahi hai and that is completely okay. So aapka dog is like low medium ek, ek high companion drive hai.
Anshul
Yes, yes.
Sunny
Okay, so low medium hai and high companion drive hai toh usko companionship achhi lagegi. Uski aankhon mein bhi dekhoge toh kai baar aise aansu aa jayenge. Like woh uske andar woh, haan, uski aankhon ko dekh ke aisa lagta hai she is trying to tell you something. Haan ya uski aankhon mein woh oorja hai.
Like she can give, woh chhoti si hai but woh apaar pyaar de sakti hai aap logon ko. So yeah, so that will make your heart very soft that girl. Toh woh aapko aisa, so that's a good aapki life mein aana. Woh usne change kiya aapko. Hai na?
Otherwise haan, haan there, there pehle toh like ho sakta hai episodes ho depression ke, anger ke, trauma ke, panic ke.
Anshul
Hota hai.
Sunny
Sabke saath hota hai yaar, usme kya? Sabke saath, hum sab, sab guzarte hain un sab cheezon se. Lekin dog se madad mil jaati hai.
Anshul
Yes.
Sunny
So that's why we all love dogs. Yeah, cool hai. Toh usko zaroorat nahi hai. She is amazing. Okay. Yes Saakshi ji.
Saakshi
Hello. Toh Sunny mera ek question Barfi se related obviously toh for the past three nights we have been hosting friends kyunki World Cup chal raha tha. Sabko chhod raha tha. Poora routine thoda kharaab ho gaya tha.
Kal maine kya observe kara ki Barfi ne basically kya bolte hain predict karna shuru kar diya hai pattern ki is time se log aayenge ghar par aur is samay jaayenge toh woh like even though the game finishes early not early but quite comparatively early toh woh party ya gathering jo bhi aap usko bolna ho woh 5:30-6 o'clock tak bhi kabhi-kabhi chali hai.
Is beech main notice kar rahi hoon ki Barfi was getting quite anxious. Woh baar-baar iski taraf ja raha hai, gate ki taraf ja raha hai toh mujhe pehle usko laga ki usko breaks chahiye. Haan, toh woh baar-baar woh karne ki koshish kar raha hai. Ab mujhe nahi samajh mein aa raha tha raat mein kya karna hai.
Kyunki kal yeh maine pehli baar notice kara and mujhe khud lag raha tha ki itni anxiety kyun ho rahi hai. There was a lot of panting also. Toh matlab aisi situation mein mujhe kya karna chahiye? I tied him to his bed jahan par main usko anyways matlab uske baad kar deti hoon tethering sikha rahi. Haan sorry.
Sunny
That's a woh dog overwhelm ho gaya. Overwhelm ho gaya.
Saakshi
Okay.
Sunny
Hai na. So dogs is tareeqe se kab-kab behave karte hain first of all kuch medical issue chal raha hai tab woh is tareeqe se behave karne lagta hai.
Hai na medical issue chal raha hai. Pet mein kuch gadbad ho gayi. Pet dukh raha hai ya usne kuch, usne kuch kha liya toh aapko ekdam unpredictable uska anxiety ke attack dikhne lag jayenge uske andar. Uska panting dikhne lag jayega. Agar kuch beemaari chal rahi hogi uske andar.
Saakshi
Right.
Sunny
Lekin waisa hai nahi. Lekin problem kya hai yahan par woh overwhelm ho gaya because of all the energy, all the halla gulla all this thing woh human ke liye is pretty normal kind of thing lekin dog ke liye it's too much kyunki usko aadat nahi hai in sab cheezon ke liye.
Saakshi
Right.
Sunny
Hai na.
Saakshi
Right.
Sunny
So usko aadat nahi hai. Woh just overwhelm ho gaya tha. Wahan par itne log the aur us poore ghar mein sirf unki oorja jo vibration hai woh takra rahi thi. You know like different-different tareeqe ki vibration takra rahi thi aur dog us vibration ko like feel kar paata hai ki yaar yeh kya cheez hai, yeh kya cheez hai.
Toh uska mind hamesha yeh kya hai? Yaar yeh kya hai? Yaar what is this? Yaar what is this? Toh lagaataar woh decision making par chal raha hai uska dimaag aur then woh thak jaata hai. Wahan se bhaagne ki koshish karta hai. Yaar mere ko yahan nahi rehna. Kind of samajh lo ki uska sar dard hone lag gaya.
Kuch bhi ho because of that overwhelming thing toh uske liye overwhelming aapki gathering uske liye overwhelming thi aur ab aisi jagah par, aisi jagah par kya karna hota hai jab bhi gathering start ho rahi ho us din humein usko longest walk deni hoti hai longest.
Saakshi
Yes right.
Sunny
Longest walk, longest run dena hota hai aur gathering agar dog ko samajh mein aaya dog ko gathering nahi pasand. Lekin uska yeh matlab nahi ki aap nahi karoge.
Dog ko gathering nahi pasand toh dog ko gathering nahi pasand toh hum uske liye ek separate kamra rakhte hain ya thodi door ki jagah rakhte hain jahan par woh rehta hai.
Hum usko baahar lekar nahi aate hain jaise ki bhai sab se milo aur yeh sab cheezein. Agar woh khud aana chahta hai toh lekar aate hain lekin uske liye hamesha ek secluded place rehte hain jahan par woh jaakar decompress ho sake. Wahan jaakar woh reh sake.
Agar usko woh nahi milega aur usko wahan par bhi aaraam nahi milega toh darwaaze ki taraf jaayega aur bolega bhai khol main jaaoon baahar nikloon. Toh woh is tareeqe se behave karega.
Saakshi
But woh jo darwaaze mein jaana tha it was not ki mujhe ghar se baahar nikalna hai because jaise Barfi ke saath hai ki main agar darwaaza khula bhi chhod doongi na toh he will not run away. Uska yeh hai toh, Out of habit. Out of habit and where would you say ki yeh memory uske dimaag mein place hui hai.
Is this like associated memory?
Sunny
Yeah, this is associated memory. Dekho hota kya hai jaise aap suppose kar lo aap gharon ke dog ke saath kaisa hota hai. Jo gharon bahut saare ghar ke dog toh darwaza kholte bhaag bhi jaate hain. That is not a- Right. Very common case jo aata hai ki bhai- Right. -unko kaise sikhao aise khole bhaage nahi.
Lekin bahut se dog jaise hote hain jo medium energy dogs hain ya phir jin dogs ke saath aap ek structure follow karte ho, ek structure follow karte ho toh aap structure apne dog ke saath aap kya structure follow karte ho ki aap dog ko leash lagaate ho, usko baithate ho- baithate ho.
Darwaza kholte ho aur phir baahar jaate ho.
Saakshi
Right.
Sunny
Toh dog yeh ab yeh kab tak, kab se chal raha hai? Bahut time ho gaya.
Saakshi
Hamesha se.
Sunny
Hamesha se. Yeh dog ke dimaag mein ek procedural memory create ho chuki hai.
That is dekhiye this is the truth ki human darwaza kholega toh hi main baahar jaaunga uske saath otherwise main baahar nahi jaau. So usko yeh learn ho gaya toh woh kabhi bhi baahar nahi jaayega. Koi trigger ho gaya suppose kar lo baahar koi- Intruder ho gaya.
Saakshi
Haan.
Sunny
Kuch aisi cheez aa gayi jisne uske instincts ko jaga diya. Then woh saari learning gayi. instincts toh jab instincts trigger hote hain that's the nature woh baahar aata hai nature. Phir aapki training, aapka learning woh kuch bhi matter nahi karta.
Jab instincts aa gaye baahar toh instincts tab tak woh nahi jaayega jab tak uske instinct, instincts trigger ka matlab kya hai? Protect karne ki instinct trigger ho sakti hai. Hunt karne ki instinct trigger ho sakti hai.
Play karne ki instinct trigger ho sakti hai. Food scavenge karne ki instinct trigger ho sakti hai. Woh instinct trigger hua tab uski learning kaam ki nahi. Woh chala, woh chala jaayega. Dog instinct se behave karte hain instinct se.
Bas hum ek upar uski layer laga dete hain learning ki, training ki jisse woh apne aap ko restrict karna seekhte hain. Nothing hai lekin woh instincts ko rok nahi sakte. Instincts ki power ko. Agar instinct powerful hai tab uski koi training kaam nahi aayegi.
Kitni baar aisa hota hai ki like jab fear trigger hota hai toh koi training kaam nahi aati. Jab dog reactivity chaalu hota hai, dog ke andar guarding ki instincts hota hai. Aap bolte ho sit, sit, sit, sit sunta hai kya woh? Woh nahi koi, kuch bhi cheez kaam nahi karti kyunki instinct sab power.
So dog woh isliye like dog baahar nahi jaayega. Agar aap bologe ki darwaza khol do aur woh baahar nahi ja raha toh uska matlab hai usko baahar nahi jaana.
Aisa bilkul bhi nahi. Hum usko consider nahi kar sakte kyunki uski aadat ho chuki hai ki aapke saath hi agar aap baahar ja rahe ho aur woh phir bhi baahar nahi ja raha then aap soch sakte ho ki achha usko baahar nahi jaana hai. Hai na. Lekin agar aap andar ho aur aap soch rahe ho yeh baahar nahi ja raha.
Woh consider nahi decide karne mein.
Saakshi
Jaise Barfi ke saath jab tak usko eye contact nahi milta mere nikalne ke baad I have to tell him ki matlab see what I mean he is here only toh.
Sunny
Woh usko learn ho gaya. Jab tak tab tak woh yahi cheez follow karega. Yahi cheez follow karega.
Saakshi
Because he is someone who enjoys company a lot matlab jaise jab tak 10-12 log hai toh agar koi alag akele bhi chala gaya hai toh usko jaakar check karke aayega.
Kabhi kabhi usko jaakar toy bhi de dega ki matlab so these are the things that he does and mujhe aisa lag raha tha ki he was genuinely very in a happy mood ki ghar mein itne saare log aaye hue hain and this was a habit before we shifted to Delhi toh I think woh usko relive kar raha tha and he was just mind mein predict karte ja raha tha ki okay ab aayenge, ab aayenge log but nahi aaye.
Toh for almost one one and a half hour he was like pacing around the house and ultimately I had to tether him. Tab jaakar woh so gaya.
Aisa nahi tha but woh jo ek ghanta tha na woh mere liye bhi anxiety se bhara hua tha because I was just trying to figure out ki kya maine isko khaane mein kuch aisa de diya hai jo all of a sudden yeh aise behave kar raha hai toh haan.
Sunny
No, ab main mujhe main pehle aapka sawaal poori tareeke se samjha nahi tha. Hai na ki like pehle poori tarah samjha nahi tha.
So woh yes woh agar aap is tareeke ka behavior hua hai uska jo aap jo aap bata rahe ho toh anticipate toh kar raha tha kyunki like jab woh log aa rahe the toh hamesha aapke ghar mein high energy se aate honge.
Saakshi
Right, right.
Sunny
Wo andar ghuste honge. Let's go kind of hai na.
So that was woh dog, dog ko feel ho rahi thi every day jitne din bhi woh rahi. So every day woh feel woh feel ho rahi thi usko like 03:00 baje, 04:00 baje jab bhi aate the toh woh usko feel hoti thi ki is samay high energy waali cheez aayegi anticipate aur agar woh high energy lekin dog ko itni jaldi aadat kaise lagi?
Aapko memory waale lesson mein kya sikhaaya tha? Emotions.
Saakshi
Reward and emotions.
Sunny
Not reward emotions. Ab emotions.
Saakshi
Just emotions.
Sunny
bhi ho sakti hai dog ki. So jab log ghar mein aa rahe the, aapke woh high emotions mein aa rahe the.
Saakshi
Right.
Sunny
Emotion for dog is high vibrations like intense vibration. So woh dog ke deep tak so woh high vibration.
Saakshi
Got it.
Sunny
Woh uske deep tak gaya aur woh daily basis do-teen din tak gaya.
Toh chouthe din woh anticipate kar raha tha is dopamine ke dose ko.
Saakshi
Okay.
Sunny
Dopamine ka dose jisko teen-chaar din se, teen-chaar din se mil raha tha. Toh jab aapne usko leash kiya tab aapne usko communicate kiya. Kuch bhi ho raha ho tujhe yahaan par aaraam hai.
So then usko understand ki mujhe aaraam karna hai aur woh so gaya aur actual mein woh ek ghante mein thak bhi gaya tha because woh practice karte-karte anxiety ka practice karte-karte.
Saakshi
Right.
Sunny
Toh jab bhi dog aisa-aisa kare aur woh kar raha hai toh usko leash karna aur ghar ke baahar usko walk par lekar chale jaana and then waapas usko le aana. Woh reset ho jaayega. Woh reset ho jaayega.
Saakshi
Maine yeh bhi try kara but it was 12:30 at night. Toh main usko 15 minute baahar bhi ghuma ke laayi. Bola bhai kya kar raha hai yaar. Chal de andar kuch karna hai toh kar nahi kar raha hai toh chal aur aakar maine andar usko room mein band-band kara sab kara.
Husband was sleeping aur yeh thoda sa matlab isne halla karna shuru kar diya for I think 5-10 minutes he barked and then he calm down apne aap hi. Matlab main baahar se sun rahi thi toh.
Sunny
Bahut saari cheezein, bahut saari cheezein yahaan par jo sense woh nahi kar raha. Matlab kuch medical issue humein like kuch-kuch kha liya usne jab woh teen-chaar log aaye the. Matlab sorry jab aapke guest aaye the tab usko kuch khilaya, kuch meethai.
Saakshi
Nahi.
Sunny
Kuch anything kind of.
Saakshi
Wo khaane ka bilkul mana kar dete hain. Haan.
Sunny
Like kuch anxiety ka toh hai iske andar matlab woh log aaye.
Saakshi
He is definitely an anxious dog and jaise aapne bola na kyunki pehle bhi humaare saath yeh ho chuka hai toh I make sure ki agar jab bhi guests aane waale ho toh hum us din extra play karke aayein.
Thoda sa run-van bhi karke aaye aaspaas aur main in fact usko beech-beech mein bhi na thoda snuffle mat wagairah de deti hoon. Toh I don't know matlab but tethering definitely helps.
Sunny
So interesting hai yeh cheez lekin usko teen-chaar din mein woh kaafi aapka eventful the phir woh main yeh bol sakta hoon. Woh teen-chaar din kaafi eventful the.
Like poora unki entry se lekar unki exit tak kaafi eventful raha aur kaafi high energy mein aap sab, aap sab log the aur match ke dauraan bhi aap sab bahut high energy mein the.
Saakshi
Right.
Sunny
So that's a very big vibration ek dog ke perspective se. So agar woh usko, usko habit hui us cheez ki jitna intense vibration hota hai dog utni jaldi habit mein jaata hai us cheez ke.
Saakshi
Haan.
Sunny
Okay suppose haan. Woh habit matlab woh deep jaati hai woh cheez. So teen-chaar din aapke bahut high us par the. Toh jis din woh usko nahi mila so aapko woh dekhne ko mila. Woh same vibration. Getting my point? Woh same vibration jab aap-aap jab itne saare log aa rahe the, aap ek high us mein the.
Saare ke saare ek high vibration mein the. Woh nahi bhi aa rahe toh bhi dog ke andar woh high vibration thi jo usne absorb kari hui thi jo aapko dekhne ko mila aur ho sakta hai ek-do din toh agle din band ho gayi.
Saakshi
Nahi toh yeh kal hua hai. Main aaj-aaj observe aur karti hoon. I will give him a good long work also aur phir aaj main aapko bata deti hoon.
Sunny
Ho sakta hai ki woh aise tune down ho like gradually tune down hoga. Gradually dog ne absorb kar liya. Okay woh saara excitement jo aapke ghar mein tha woh usne absorb kar liya.
Getting a point. So dog, dog nahi hota toh woh excitement abhi ghar mein phaila hua hota. Woh energy, woh vibrations. Woh usmein phaili, woh phaili hui hoti. You can woh aap feel kar sakte the. Woh cheez hai. Lekin woh dog ne poora absorb kar liya woh cheez.
Woh dog aapko bata raha hai ki this was the energy of the house itne time do-teen, do-teen din ke liye. Toh aaj bhi dekhna woh thoda tune down hoga. Phir thoda tune down hoga. So let us know kaisa hai aaj, aaj uska behavior.
Saakshi
Bilkul. I loved it. Just one more question regarding the same thing. Toh normal jo sleep routine hota hai aise mein jab sleep cycle disturb ho gaya should I give him extra sleep or just let his body decide ki usko kitna sona hai ya kitna nahi sona hai?
Sunny
Woh sleep ka humein, humein dhyaan rakhne ki zaroorat nahi hai kyunki dog ko khud ko sleep bahut zyaada woh rehti hai. Woh cheezein dhoondh lete hain. Lekin haan like jab woh sote hain khaaskar raat ka toh andhera hona chahiye bas itna.
Saakshi
Haan.
Sunny
Light agar aap bina light bina kuch karke aisa rakh sakein toh unke liye kaafi healthy rehta hai. Lights unke liye healthy nahi hai raat ko.
Saakshi
Theek hai.
Sunny
That's it. Yeh dhyaan rakho.
Saakshi
Okay. Thank you so much.
Sunny
Yes, Paresh ji.
Paresh
Sunny aapne reply kiya tha woh bite pe it look like a internal punch matlab internal andar se hua hai.
Sunny
Haan, internal punch aisa hota hai ki dogs ek doosre ko hai na apne daant aise band karke, yoon karke, aise karke punch maarte hain. Woh bite nahi karte. Toh woh punch tha.
Paresh
Okay.
Sunny
Agar woh punch, haan woh punch tha. Usko andar haath lagaoge toh usko andar dukhega. Kind of deep jaayega woh. Deep jaata hai woh. Oopar itna nahi dikhta lekin andar haath lagaate toh aisa lagta hai ki deep kisi ne punch maara hua hai. So dog ek doosre ko punch karte hain not bite, punch. Punch kahaan se karte hain?
Snout se. Aur jab woh punch karte hain toh unke daant aise hote hain.
Paresh
Band hote hain.
Sunny
Aur woh apne daant se punch karte hain. Toh poore lips oopar kar lenge. Poore lips oopar kar lenge. Apne daant ko aise karenge, aise karenge aur doosre ki gardan pe aakar dhap maarenge. Toh aur ek doosre ko maarte dhap, dhap, dhap, dhap aisa. Toh is tareeqe se woh punch karte hain. Band karte hain.
Toh Bhai Sahab ne usko punch kiya. Mukka maara.
Paresh
Mukka maar diya.
Sunny
Haan ki mujhe pakdega tu? Yeh le. Sooj gaya usne.
Paresh
Theek hai. Then Sunny I was planning to capture daily activities to start with Bhai Sahab ya Pari. Yeh mere ko aapse suggestion chahiye. Lekin abhi I was kya thinking ki ek din ka poori activities jo main unke saath karta hoon woh main aapke saath share karoon.
Sunny
Haan.
Paresh
Kyunki mujhe pata hai abhi wahaan se bhi bahut saare learnings aayenge.
Sunny
Yes.
Paresh
But I was thinking ki hum baahar ja rahe hain, doosri-doosri cheezein dekh rahe hain. Ek baar khud ka dekh lete hain.
Sunny
Yes.
Paresh
Right? Toh aap kya suggest karoge? Short-short videos ya kuch long videos how?
Sunny
See, dekho dogs ki generally paanch se yeh chheh act-- paanch, chhahtha nahi boloonga.
Chhahtha is affection. Paanch activities hoti hain jismein humein dhyaan dena. Pehli hai walk. Matlab videos kis-kis cheez ki de sakte hain? Aap walk ka de sakte ho. Walk kaise start karte hain. Chhota sa video de sakte ho ki main ghar se nikalte samay is tareeqe se nikalta hoon.
Ghar mein aate samay is tareeqe se aata hoon. Aur baahar koi video le paaya nahi le paaoon nahi. Lekin baahar mein bhi is tareeqe se walk karaata hoon. Doosra hai feeding. Main dog ke liye is tareeqe se khaana prepare karta hoon aur dog us samay is tareeqe se ghoom rahe hote hain. Kya karna chahiye yahaan par?
Aapki toh feeding ka dekha hai maine kaafi achha hai. Teesra socializing. Socializing ka matlab kya? Main dog se is tareeqe se milta hoon. Guest is tareeqe se milta hai. Kis tareeqe se milna hota hai. Getting, getting a point?
Discipline ka ki yaar dekho yahaan par maine dog ke liye is tareeqe se rules banaaye hue hain. Yeh dog ko allowed hai. Yeh dog ko allowed nahi hai. Kya yeh theek hai? Getting, getting, getting a point? Hai na yeh cheez.
Paanchveen cheez hai play. Main dog ke saath is tareeqe se khelta hoon. Kya yeh proper hai? Is tareeqe se khelna, khelna chahiye? Toh generally paanch, chhahthi hai affection ki hum dog ko kis tareeqe se affection.
Toh yeh chheh rituals hai jiske baare mein hum videos ya hum share kar sakte hain aur inheen mein mistakes hoti hain. Yeh poori unki life hai. Toh chhote-chhote videos bana sakte ho and share karo. Aur bade bhi videos banaoge toh pass karke dekh loonga. Toh videos toh share karo yaar.
Videos toh mujhe dekhne mein bahut maza aata hai. I will, I will main overview bhi doonga uska and then- Theek hai main start karta hoon Pari ji ke liye activity ka aur one and two Bhai Sahab. Humein apni repository banaani hai behavior ki. Like hum ready karte ja rahe hain.
Telegram mein har cheez save, save ho raha hai lekin keep doing it.
Continue rakhte hain dogs ki. Aage chalkar ye it will be big repository jahan par dogs ke behavior is like log dekhenge is cheez ko, case studies ko kind of thing ki dogs ki ye behavior hai. Ye platform hai jahan par ye saari ki saari videos hain. It will be great. Humein, humein collect karni hai cheezein. Theek hai.
Achha rahega.
Paresh
Sunny on this only to continue mere mann mein ek question aaya ki- arey kidhar? Koi ek kaam rakhta hoon.
Sunny
Aawaaz kat gayi, aawaaz kat gayi.
Paresh
Consultation start karta hoon. Kya?
Sunny
I don't, mujhe kuch bhi samajh nahi aaya. Haan, Instagram ki baat kar rahe the. Instagram kidhar gaye? Kya bola? I think Instagram ki baat kar rahe the.
Kisi ne suna tha kya?
Saakshi
Aawaaz kat rahi thi.
Sunny
Nahi, kisi ne suna?
Saakshi
Kya?
Paresh
Night 03:00.
Sunny
Yes, yes Vayu. Okay guys jaldi finish-off karenge. Yes Vayu.
Paresh
Jab bhi voice chahiye tha toh kya hota hai main likhkar jaata hoon aur kaash toh mundi agar samjho usne gardan baahar nikaali hai. Theek hai. Aur ye do-teen baar hua hai ki car ek spot pe ruk gayi aage. Toh ek shop tha jo totally closed tha. Kuch nahi tha like poora band tha. Sunday tha.
Sunday something kuch toh day tha.
Vayu
Toh Max ne na samjho abhi uska gardan aisa baahar hai toh full speed se like bullet ki speed se poora andar le gaya usne aur wo panic ho gaya ekdam uski body language change ho gaya aur darne lag gaya. Toh that was- That was kya? Mutton shop.
Sunny
Mutton shop? Mutton shop?
Vayu
Haan mutton shop tha jo ki closed tha. Iske pehle usne yeh behavior dikhaya tha jab mutton shop chaaloo tha. Maine baad mein dekha ise kyon dara? Mujhe laga isko kisi car ne hit kiya utni intensity se wo andar aaya aur wo aisa dar gaya bhaagne ke liye try kar raha tha.
Mujhe laga ittefaaq ho sakta hai kuch bhi ho sakta hai. Second time par jab hum Mumbai Kalyan mein gaye the Kalyan mein shop closed tha. Humko phir bhi question tha aisa kyon kiya? Then we observed ki wahaan par wo bhi mutton shop hi tha jo ki closed tha.
Abhi ekdam speed se andar aaya darke toh wo bhi ek mutton shop hi tha. So he is OK around chicken shops but mutton shop ke around wo aise karta hai let it be closed, let it be khula. Toh yeh kya ho sakta hai?
Sunny
Tere paas kab se hai Max na? Max kab se hai?
Vayu
Max abhi five years ho gaye. Five plus years.
Sunny
Matlab adult mein hi aaya tha tere paas.
Vayu
Nahi nahi 28 days ka tha tab diya tha.
Speaker 9
Yeh cheez na Betty ke saath bhi hoti hai. Matlab wo aise mutton shop ke around bahut zyaada dar jaati hai. Even jo chicken ke jo trucks hote hain na unko dekh ke utna panic karti hai. Matlab usko- Chicken trucks toh different hai wo toh like predator trucks hai aawaaz karte hain wo sab cheez ho sakti hai.
But nahi specifically jo chicken ki jo aawaaz hoti hai na matlab wo jaise wo pata nahi kuch aawaaz hoti hai usse wo bahut zyaada dar jaati hai.
Sunny
Betty ke saath aisa ho sakta hai ki wo predator mode mein aana aa rahi ho. Wo aawaaz aawaaz sunkar lekin wo aa nahi aa nahi paa rahi ho toh wo like ek panic usmein jaa sakti hai. Betty ka case, Betty ka case different lag raha hai. Yeh Max hai. Toh Betty ka pure fear nahi hai.
Betty ke andar predator instincts trigger ho sakti hai and then wo ghabra sakti hai isko main kaise control karoon is instincts ko because of wo chidiyon ki aawaaz ya kind of thing. Toh main exactly sure nahi hoon abhi us cheez ko lekar. Lekin jo jo jo Max ka Max ka hai so kuch associations ho sakti hai.
Dekh for example dog is tareeke se kaise behave kar sakta hai. Kabhi katte hue dekhkar. Hai na it's like a- Exactly main bhi yahi soch rahi thi. Katte hue dekhkar wo kabhi usne katte hue dekha aur katte hue kaisa hota hai aawaaz aati hai thak. Hai na it's kind of thing.
Wo wo smell hai aur kat raha hai aur ya wo wo maara jaa raha hai toh ho sakta hai kuch association create hogi. Negative association create hogi us smell se. Toh main exactly abhi sure nahi hoon ki kyon aisi association create hui.
Lekin yeh baat yeh baat sahi hai. Maine kuch cases aise dekhe hain jismein bakre ya phir goat ki smell se dog ghabraate hain. Ab yeh dog ki dog yeh genetically ghabra rahe hain kya? Kyonki genetically ho sakta hai ki like goat aggressive bhi ho sakte hain dogs ke liye. Hai na like wo bhi kar sakte hain.
Unko hurt bhi kar sakte hain ya phir ya phir unke parivaar mein ya phir unke parents mein kyonki inmein inka behavior genetically wo hota hai down jaata hai. Dogs mein dogs matlab humans mein bhi lekin humans mein itna aware wo matlab itna maante nahi hain log. Lekin genetically down jaata hai behavior ko.
So agar genes mein kuch behavior stored hai ya phir kuch experience stored hai kisi kisi tareeke se toh wo down jaata hai.
So exactly mere ko idea nahi hai. I have to think about it ki kyon goat ki smells se goat ki smells se goat jahaan par goat rehta hai right Payu?
Vayu
Actually sir matlab Sunny main kal bhi nahi search nahi kiya. Mera khud ka analysis aise mujhe lag raha tha theek hai. Toh Max toh 28 days ka tha toh parking mein se maine usko laaya theek hai. Ek friend ke parking mein uske mummy ne janam diya tha wahaan se laaya.
Toh he has not been around in the world bahut chhota tha. Toh Brownie is OK around yeh sab cheezein theek hai uska jo fear hai. Toh maine is par aur ek cheez add karna chahta hoon. Jaise ki jo bakre katte hain na for example maine bahut closely dekha yeh cheez.
Toh jab samjho 10 bakre laaye ek area mein aur wo phir Eid ke din kaatna chaaloo karte hain toh they hide nine bakra door uske vision se. Kyon? Kyonki agar us animal ne us animal ko katte hue dekh liya na wo jo fear rehta hai fear changes animal in a certain way.
Agar wo dekh bhi raha hai usne dekha bhi nahi. Agar uske paas bhi wo smell aa rahi hai ki ek living being kat raha hai in a slot toh wo na dar jaata hai. Toh that fear of that smell matlab wo smell mein jo fear hai that is real. Animals mein zyaada senses hai. Hum log bolte hain na toh they feel that.
Toh mujhe aisa lag raha hai na wo hamesha chicken khaate aa raha hai theek hai. Toh uske saath shaayad uska association ho gaya. Maine usko mutton kabhi bahut kam diya hai ek ya do baar diya hai toh nahi diya. Wo bada jaanwar hai toh wo fear us shop mein tha. Kyonki dekho shop chaaloo tha.
Main bol sakta hoon ki usne katte hue dekha bakra taang aate hue dekha. Usne katte hue kabhi nahi dekha theek hai. Lekin main bol raha hoon abhi shop aise aa raha hai. Door se hi jaise air ke saath wo smell nose par hit karti hai nostrils par immediately wo baahar aa. Usko dekhne ki bhi zaroorat nahi hai.
Toh wo jo waala point tha na wo bhi mere dhyaan mein aaya tha.
Wo yahan par nahi hai. It's just the smell. Wo mujhe 100% hai ki hawa mein unke paas fear.
Speaker 9
Yes smell ke saath ho sakta hai because humare ghar ke paas bhi shop hai. So wahan se hum log roz cross karte hain and jaise hi wo shop aati hai tab wo uska poora body language change ho jaata hai.
Vayu
Haan so he is smell fear and death that's why I think he is reacting that way. Aisa mujhe lag raha hai like I have never. Dekho yeh cheez toh yeh cheez toh kaafi interesting hai ki like death death ko smell kar sakte hain.
Sunny
Hai na ki like wahan par death hai dogs wo kar sakte hain. Lekin yeh ek achha topic hai research ka so I will do more research on this ki dog kaise perceive karte hain doosre animal ko katne ka. Doosra se wo le liya. Hai na ki kaise perceive karte hain.
Lekin is par thoda padhna padega. Kyunki kaafi interesting kaafi interesting hai. Abhi aise apne dimaag se hum kuch memory ka association ka bana ke de sakte hain. Lekin interesting kyunki yeh sirf ek case nahi hai na aisa pehle bhi aaya hai.
Hai na ki ya bhai ki dog kisi area se kisi dukaan se khaaskar aise hi jahan par aisi cheezein hoti hai slaughter house se in sab cheezon se ghabraate hain, door jaate hain. Kyun aisa kyun hota hai? Unko aisi awareness hai kya? Matlab wo figure out kar pa rahe hain ki wahan par kya hota hai actually.
And jo khaana peena bakre ke dukaan ke paas hi hai na wo dog wahan se aaraam se baithe hain kyunki unko jo phenk.
Vayu
Haan. Wo reward ho gaya mere khayaal se ab uske liye, uske liye.
Sunny
Yes jo wahan par jo humare yahan par shop hai na wahan par bhi ek dog baithe rehte hain but usko udhar se khaana milta hai isliye toh usko kuch darr nahi lagta.
See yeh dukaan ki baat nahi hai. Humein bas yeh dekhna yeh humein research karna hai. Humein padhaai karni hogi ki dog death ko smell kar sakte hain kya? Matlab it's like wahan par death hui hai. Wahan par matlab kill hua, wahan par slaughter hua hai. They wo smell kar sakte hain kya us cheez ko?
See wo blood ko smell kar sakte hain lekin blood se wo kyun darenge? Agar wo blood resemble karega kuch negative cheez toh darenge na. Wo, wo sense make nahi karta. Toh kya wahan par wo feeling ko pakad rahe hain kya? Wo kya pakad rahe hain ise? Kya cheez kar rahe hain? Yeh pehla case nahi hai.
Yeh bhai ne pehli baar nahi bola. Matlab yeh rare hota hai. Rare cheezein ho rahi hai lekin still yeh aise cases aate hain. Aise questions aate hain toh mere paas abhi complete is cheez ka wo nahi hai. Bas hum.
Speaker 9
Matlab kya wo ek question hai mujhe ki kya wo apne handler ki feeling ko pakad pa rahe hain?
Like agar maine like maine yeh feel kiya because maine dekha hai murgi ko aise toh maine bad feel kiya tha jab Betty mere saath thi. Yeah, yeah, yeah that is.
Sunny
Toh yeh bhi ho sakta hai ki meri feeling usne catch kar li.
Speaker 9
Yes, wo ho sakta hai.
Sunny
Yeh, yeh toh 100% hai there. Yeh human jis tareeqe se feel karta hai aur agar wo deep feel kar raha hai toh dog pakad leta hai aur dog ke waise bhi apne lagta hai that is one thing. Good point, good point. So like wo human ke handler ke oopar agar hum, humse leta hai wo, humein imitate karta hai.
Humein humse samajhta hai ki duniya mein kaise behave karna hai.
So agar ek smell aa rahi hai tagdi ya phir kuch ek stimulant hai tagda aur usko nahi idea aur humare andar ek down feeling hai ya phir humare andar ek weak feeling hai ya phir humare andar ek emotional feeling hai ki humein achha nahi lag raha toh dog usko catch karta hai.
Dog usko pakadta hai toh yeh bhi ek reason ho sakta hai but still death ko smell kar sakta hai kya? Wo bhi ek, ek topic hai jisko hum study kar sakte hain. Yes, Vaayu.
Speaker 9
Isme I just want to add something.
Sunny
Yes boliye na. Yes, yes.
Speaker 9
Actually this is my a long time experience like this has nothing to do with dogs but it was a buffalo sacrificing and a goat standing outside the temple. Actually I am from North East basically so Kamakhya temple everybody must be knowing.
So I was there in a, in a queue in Kamakhya and then you know everybody knows that there is a sacrifices that you know that takes place every day.
So inside there was a buffalo sacrifice going on and then there was one person standing outside with a goat which he has to get the goat inside the temple after that. But later on I saw this goat. He was not willing to step in into the inside the temple.
You know the owner was pulling him like anything and he was taking back steps so that I think the fear is there and they can I suppose they can predict something that you know nothing good is going on inside.
Sunny
100%, 100%, 100%. Toh uska science samajhna like kis tareeqe se hota hai, wo kis tareeqe se is cheez ko perceive karta hai.
Like wo death ko wo dekh pa rahe hain wo kyunki maine haal filhaal ek scientist jo death jo dog ke oopar research kar rahe hain, unke mind ke oopar research kar rahe hain toh maine unse ek sawaal poocha tha ki dog sheeshe mein dekhkar figure out kar sakte hain kya ki wo khud hain?
Toh unki taraf se reply. Yeh sawaal isliye poocha tha maine kyunki main jaanna chahta tha ki dog self aware hai kya? Self, self aware hai kya wo? Toh unki taraf se bhi same jawaab aaya ki right now humare paas koi bhi aisa evidence nahi hai jisse yeh pata chal sake ki dog self aware hai.
Toh dog agar self aware nahi hai toh unko yeh samajh mein aa sakta hai ki like kisi ki death ho rahi hai. Kisi ki death ho rahi hai. Matlab it's like yeh human ke liye comprehend karna mushkil ho sakta hai kyunki hum figure out karte hain ki kisi ki death ho rahi hai, koi paida ho raha hai, koi yeh ho raha hai. Kyun?
Kyunki hum self aware hain. Yeh main hoon. Yeh koi aur hai. Yeh self aware hai. Yeh main hoon. Lekin dog animal self aware nahi hai. Wo sheeshe mein dekh ke yeh nahi dekh sakte ki wo khud hai ya phir wo khud ek dog hai. Unko yeh cheez nahi pata hoti.
Toh kaafi complex hai yeh cheez samajhna ki dog ko samajh mein aa raha hai kya?
Aur humne animals dekha hai ki animals jaise goat hai wo ghabraate hain jahan par death ho rahi hoti hai. Hai na. Wo animals ke andar hai lekin wo kaise figure out kar rahe hain is cheez ko. Kaise agar, agar fear hai toh phir death ka fear ho sakta hai.
Speaker 9
If there is fear inside.
Sunny
Wo unka instinct se hota hai. Instincts har ek human ke andar survival ka, har ek being ke andar survival ka instinct hai. Wo aakhiri dam tak agar usne haar nahi maani hai aur animals haar nahi maante. Wo life ko chhodte nahi hai. Humans life ko chhod deta hai.
Animals life ko nahi chhodte toh wo aakhiri dam tak survival ke usme rehte hain. Toh wo ek instinct ho sakti hai. Instincts and realization both are different things. Instincts bol rahi hai ki mujhe wahan nahi jaana hai. Realization ki wahan par kuch kharaab hai. They both are different things.
Instincts ke paas koi reason nahi hai. But instinct bol rahi hai mere ko wahan nahi jaana. Uske paas reason nahi hai. Toh mera, mera maksad hai figure out karne ka ki dog ke dimaag mein aisa reason aa raha hai kya?
Yeh cheez dekhkar ki wahan par koi death ho rahi hai mujhe isliye wahan par nahi jaana ya phir jab uske instincts mana kar rahe hain aur agar instincts mana karein toh instincts kaam kaise karte hain?
So right now it is complex kind of thing jiska mere paas abhi Vaayu ke question ka answer nahi hai but I will learn matlab I will study on this ki kaise kaam karte hain dog ke liye. Death kaise kaam karti hai. Okay. Yeah cool hai. I will get back man. I will get back. Very good questions.
Yes so next kaun hai I think ab jaldi band karenge. Yes Reena ji I think last one.
Reena
Haan bas mujhe Sunny chai ka maine pehle bhi question jo kara hua hai uska off and on hafte mein 10 din mein ek baar wo apne aap ko detox karne ke liye whatever he goes for fasting phir reset hokar phir wo ho jaata hai.
Ab whether it sensitivity or whatever ab matlab like every time I because ab mujhe usko hafte baad boarding mein bhejna hai two weeks toh mujhe har baar lag raha hota hai ki iska weight theek hai ki nahi hai. Phir apne aap reset hokar phir theek ho jaata hai.
So ab main usko deworming bhi nahi de rahi aur wo bhi nahi de rahi but if it is happening hafte 10 din mein is that all right? Baaki din theek rehta hai. Energy mein bhi koi issue nahi hai.
Sunny
It's completely all right so yeh khaaskar insecure dog ke saath ek normal behave normal problem hai. Normal problem kya insecure dekhiye main aapko dog ke pet mein chahe wo insaan ho ya phir dog. Agar darte ho, insaan ho ya phir dog ho agar darte ho toh dar ki ek physiology hai, ek chemistry hai. It's not just mental.
Wo ek chemistry hai.
Wo chemistry kya karti hai jaise hi dar trigger hota hai is part mein se blood flow band ho jaata hai. Yeh is poore part mein se blood flow band ho jaata hai aur blood flow band ho band kaise hota hai jo intestine hota hai wo sikud jaata hai, wo compress ho jaata hai is tareeke se.
Jab wo, jab wo sikudta hai aur jab wo tense hota hai toh blood flow ko band kar diya jaata hai wahan se nikalne kyun? Kyunki fear mein peeche sher pada hai toh paachan ki zaroorat hai kya? Digestion ki zaroorat hai kya us samay? Kiski zaroorat hai? Bhaagne ki zaroorat hai.
Toh saare blood ko pairon mein transfer kiya jaata hai ya haathon mein. Insaanon mein haathon aur pairon mein transfer kiya jaata hai. Lekin yahan se kaat liya jaata hai. Toh chahe agar thunderstorm aaya toh phir kya hoga? Darega. Darega toh phir kya hoga? Intestine squeeze hoga.
Intestine squeeze hoga toh kya hoga? Pet mein dikkat hogi aur pet mein dikkat hogi toh wo kya karega? Fasting par jaayega. Fasting par jaayega toh kya hoga? Uska pet waapas se shaant hoga and then repeat. Toh this is- Ghaas bhi khaata hai.
Reena
Us time par phir sota bhi hai. Phir wo matlab 16 haan 16 to 24 hours baad he is active again phir khaa bhi lega normal. Haan.
Sunny
This is not physical issue this is not pet ka this is this is mind ka issue mind ka issue. Toh mind mind create kar raha hai yeh gut ka issue mind create kar raha hai. Ab aap phir gut ki dawai doge toh problem toh symptom hai wo toh aayega aur jaayega. Toh aisa nahi hai ki dawai se solution milega.
Dawai se koi solution nahi milega. Yeh aapko maan ke chalna padega ki chahe darega next day aapko uske gut mein problem dikhegi bas that's it.
Na toh uska chahe kabhi darne ka kya hai? Kabhi baadal ho gaya, kabhi isse ho gaya, kabhi isse ho gaya aur chahe lambe time tak dar sak dar ke reh sakta hai. Wo, wo- Sir usmein diet hai ya phir bland hi deni hogi har baar 24 hour fasting ke baad.
Nahi aapka normal jo bhi de sakte normal jo de rahe ho, de sakte ho usko zaroori nahi hai.
Reena
Jaise main iske baad coconut oil bhi band kar deti hoon. Wo bhi band kar deti hoon oil Omega 3 bhi kuch because mujhe lagta hai stomach issue hai toh pata nahi digest kar paayega ki nahi.
Sunny
Nahi, nahi, nahi stomach issue nahi hai. Wo mind ka issue mind ka issue stomach ka issue nahi hai. Toh fasting ke baad uska you aap usko coconut fat bhi de sakte ho aur fish oil khaata hai toh fish oil bhi de sakte ho usko toh wo usko shaant bhi karega.
So kya hota hai jab jab dar hota hai na body mein inflammation start hota hai inflammation.
Uske liye hum anti-inflammatory bhi de sakte hain wo kya hai fish oil. Wo usko help karega. Hai na inflam inflammation agar body mein hota hai toh mind anxiety mehsoos karta hai.
Reena
Haan sir.
Sunny
Haan wo aisa nahi ki idhar se idhar aata hai, idhar se idhar jaata hai. Toh aur anxiety hota hai toh hum fish oil denge toh body ko relief milega toh mind ko relief milega aisa hota hai.
Reena
Aur boarding mein kuch extra kuch karne ko bolun main toh lick mat aur yahi sab de doongi aur toh mujhe samajh nahi aa raha kyunki wo walk wagairah toh karayenge nahi. Wo toh khula hi chhod dete hain bas. Toh is baar hai two weeks ke liye toh isliye thoda sa I am concerned ki pata nahi do weeks wo kaise nikaalega.
Saat aath din toh nikaal leta hai.
Sunny
Haan nikaal, nikaal, nikaal, nikaal lega usko bas khula chhod dein. Chhah saat ghante usko khula chhod dein aur usko kuch haan ya uska, uska, uska bed wahan par rahe aur uski familiar cheezein wahan par rahe wo cheezein nikaal lega.
Wo akela khula achha khush rahega. Aisa khush rehta hai wo. Hai na doosre thode door rahein. Idhar ghuma udhar ghuma, bark kar liya, kisi ko hadka diya bas that's it uska din ban gaya. Toh chahe haan chahe kuch chahe kuch rahega and usko khula bas milna chahiye. Band nahi.
Reena
Wo khula wo toh do hi ghante dete hain par pichhli baar jab unhone dekha phaadna waadna shuru kar diya tab unhone increase karte gaye the time. Ab mujhe lag raha hai ki wo desperate situation na hi create karein. Pehle hi thoda sa usko bechaare ko freedom de dein toh better hai.
Sunny
Teen chaar ghante daily basis par raho na. Teen chaar ghante daily basis par. Lekin achhi boarding hai na. Unhone samajh toh liya ki nahi yaar isko chhah ghanta nahi toh phir jab aap aate toh bahut hi frustration wala dog milta aapko. Toh yeh toh achhi baat hai.
Reena
Haan par baarish waarish mein bhi ab dekhna padega. Thoda thoda compromise hota hai but let's see.
Sunny
Wo toh dog ke saath chalta hi rehta hai matlab lekin kar lega wo manage.
Bada bachha hai. Hai na bas uska ticks ka dhyaan rakhna.
Reena
Wo abhi koshish karoongi spot on lagwane ki.
Sunny
Spot on spot on laga do. Okay.
Reena
Theek hai, theek hai. Thank you.
Sunny
Chalo guys last question yes Kashish last question. Dekh liya maine haath khada hua hai.
Speaker 13
Sure like you have time otherwise I can like wait for the next call.
Sunny
Bilkul poochhiye, bilkul poochhiye.
Speaker 13
Okay so with Paino there is this thing humne pehle bhi baat ki thi ki she humps a dog, a female dog neither she is on heat abhi toh bahut hi time ho gaya hai uski heat gayi hui hai. Ab sab mujhe keh rahe hain ki she is trying to portray to other male dogs like she wants this to be done.
But first thing is uski heat ko khatam hue hue teen mahine ho gaye and that is the one female she wants.
Wo whine karna shuru kar degi usko dekhte hi she doesn't really matter for her ki wahan par doosre males hain ki nahi hai she just wants her aur wo walk bahut achha sa nahi karti kuch nahi bas usko dekh ke whine karti rahegi.
Wo nahi milegi toh whine karegi, mil jaayegi toh whine karegi. Wo bechaari ko letna padta hai otherwise she keeps humping. I have to like pull her up and snap her out of the scenario but I don't know what to do now.
Sunny
No, that's a first of all, female dogs heat ke dauraan hump karti hain aur wo hump isliye karti hain kyunki bata rahi hoti hain ki that's matlab like that's what they want. Hai na toh wo aise explain, wo aise communicate kar rahi hoti hain.
Toh humne yeh kaafi dekha young dogs ke saath jo female hoti hai wo young dog ko aise sikhati hai. Hai na jinko pata nahi hoti hai aise-aise. Toh female ke andar trigger hota hai jab wo heat par aati hain and then bahut se young dogs ke andar wo trigger nahi hota. Then they start doing this thing.
Toh pehle wo hump karti hai phir wo young dog phir wo same behavior ko copy karta hai and then wo hump karna start karta hai.
So jo logon ne bola wo half truth hai. Wo sirf heat ke dauraan hota hai. Sirf heat ke dauraan hota hai not after-after that. Lekin humping dogs ke liye dopamine release karta hai.
Speaker 13
Arousal. Yeah.
Sunny
Yeah, yeah. Wo rewarding hai unke liye humping. Toh wo ek-ek habit bhi create kar deta hai unke andar aur saare dogs ki taraf wo hump nahi kar sakte. Toh aapka dog jo hump kar raha hai wo ek reward ke perspective se kar raha hai. Reward ke perspective se kar raha hai.
It's not ki usko mate karna hai, usko yeh karna hai. Usko jaise ek female mili aur us female ke saath wo us tareeqe se behave kar paa rahi hai. Toh yeh male aur female ki baat nahi hai humping.
Speaker 13
Right.
Sunny
Humping. Haan, humping male aur female ki baat nahi hai. Humping just ek unka act hai, ek unka ek behavior hai.
Hai na jo ek doosre ke upar ek tareeqe se unka communication hai ki tujhe dekhkar I am aroused. It's not from sexual perspective. Yeh us perspective se nahi hai. It's just an arousal.
Speaker 13
Right.
Sunny
It's just an-just an arousal jo main tere upar release kar rahi hoon and then they get that dopamine ka hit jab wo release hota hai uske upar.
Speaker 13
So basically it's the same thing. Ab usko wo jaise Dodo ko belly rub se ab usko isse hit milne lag gaya and she wants it again and again.
Sunny
Dogs ko-dogs ko yeh dominance bhi hota hai. Tabisha ji inhone abhi message kiya. Yeh dominance bhi hota hai lekin hamesha dominance nahi hota. Dominance mein aapko dekhne ko milega ki unka like poonchh upar hai aur unka chest hai lekin saath mein tension bhi hai. Lekin yahan par inke saath wo dekhne ko nahi milega.
Yahan par inke saath kaan uske peeche ho sakte hain aur wo like is tareeqe se ghoom sakti hai aur ek arousal jaisa uska chehra-chehra hoga lekin tension nahi dikhega. Tension nahi dikhega.
Speaker 13
Jaise aap aur main us din baat kar rahe the na paanch-chheh khel jaati hai waisa hi hota hai uska. Matlab wo khadi toh uska stance is like this very strong tail up but baaki nahi usko-usko wo whine karegi arousal again.
Sunny
Wo tension nahi hai.
Speaker 13
Haan, wo tension nahi hai exactly.
Sunny
Just wo-wo aisa hota hai ki dog jab arousal aur tension mein kya antar hota hai, kya-kya antar jaise bol rahe hain ki hump karna dominance mein hota hai. Dominance mein hota hai lekin with tension hota hai. Wahan par tension bhi hota hai. Humping jo ho rahi hoti hai wo tension ke saath ho rahi hoti hai.
Arousal sirf-sirf-sirf arousal mein aur body language mein kya antar hota hai?
Body posture mein kya antar hota hai dono mein? Aapko dono same dikhenge tension aur is arousal waale mein. Lekin ek subtle difference hota hai. Arou-sirf arousal waala dog aapko lagega ki wo khila hua hai. It's like hai na it's like wo ek wo khila hua hai. Bandha hua-wo bandha hua nahi hai.
Wo ek bubbly type ka ho raha hai. Wo bada ho raha hai lekin wo is tareeqe se hai. Like wo is tareeqe se ho raha hai. Wo ek khel raha hai wo. Hai na wo baahar ki taraf, baahar ki taraf nahi kar raha. Lekin agar ek tension waala hoga wo is tareeqe se hoga. Wo is tareeqe se hoga.
Lekin ek arousal waala is tareeqe se nahi hoga. Toh yeh antar hota hai. Arousal agar tension ke time se aa raha hai toh wo jab do-sorry jab dog hump karte hain wo always arousal ki wajah se nahi hota. Wo dominance ki wajah se bhi hota hai aur tension ki wajah se bhi hota hai.
Jab wo ek doosre ke upar wo karte hain like apna-apna status ko exert kar rahe hain.
Toh dog ke paas bahut kam cheezein hoti hain communicate karne ki. Jaise humare paas language hai. Main ek sentence mein bahut saari cheezein communicate kar sakta hoon. Dogs ke paas wo ability nahi hai.
Hai na toh dogs ko ek same body ke body language ko alag-alag context mein different-different tareeqe se istemaal karna hota hai apne aap ko express karne ke liye. Toh same humping ka context pe different-different meaning ho sakta hai. Getting a point? Same humping ka matlab dominance nahi hota.
Speaker 13
So in Pinu's case this-this means she is getting dopamine hit, right? Now how do I snap her out of this? Because wo bechaari doosri bachhi ko bhi isne dukhi kiya hua hai. The community dogs wo bahut pareshaan hai isse.
Sunny
Toh kabhi bhi usko allow kiya ki chal dekh kab tak tera chalega yeh?
Speaker 13
Nahi I tried but wo paagal ho jaati hai matlab ki wo nahi dikhegi usko door se hi.
Sunny
So experiment na kuch like lambi leash lekar jaao and allow her ki kya kar rahi hai tu. Learn- toh maine ek baar kiya toh usko pakadti hai aur wo hump karti hai aur wo phir roll down karti hai toh usko paw maarti hai ki uth waapas uth, waapas uth.
So ho sakta hai jab aap yeh dekhoge toh wo usko pakad-pakad-usko pakad rahe aur pakadne ke baad wo humping karna start kare aur Pinu ka-Pinu ke andar aapko ho sakta hai aggression aate hue dikhe. Hai na dheere, agar usne, agar wo neeche nahi gayi toh. Wo neeche nahi baithi toh.
Like wo neeche ulti nahi-ulti nahi leti toh. Wo ulta uska self defense ka mechanism hai ki yeh badh rahi hai aage.
Hai na aur wo usko return nahi kar sakti. Jab wo ulta let, ulta suppose karo agar main agar ek dog ke upar koi doosra dog chadh raha hai toh uske paas kya-kya option hai usko rokne ke. Fight kar sakta hai. Flight kar sakta hai. Avoid nahi kar sakta kyunki avoid karega toh chadh jaayega saamne waala.
Surrender kar sakta hai. Surrender ka matlab ab surrender do tareeqe ke ho sakte hain. Ya toh seedha khada rahe. Seedha khada rahe toh humping hogi aur agar humping hoti rahi toh iska agar badha toh yeh mere neck ke upar peeche ki taraf mujhe pakad legi. Toh dog is tareeqe se karte hain.
Wo humping arousal se start karte hain lekin unke qaabu mein nahi aati unka arousal aur wo ek threshold se cross ho jaata hai. Then they start biting. Tab unki biting start hoti hai dog ki peeth ke upar. So saamne waale dog ko agar yeh cheez samajh mein aa gayi toh uska kaise behave karegi?
Wo ulta let jayegi. Ab-ab kya karoge? Ulta let jayegi. so simple strategy unke liye. Toh aapko dekhna hoga yeh ki dog again context matter karta hai.
Toh kabhi video lo kyunki aap jo bata rahe ho aapko kya cheezein dikh rahi hai aur agar-agar aap uska video loge toh maza aa jayega dekhne mein bhai kya actual behavior chal raha hai uska. okay.
Speaker 13
Toh aaj main use karne doongi shaam ko. I will take my phone with me. I don't take my phones but yeah ok I will send you video.
Sunny
Video-video bhejiye aur thoda usko allow kijiye dekhiye wo kya-kya karti hai, wo kis taraf tak wo badh rahi hai. Wo kis taraf tak wo badh rahi hai. Toh allow karo usko. Cool hai guys. Yeah so Paresh ji bhi video share karenge. Baaki log aap log bhi jitne bhi videos hain please share karo dogs ke koi bhi behavior ke.
Main unko analyze karunga. Dog ke behavior ko samjhenge. Dog ki body language ko samjhenge. Lekin videos share karna start karo. Bhale hi wo aapke dog ka ho ya phir bahar ke dog ka ho ya phir aapko koi do-koi video internet par mila ho.
Please usko share karna taaki hum usko analyze kar sakein aur hum usko learn kar sakein. Aaj ke liye itna hi. Main chalta hoon waapas coding karne. Bye-bye.
Speaker 13
Bye. Thank you.
Sunny
Bye-bye.
Speaker 13
Thank you everyone.
Sunny
Arrey just leave the call.
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